Alyssa Miller bores me. I think she’s some con artist…who dated the SI photographer who had the influence to get her booked in SI…which led to her dating Jake Gyllenhaal to further her fame and career…which must make him really happy for helping her out and launching her…it’s like thanks girl I loved for using me to get to the top of the fucking charts in the industry…even though you were better suited as some cocktail waitress.. Here she is in some of her better work…
Miley Cyrus Responds To French Montana Dating Rumors Earlier this week following her performance at Madison Square Garden, Hollyweird wild child Miley Cyrus was caught on camera hugging up to NY hip hop head French Montana and talk began about the two possibly dating. But despite being photographed in an embrace with Mr. Pop That himself, Miley wasn’t too happy about people assuming that the two are coupled up. She took to her Twitter with this response shortly after the photos began circulating. Hmmmm. Sounds like Miley feels some type of way about being linked to French. You can check out the photos in question HERE and see what you think for yourself. SplashNews
Dear Bossip , I need some advice. I am a 25-year old woman and I’ve been in a relationship with a 38-year old man for a year and a half. We currently live together, and are very much in love and plan on getting married. We have both been married and divorced once before. His union produced a 15-year old boy and a 10-year old girl. I have no children and found out two years ago that due to complications from an abortion I had in my teens, I am unable to get pregnant. I was heartbroken when I found this out. I had always wanted to be a mother and to find out that I aborted my only child devastated me. There is not a day that goes by that I don’t regret my decision. It literally haunts me. When I met my boyfriend, he expressed to me that he is done having children and is positive he doesn’t want anymore. I was okay with that at the time because I thought I had come to terms with not being able to have kids and figured him not wanting any would make it easier for me to deal with. Fast forward to the present, I have since met his two kids and get along with them well. I thought that meeting his kids and forming a relationship with them would help fill the void of not having my own child, but I was wrong. There are days I fantasize about finding a man with no kids or one who wants more and trying to have a child (because I truly believe that medicine only goes so far and then there’s God), or possibly adopting. But, I am torn because the man I’m with is wonderful. He is loving, supportive, hard-working, a great dad and an awesome provider. He is truly one of the “good black men.” He treats me like a queen. But, he is not budging on the kid thing and I can’t blame him. My mother tells me that if he truly loves me, he will allow me the chance to be a mom, but I don’t agree. Thirty-eight is, in my opinion, a little old to be starting over with a newborn and he’s “been there done that,” so I don’t think his level of love for me has anything to do with it. So, my struggle is: Do I leave my awesome man and wonderful relationship to search for a man interested in having kids or perhaps be single and adopt on my own? I love this man with all my heart, but this void that I feel and this urge to be a mother is almost overwhelming at times. But, then there is the fear that even if I do meet a man willing to have children or adopt, he won’t measure up to what I have with my current man and then that will be a new regret. I am truly torn! – Between A Child or My Man Dear Ms. Between A Child or My Man , I’m truly sorry to hear about your early life choice in which it prevents you from having children. I’m sure that is devastating to experience, and especially since you’re now having the urge and desire to have your own child. And, I’m not a woman, so I don’t even purport to know what it’s like to desire and want a child, and have that biological clock ticking. But, from what I hear and experience in knowing many women and their conversations around children, then I would strongly suspect that having a child is more important than having a man. Again, that’s been my experience. So, what I recommend is that you have a sit down with your man. You two should have a long and serious conversation about children, your desire to adopt or at least try to have a child, and if he is willing to at least consider the idea. However, considering that he has made it clear that he is not interested in anymore children, I’m betting that he is not interested in having any more children, especially at 38-years of age. Like you mentioned, he’s been there and done that. I know of many married men, and men in relationships who have had children in their thirties and have said that they regret it. I’ve heard them complain about how they wished they would have done it sooner rather than later. Many of them already had teenage children, so having a baby was something they did not want or plan on doing. And, don’t get me wrong, they did love their newborn babies, but they had a lot of resentment and regret. But, on the other hand, there are some men who didn’t mind, and they were completely happy. The point I’m making is, if you want your relationship to grow, to build, and to sustain itself after the newborn comes along, then you need to build a solid foundation from the beginning. You both need to be on the same page, and have the same dreams, desires, and wants. If this is something that he is completely against, and he is not budging, then you may want to consider leaving the relationship, and finding a man who desires and wants to have children. And, there are plenty of men out there who would love to have a house full of children, and relish in the idea of being a father and dad. Now, it’s great that your man is a loving caretaker and provider, and he treats you like a queen. He loves his children, and is hard-working, and one of the “good black men.” But, let’s talk about the “supportive” aspect that you mentioned. You stated that he is supportive, but supportive of