Divorce rumors have plagued Kim Kardashian and Kanye West since their wedding day, but in recent weeks, the couple has endured one of the most difficult rough patches of their marriage. It all started when Kim was robbed at gunpoint at a hotel in Paris last month. Just a few weeks later, Kanye was hospitalized following an emotional breakdown, requiring over a week of in-patient treatment at the UCLA Medical Center. Needless to say, it was a month that would put any marriage to the test, and insiders say Kim and Kanye are most certainly feeling the strain. There have been rumors that Kim and Kanye were on the verge of divorce in the weeks leading up to his hospitalization, and that his crumbling marriage was one of the things that led to the rapper’s psychological collapse. The narrative went something like this: Kim turned to Kanye for support in the wake of her traumatic experience in Paris. She found that her husband’s reputation for self-obsession and emotional instability were well-earned, and he was not up to the task of supporting a partner in the midst of a crisis. Sources claimed Kim was standing by Kanye’s side following his release from the hospital on Wednesday, but that when he was in a more stable place, they would continue discussing separation options. Neither party has addressed the issue directly, but today, an insider sanctioned to speak for Kim issued a statement to People magazine. “That is not accurate,” says the source, in reference to the divorce rumors. “There are frustrations and problems, like any relationship, but they love each other deeply.” The insider stated that Kim still considers Kanye to be “her best friend and soul mate.” “Kanye is at home with Kim and the kids,” says a different source. “He seems okay and happy to be home. Kim’s family is visiting.” The second insider concedes that Kim has asked Kanye to make some changes: View Slideshow: 45 Kute and Kuddly Kimye Photos “He needs to learn how to better balance his work and family life,” says the unnamed friend of Kim’s. Our thoughts go out to the Kardashian-West clan, and we hope Kanye is able to receive whatever sort of help he needs.
Larsa Pippen Keeps Close To Future At His Birthday Party In Beverly Hills You know what they say… you do what you want when you poppin! Larsa Pippen isn’t losing any sleep over her divorce with Scottie Pippen. In fact, it seems she’s still going strong with the rumored reason for her divorce — rapper Future! Over the weekend Future celebrated his birthday and TMZ is reporting that not only was Larsa in attendance — she never moved beyond the rapper’s arm’s reach. TMZ also points out that Larsa, identifiable by her outfit, which is clearly visible in this snapchat picture posted by Kourtney Kardashian — can be spotted in a video of the rapper and friends partying at a nightclub in Beverly Hills. Check out the video below: Does this destroy Larsa’s explanation that she and Future are only casual friends?
Is Jennifer Aniston about to have something in common with ex-husband Brad Pitt? Is she on the verge of a nasty divorce? Might she and Pitt therefore both soon be single and get back together?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!? Simply put: no, no and no. But Star Magazine wants you to believe at least one of those aforementioned rumors. Despite Aniston having just given an interview in which she gushed over Justin Theroux (“He’s such a good person. It hurts me to think of anything hurting him,” she told Marie Claire this month), the above cover story claims she and her man are on the outs. Moreover, Aniston has apparently gained 20 pounds! This featured Star story screams that “Jen & Justin At Each Other’s Throats!” The publication further teases an impending breakup between the actress and actor by, of course, referencing Brad Pitt. “He Rages Over Brad’s Phone Calls To Jen,” reads the sub-headline. According to the affiliated article inside this issue, Aniston and Theroux are “at war” over Pitt, with an anonymous source who is definitely not made-up exclaiming: “Jealousy rears its ugly head after Brad Pitt and Jennifer Aniston reconnect behind husband Justin Theroux’s back… and all hell breaks loose.” All HELL, people. That sounds really bad. Aniston has been pretty vocal over the past several weeks about her treatment in the media. “My marital status has been shamed; my divorce status was shamed; my lack of a mate had been shamed; my nipples have been shamed,” she told Marie Claire in its most recent cover story. Previously, Aniston went off on the paparazzi via an op-ed in The Huffington Post. It was the most angry and impassioned we’ve ever seen her after years and years of endless pregnancy speculation. And we loved it! “I’m fed up with the sport-like scrutiny and body-shaming that occurs daily,” Aniston wrote at the time , adding: “If I am some kind of symbol to some people out there, then clearly I am an example of the lens through which we, as a society, view our mothers, daughters, sisters, wives, female friends and colleagues. “The objectification and scrutiny we put women through is absurd and disturbing.” Amen. Is this latest scathing “report” on her marriage a example of female objectification? Not necessarily. It’s more directly related to Aniston, with whom the public remains fascinated. According Star source, Theroux has been “consumed with jealousy” since Aniston allegedly “admitted she’s been speaking with her ex in the wake of his shocking split from Angelina Jolie.” Adds an insider: “Jen and Justin have been at each other’s throats ever since he found out about Brad. He feels totally betrayed, but Jen has told him Brad just needs a sympathetic ear and that she accepted his calls because she wanted to be supportive. “She never expected Justin to react the way he did.” View Slideshow: Angelina Jolie-Brad Pitt Divorce: Jennifer Aniston Reacts! This same (non) source rambles on about how “Brad and Jen have never stopped loving each other” and claims that Theroux’s “anger” over the connection “could threaten their marriage.” Before you get TOO worried about Aniston and Theroux’s marriage, just remember: we’ve been here before. And before that as well: Oh, and also before that: In reality, Jennifer Aniston and Justin Theroux are as stable as any couple in Hollywood. That fact just doesn’t sell newspapers or magazines. It’s sad.
