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Dear Bossip: Three Years He’s Taken Me Through It, Even Giving Me 2 STD’s, But I Can’t Get Rid Of Him

Dear Bossip , I’ve been in love with the same man since September 2010. We met on a deployment. I lived in North Carolina and he lived in Alabama. He was a gentleman, a dream come true, until we got back to the states. He started hiding our relationship. He let his friends talk greasy about me on Facebook and would not let me meet his mom. Around January/February 2011 I found out the reason that he wouldn’t take me to meet his mom was because his ex lived there. I found this out after she tried to add me on Facebook. Around this same time I found out that he had given me two STD’s at once. Both curable. I forgave him. He kept lying and only God knows about what else. So, we broke up in May. I moved on with my life. So, in December 2011 he came back to me wanting to get back together. I said yes. January went by smoothly. In February I received an email from a girl that said she was also his woman. She also told me about the baby he had on the way with the one that lived with his mom. I was devastated. He told me that he hadn’t seen or talked to the girl since November (we were both on two separate deployments at this time). He also told me that he had planned on telling me about the baby face to face when we got home. I was so hurt because at the time the baby was conceived he was still telling me he loved me. It was the same girl that had originally broken us up in the first place. I tried to stomach it for love, but when he took his time getting a DNA test I just couldn’t do it. We broke up in May 2012. Fast forward to May 2013, he emails me to say Happy Birthday and it turns into friendly conversation. He had a girl and I had a man. His girlfriend (the one that told me about the baby) emails me to let me know that they had gotten back together and that I needed to stop talking to her man. This whole time he been telling me how much he loves and misses me, but not once did he say he would leave her for me. I guess I’m writing to you because I don’t know how to just tell him to leave me alone and stop coming back into my life. Because I feel like he only comes back to figure out if he still has a place in my heart, and to see that if he really did want to come back to me if I would take him back. I love him. I really do. He was my first love. I think about him every day, but I know in my heart that he will never grow up and he will never leave his baby mama alone or take any woman serious. I love him, but I am not in love with him. He emails me and when I email him back 4 to 5 days later, he gets a little attitude. I don’t know how to tell him to leave me alone for good. Whatever I do it turns into an argument. – Want To Move On Dear Ms. Want To Move On , I’m sorry, but what is so difficult about telling someone to leave you the hell alone!?! He is only coming back into your life because you allow him to come back in your life. Stop responding to him and he will leave you alone. HELLO! Stop giving him entrée. Stop all communication. Stop answering his emails. Stop answering his texts. Stop every damn thing and he will leave you alone. Damn! It’s that simple. But, you like this attention. You enjoy him coming back to you in and out of your life. You find it amusing knowing that he is thinking about you. Because as you stated in your letter, you think about him every day. You keep him alive and this drama going on between you and him because you are enjoying his attention. You feel that although he has a woman, and you may have a man, that he is still reaching out to you because there must be something there. There must be some love, some affection, and you get a kick out of knowing he is going behind his woman’s back and telling you things you want to hear. So, be honest and ask yourself why do you feel the need to respond? What are you getting out of it? What do you possibly owe him, and what are you hoping to get out of these exchanges? Yeah, you playing these games with him, so, ma’am, I’m going to need for you to grow the hell up and stop all these shenanigans. Ain’t nobody got time to be playing with you and inflating your self-esteem and ego. And, ma’am, I want you to be very aware of what I’m about to tell you: He doesn’t love. He doesn’t even like you. You are someone he tolerates and likes dumping his STD’s into. Point blank! The man never apologized to you for giving you two STD’s at the same time. Please tell me what is there to love about him? Please tell me how you can possibly even think this man deserves any of your time, or attention? He gave you two STD’s at the same time. (Uhm, burns much). LOL! Honey, he never apologized or stood up for you when his friends were talking greasy about you on Facebook. He never even introduced you to his mother. As you’ve stated in your letter, you were a secret that he hid and never admitted to anyone that you were his woman. Which means he was embarrassed and ashamed to call you his woman. And, on top of that, he had his other woman, the one who had his baby, living with his momma, and still dipping up in you because you spread your legs and let him run up in you raw thinking he loved you. HE DIDN’T, DOES NOT, and NEVER WILL! So, it’s time you stop calling him your first love, and that you have all these feelings for him. This man didn’t have any feelings for you because if he did, then he wouldn’t have put you through all this drama, stress, and emotional, mental, and physical pain he has taken you through. You’re the woman he knows who is naïve enough to let him keep coming and going, and continue to give him some gush-gush and run game on you. When you learn to respect yourself, demand better for yourself, and stop letting men treat you like a doormat, then you can truly get rid of him. Until you can truly and honestly be real with yourself about why you keep letting him come back and forth in your life, and why you feel the need to respond to him when he reaches out to you, then he will keep coming back. So, cut the cord. Drop his a**. And, stop responding to him. If you truly want to get him out of your life, then stop responding to his emails, block his a**, and block his number. As a matter of fact, put DNA next to his name and number (Do Not Answer). Pull yourself together and go live your life. Stop harboring and thinking about him every day. When thoughts of him come up, put on some music, read a book, go jogging, do something to distract the thoughts, and trust me you will eventually not even have a thought or concern about him. – Terrance Dean Hey Bossip Fam, what do you think? Share your opinions and thoughts below! Also, e-mail all your questions Terrance Dean : loveandrelationships@bossip.com Follow Terrance Dean on Twitter : @terrancedean “LIKE” Terrance Dean on Facebook , click  HERE! Make sure to order my books Mogul: A Novel (Atria Books – June 2011; $15); Hiding In Hip Hop (Atria Books – June 2008); and Straight From Your Gay Best Friend – The Straight Up Truth About Relationships, Love, And Having A Fabulous Life (Agate/Bolden Books – November 2010; $15). They are available in bookstores everywhere, and on Amazon, click HERE!            Continue reading

