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15 Relationship Pet Peeves We Can’t Stand! [EXCLUSIVE AUDIO]

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There are things men and women do in relationships that have you giving side eye stares each and every day. Listen to the audio player…

15 Relationship Pet Peeves We Can’t Stand! [EXCLUSIVE AUDIO]

New Couple?? Sherri Shepherd Reportedly Dating Johnny Gill

Sherri Shepherd Reportedly Dating Johnny Gill via Daily Mail New life, new job, new man! Despite going through a very public – and very messy – divorce, former The View co-host Sherri Shepherd has quietly started dating R&B singer Johnny Gill, MailOnline has learned exclusively. A friend of Sherri’s tells Mail Online that the couple met on June 25 when Johnny performed with his band New Edition on The View and they’ve been seeing each other ever since. ‘Sherri is a big New Edition fan and was excited to have them at the show. But she and Johnny really connected and exchanged personal contact information,’ a source at the show reveals. The two began speaking long distance, using FaceTime on their iPhones. Then Johnny flew Sherri out to see him where New Edition ‘All Six’ tour, featuring the whole group, was playing. ‘She flew out to see him in Houston, Virginia Beach and Los Angeles. She enjoyed being out on the road and enjoyed getting to know him,’ according to the friend. After their special date night in Houston, Johnny tweeted: ‘you’re the best, I had so much fun hanging with you, love love love you!!!’

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Follow These Tips To Have A Ratchet-Free First Date [EXCLUSIVE AUDIO]

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You wouldn’t think our girl Claudia Jordan would run into these issues with men, but unfortunately she does. Listen to the audio player to hear five tips…

Follow These Tips To Have A Ratchet-Free First Date [EXCLUSIVE AUDIO]

Dear Bossip: I Reconnected With An Ex Who Has A Child, Now I’ve Learned His Baby Momma Is Expecting His Twins

Dear Bossip , I’m currently in a relationship with a man who has a daughter. I on the other hand don’t have any children. I met him about 5 years ago and we dated. I specifically asked him was he ready to be in a relationship, he told me no. So, I began dating other people. I was showing him some pictures in my phone and he continued scrolling through my pictures and came across a picture of a guy and he flipped out. After that incident we went our separate ways. All communication between us was cut off. Fast forward about 2 ½ years and he decided to send me a message on Facebook. We got together and caught up. When I met him 5 years ago he didn’t have any children. Now, he has a 1 year old. I was real leery of getting involved with a guy with kids, but honestly this child has made an honest man out of him. I just love seeing him be a great father. That was a year ago. Now, we’re in a committed relationship. About a month or two ago we were over his parent’s home and to my surprise his mom pulled me to the side and told me that he’s expecting twins with his child’s mother. I had no clue of this. He didn’t mention this to me at all before we decided to make our relationship official. I asked him about it and he told me that he doesn’t really think she’s pregnant. He also told me that if she is pregnant he’s going to get a DNA test on the children. When his child’s mother was pregnant with his first child she confessed to him that she wasn’t sure if the baby was his. He got a DNA test and it proved the child is his. To bring things up to speed, his sister came out and said that his child’s mother is expecting twin boys. Now, I’m positive she’s pregnant and he’s probably the father. Now, that we’re in a relationship I’m not sure if I can handle being in a relationship with someone with three small children. I’m in my early 20s with my Bachelors degree