Actress, Lisa Raye is on the man hunt and she has a app for that! Raye released a new app called ManShopping and she will be livestreaming her search as a new online series. You can find her new app in the Google Play store and Apples App store. Right now go & download LisaRaye […]
It looks like Mary J & Kendu divorce is going to be long and drawn out. As Mary tours around the world, Kendu claims that Blige is destroying his reputation. Blige fired Kendu as her manager and his funds is basically running low. As Mary is on tour she is using the divorce as the […]
The Walking Dead Producers Considered Killing Off Pregnant Character Maggie Fans of AMC’s The Walking Dead were left aghast Sunday night during an emotional episode where two of the hit show’s characters were BRUTALLY killed. The producers left the audience hanging for almost a year in horrified suspense as the season finale depicted the death of an unknown member of Rick Grimes’ band of merry zombie killers. Well, now we know who dies, but it appears that the showrunners considered choosing a different head for Negan’s bat to bash… Would the gruesome death of a pregnant Maggie and her seed been taking things a bit too far for you? Image via AMC
Dear Bossip , I am going through this phase no wife should ever have to go through. Eight months ago I found out my husband cheated on me. I was disgusted because the woman he was with was a friend of mine and she was the one who spilled the beans. Instead of apologizing or feeling some type remorse, she was angry! She said how I was so naive not to know what was going on and I would be stupid if I let him slide like this. I confronted my husband that night when he came from work. At first he denied it, then, he burst his emotions out. He said it only happened once and how he couldn’t tell me because he didn’t want to break-up our marriage. And, how eventually, she was after him and he kept pushing her away, which is why she told me everything. I felt so devastated and just wanted to pack my things and go. He insisted I stay and that he truly feels sorry for what he’s done. Fast forward 8 months, and this man has changed a lot. He quit his job and got a better paying one. He helps a lot in the house and we get along so well, even as to say that he has gone as far as to give me his paycheck weekly so I can run our finances and control our spending. I also have control of his phone usage, which shows me all the calls he has made and received (which he doesn’t know). Unintentionally, I found a way to track where he is through his phone – no app was used, just email. From what I see, he holds a clean record ever since. But, there are some days that my mind rewinds back to that day, and things that I see remind me of his infidelity and make me feel as it was yesterday. My wounds feel fresh and I cry alone every now and then. I have become two sides of myself, the one who wants to leave and start fresh, and the one who wants to stay and forgive. He has become a wonderful husband and a great father to our daughter. But, Terrance, how can I make these feelings go away. I was always the first to say, “Once a cheater, always a cheater.” Or, my personal favorite, “You cheat, you’re out the door.” But, could it be possible for a marriage to survive after this, if the husband shows signs of change without pressure from the wife? – Should I Stay or Leave Dear Ms. Should I Stay or Leave , Ma’am, I’m sorry that you are experiencing this and going through this turmoil. I know it must be difficult to deal with a cheating spouse, and especially when that spouse sleeps with a friend that you know. It’s not as if it is some random woman, but a woman who was part of your life, and someone you considered a friend. That is a stab in the heart. But, yet, here you are. I wish I could tell you that you should leave. I wish I could tell you that you should stay. But, the only one who can make that decision is you. Me, nor anyone else can tell you when to leave your marriage, especially if your husband is doing everything to make things right, and is working toward saving his marriage. He’s apologized, and he’s trying to do right and remain faithful in the marriage. But, the pain is