Aaron Hernandez to Facebook Fan Page Creator: I’d Like it But There’s No Internet in Here LOL!

Aaron Hernandez wanted to thank the person who recently created a Facebook fan page in his honor, even if can’t get on the Internet to check it LOL. The jailed former NFL star apparently wrote a second letter to a fan from solitary confinement, this time lamenting that he can’t get on the web in there. He wrote to a fan who started an Aaron Hernandez support page, “Thanks for the site and sry [sic] I can’t check site [sic] there is no internet in jail lol.” First-ever use of “LOL” in a hand-written letter? Quite possibly. In the first Aaron Hernandez letter back to a fan who wrote him in a show of support, the murder suspect declared he is not guilty and will play again. Guy has time on his hands, though he is convinced it is just a phase and that he will prove “haters” and “talkers” wrong and be cleared of all charges. In both letters, he has subtly played the victim, saying there is a reason God is putting him through this, and that everything happens for a reason. Police, meanwhile, are searching all of creation for the literal smoking gun in the death of Odin Lloyd that would ensure he never sees the light of day. Oh, and Hernandez has been warned by prison officials to be careful what he writes in these letters because TMZ keeps publishing them . Obviously.

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Rumor Control: General Colin Powell Denies Swirly Chop Down Action With Romanian Diplomat, Despite Her Lovesick Emails!!!