what? His dreams and desires? His wants and needs? A man who is supportive will listen to your plans, ideas, hopes, and dreams and will support them. Especially if they are in the best interest of you, and how it builds you, inspires you, and empowers you. So, if you desire to have a child, then he should be open to listening, be willing to consider the options, and how this makes you happy, and fills a desire and need for you. He will let go of his ego and his wants and needs in order that he may support you because he knows that you are unable to have children. So, why deny you of that opportunity or prevent you in having that bond and connection with a child that most women yearn and desire for? If he is not willing to listen, consider, and let go of his ego, then you should consider your relationship, and the future you have with him. You’re a young woman, and it would behoove me to tell you not to have a child, and to get over this idea, especially to have and keep a man. Your instincts to have a child, and to care and nurture another human being of your own is your right. No one can deny you of that opportunity. And, no man is worth it. Besides, who knows what the future holds for you. You could leave the relationship, adopt a beautiful child, and you meet another wonderful, caring, loving, supportive, and hard-working “good black man.” And, he may want to have a house full of children. You never know. So, don’t get stuck in the familiar, and get tunnel-vision. Besides, I’m sure you’ve done a lot of bending and sacrificing, and being supportive of him and his ideas. Why can’t he bend and sacrifice for you? Sometimes many women get into relationships and give up themselves and lose themselves for a man and what he wants. You go with the flow, and then you regret that when it’s time for you to voice your opinion, and ask for support that your man chucks it up, and dismisses you and your dreams, ideas, and hopes. You stay in the relationship because it’s good, he’s good, and it’s just this one thing he won’t budge on. Well, good is great, but how about better? How about great? Ma’am, you don’t want to stay in a relationship and have regrets for the rest of your life wondering what you should of, could of, would of done if you had adopted a child, and left the relationship. Sometimes you have to step out on faith and trust God. – Terrance Dean Hey Bossip Fam, what do you think? Share your opinions and thoughts below! 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Oh, the dreaded wrong number text or phone call. It’s happened to all of us at one point or another. Or most of us, at least. Right? Maybe? Long gone are the days of a simple “you have the wrong number.” Some recipients of the text message mistakes are reacting in hilarious fashion. See many of the best examples below. Yes, yes this wrong number recipient DOES have pictures of himself. Just not the ones JD expected … Keep reading for more hilarious wrong number texts… OMG! She’s not a Belieber, you guys! Geez! This is why group messages are a bad idea, but this person gets fist bumps for the use of pop lyrics! And Mom gets props for knowing Tyga ‘s Rack City. Well this just got awkward… Grumpy Cat can’t come to the phone right now. Standard Cat and Dog will have to do. Dating these days is so complicated. And creepy. Here’s hoping Melanie can explain this one to her bosses. OUCH! All around! Fun times and boob grabs for everyone!
Toby Sheldon has just put all other Justin Bieber fans to shame. Or maybe just put himself to shame, given the extent of his devotion to the singer. A 33-year-old songwriter spent almost $100,000 on five years’ worth of plastic surgery to make him look like his hero, according to the UK tabloid Closer . Check out the disturbing before and after photos below … On top of Botox injections and hair transplants, he underwent expensive “smile surgery” to make his smile look just like the Canadian singer, reports suggest. “It’s Justin’s smile that gives him his youthful look. So I had my upper lip lifted up [and] my bottom lip plumped out,” the musician told Closer , proudly. The above comparison doesn’t really do it justice. Just take a look at another close-up of Sheldon’s face now and prepare to get really freaked out: Yeah. Real normal. Just a few points in conclusion here: Closer is still around and doing its thing, apparently, after running the nude Kate Middleton photos that caused such controversy last fall. Toby may want to find a good therapist like now. At least he looks like Justin Bieber Circa 201o and not the increasingly out-of-control d-bag we see nowadays. Selena Gomez would approve.
Miley Cyrus has been back in the dating game longer than previously suggested, at least according to one report that again links her to Theo Wenner. The 20-year-old pop star announced her broken engagement from actor Liam Hemsworth in September, but the two were on the rocks well before that. That much is basically accepted as fact, but months earlier, she began dating Rolling Stone photographer Wenner, a Huffington Post report says. Wenner, the ex-boyfriend of Liv Tyler and son of Rolling Stone magazine owner Jann Wenner, started dated Cyrus prior to her breakup with Liam. However, Cyrus said on Ellen last week that she is not seeing him and is “obsessed with being alone.” The two are “new friends,” she acknowledged. She and Theo Wenner have reportedly maintained “constant contact” since they first met when the photographer snapped several racy pics of her. According to E! News, Cyrus invited Wenner to watch her SNL performance in October but has since left the East Coast and headed back to L.A. The “We Can’t Stop” singer “hasn’t been in NYC, where he [Theo] lives, for a week and has no immediate plans to return,” the insider said. So if Miles is totally lusting after the guy , she’s not making it too obvious. The Human Wrecking Ball’s next scheduled trip to the Big Apple is for the annual Jingle Ball concert in December. We’ll see if they rekindle things then. In the meantime, there’s still a chance, Mike Will Made It. Still a chance. Theo Wenner: Dating Miley Cyrus?
