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‘Just Take Care Of Your Hair, And It Will Grow’ & The Myth Of Deep Conditioning Working For Everyone

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Source: Kevin Mazur / Getty On Sunday afternoon, Ms. Tina Lawson casually posted Beyoncé’s nearly waist length, thick natural ponytail on Instagram and blew up the Internet. What was a moment of pride for a typical, social media awkward Black mama, quickly shifted into a cultural debate over whether Bey’s tresses were really straight from the scalp. The incredulous camp came off as “haters,” doubting the ability of a Black woman to grow almost 14 inches of hair in just four years. On the other hand, the believers ushered in an even more problematic trope, that this amount of growth is possible if Black Women just simply “took care of their hair.” Both sides of the argument illuminate the genetic and socio-economic bias that still plagues our communities when we discuss natural hair. Source: ShadeRoom IG / Shaderoom IG Source: ShadeRoom IG / Shaderoom IG Source: ShadeRoom IG / Shaderoom IG Beyoncé famously chopped her hair back in 2013 into a short coif while filming the “Pretty Hurts” video from her self-titled album. At the time, Beyoncé’s hair stylist Neal Farinah said of the brave move, “We were showing all of the trials and tribulations women have to go through, and showing the pressure it puts on women to look a certain way, because the myths about how a woman should look, they’re crazy.” Sadly, the social media conversation surrounding Beyonce’s hair growth since her big chop would reinforce the pressure on Black women’s natural hair to “look a certain way.” Black women are privy to the texture wars that thwarted the natural hair movement since it resurfaced back in the early 2000s. 3C, wavy, long hair became the gold standard of naturalistas, and its preference was evident in both YouTube views and advertising. And for the women whose hair grew out of their scalp a little kinkier or tightly coiled, the banner message was to manipulate and twist your hair as much as possible into an “acceptable” look. Many 4cs, like myself, became exhausted with the product trials, heat abstinence, the endless tutorials and frankly, the lack of representation. And that deep sense of exhaustion wasn’t because we were lazy or just “didn’t find the right product.” It’s because we were literally working against our DNA. As #BeyonceHairGate believers took to social media to sound off on the scandal, the refrain was “if black women just take care of their hair, they would achieve this growth.” Which is completely false. That line of thinking echoes the pervasive stereotypes that diminish kinky-coifed naturals into unkept “bush babies.” Beyond a typical washing, moisturizing, conditioning and trim routine, there is nothing many Black women can do to force hair growth. The scarfing down of horse vitamin pills and the hours spent manipulating kinky hair into compliance does not necessarily yield longer hair. The 6 inches of growth a year we are scientifically entitled to don’t always net out because of genetic factors. Some women have genetically finer hair that is more prone to breakage, split ends and single strand knots. Some women may have thicker hair that grows out and not down. Some women have the thickest, largest Afro that appears thin once straightened. And without weekly trips to the hairdresser (which quickly add up and speak to the socio-economic disparity of hair care), a lot of women with breakage-prone hair opt for protective styling to protect their ends. So yes, some Black women can grow long hair. Others choose not to. Even more find their hair working against them in the quest for inches. And that’s okay. The shame associated with not having long hair always tilts back to personal responsibility, when there are so many variables outside of our control that contribute to hair growth. As we dismantle the hold that white supremacy has on the black community economically, politically and legally, it’s time we get their hands off our perceptions of our hair. We can celebrate Beyonce’s hair journey while acknowledging that she has a genetic predisposition to socially-acceptable natural hair. RELATED LINKS Long Hair Don’t Care! Mama Tina Debuts Beyonce’s Real Rapunzel Tresses The Lion Queen: Disney Confirms Beyonce’s Role In Live-Action ‘Lion King’ Beyonce’s Best Street Style Moments [ione_media_gallery src=”https://hellobeautiful.com” id=”2905400″ overlay=”true”]

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Ex-Wife Of Late NBA Player Lorenzen Wright Arrested For His Murder

