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Mad Men Review: ‘The Quality of Mercy’

Signs have been pointing all season to Bob trumping Pete for relevance at Sterling Cooper & Partners, and it seems Pete has finally found his counter-attack. But more importantly, we finally know what the hell is up with Bob Benson. After learning that Bob speaks fluent Spanish, and is entirely capable of dropping that placating smile in favor of a more stern, self-assured demeanor, Pete discovers that Bob is not who he says he is. Of course, Pete has some experience with this, having discovered the same thing about Don in Season 1. Bob lied about his upbringing, his education, and his experience, and instead of firing him on the spot, or bringing this to the attention of the Partners, Pete decides to use it to his advantage. Pete certainly is skilled at looking out for himself, but I wouldn’t be surprised if Bob ends up being significantly more cunning that Pete, who has proven that all his self-concern rarely amounts to actually getting ahead. While Pete has basically told Bob that he has to be his slave (and no, not in the way that Bob would have hoped last episode), Bob may show up in the next episode with a smile and a plan to destroy Pete. Mad Men loves taking things at a glacial pace, and hammering home themes through subtle repetition. So the parallels between Bob and Don are intriguing. Pete has always been the guy waiting in Don’s wings. And we’ve all hated him for it. But by introducing someone with such a parallel past to Don, especially at a time when Don himself seems to be regressing rapidly, we may just be in store for a major shakeup between these three characters. The show opens and closes with Don looking mighty fetal. He’s helpless. He’s lost. He’s destroying everything around him. Couple that with the heavy Rosemary’s Baby themes this week, and we’ve got a big old devilish baby Don on our hands. So what has he destroyed this week? Well, despite his best intentions, he continues to alienate Ted and Peggy, once again placing her in the middle of their subtle feud for influence. Peggy’s boiling point seems nearly reached. She was obviously the bad kind of shocked when she learned of the merger earlier in the season, and now she’s more or less got all of her fears justified. Don is a cancer, and she needs to get away from him. Then in Don’s personal life, Megan continues to sense that something is wrong with Don, but somehow can’t figure out what it is (she should be able to take a pretty good guess given his past). Then there’s Sally, who his indiscretions with Sylvia have given the boarding school bug. Sally continues to flirt with rebellion, inviting Glen to bring some booze and pot to her overnight stay at the school. As much as we may expect it, however, Sally proves that she’s not simply looking to “piss off her dad,” as it were, when she rejects Glen’s friend Rolo’s advances out of jealousy that Glen might be fooling around with one of the other girls. But, Sally gets the award for best line of the episode (maybe the season) when Betty coyly suggests that her father has probably given her a beer, and she responds with “My father has never given me anything.” The slow burn of Mad Men gets a little trying at times like this, but next week’s finale is sure to tie up some of these frayed ends in an intriguing way. We’ve had lots of imagery of crime, of accidental violence (now’s probably a good time to mention the opening with Ken getting shot in the face—holy hell!), of intentional violence on a national scale, of collapsing facades, of romantic relationships dying at every turn, of failure and disappointment and endless poor decisions. I can’t help but think that Bob and Megan will be big factors in the finally. We’ll just have to wait and see.

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Dear Bossip: My Ex Wants To Reconnect, But How Do I Tell Him That He Didn’t Satisfy Me In Bed

