Kristen Stewart has found a role that won’t involve any awkward off-set drama. At least we hope. The actress has reportedly beaten out Jennifer Lawrence for the lead in Lie Down In Darkness , a big screen version of William Styron’s 1951 novel. Set in that same decade, the story will find Stewart portraying Peyton Loftis, a member of a dysfunctional family who becomes the target of her mother’s jealous hatred and her father’s alcoholic, incestuous lust. Ewwww. Other movie news is a lot more awkward for Stewart these days: She’s schedule to promote Breaking Dawn Part 2 in the fall… alongside a young man who is currently a mess as a result of her cheating actions. She’s also attached to a Snow White and the Huntsman sequel… possibly opposite a director with whom she engaged in an affair and who has since been barred from contact with Stewart . It should be interesting to note the career arc of Kristen going forward. How much will this sordid deed affect her on-screen future? It’s early, but if this role nabbing is any indication, the answer is a resounding: in no way at all.
With new damaging photos out of Kristen Stewart totally macking on Rupert Sanders , we have an update on the living situation between the actress and what is seeming more and more like her EX boyfriend. Converse to previous reports, sources now say Stewart is the one moving out of the home she had been sharing with Robert Pattinson in Los Angeles. People Magazine even has a photo up of a moving truck parked outside the residence Saturday morning, while it quotes a source who says Pattinson is in terrible emotional shape. “The entire thing has been such a blow to Rob. Talk about having his heart ripped out,” says the insider. “Rob just isn’t going to be able to get past the cheating – one time or not.” It was a lot more than one time , a relative of Sanders’ has come out and said, though this relative doesn’t seem to have any first-hand knowledge. Either way, the result is the same: Robert Pattinson and Kristen Stewart really do appear to be over, making the MTV Video Music Awards on September 6 a must-watch: they are scheduled to present together.
When it comes to the dating scene, Arnold Schwarzenegger won’t be back, ladies. He is back! Witnesses tell TMZ that the ex-Governor was all over some 25-year old female at Bagatelle in West Hollywood Friday night, grinding up on his acquaintance and even swapping some spit. Alas, Arnold and this new gal pal left the establishment separately. As for Schwarzenegger’s divorce from Maria Shriver? Shelve those reconciliation rumors . Insiders say the legal split is most definitely happening, perhaps as early as this week. Moreover, Schwarzenegger is actually the one now pushing for it, with Shriver allegedly leaning toward a reunion with her cheating ex. We have a feeling she’ll quickly get over that, however. All she needs to do is rewatch Arnold’s performance as Mr. Freeze to understand why.
Dear Bossip , I am fan of reading your articles. Here is my dilemma. I am in love with a married man. Although I know he loves his wife because they been together for 20 plus years, he feels he is obligated to be with her. I can’t help but to feel like I have been dealt a bad hand. I had gotten pregnant by him but decided to abort it. There isn’t anything in the world that he won’t do for me. He doesn’t work, and his wife works not 1 but 2 full-time jobs and takes care of us. When I need something he calls me and say, “Don’t worry about it because “Mariah” gets paid today.” I love him like there is no tomorrow. I have met all of his family and even some of hers. What am I to do? – In Love With A Married Man Dear Ms. In Love With A Married Man , There is a special place in hell for you and him. Y’all are some ole trifling low-down worthless pieces of –ish!!!! He’s ain’t –ish because he doesn’t have a job, and his wife is working 2 full-time jobs to take care of the home, and then he takes her money and spends it on your home-wrecking sleazy a**. You ain’t –ish because you’re running your goofy whore-ish self into a married man’s arms, and then brag about meeting his family and some of hers. I hope when you both get to hell that the devil and his minions spit nothing but fire on you both! Then you have the nerve to say that life dealt you a bad hand. Well, boo-freaking-hoo! That doesn’t make it okay for you to sleep with someone else’s husband! All of you folks running around here with this woe-is-me attitude and how life is so damn hard, well, guess what? It’s ain’t easy for everybody else either! But, guess what, sweetie, there are those who rise above and stick it out, and learn to play the hand they were