and I plan on furthering my education – Should I Walk Away Dear Ms. Should I Walk Away , Uhm, sweetie, if his child’s mother is pregnant with twins right now, then, uhm, you do realize that he cheated on you while he was in a committed relationship with you. So, why wouldn’t you confront him about his infidelity? SMDH! I don’t understand why some of you will go back to an ex after years of being broken up, and being separated. Just because someone from your past reaches out to you on Facebook, or any social media outlet, it doesn’t mean you have to respond. It doesn’t mean you have to go back and try to make it work again. If it didn’t work the first time, then it’s not going to work the second time around. Why go back and get into the same mess you left? They are an ex for a reason. UGH!!! Now, here you are, a grown woman, with some education, and doing things for yourself, and your ex is still doing the same –ish he was doing years ago. He has a small child, and now his same baby momma is pregnant with twins. You and he were together at the time of her conception, which means he was cheating on you with her. So, Ms. Smarty-Pants, what do you think you should do? Do you think you should stay with this man who cheated on you with his baby momma? Do you want to be with this man who will have three small children, yet, you have none? Do you want to deal with his baby momma drama? Do you want to deal with him not having any money to take you out because all of his income will be going toward his three children? Leave. Get out of the relationship. The reason his mother and sister both told you that he is expecting twins is because they both know he ain’t –ish, and they don’t want to see him mess up your life. You seem like you have your head on your shoulders and you’re a good and wonderful person, and they are protecting you and giving you the red signs to take heed and leave his bum a**. You’re young, you have a lot going for you, and a lot to look forward to, and one of them is not being in a relationship with a man who has three small children, and dealing with baby momma drama. He cannot do anything for you. He will be forever on child support, and he will not be able to take you out, buy you anything, or do anything special with you because he has to deal with his children, his responsibilities as a dad and parent, and giving his money to her. Why stay with a man who cannot commit himself fully to you emotionally, mentally, and physically? Do yourself a favor and get out of the relationship, delete him out of your life, and focus on you. Focus on your life, and be thankful that you are not baby momma number two, and having to deal with his other child’s mother and you being pregnant. Be thankful that his mother and sister warned you, and hipped you to him and his trifling ways. Girl, buy them some flowers and send them a thank you note. Then, I’m going to need for you to stop responding to exes who reach out to you on social media. Stop going backward and repeating the same behaviors over and over again. They are an ex for a reason. Move forward. Life is about moving ahead, forward, and not backward. You stay in this relationship, then don’t be surprised by the drama you will experience and the stress you will encounter. It will be at your own demise. – Terrance Dean Hey Bossip Fam, what do you think? Share your opinions and thoughts below! Also, e-mail all your questions Terrance Dean :  loveandrelationships@bossip.com Follow Terrance Dean on Twitter : @terrancedean and “LIKE” Terrance Dean on Facebook , click  HERE! Make sure to order my books Mogul: A Novel (Atria Books – June 2011; $15); Hiding In Hip Hop (Atria Books – June 2008); and Straight From Your Gay Best Friend – The Straight Up Truth About Relationships, Love, And Having A Fabulous Life (Agate/Bolden Books – November 2010; $15). They are available in bookstores everywhere, and on Amazon, click HERE!        