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Source: The Sporting News / Getty The ex-wife of the late NBA player Lorenzen Wright was arrested and charged with his murder seven years after his death. Riverside County police reportedly arrested Sherra Wright on a fugitive from justice warrant on Friday night. According to ESPN , Wright’s decomposed body was found, with multiple gunshot wounds, in a Suburban on July 28, 2010, 10 days after the athlete went missing. The case remained one of Memphis’ most high-profile unsolved cases. Police recently found the murder weapon, near Walnut, Mississippi, which has been pivotal in the case. A man by the name of Billy R. Turner was arrested on December 5 and charged with first-degree murder. Sherra Wright and Turner allegedly conspired to murder Lorenzen, a release from the Shelby County District Attorney’s office reports. Turner and Wright first attempted to murder Lorenzen Wright between April and July 2010 and acted with an unnamed co-conspirator. Sherra reportedly received $1 million life from Lorenzen’s life insurance policy. Read the full report, here . RELATED STORIES: Husband Charged With Murdering His Wife After Facebook Post About Her Financial Success Two Suspects Arrested In The Murder Of Rapper Chinx Drugz  

Ex-Wife Of Late NBA Player Lorenzen Wright Arrested For His Murder

Game Over: Ray Allen’s Creepy Catfish Cinnamon Apple Drops Recalcitrant Restraining Order

Image via Johnny Louis/Getty Images Ray Allen’s Catfishy Accuser Randomly Drops Restraining Order Last month we reported on former NBA baller Ray Allen’s strange-but-true catfish story that involved a man who purported to be several women whom Ray was communicating with via social media. The perpetrator, Bryant Coleman, threatened to release the sexually explicit conversations and subsequently filed a restraining order against Allen with claims that the sharp-shooting baller vowed to do him harm. However, both parties reached an agreement that was intended to put the matter behind them. Today, TMZ has broken the news that Ray’s accuser has voluntarily dropped his restraining order without explanation. Says Allen’s lawyer, David Markus: “We are pleased Coleman voluntarily dismissed the injunction and false claims he made against Ray Allen.” “Ray has never met Coleman. Ray Allen has never spoken with Coleman. Ray has never threatened him or anyone. He wants nothing to do with him and is looking forward to putting this matter behind him.” This isn’t the first time that Ray has had a issue with cheating on his wife over social media and at this rate he’s going to go down in flames like Anthony Weiner if he doesn’t get his s#!t together.

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Begone Belcalis Bashers: Cardi B Claps At Faux Twitter Financial Advisers Mad At Her “Wilding” Wraith Purchase

Cardi B Claps Back At Folks Doubting She Could Afford Offset’s Birthday Wraith Cardi B buys Offset a car for his birthday and a bunch of broke boys (and girls) turned into twitter financial advisors. Cardi B, who just recently secured a million dollar deal with Steve Madden, actually took a moment to address her haters, using one woman as a hilarious example. Twitter user @EbtheCeleb tweeted: why is cardi b spending that much $ on anything… like she ain’t worth enough to be spending that much dough on something that depreciates in value why is cardi b spending that much $ on anything… like she ain’t worth enough to be spending that much dough on something that depreciates in value — Eb the Celeb (@EbtheCeleb) December 15, 2017 And Cardi B immediately clapped back: Baby you don’t know what i got .Dont let these Google searches get you f-cked up ,I work everyday ,I save and invest and i got a lot of deals on my table ,Myman deserves it ! I mean he did put half a mill on my finger what your Man doing for you ?? Baby you don’t know what i got .Dont let these Google searches get you fucked up ,I work everyday ,I save and invest and i got a lot of deals on my table ,Myman deserves it ! I mean he did put half a mill on my finger what your Man doing for you ?? https://t.co/OAJ9x3lLzc — iamcardib (@iamcardib) December 15, 2017 Whoooo! Cardi continued: In the month of December i only have 3 days OFF ,yesterday was my first day today I’m back to work on my hubby Bday.I work too hard that’s why i spend my money how i want too spend it and because financial adviser say i can. Don’t clock my pockets.   In the month of December i only have 3 days OFF ,yesterday was my first day today I’m back to work on my hubby Bday.I work too hard that’s why i spend my money how i want too spend it and because financial adviser say i can Dont clock my pockets. — iamcardib (@iamcardib) December 14, 2017 Cardi didn’t stop there to prove a point, she clapped at another hater on IG for doubting her financial stability. Cardi B clarified to a fan who was tryna play her that she didn’t lease Offset’s Rolls Royce Wraith… and she actually bought it cash. The car can cost upwards of $350,000. pic.twitter.com/uFk2UYf5uo — DJ Akademiks (@IamAkademiks) December 14, 2017 Of course, this topic caused a ton of opinions to be made about Belcalis’ financial future. Hit the flip for more.