SMH @ her sending him bikini pics and ish though! Colin Powell has had some ‘splaining to do after a hacker got hold of personal emails between him and a Romanian diplomat “friend” who confessed her love for him. Via NY Daily News reports : Colin Powell denied Thursday that he cheated on his wife of 50 years with a blond Romanian diplomat with whom he shared emails of “a very personal nature.” Powell, 76, was forced to clarify his relationship with Corina Cretu, 46, after a notorious hacker dubbed “Guccifer” posted a link to their emails on his Facebook page. “I’ve loved you too much, too many years. YOU were my greatest love of my life . . . ,” Cretu emailed Powell on Nov. 14, 2011. She also sent him numerous photos of herself, including shots of her in a bikini and in a hot tub. But her affection for the retired four-star general seems to have never been reciprocated. The emails from Powell to Cretu that have become public were chatty — until he learned his account had been hacked and advised her to delete their exchanges. Hers had a different tone. “I did not believe that at 43 I can cry more for a man like a teenager,” she emailed Powell on Christmas Eve 2010. Cretu still seemed enamored in 2011. “Nobody (is) saying to go to bed. I just want to see you, nothing more,” she wrote. TheSmokingGun.com reported Thursday that the hacker obtained the emails that were exchanged between 2010 and 2011 by raiding Powell’s personal AOL account. In response to the website’s questions, Powell issued a statement insisting he has not been unfaithful to his wife, Alma. “This was a friendship that electronically became very personal and then back to normal,” Powell told the website. He said he met Cretu about 10 years ago while he was President George W. Bush’s secretary of state and she was the spokeswoman for the president of Romania. He said they’ve only seen each other “once or twice” over the past eight years. Cretu, who was elected in 2007 to the European Parliament, serves as vice chairwoman of the Parliament’s Progressive Alliance of Socialists and Democrats. She also recently got married. After learning his AOL account had been hacked, Powell advised Cretu it was “best to delete all between us.” He said that after leaving the State Department in January 2005, he stayed in touch with Cretu via email and “frequently gave her advice on the prospects of finding a position with the UN or other international organizations.” “There was no affair then, and there is not one now,” said Powell, adding that they continue to be “friends.” The same hacker claimed responsibility in February for raiding email accounts belonging to members of the Bush family, revealing correspondence and a self-portrait of President George W. Bush in the shower. Sounds like despite the denial, there was some emotional cheating going on. Poor Alma — and we almost feel bad for the thirsty Romanian jawn cuz clearly Colin had her OPEN!!! SplashNews/SmokingGun

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Elsewhere In The World: Russian Hate Group Uses Social Media To Lure Gay Teens Only To Beat And Torture Them!

Looks like homophobia is running violently rampant in Mother Russia… Via NYPost reports : Neo-Nazis and ultranationalists are luring gay Russians teens to “dates” where they are then bullied and tortured while being recorded on video, according to reports. The mastermind behind the nationwide coordinated assaults is an infamous neo-Nazi named Maxim Martsinkevich who is the leader of an ultra-violent right-wing group based in Moscow called Format18. Martsinkevich’s newest campaign purports to stamp out pedophiles by posting same-sex personal ads on VK.com, the Russian equivalent of Facebook, according to the Huffington Post. Followers of Martsinkevich’s anti-pedophile campaign have organized themselves into two distinct groups — “Occupy Pedophilyaj” and “Occupy Gerontilyaj” — but they have only ever attacked male teenagers responding to the personal ads. “Video recordings of bullying and tortures are freely distributed on the Internet in order to out LGBT teens to their respective schools, parents and friends. Many victims were driven to suicides, the rest are deeply traumatized,” said Spectrum Human Rights Alliance (SHRA), an LGBT rights group that focuses on Eastern Europe. “These self-proclaimed ‘crime fighters’ perform their actions under the broad day light, often outside and clearly visible to general public that indifferently passes by or even commend them.” In one of the relatively tame examples of the attacks posted on YouTube, a 15-year-old teen is lured to a date with an older man supposedly named “Uncle Dima” when a group of alleged neo-Nazis confront him. The bullies start by taking the teen to a bench and interrogating him where the teen admits that he is there to have sex, possibly for money. The group mocks him but the teen seems to think he is safe, giving his interrogators his name, where is from, what school he goes to and his age. But things start to turn dark as a figure steps out of frame to seemingly fill a bottle with urine. Someone then pours the contents of the bottle over the teen’s head before another alleged Nazi kicks him. The video then cuts off. To watch the graphic video click here . “We do not like homosexuals,” an Occupy Pedophilyaj member told Russian online newspaper Lenta. “I think practically all gay men — pedophiles. Once you’ve crossed over once, you can cross over again. Today he likes boys, and then it’ll be children. They’re not suitable for life in society.” The actions of groups like Occupy Pedophiyaj and Occupy Gerontilyaj come in the wake of two laws signed into law by President Vladimir Putin, which drastically restrict gay rights. One, signed on July 3, bans adoption by same-sex foreign couples whose homeland recognizes their union as marriage, as well as by single people or unmarried couples from those countries. A Kremlin statement said the measure is intended to guarantee children a “harmonious” upbringing and protect them from “complexes, emotional suffering and stress.” The second bill, signed into law on June 30, bans the “promotion” of “non-traditional sexual relations” towards children. Authorities have interpreted the law to mean that public displays of affection between same sex couples are illegal and it also includes a provision allowing “pro-gay” foreigners to be arrested and detained for up to 14 days. This latter provision was invoked in July when four Dutch LGBT right advocates were arrested at a summer camp, according to the Washington Blade. Although the two bills strictly limit gay rights in Russia, Putin claims that the laws are not discrimination and are instead “about protecting children from such information.” Russian Foreign Minister Sergey Lavrov echoed Putin’s claims while defending the laws which ban what he calls “homosexual propaganda.” “We don’t have a single international or common European commitment to allow propaganda of homosexuality,” he said. This is horrible. Sounds like things are as bad or worse in Russia than even parts of Africa where there are pretty harsh laws against homosexuality. SMH. YouTube