dealt and they don’t complain, or make other people’s lives miserable. They do something about their situation, and turn it around. Life ain’t no crystal stair. It’s got some nails and splinters in it. Don’t play victim, and then use that as some sympathy card to go and f**k up another woman’s marriage by sleeping with her husband. That doesn’t do anything but let all of us know that you a low-life, spineless, wreckless bish, and now that we know who are you we will keep a watchful eye on you! And, for the record, this man does not love his wife, and he doesn’t love you. I don’t care what he is telling you, and what lies he’s filling your head with, but if he hasn’t left his wife by now, then guess what, Missy, then he isn’t going to leave her! And, you don’t love him. It’s just lust. And, your vaginal walls need to collapse. You’re asking me what to do? Girl, don’t play with me today with that asinine question. How about his wife punches you in the back of your damn head!?! And, she clips his damn nuts off! How about leave him alone and go find yourself a man who is single and eligible. Stop dating married men, and destroying a home regardless if he wants to have an affair or not. You don’t have to stoop to that level and play yourself, and play second fiddle. How does it feel when he’s with her and their family during the holidays and your a** is sitting at home hoping he will call you or come and spend some time with you? How does it feel waiting for him to come by and then leave and go home to his wife each night? You’re nothing but a side piece, with no biscuit, and no syrup and no jam. Just a piece of dry a** chicken. Why do you women do this to yourselves time and time again by sleeping with someone else’s husband? Why do you fool yourselves into thinking he will leave his wife and come spend the rest of his life with you? That –ish is not going to happen. No matter what he is telling you. Those empty broken promises are nothing more than a ruse to keep you around as his jump-off, and mistress while he gets to have his cake and eat it too. Don’t you think you’re more than that? Don’t you think you deserve better? Don’t you want a man who will fully commit to you, and only you? If this man doesn’t have a job, then how the hell can he take care of you? You and his wife are taking care of him. He can’t bring anything to the table, and has nothing to offer you but his penis, and your simple dumba** thinks you’ve hit the jackpot. Yeah, you are riding the slow bus and deserve to be in special education classes. Just a simple a** trick. And, he’s a pimp. He’s pimping his wife, and pimping you. And, if he’s your pimp, then guess what that makes you? (Jeopardy’s theme music begins to play) Look, it’s time you take inventory to find out what you’re missing, and why your self-esteem is so low. Why are you allowing yourself to be in this situation and ruin another woman’s life and marriage? Your spiritual house is out of order, and until you cleanse your spirit, and readjust some things in your life, then nothing good will ever happen for you. You’ll always wonder why you don’t have a good relationship with other people. You’ll always wonder why your finances are consistently low, and you’re not blessed with more. You’ll always wonder why health is deteriorating and you can’t seem to get well. And, all you have to do is look at your relationship with this married man and you’ll get all your answers. – Terrance Dean Hey Bossip Fam, what do you think? Share your opinions and thoughts below! Also, e-mail all your questions Terrance Dean : loveandrelationships@bossip.com Follow Terrance Dean on Twitter : @terrancedean “LIKE” Terrance Dean on Facebook , click HERE! 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Ray J has come out with a new book. We’ll give you a few moments to stop laughing… Titled “Death of the Cheating Man” and co-authored with some guy named Maxwell Billieon, the tome alleges that Kim Kardashian cheated with then-husband Damon Thomas in 2004 when she started boning her future sex tape partner . “She let me know she wanted to get with me,” Ray J writes. “She left her husband for me as soon as we started having sex.” Ray adds that he had “no respect” for Kim while they dated, but then makes it clear why he stuck with her anyway. “We were like animals; sexually free to try anything, and we did,” he writes. “For years KK and I had a great sex life. There was more to our relationship, but the majority of it was about our wild and extreme sexual chemistry. She was a straight freak who was down to do whatever, whenever and that seriously hypnotized me.” Yes, we know, Ray. We all watched the video.