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Teen Mom OG Reunion Recap: A Fiery Showdown

In the aftermath of a chilling, confusing and dramatic season finale, last night marked the first portion of MTV’s Teen Mom: OG reunion. You know the routine:  Once season concludes, the fab four sit down with Dr. Drew, and often their significant others, to rehash the events of recent months. Occasionally, there is an all-out melee. More commonly, the barbs exchanged are merely verbal, though that can be explosive enough. When the episode got underway, Dr. Drew called Maci to the stage to discuss Ryan Edwards appearing to drive while under the influence.  Maci was quick to point out that Bentley felt “concerned” and “confused” about Ryan’s addiction and what it could mean for the future.  Dr. Drew was genuinely shocked by the footage of Ryan falling asleep while driving.  “When I see someone nodding off in the car like that, I think opiates,” he said to Maci. As if it was not bad enough that the producers showed Ryan in this state, Dr. Drew leaped to their defense.  The producers would not have let Ryan in the car. … They found out only after the fact, just like the rest of us.” Something tells us they could have shut it down quicker. It was downright bizarre, but it did prove Maci’s suspicions.  Mackenzie was then brought on stage to have it out with Maci for everything she had been saying about Ryan’s addiction and treatment.  Mackenzie pointed out that things were looking good for Ryan’s recovery, and subsequently read out a letter she had written to Maci.  “You had known about his problems since November. … He could have died, and still, you said nothing.” She then accused Maci of “exploiting Ryan and his addiction on the show.” The producers love drama, and if Maci is helping bring it, it will make sense that she would exploit Ryan’s addiction to keep her storyline fresh.  Dr. Drew then asked the two women to make things right because, well, it’s not a food situation for either party to be in. Whether they will be able to do so, we don’t know.  When Maci’s turn was up, Amber took to the stage to open up about her Matt Baier woes. When the episode was filmed, they were still living in the same house, but their relationship was in doubt.  Dr. Drew then called up Matt to find out about the financial entanglements for them. If you watch Teen Mom OG online , you will recall that Amber accused her man of stealing money from her.  While Matt denied all the allegations, Amber responded, ” “Where’s $60,000 dollars? Where’s $30,000? … Where’s 90 grand?” Matt decided to make things worse, saying: “It’s sitting in my backpack.” Things seemed like they were ending on a happier note, with Amber saying “That’s the man I fell in love with.” But then Matt said they had a rough few months, and Amber went ham. “We’ve had a rough couple of [expletive] years. I have! And I’ve stood by your side! … You’ve gotta change.” What did you think of the first part of the reunion? Sound off below! View Slideshow: Teen Mom Couples: RANKED From Worst to First!

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Christin Milian Stll Trying to Be a Kardashian for America of the Day

Christina Milian, SFW Christina Milian really wants to be a Kardashian..she probably has a Kim K shrine set uop in her bedroom that she smears her period blood on every month, assuming she’s not too old to get her period, all in hopes that her bottom feeding one hit wonder, single mom with a black rich man, and pile of money…will take her where she needs to go….she grinds at thisshit all day, with a brand that she sells garbage and shameless bikini pics…because why the fuck not, this is America, sex sells, her career based on sex, her financial security based on sex, and social media based on sex, so be fucking sexy as you can despite being 100 fucking years old… Works for me, I always liked the old rich cougars at the bar better than the dumb young bitches with nothing to offer…but a tighter pussy… That’s all I have to say about that.. TO SEE THE REST OF THE PICS CLICK HERE The post Christin Milian Stll Trying to Be a Kardashian for America of the Day appeared first on DrunkenStepFather.com .