still there. Despite your own personal feelings and ethics that if someone cheats, then it’s out the door, and they will do it again. But, you’re still there. So, you have to decide what is your limit? What is your boundary? What is your low? People say what they won’t do and what they won’t put up with, but when put into that situation or faced with that circumstance it’s not easy and nor is it cut and dry. You’re thinking about your marriage and what you’ve committed to it. You’re thinking about your child. You’re thinking about your families. You’re thinking about your finances, your home, and what you’ll have to go through in the divorce. Will it be nasty? Will it be amicable? But, more importantly, is it worth it to end it and start all over again? If you are still struggling and you find yourself crying and reliving the pain, then it’s time to get into therapy. I highly and strongly recommend that you and your husband seek couple’s therapy to work on your marriage, and to get to the bottom of what happened. You have questions and you want answers, but I don’t feel you got them from him. Why her? Why cheat? What was going on in your marriage that he couldn’t come to you and talk to you about it? Was it convenience? Was it because he could? He says she kept pursuing him after it happened, so what led her to believe that something more was going to happen? How long had they been talking, and flirting? How long had she been pursuing him, and why didn’t he tell you? There are so many questions and very little answers, and you need these in order to heal. Besides, your husband needs to know how this has affected you, and how you are feeling. In therapy you can let him know how deeply hurt you are, what this has done to you and your trust of him. How you feel betrayed. How you feel manipulated and deceived. Let him know that you the pain is still there, and you can’t stop thinking about him being with another woman, especially someone you considered a friend. You’re hurting, and until you seek proper healing and deal with the emotions and feelings, then you will continue to relive it over and over again. However, I do know one thing, that woman should not be in your life in any capacity. She is and was never your friend. She was low down and dirty, and I would consider it a lesson learned. Despite who you think is your friend, and how close you think you are, there are some people you keep at a distance, and out of your marriage, and personal life. She is one of those types of people. It’s sad that someone you considered a friend, and invited into your home would turn around and do what she did. But, it happens. Then, she had the nerve to be mad at you and accuse you of being naïve and clueless as to what happened. You should have slapped the dog -ish out of her. She would know that you are not the one, and she would think twice before she did something like this again. However, like I said, I recommend therapy, and possibly speaking with your pastor, or spiritual advisor. This is not easy, nor is it cut and dry. You mentioned that it was a one time thing, and he’s working toward being a better man, better father, and better partner. Is this enough for you? Can you forgive and move forward? Do you want to forgive? You have to decide what is your limit and your bottom. Before you make any decisions or move forward get into therapy, see if it’s something you want to work on and mend. I’m sure you will get the answers you need if you talk with a certified licensed third party who can assist you as you navigate this new terrain in your marriage. – Terrance Dean Hey Bossip Fam, what do you think? S hare your opinions and thoughts below! Also, e-mail all your questions Terrance Dean: loveandrelationships@bossip.com Follow Terrance Dean on Twitter: @ terrancedean and “LIKE” Terrance Dean on Facebook, click HERE ! Make sure to order my books Mogul: A Novel (Atria Books – June 2011; $15); Hiding In Hip Hop (Atria Books – June 2008); and Straight From Your Gay Best Friend – The Straight Up Truth About Relationships, Love, And Having A Fabulous Life (Agate/Bolden Books – November 2010; $15). They are available in bookstores everywhere, and on Amazon, click HERE !