Dear Bossip , I broke up with my ex well over a year ago; and we are both in our 40’s. It wasn’t a messy break up; we basically drifted apart and went our separate ways. One of the reasons I started to drift away from him was that while he pursued me, he went above and beyond to get my attention and “make me his.” About 7 months after he “got” me, his efforts to “keep me” began to slack off to the point where I started to feel like perhaps he was seeing someone else. I didn’t really care about that, though, because by this point, I  wanted  him to leave me alone (you’ll understand why in a minute), so I let the drifting apart continue and we eventually stopped contacting each other totally. Well, lo and behold, he’s started calling/texting me again. After not responding back at first, I decided to say hi via text because honestly, he’s a nice guy, we had loads of fun together (except for the problem I’m about to mention) and I wouldn’t mind us hanging out on a  platonic  level, but he wants more and here’s where the problem comes in. During the time we were together, his sex was WACK. And I hate to say it like that, but it is what it is. When we talked  before dating, I hadn’t been with anyone sexually in over a year, so by the time we had dated  for about 2 months, my glands were  ready to see if what he kept talking about in regard to his skills was true, and oh my goodness!!!   It wasn’t . I tried introducing things into the mix–nothing freaky because I just wanted to see if he was at least good with the basics. He was fine with me showing him how to keep me “revved up”, but after that, I didn’t expect to have to show him  all of  the time, but that’s what it turned into. Everything else between us was alright; not perfect, of course, but I couldn’t get past this issue right here because it seemed like the sex part of the relationship was more for  his pleasure  and not for  both  of us. Now that he’s starting to bark up my tree again, I want to relay to him that we will  not  be dating like that again and why. I’ve already expressed that I didn’t want to date him again, but along with repeated invitations to dinner and drinks that I keep declining, he keeps pushing me for a reason why I don’t want to date him again-which is totally understandable. But how in the world do I tell this man that he does not satisfy me sexually without crushing his ego? I don’t want to be mean; I just want a way to relay this to him without hurting his feelings; which may be too much to ask for. Any suggestions? – The Whole-Package-Seeker Dear Ms. The Whole-Package-Seeker , Well, you gave it the good run the first time around. However, you drifted apart. He didn’t satisfy you sexually, and as you stated, “I wanted him to leave me alone.” So, my question to you is if you wanted him to leave you alone, then why did you answer his text? Why did you start this communication up with him again? If you weren’t friends before you started dating, then why do you think you can be ‘platonic’ friends now? That doesn’t make sense. It was a 7-month relationship that fizzled out faster than it started. Ma’am, don’t go back. He’s an ex for a reason. And, you’re smart and savvy enough to know why he’s an ex. So, stop entertaining him, and playing with this man! Ugh! But, the real Tee-Hee-Hee-Hee-Hee-Hee is that you like him chasing after you. You like him pursuing you, begging you, and running behind you. You are enjoying this attention because I’m sure he is the only man giving you any attention right about now. So, because you have nothing else to do, or better yet, you have no one else occupying your time and slaying your walls, you’re entertaining your ex! Don’t play with me this morning! I’m not your ex. These little games of “I don’t want him and he keeps calling me, and I don’t know how to tell him that I don’t want to be with him because he didn’t satisfy me in the bedroom,” is all Bull-ish! You’re a grown a** 40-something year old woman. I am quite certain you know how to articulate with your Big Adult Words, and express yourself. So, I want you to Stop it! Stop this behavior right now and grow the damn hell up! Because trust and believe, if you had a man in your life, you know, Mr. Total-Package, and he was blowing your back out, and servicing your every need, giving you the “D” in the morning and at night, you wouldn’t have time to be stringing your ex along. Your focus will be on Mr. Total-Package and looking forward to what new position, and how many orgasms he’ll be giving you. BOOM! BAM! POW! Look here, your ex has not changed. The man he was in the relationship with you, he will be the same man as a platonic friend. BORING and GETTING ON YOUR NERVES! And, from what you’ve shared about him, he is repeating the same behaviors he did to get you the first time. He is chasing after you, wearing you down until you finally give in. You don’t see this pattern?!? HELLO! Ma’am, you can’t be friends with this man. He will not be your friend. He is not interested in being friends. He wants to strike up a relationship with you again, and unfortunately you both left the relationship for various reasons, yet, you didn’t have any closure. So, with no proper closure, he figured it was an open door to return. This is the opportunity to close the door for good, and be honest with him. I know you don’t want to hurt his feelings, and you don’t have to. Just be honest with him and say, “Look, you’re a great guy. You deserve to be with a woman who will love you and give you what you deserve. However, I am not that woman. I have needs, desires, and wants. Unfortunately, in our relationship I found that our sex life was not satisfying for me. I attempted to introduce you to various things, and ways of how to please me, and it was apparent that we were not sexually compatible. I think it’s best we simply part ways. I wish you the best.” You see how easy that is? Instead of stringing this man along for another several months, playing with him, toying with him and giving him some hope of reconciliation, you just end it. If you don’t end this relationship, close this door, and move on, then unfortunately, Boo Boo, your Mr. Whole-Total-Package won’t be able to come into your life because you’re still holding on to Mr. Didn’t-Satisfy-Me. And, no man wants to enter into a woman’s life with another man lingering around in the margins. So, end it. Stop playing with him, and seeking his attention. Give him closure. Be honest and truthful with him and yourself. And move on! – Terrance Dean Hey Bossip Fam, what do you think? Share your opinions and thoughts below! Also, e-mail all your questions Terrance Dean : loveandrelationships@bossip.com Follow Terrance Dean on Twitter : @terrancedean “LIKE” Terrance Dean on Facebook , click  HERE! Make sure to order my books Mogul: A Nove l (Atria Books – June 2011; $15); Hiding In Hip Hop (Atria Books – June 2008); and Straight From Your Gay Best Friend – The Straight Up Truth About Relationships, Love, And Having A Fabulous Life (Agate/Bolden Books – November 2010; $15). They are available in bookstores everywhere, and on Amazon, click HERE!           