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Artist Adds Pissing Pug Statue Next to "Fearless Girl," Draws Internet Ire

The Fearless Girl statue is once again in the news. Because some easily-irritated guy has had a very immature response to it. No, this idiot didn’t hump the Fearless Girl, like some giant douchebags have done in the past . But he did take even more thought-out steps to humiliate her. First, some background: The “Fearless Girl” was placed opposite the sculpture of a bull (created by Arturo Di Modica and meant as a power symbol for the financial sector of Wall Street) in downtown New York City in March on International Women’s Day on a temporary permit. It was meant to represent women’s rights and equality and how females ought to play a vital role in the American economy. Under pressure from women’s groups, Mayor Bill De Blasio extended the permit for an additional 11 months. And neither of these acts sat well with artist Alex Gardega, who has chosen to retaliate with a work of his own. In the form of a urinating dog. Right at the food of the Fearless Girl. Seriously: Gardega created a statue of a small dog, titled “Pissing Pug,” and this lewd pooch is aiming his pee stream directly at “Fearless Girl.” At her left leg, to be exact. What inspired such an angry act? “This is corporate nonsense,” Gardega told The New York Post of “Fearless Girl,” explaining that it was placed across from the bull statue as a publicity stunt by a Boston-based financial firm and adding: “It has nothing to do with feminism, and it is disrespect to the artist that made the bull. That bull had integrity.” A resident of the Upper West Side, the sculptor didn’t beat around any bushes. He came right out and expounded on how he views “Fearless Girl,” telling the newspaper: “I decided to build this dog and make it crappy to downgrade the statue, exactly how the girl is a downgrade on the bull.” Gardega has never met Di Modica. He’s acting on his own controversial accord here. (It’s worth noting, however, that Di Modica is suing the aforementioned financial firm that sponsored “Fearless Girl,” arguing that it unfairly implicates his creation and changes the interpretation of his art.) Di Modica has not yet commented on the pissing pug. But many users on Twitter certainly have: “I have a lot of empathy for the creator of the bull, Arturo,” Gardega told NBC. “I’m a pretty happy person, not seething or angry and certainly not anti-feminist. My piece is not without a sense of humor. There is plenty of room for ‘Fearless Girl.’ “It just interferes with another artist’s work/vision.” Gardega has removed the dog statue (he never had any legal right to bolt it to the ground) and further explained his actions as follows: “I took it away personally. I didn’t want to leave it to be taken and certainly had no rights to bolt it to the ground. Most people were amused or perplexed by it.” We never thought we’d ask this question, but sound off below: Are you on Team Fearless Girl or Team Pissing Pug?

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Aaron Hernandez: Cleared of Murder Thanks to Being Dead!

The late NFL star and convicted killer Aaron Hernandez was granted an abatement on his conviction for the 2013 murder of Odin Lloyd. What does that mean? It means the former New England Patriots star, who took his own life last month in prison, is now considered not guilty in the eyes of the law. Bristol County (Mass.) Judge Susan Garsh, who presided over the original trial, ruled in favor of the star’s estate, citing a bizarre law. Massachusetts law states that if a defendant dies while a conviction is still in the process of appeal, then the previous verdict is vacated. Hernandez committed suicide late last month while serving a sentence of life without parole for the murder of Lloyd. He was just 27. “Abatement is the law in this Commonwealth and this court is required to follow that precedent,” Garsh said. “The Court has no other choice.” The state is expected to appeal the controversial decision, which will most likely wind up in the Massachusetts Supreme Judicial Court. In other words, the legal battle is just beginning. Hernandez’s attorney, John Thompson, argued that neither his client’s cause of death nor any assumed motives should apply to the law. He also noted there was no precedent in any other ruling on the issue that called for abatement not to be granted in a similar situation. “[The original Lloyd ruling] is not a final conviction,” Thompson said, even though a jury convicted Hernandez of murder. “And that’s what matters.” Prosecutor Patrick Bomberg argued otherwise. Bomberg argued that Hernandez chose to die, thus making a conscious decision to forfeit his appeal as a means of being cleared. This is supported by the suicide note to Shayanna Jenkins that basically says as much, and was never, he says, the intent of the law. According to a state police report, Hernandez even mentioned to an unnamed fellow inmate that he was aware of the abatement law. In one of his suicide notes, he allegedly wrote “YOURE RICH” to Jenkins (above), his fiancee and the father of his four-year-old daughter. “The defendant should not be able to accomplish in death what he could not accomplish in life,” Bomberg said of Hernandez’s efforts. At stake is not just Hernandez’s criminal record, which is a moot point now, but his potential monetary payouts from the NFL franchise. The Patriots may no longer be able to withhold money owed on his contract due to a conviction for murder, as they have been doing. “We are arguing there is a motive to [commit suicide],” Bomberg said, noting the financial benefits; Garsh summarily dismissed that point. “This court cannot know why Hernandez took his life,” Garsh said, citing other possible motives, including the athlete’s increased spirituality. She also noted that other inmates heard via a Boston radio show that Hernandez might be gay or bisexual and trying to hide that. Also complicating matters is that if the Hernandez estate does get paid, the family of Odin Lloyd still has a wrongful death civil suit pending. They, in turn, may be able to access any or all money the Hernandez estate gets, if it comes to that (the Patriots are expected to fight this). The families of Daniel de Abreu and Safiro Furtado, whom Hernandez was acquitted of murdering in 2012, may also be suing his estate. A civil suit requires a lower standard of proof than a conviction in criminal court (see O.J. Simpson’s $33 million judgment, for example). Hernandez estate is currently valued at $0.00. Lloyd’s mother and sister led a large group at the hearing of supporters for Lloyd, a former semi-pro football player and Boston landscaper. That group included Shaneah Jenkins, Lloyd’s former girlfriend and the sister of Shayanna Jenkins-Hernandez, who was not present. The Lloyd supporters wept at the ruling. After a lengthy trial, a Bristol County jury ruled in 2015 that Hernandez shot Lloyd six times in an industrial park less than a mile from his home. The Bristol, Conn., native won a national title at the University of Florida and played three seasons with the Patriots, appearing in one Super Bowl. View Slideshow: Aaron Hernandez Commits Suicide; The Internet Reacts