In his new book, Death of a Cheating Man: What Every Woman Must Know About Men Who Stray , Ray J refers to a woman by the name of “KK,” who just so happens to share the initials of his ex, Kim Kardashian . “KK” dated Ray J around the same time Kardashian did. Well, according to Ray J “KK” pursued him while she was still married. Kim Kardashian was married to music producer Damon Thomas at the time. In the book he writes, “We’d known each other for a while before we dated and there was a mutual attraction, but she was married … She let me know she wanted to get with me. She left her husband for me as soon as we started having sex and things between us got intense really fast. After that, I felt obligated to be with her.” Ray J also writes of he and “KK” having a highly sexual relationship: “She was a straight freak who was down to do whatever, whenever and that seriously hypnotized me.” Though she isn’t mentioned by name, Kim Kardashian isn’t happy. A source tells Life & Style : “Kim’s putting on a brave face, but she’s furious about Ray J cashing in on her. There’s so much that has gone wrong for her this year — he’s just another person trying to humiliate her.” Ray J Finally Breaks His Silence Did Ray-J Text Kim Kardashian Before She Walked Down The Aisle? Kim Kardashian Caught On Camera Creeping With Ray J [VIDEO] Reggie Bush Denies Dating Kim Kardashian Again [VIDEO] Watch Kim Kardashian End Her Marriage [VIDEO]
We previously reported that Monica and Brandy teamed up again 14 years after their hit “The Boy Is Mine.” The track, “It All Belongs To Me,” shows each woman’s vocal and personal growth. Produced by Rico Love, “It All Belongs To Me” picks up where “The Boy Is Mine” left off. Instead of fighting over the same man, now Monica and Brandy are kicking his cheating behind to the curb. “It All Belongs To Me” is set to be featured on both Brandy and Monica’s upcoming albums. What do you guys think of their latest collaboration? RELATED: Amber Rose In The Studio With Monica Monica And Brandy Reuniting For New Song Brandy Possibly Collaborating With Drake?
Here is Bobby V and Ray J on the set of “Death Of A Cheating Man.” Ladies, we’re not sure what type of meat that Bobby V is packing, but if you had to choose between the two… Which One Would You Hit?? Check out a few more images from the movie below: Shout out to Shawn! More On Bossip! Put On Blast: Amber Rose’s Former Publicist Goes H.A.M. On Twitter! Says She And Yeezy Broke Up Cuz She’s A Lyin’ Thievin’ A$$ Beyotch!!! X-Rated Bangers: The Hottest Black Adult Movie Stars In The Biz…Would You Wife Any Of Them? Part 4 “The Money Shot” Woosah, Woosah: Do You Live In One Of The 10 Most Stressful Cities In America? More To Love: A Gallery Of Plus-Sized Women Making It Rain…Who Would You Wife?
Whoever said that black people only listen to Hip Hop and R&B doesn’t know that we listen to Pop, Rock and Country music as well! From Madonna to Britney Spears , all the way down to Linkin Park, how can you not love these upbeat tunes? Check out list of “White Songs Black People Like!” DJ P: “Serato Is A Cheating Device For DJs!” [EXCLUSIVE]
A few months ago, while on the coattails of summer’s craziness, I lived through a strange experience of friendship that left me to the tendency of some friends to take, take, take… and take. Call them what you may, I like to think of these types of relationships as “convenience friendships.” This particular story involves a man – a player – that came between a sister and me. It all began when a series of events led me to introduce two single friends, each from a separate corner of the lonely-hearts club. She, a dynamic sister with a bright future glazing in her horizon, sociable, a people-pleaser, ever-so insecure, met him, an attractive, slightly pretentious man, whose confidence, self-righteousness and charm could blow anyone’s pants off. I went along with the venture, trying my best to facilitate what was an unlikely combination. She had returned from abroad at the beginning of the year and was detached from the life she left behind. But I, like others in our friendship group, was excited to hear about her stories, supposing that her brilliant mind was ticking over with exciting plans and was full of stories about new people and far-away lands. On the other side of the equation, he and I had begun seeing each other quite often on the weekends, having a crazy time between us and with other frivolous friends. He spoke about his desire to calm down a little, to find someone with the prospect of longevity. So, when circumstances led them to meet, there was clear and open interest on both sides. As the weeks went by I stood on the sidelines answering the questions of one about the other and tried my best to bridge some of the obvious differences between them. But it appeared that