Consider the air cleared. Following a report that alleged Bethenny Frankel is irate at Ellen DeGeneres over her show’s poor ratings and weak guest bookings, the talk show hosts set the record straight today when the latter appeared on the former’s program via satellite. “A lot of people like to make a lot of comments in the press about different relationships… and I try to explain to people that you and I are really friends,” Bethenny told Ellen. “We actually go to dinner… I’ve been to your house. I genuinely love you and look up to you and I call you when things are rough or when I need advice.” DeGeneres agreed and joked that she’s never been invited to Frankel’s house, which led to a startling admission from Bethenny: She still lives with Jason Hoppy ! Yes, the ex-Bravo star actually shares a residence with the man from whom she’s going through an ugly divorce , as Hoppy and Frankel battle for custody over little daughter Bryn. “I am not going there,” DeGeneres said of the Hoppy news. “I did hear that there was a story that I was distancing myself from you and from the show and I wanted my name off of the show… “There is absolutely not one crumb of truth in that at all. I am not distancing myself from your show, I love you. I am so proud of you. I am proud to have my name on it and I think that you are amazing and we are friends.” Bethenny grew teary-eyed as Ellen continued: “There is no one doing what you are doing on television right now. You really represent women and talk to women and give women advice in a way that nobody is doing and I love listening to your advice.” Jeez, ladies. Get a room already, will ya?!? Oh, right. Sorry. Hoppy would probably be there.
Britney Spears is the mother of two adorable boys from her previous marriage to Kevin Federline, but she says she’d love to remarry and have more kids someday. No pressure, David Lucado . Britney Spears Wants to Get Married, Have Twins The ” Work Bitch ” songstress revealed on Germany’s RTL network yesterday how much she would like to settle down and add to her little family. “I’d like to have more kids, settle down… have kids, maybe twins, and get married,” said Spears, who turns 32 in December. “That would be nice.” Earlier this year, in paying a visit to Mario Lopez on the Extra set, Britney shared a similar sentiment, and revealed that she would love a baby girl. Lopez told the former X Factor judge, “I have a girl. I’m very jealous ’cause you have boys,” to which the pop singer replied, “Awww! I want a girl.” Mario said, “Oh, you do want a girl! So later on, maybe a little girl?” The answer? A simple, “Yes.” Better get cracking on that, Dave. Britney has been married twice before, though the first time was a short-lived, 55-hour affair in which she eloped with her old friend Jason Alexander. She and K-Fed share custody of Sean, 8, and Jayden, 7.
Jamie Foxx has denied that he is dating Katie Holmes after rumors of the alleged romance sent the celebrity gossip world into a tizzy Tuesday morning. Speaking with Entertainment Tonight ‘s Nancy O’Dell last night, the Oscar-winning actor shut down the talk as not only untrue, but “hilarious.” Jamie Foxx Denies Dating Katie Holmes “[The rumors] are one hundred percent not true,” he said. “In fact, it’s hilarious because we simply danced at a charity event along with a lot of other people.” It was reported that Katie Holmes and Jamie Foxx were spending a lot of time at her NYC pad after their friendship turned romantic at a benefit this summer. Foxx also pointed out that he and Holmes’ ex-husband, Tom Cruise, his co-star in 2004’s Collateral , have long been close friends. In other words, bro code. The end.
She’s done it, people! Following months of harassment for all the weight she gained during pregnancy , and after hiding out for weeks due to embarrassment over her post-baby figure, Kim graces thew latest cover of Life & Style with a simple message: YES, SHE DID IT! Granted, this is a very old Kim Kardashian bikini picture . And, yes, the star did have access to a personal chef, personal trainer, multiple nannies and lacks any kind of full-time job. Her post-birth weight loss challenge may not be as daunting as that of millions of other women around the globe. But still… she did it! Kim Kardashian lost 70 pounds in five months, largely via the Atkins Diet . That’s something to be celebrated and totally a reason to spend your hard-earned money at a newsstand to read anonymous quotes about this accomplishment.