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Random Ridiculousness: Train Operator In Spain Derailment Bragged On Facebook About Going Too Fast

This is a damn shame. Train Operator In Spain Derailment Bragged About Going Too Fast On Facebook According to The NY Post Not only was one of the operators of the Spanish train that fatally derailed Wednesday going way too fast, he also found time to brag about it on Facebook. Francisco Jose Garzon Amo posted photos of the train’s speedometer on the social networking site, according to Spain media outlet El Pais. Garzon is in custody at a hospital where he is recovering from minor injuries. The accident claimed the lives of at least 80 people. Garzon, 52, posted a photo of the speedometer reading 200 km/h (125 mph). He responded to a friend who commented on the picture: “If I went any faster, they’d fine me.” A screengrab was obtained by Gawker.com and then later removed from Garzon’s Facebook. “What fun it would be to drive side-by-side the police and then pass them by, triggering the speed radar,” Garzon added. “Haha, bit of a fine or [train operator] Renfe, ha ha!” Garzon, a 30-year veteran of Spain’s national rail network, radioed in right before the crash saying the train was going “190” km/h (120 mph). An Associated Press analysis of video images suggests the train may have been traveling at twice the speed limit, or more, along that curved stretch of track. Spain’s government said two probes have been launched into the train’s derailment Wednesday night on its approach to this Christian festival city in northwest Spain, where planned celebrations in honor of one of Jesus’ disciples gave way to a living nightmare. The regional government in Galicia confirmed that police planned to question Garzon, in Santiago de Compostela’s main hospital with unspecified injuries, as both a witness and as a possible suspect, but cautioned that possible faults in safety equipment were also being investigated. The Interior Ministry raised the death toll to 80 in what was Spain’s deadliest train wreck in four decades. The Galician government said 94 others remained hospitalized in six regional hospitals, 31 of them — including four children — in critical condition. The U.S. State Department said one American was killed in the crash and five others were injured. State Department spokeswoman Marie Harf said those numbers were “likely to change” and declined to elaborate. “Today the American people grieve with our Spanish friends, who are in our thoughts and prayers,” President Barack Obama said in a statement. If he would have spent less time on Facebook bragging, people would still be alive.