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Kelly Ripa Getting Down On A Cookie

I don’t do a ton of posts on Kelly Ripa , but she definitely got my attention with these shots while filming her dumb morning show. I don’t really know why I find this erotic — well actually I do, but this is a family friendly site. So let’s just say that these pictures are part of a complete breakfast. Anyway, enjoy watching Kelly go to town on an ice cream sandwich. Looks like it’s made her just as frisky as it made me. Related Articles: Kelly Ripa Lets It All Hang Out Kelly Ripa Gets Waxed Kelly Ripa Gets Nippy In Her Bikini Kellie Pickler’s Hot Ass In Jeans Photos: PacificCoastNews

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McKayla Maroney Flashes her Nipple on Keek of the DAy

McKayla Maroney is a kid, at least she behaves like one, but she won the Gold for the USA, which makes her fair game I guess….even if I find nothing appealing about her, perverts everywhere do, and maybe that’s cuz she plays the little kid angle, while knowing she’s intentionally flashing her tit on social media after a shower….not that she’s actually flashing tit, but her fan who emailed this in sure things she is… People always like to think the young girls are innocent, and the evil man is the seducer, but most of the time, they know exactly what they are doing, and love the attention… That said, I don’t think you should fall into their evil young seductress act, but I am posting it anyway, because I got nothing else going on.

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Brandi Glanville Insists: I’m No Bully!

Brandi Glanville is aware of her reputation – and she’s hoping to change it via a couple Tweets. “I do not harass or bully people on twitter, never have, never will,” The Real Housewives of Beverly Hills star wrote yesterday, eloquently adding: “I may say f*** off and that I def mean, but thats [sic] to the haters.” Glanville was likely writing in response to Courtney Love, who took to the that same social media outlet earlier in the week and issued a warning to the enemies of LeAnn Rimes . “Send the trouble makers to me,” Love wrote. “I eat that sh*t for breakfast. Leanns [sic] my girl, u f*** with her you f*** with me!” New drama emerged last week between Glanville and Rimes after the former Tweeted that she couldn’t get in contact with the sons she shares with Rimes’ man and her ex-husband, Eddie Cibrian. After Glanville resorted to Tweeting at Cibrian to get his attention, Rimes shot back : “Name calling and twitter rants: so 2012. Music and truth: so 2013.” That’s some profound stuff right there.

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My name is Miriam, I’m 15 years old and I’m from Germany. I…

My name is Miriam, I’m 15 years old and I’m from Germany. I never thought one day I’d be able to write my own Bieber experience but it’s happening right now. On April 3rd I went to Believe Tour in Frankfurt, Germany and I already started the countdown 10 days before the day of the concert. I got more excited day by day and on April 2nd I kinda had a mental breakdown because I realized I was going to see my idol. The boy I’ve been supporting from 2009. My world. My hero. My life. Justin Drew Bieber. I randomly decided to check my email in the morning on April 2nd when I received a congratulations message from Bieberfever! I quickly realized I was going to meet Justin the next day. I started crying, screaming and started to run through our house. I even went outside and screamed. I decided to take my best friend Chiara (@outoftownsmg) with me and immediately called her when I got the mail. She cried with me. On April 3rd, the day of concert, I took some medicine because I was shaking the whole time and couldn’t eat or drink anything. When we arrived at the arena in Frankfurt I finally met Chiara for the first time and all my other friends from Twitter. It was amazing already. We finally got inside with the meet and greet line. I had already spotted Justin and started shaking and had to cover my mouth so I wouldn’t scream or cry. Then it was time to meet him! We went in the room and there he was. He looks like a doll but just so perfect. I stood in front of him and forgot everything around me. I didn’t see the bodyguards, the cameras, the other people inside the room. It was just Justin and me. I didn’t cry which made me proud because I didn’t want to cry in front of him. I looked at him and wanted to hug him but we weren’t allowed to so I held my hand to him and he took my hand and when I said, “Oh my God I love you so much,” he looked directly into my eyes, smiled and said, “Aw you’re so cute. I love you too.” I still can’t get over the fact that I held onto his arm and touched his muscles. We left and as soon as we went out of the room I started crying like never before. I was in complete shock and realized I really met my idol. My dad photoshopped my picture with him because I should’ve been standing next to him but another girl in my group of six was. I’m more than thankful for that day and I want to thank the Bieberfever team for making my dream come true. Justin if you’re reading this, I want to thank you for always helping me to pull through everything and to stay strong. Thank you. I love you. More here: My name is Miriam, I’m 15 years old and I’m from Germany. I…