nothing was going to work between them. He had told me that he had been sleeping around, and even took another sister home on an evening in which she had called me to chase information about where he was. This came in his relationship disclaimer, that so as long as there was no future between them, and the attempts to make something work had reached an expiry date, he was free to do as he wished and with whomever he pleased. She on the other hand was reappearing in my life quite sporadically to gain information about what he was doing, where he was and what I knew about him. It was strange because, aside from staying at my place when she first returned from abroad, I would only hear from her when she wanted something. It reached the point where I gathered that even she was aware of this, telling me one day “Let’s catch up soon, girl. I feel like I haven’t seen you at all.” I was not too concerned at this point; I was busy. But, it was all to boil over after one wild evening when he and I shared a kiss at a club. Having been told that nothing was going on between them, I fell to his charms and was one of two women to be swooned that evening with his kiss. I realized that what I had done was foul when I turned to see him with that another sister. Indignant, I left the club. The next day I spoke with him to clear the air, only to discover that he and my friend, she, were seeing each other that evening for round two. At this point my anger about having been used as a go-between-girl between two unmatched people had reached its climax. After months of being there for both of them, I was eventually pushed to redundancy, the friendships began to end and my interactions with both faded. I also can’t overlook the notion that I was slightly jealous. Two friends, who I had known for 2 years on separate grounds, had run off together and were leaving me behind. So one evening, I directed a comment to him, amongst friends, that questioned the worth of his friendship. Given how proactive he was in broadcasting to the world a sense of moral superiority and excellence in friendship, he took my criticism poorly and defensively. I considered him a dirty rat, so I didn’t care about how he reacted. But then, the following day, I received a phone call from her questioning me about the evening in which he and I had kissed. He had obviously told her to spite me and I imagined this was accompanied with the usual dialogue of “she must love me,” which he regularly uses to justify burnt bridges with women (those he burns with men are because they are jealous of his style and charm.) Cornered, I asked to meet with her the next day during my lunch break. She accepted but brought along a mutual friend so to avoid any conversation about what had happened. This was a clear indication she was not interested in hearing what I knew. I told her anyway. A week later, having boiled over in self-reflection, I sent her an SMS with a stern warning her to watch her mouth with other people. She had fragrantly spread the word amongst mutual friends that I was the saboteur between them as they went about sewing the seeds of their rock-sold connection. I doubted, at this point, that she believed me when I told her about him sleeping around. This sickened me in my self-righteousness because I knew they were having unprotected sex, for which he would take no responsibility. A typical player – selfish and irresponsible. The entire scenario left me feeling foolish and ashamed. Aside from considering him a friend of mine – an arrogant man with little no consideration of other people’s dignity – I had also fallen victim to subtle ways of a sister’s convenience friendship. In all of this, I did things I was not at all proud of. I was very wrong to have kissed him without appreciating fully that she still may have had feelings for him by virtue of not knowing he was sleeping around and meeting new women. Her interaction with me was so sporadic, and always so focused on her needs with him, that I was never given the opportunity to know that she was still pursuing him at that point. But, as they began seeing each other again, with talk of them moving in together, a common enemy for them both has been the best method to cover up their obvious differences. Ultimately, my former sister got what she wanted – to fill a void in her life with a charming man. My services to her have dried up and so too has the friendship. I scratch my head occasionally and wonder whether or not I should still care about her. But then I realize that it was a lesson learned for me and that so too will it be a lesson for her when she finally gets burned. And that is how one friendship of convenience reached its inevitable end. “I Love My Husband, But I Want His Friend & I’m Thinking Of Leaving With This Guy” Is It Possible To Re-Do Romance?