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Boyfriend – Justin Bieber (Acoustic Cover by Jude) Music Video

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Rae Dawn Chong Defends Oprah Slam: It Was a Compliment in Context!

Rae Dawn Chong has issued a bizarre statement explaining her slam of Oprah Winfrey earlier this week, claiming it was all a compliment in context. In what context calling someone a “biotch” and/or a “field n–ger” could be considered positive things, however, remains an open question for now. Rae Dawn Chong defended herself on Facebook, though her explanation was as confusing at best, and issued a video statement as well. Watch: Rae Dawn Chong Statement on Oprah Controversy “OMG I wake up to TMZ highlighting comments I made on a radio show out of context,” she wrote as part of her two-pronged statement to TMZ . “I swear I did not JUST say O was a field N and I was making a point about America during slave times … and I stand behind what I said but out of context it is bad.” Ya think? “In context, I was actually complimenting Oprah,” Chong insists. “Do I have issues with Oprah? Yes. Am I perfect? No. Do I take back everything I said? No.” “Am in pain that it’s caused pain to me, to her? Yes.” So she’s in pain that this became a thing, basically. Long story short: Chong does NOT apologize, although she regrets using the N-word to describe her former co-star in The Color Purple … maybe. According to Rae Dawn, O is so uggers that she wouldn’t have qualified as a “house n–ger” but rather would have been “field n–ger” back in the day. In her explanation, she claims what she meant is Winfrey rose about all obstacles to get where she is, and should be praised … or something. Throughout the confusing video, Rae never really elaborates on how “field n–ger” is a compliment … or how calling her a fat, brown-nosing kiss-ass. Are we missing something? Or is RDC out of her mind? Here’s the original radio interview excerpt that she says was “taken out of context” below: Rae Dawn Chong RIPS Oprah

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Dirty Dog Diaries: Wife Of Millionaire CEO Puts Alleged Cheating Husband And His Married Mistress On Blast – “Does Your Husband Know You Blow Your Boss?”

Daayyumm she went IN! Hell hath no fury… Wife Of ‘ChaCha’CEO Alleges Extramarital Affair On Twitter ChaCha search engine CEO Scott Jones may be a millionaire….but even he’s not exempt from getting put on full and ugly blast by his wife who has accused him of getting his sideline swerve on with one of his employees. via Gawker You’d think Scott Jones—the man who created ChaCha, a boutique search engine backed by Amazon CEO Jeff Bezos—is a wise man. Or at least not the sort who gets busted about his mistress online. But nobody ever said startup guys are smart, even if they’re in the answer business. Jones, whose past work includes Gracenote (now an integral part of iTunes) and early iterations of voice mail, has allegedly been carrying on with Renee Larr, a “Marketing and PR Assistant” at ChaCha. Or at least that’s what his wife, a pro poker player, is broadcasting to her over 50,000 Twitter followers: ..And this was just the tip of the super messy iceberg… Hit the flip to peep the rest of the rant from gangstaboo “VeeVee,” who describes herself as a Philly-born Asian woman, going ALL the way in on her husband and his alleged mistress by putting up a photo of the two of them together and even bringing the side-chick’s husband into the mix eventually causing her to delete her Twitter page.

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Groupie Love: First Class Flights, Courtside Seats And More Evidence Lamar Odom’s “Mistress” Couldn’t Get Much Closer To Khloe Kardashian’s Clippers Hubby [Photos]

They say what’s done in the dark will always come to light, but Lamar Odom’s alleged mistress didn’t hide much. If anything she seemed to be flaunting her relationship all over her social media… Take a look at all the dirt we dug up. She certainly has an “interesting” mentality. Courtside seats… First class flights… It gets deeper tho. Hit the flip for more

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Groupie Love: First Class Flights, Courtside Seats And More Evidence Lamar Odom’s “Mistress” Couldn’t Get Much Closer To Khloe Kardashian’s Clippers Hubby [Photos]