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I wanted to tell you about my Bieber experience because I want…

I wanted to tell you about my Bieber experience because I want to share it with people who actually care about the MEETING and not only the PHOTO, and I know that Beliebers do. It all started when Mona (@ JDBswaggy ) asked me if I was going to one of the three concerts that Justin was going to do in Norway. I was not planning on going because no one wanted to come with me and I was not allowed to travel all the way to Oslo by myself. Mona asked me if I wanted to go with her for the first show, on April 16th! I had to pay twice as much as the original price for the ticket, but I didn’t care, because I had waited for this moment since the signing-campaign to get Justin to Norway in 2010. On April 16th I woke up 4:30 a.m., ready to travel to Oslo! Suddenly Mona called, and she screamed in the phone. I couldn’t understand what she was saying and at first I honestly thought she was just very excited for the concert. When I realized what she said, I couldn’t speak. She had won Bieberfever’s contest, she won 2 MEET AND GREETS FOR THE SAME DAY, AND SHE WAS BRINGING ME! My heart was bouncing so hard and the tears slipped. When I was telling my mom I couldn’t speak, I just stood there and smiled big time. Okay, so when we got in line for the M&G’s they brought us in this VIP room where they had separated the ones that bought the M&G (they got individual photos with Justin) and the ones that won it (we had to take pictures in groups of 6). They gave us some general information about the meeting and there were two TV-screens with the video of Justin doing the free concert in Norway from 2012. Suddenly they told us that they had a surprise for us, but everyone had to stay down on our seats. When we were ready, we saw a man appearing in the room, and guess what, it was Dan Kanter! Everyone started to scream and some cried. Dan was so nice and he took time to hug and take pictures with all of us. When it finally was my turn, I hugged him (he smelled amazing), and we took a picture together. Yeah, I was so starstruck that I couldn’t say anything. Suddenly it was time to get in line for the M&G and we were so excited and scared. The guards kept telling us, “Walk in nice and easy, okay? You ready?” Suddenly the curtains was removed. As we got in there all I saw was my idol in real life. He was moving, he was breathing, he was standing right in front of us. It was so crazy! The guards placed us at his side, Mona was standing right beside him, and I was standing at her side. The best thing was that my arm was long enough to be placed on Justin’s back! When the picture was taken, everyone wanted to hug him, but the guards protected him and dragged us away from him. We all tried to get his attention, I shouted, “Good luck!!” to him (yep, very cute, I know) but it all went so fast that I don’t remember if he answered me. Mona got a wave and a smile from him! When we got out they had to cut off our wristbands and I tried not to cry because I didn’t want to flip out in front of the guards. I saw my group coming out of there and cried their hearts out, while I was just laughing. It was too crazy to me, and I couldn’t understand that it actually happened. When we got outside it was raining and people had already started to get in to the concert-arena. Then I started crying, because everything was just too emotional to me. I couldn’t believe that I just had met the one and only Justin Drew Bieber. It was so unreal. After the meeting we went to his concert, and it was just amazing! April 16th 2013 was the best day of my life, and I will never ever forget that day. I can’t explain how thankful I am to Mona that she brought me, I just can’t thank her enough for this. The next day I actually saw DJ Tay James and some of Justin’s dancers too! -@IdaHoie  Go here to read the rest: I wanted to tell you about my Bieber experience because I want…

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Amanda Bynes SLAMS In Touch, Claims Face Was Morphed Into Pics With "Ugly Black Man"