Dear Bossip , I am going through this phase no wife should ever have to go through. Eight months ago I found out my husband cheated on me. I was disgusted because the woman he was with was a friend of mine and she was the one who spilled the beans. Instead of apologizing or feeling some type remorse, she was angry! She said how I was so naive not to know what was going on and I would be stupid if I let him slide like this. I confronted my husband that night when he came from work. At first he denied it, then, he burst his emotions out. He said it only happened once and how he couldn’t tell me because he didn’t want to break-up our marriage. And, how eventually, she was after him and he kept pushing her away, which is why she told me everything. I felt so devastated and just wanted to pack my things and go. He insisted I stay and that he truly feels sorry for what he’s done. Fast forward 8 months, and this man has changed a lot. He quit his job and got a better paying one. He helps a lot in the house and we get along so well, even as to say that he has gone as far as to give me his paycheck weekly so I can run our finances and control our spending. I also have control of his phone usage, which shows me all the calls he has made and received (which he doesn’t know). Unintentionally, I found a way to track where he is through his phone – no app was used, just email. From what I see, he holds a clean record ever since. But, there are some days that my mind rewinds back to that day, and things that I see remind me of his infidelity and make me feel as it was yesterday. My wounds feel fresh and I cry alone every now and then. I have become two sides of myself, the one who wants to leave and start fresh, and the one who wants to stay and forgive. He has become a wonderful husband and a great father to our daughter. But, Terrance, how can I make these feelings go away. I was always the first to say, “Once a cheater, always a cheater.” Or, my personal favorite, “You cheat, you’re out the door.” But, could it be possible for a marriage to survive after this, if the husband shows signs of change without pressure from the wife? – Should I Stay or Leave Dear Ms. Should I Stay or Leave , Ma’am, I’m sorry that you are experiencing this and going through this turmoil. I know it must be difficult to deal with a cheating spouse, and especially when that spouse sleeps with a friend that you know. It’s not as if it is some random woman, but a woman who was part of your life, and someone you considered a friend. That is a stab in the heart. But, yet, here you are. I wish I could tell you that you should leave. I wish I could tell you that you should stay. But, the only one who can make that decision is you. Me, nor anyone else can tell you when to leave your marriage, especially if your husband is doing everything to make things right, and is working toward saving his marriage. He’s apologized, and he’s trying to do right and remain faithful in the marriage. But, the pain is still there. Despite your own personal feelings and ethics that if someone cheats, then it’s out the door, and they will do it again. But, you’re still there. So, you have to decide what is your limit? What is your boundary? What is your low? People say what they won’t do and what they won’t put up with, but when put into that situation or faced with that circumstance it’s not easy and nor is it cut and dry. You’re thinking about your marriage and what you’ve committed to it. You’re thinking about your child. You’re thinking about your families. You’re thinking about your finances, your home, and what you’ll have to go through in the divorce. Will it be nasty? Will it be amicable? But, more importantly, is it worth it to end it and start all over again? If you are still struggling and you find yourself crying and reliving the pain, then it’s time to get into therapy. I highly and strongly recommend that you and your husband seek couple’s therapy to work on your marriage, and to get to the bottom of what happened. You have questions and you want answers, but I don’t feel you got them from him. Why her? Why cheat? What was going on in your marriage that he couldn’t come to you and talk to you about it? Was it convenience? Was it because he could? He says she kept pursuing him after it happened, so what led her to believe that something more was going to happen? How long had they been talking, and flirting? How long had she been pursuing him, and why didn’t he tell you? There are so many questions and very little answers, and you need these in order to heal. Besides, your husband needs to know how this has affected you, and how you are feeling. In therapy you can let him know how deeply hurt you are, what this has done to you and your trust of him. How you feel betrayed. How you feel manipulated and deceived. Let him know that you the pain is still there, and you can’t stop thinking about him being with another woman, especially someone you considered a friend. You’re hurting, and until you seek proper healing and deal with the emotions and feelings, then you will continue to relive it over and over again. However, I do know one thing, that woman should not be in your life in any capacity. She is and was never your friend. She was low down and dirty, and I would consider it a lesson learned. Despite who you think is your friend, and how close you think you are, there are some people you keep at a distance, and out of your marriage, and personal life. She is one of those types of people. It’s sad that someone you considered a friend, and invited into your home would turn around and do what she did. But, it happens. Then, she had the nerve to be mad at you and accuse you of being naïve and clueless as to what happened. You should have slapped the dog -ish out of her. She would know that you are not the one, and she would think twice before she did something like this again. However, like I said, I recommend therapy, and possibly speaking with your pastor, or spiritual advisor. This is not easy, nor is it cut and dry. You mentioned that it was a one time thing, and he’s working toward being a better man, better father, and better partner. Is this enough for you? Can you forgive and move forward? Do you want to forgive? You have to decide what is your limit and your bottom. Before you make any decisions or move forward get into therapy, see if it’s something you want to work on and mend. I’m sure you will get the answers you need if you talk with a certified licensed third party who can assist you as you navigate this new terrain in your marriage. – Terrance Dean Hey Bossip Fam, what do you think? S hare your opinions and thoughts below! Also, e-mail all your questions Terrance Dean: loveandrelationships@bossip.com Follow Terrance Dean on Twitter: @ terrancedean and “LIKE” Terrance Dean on Facebook, click HERE ! Make sure to order my books Mogul: A Novel (Atria Books – June 2011; $15); Hiding In Hip Hop (Atria Books – June 2008); and Straight From Your Gay Best Friend – The Straight Up Truth About Relationships, Love, And Having A Fabulous Life (Agate/Bolden Books – November 2010; $15). They are available in bookstores everywhere, and on Amazon, click HERE !