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Dear Bossip: I Reconnected With An Ex Who Has A Child, Now I’ve Learned His Baby Momma Is Expecting His Twins

Jada Pinkett Smith Opens Up About “Open Marriage” Rumor [Video]

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Dear Bossip: I’m Dating A Married Man, But His Wife Wants His Kids To Come Live With Us & I’m Not Sure I Want Them

Dear Bossip , I’m dating a man that is married. We do live together, and we have been together for a year now. His four kids come over to visit, but his wife is still in love with him and she accuses me of whooping her kids. I don’t even whoop my own son. It’s crazy, but now she wants all four of the kids to live with us because she can’t provide for them anymore (but he pays all of her bills for the kids). I want him to get a divorce and pay child support. Am I wrong for that? And, also should I let his children move in with us? Please help me. – I Want Him Not His Kids Dear Ms. I Want Him Not His Kids , WOW! Really? You actually thought about this situation, and decided to write in to ask advice on what you should do about dating a married man, and if you should let his kids move in with you? WOW! SMDH! You’d rather take a man away from his wife and kids, and have him abandon his kids when their mother wants him to take them in, just so you can have him. You are pathetic. Sad. Trifling. You’re living with another woman’s husband, and you have been doing so for a year. You are so excited about having another woman’s husband in your bed that you cannot fathom the idea or thought of him bringing his children with him to live with you. Yet, you want him to be a father to your child? No, don’t get me wrong. I understand what you want and what you’re saying. You want him to pay child support and be there for his children, just not in your house. You don’t want to raise another woman’s kids. You’ll rather he be a distant father, and have them visit from time to time, but just not live with you. You are not looking to sign up to be a stepmom. You just want him. Where is your child’s father? Why don’t you dump your child on him and leave him with him, and then you and your cheating man can live together in peace. Therefore, you won’t have any children interfering in your relationship and house. Oh, that doesn’t work for you? That is not an option? Well, what if he asked you to give up your son because he doesn’t want to be a father to another man’s child. What if he asked you to abandon your son and pay child support because he is not interested in living in your house with your child, but he only wants you. Would you give up your son? Will you abandon your child just so you can have this man? I find it sad and ratchet that you, as a woman and mother, would find it okay to sleep with another woman’s husband and move him into your house. I don’t care what’s going on in their marriage, and what he may have told you. The fact still remains that he is married. The fact still remains that he has children with her, and he is a father. You are willing to take him away from his family for your own selfish desires and wants. You are so desperate that you will actually want him to walk away from his fatherly and parental duties just so you can say you have a man. Just know that the very way he left her, and the very way he is abandoning his children will be the same way he will leave you and treat you. And, just know that the reason he won’t divorce her is because he will be trapped with alimony, paying child support, and he will be stuck living with you and being broke. And, that is not an option he really wants. So, instead of moving him into your home, and dating a married man, how about you move him out of your home, and find a single man who is not attached to another woman. How about you demand that he not walk away from his responsibilities, and stand up and do what he needs to do to make sure his children are taken care of. And, you need to work on your own personal identity, self-esteem, and self-worth. You should work on why you find it okay for you to ask a man to leave his wife and family to be with you, and you’re not willing to accept all that he comes with, including his children. You are shady, tired, trifling, and mean. If he does leave his wife for good, I’m sure he won’t marry you. You are just a rest stop on his way to another woman. Trust. – Terrance Dean Hey Bossip Fam, what do you think? Share your opinions and thoughts below! Also, e-mail all your questions Terrance Dean :  loveandrelationships@bossip.com Follow Terrance Dean on Twitter : @terrancedean and “LIKE” Terrance Dean on Facebook , click  HERE! Make sure to order my books Mogul: A Novel (Atria Books – June 2011; $15); Hiding In Hip Hop (Atria Books – June 2008); and Straight From Your Gay Best Friend – The Straight Up Truth About Relationships, Love, And Having A Fabulous Life (Agate/Bolden Books – November 2010; $15). They are available in bookstores everywhere, and on Amazon, click HERE!    

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True Or False? Is Big Sean Smashing Ariana Grande’s Barely Legal Backs To Smithereens?

These two each have one less problem without their exes… Ariana Grande And Big Sean Rumored To Be Dating Big Sean, 26 and Ariana Grande, 21, have been friends for a while and have even collaborated on a few songs, but it looks like their relationship may have tiptoed out of the friend-zone now that both artists are single and spending so much extra time together. It was just announced yesterday that Ariana split from her boyfriend, 19 year-old Australian YouTube star Jai Brooks, after he was un-supportive during her Grandfather’s recent passing. Of course, we all know Big Sean had a dramatic break-up with former fiancee and Glee star Naya Rivera — which she very quickly bounced back from — just a few months back. Are these two taking it to the next level now that everyone’s strings are no longer attached? The rapper and the singer were spotted by fans out on a movie date together in Florida just last night: And Big Sean has been hanging out at the mini-songstress’ Florida home, sharing snaps of himself and her poodle Ophelia: Maybe they’re “just friends” and whatnot…but they ARE both fresh out of break-ups with allegedly ain’t isht partners, chilling with each other constantly, and they do seem to be each other’s types. Just saying… YouTube / Twitter @ArianaTodayNet / Instagram

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Is It Okay To Have Sex On The First Date? [AUDIO & POLL]

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Let’s be real. Sex on the first date goes down, and often. So is it really as bad as people make it out to be?…

Is It Okay To Have Sex On The First Date? [AUDIO & POLL]

Finding Mr. Right: Woman Holds Audition For New Boyfriend

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There’s an incredibly entertaining new approach to finding that special someone, but it’s still got a few kinks. Who needs Match.com or Tinder, when you…

Finding Mr. Right: Woman Holds Audition For New Boyfriend

Is B.o.B. Dating Sevyn? He Says “She’s Like Magic”

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B.o.B. and Sevyn have been rumored to be dating. Hot 107.9 sat down with B.o.B. while he stopped by to talk about his new mixtape No…

Is B.o.B. Dating Sevyn? He Says “She’s Like Magic”