As we predicted, Amanda Bynes is IRATE over In Touch Weekly’s latest cover story claiming she is being destroyed by fame and acting weirder than ever. Specifically, Bynes took issue with pictures the magazine ran in an epic Twitter rant, declaring, “I’m suing them! They f–ked with my photos!” How did they f–k with them, you ask? “That’s not my bed! Those aren’t my toes! My toes are pedicured” she said. “I just did an exclusive interview with in touch last week, now they bought fake altered photos by that ugly black man in the photo or someone who knows him!” “They used an old shot of me on the cover with a bad angle of my old nose before I had surgery to reshape my profile and to remove the webbing from my eyes.” “I have to sue because that’s not my apartment, those aren’t my clothes! They morphed photos of my face onto someone’s body to ruin my life!” “I have to make a big deal of this and sue because that’s not me! I care about my appearance so I have to defend myself! I look like a different person now that I had surgery!” “Why did they put an old shot of me on the cover? I don’t look like that anymore! I only want photos of my gorgeous new nose on the cover of tabloids and real magazines!” “The photos in this issue are fake and mocked up! I don’t care enough to keep talking about it. Just assume I f***ed the boyfriend of the editor of in touch because they f***ing hate me! Amanda Bynes then singled one of the editors of the celebrity gossip magazine, Jessica Finn, alleging that she purchased and/or doctored the above pics: “@JessicaFinnNYC hey ugly.” “This ugly faced woman @JessicaFinnNYC is the one who bought fake photos of me & put that picture that looks nothing like me on the cover!” Jessica Finn didn’t reply, so Bynes turned her attention to Perez Hilton … apparently because he reported on In Touch’s story? Writes Amanda: “The only thing sadder than your ugly face still writing stories about me is the fact that you think I’d even step foot in a room with that ugly faced black man.” The man in question is Giovanni Arnold, according to the caption. ITW identifies him as a photographer, though their relationship is not known. Ugly or not, on his own Twitter account, Arnold did write this to her back on April 3, Bynes’ birthday: “@AmandaBynes Happy BDay … Stay Black.” So, that about sums it up.

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Peverts: Teacher Given Three-Day Suspension For Inappropriately Touching A Femaile Student With A Banana During Class

Teachers are suppose to be inspiring our kids not violating them with bananas. Teacher Inappropriately Touched Student With Banana According to The NY Daily News A Florida high school teacher was suspended for inappropriately touching a female student with a banana during class. Jonathan Hampton was banned from North Marion High School for three days after allegedly rubbing the girl’s head and neck with the fruit during a lesson on Freudian symbolism. The lecture focused on “cylinder objects, phalluses and/or sex symbols.” The girl said she was left humiliated by the incident, which happened three months ago, but was only reported earlier in May. Hampton, an English teacher from Citra who teaches college-level courses as part of the school’s magnet program, denied any wrongdoing. Mark Fiedelholtz, his attorney stepfather, told Local 6 that there was no evidence of sexual connotation or physical harm. “According to my son, which has not been reported, he doesn’t recall ever touching the student with a banana, but if he did it would be to get their attention,” said Fiedelholtz. The school district has also backed his lesson on Freudian psychology, which it says was not inappropriate and followed the curriculum. But in a letter sent to the teacher, who has now returned to work following his three-day suspension from May 13, it warned him that his topics may “often cross the line.” Fawk blocking his lesson on Freudian psychology, fire him. Shutterstock

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Barbara Evans: A Tribute to Jenelle Evans’ Mom

Barbara Evans, Jenelle Evans’ mom and frequent player on MTV’s Teen Mom 2, is peerless among reality stahs. BAHBRAH is truly one of a kind. Not just for taking care of the kid Jenelle acts like she doesn’t have, or for being unafraid to lay the smack down on her daughter when she deserves it. The woman is just hilarious and her accent, while sort of painful and borderline indecipherable, just gives this all-time character even more character . Babs does not mince words. Or speak in a way that you can understand hers. But as bad as her daughter is, she’d be worse without her mom. Basically, as hard as it is to watch Jenelle Evans self-destruct, at least you know it hurts Babs – who gives her all to her daughter and her grandson – harder. She’s basically the reason for the show. Follow the jump for more classic Bahbrah GIFs and photos as we pay tribute to the unheralded, under-appreciated and unsung star of Teen Mom 2 …

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