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Josh Duggar: Messing Up at Work as Financial Problems Worsen

Back in May of 2015, when it was revealed that Josh Duggar had molested five young girls (four of whom were his sisters), many hoped the outwardly wholesome hypocrite would be locked up. Unfortunately, Josh was saved by the same statute of limitation laws that have kept Bill Cosby a free man. But to paraphrase our favorite Duggar-exposing Facebook page, Josh’s life hasn’t been all pickles and hairspray these past two years. Recent reports indicate that Josh is depressed , frequently unkempt, and struggling desperately in his finances. Insiders claim that Josh has been forced to move back in with his parents, and that mother Michelle and sister Jana Duggar are basically raising his kids as he and wife Anna work to repair their battered marriage. And now, Josh has been forced to do something to do something that’s been virtually unheard of in the Duggar family for the past decade. That’s right – Josh had to get a real job. And we say “real job,” we don’t mean as a reality star, or a celebrity lobbyist, or any of the other BS titles Josh has held over the years. No, Josh is selling cars these days, and according to Radar Online he’s not doing well in his new profession . “He’s selling cars and he’s not doing very well with it,” an insider tells the site. “He and Anna are struggling financially big time.” Yes, it seems that despite his lobbying background, Josh isn’t much of a salesman. If we had to guess, we’d say it might have something to do with all those pesky Josh Duggar sex scandals . Anyway, sources say Josh is pretty much hanging on to his job by a thread these days following a colossal on-the-job error that led to local police getting involved. According to Radar, Josh let a “customer” take a Toyota MR2 for a test drive – and the guy never came back. “He lets this guy test drive one of his cars and forgot to take down the guy’s driver’s license,” says one insider. “The guy drove away with the car and never returned! He just stole it!” Pretty boneheaded move, but believe it or not – it gets worse. Police looked into the matter and found out that before stealing the car, the thief sold a handgun to an employee who woks under Josh. Not surprisingly, the gun was used in an aggravated assault earlier that day. The guy also showed up on the lot in a Dodge Ram that had been reported stolen, which means Josh handed the keys over to a dude who was basically draped in red flags. We’re guessing old Joshy is missing the cushy life of a reality star these days. Watch Counting On online to see if you can spot the scenes the sexual predator has been edited out of. View Slideshow: Josh Duggar Sex Scandal Timeline: How His Family’s Empire Crumbled

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Jim Bob and Michelle Duggar: Divorcing Due to Financial Issues?!

It’s been almost 18 months since news of the Josh Duggar sex scandals first went public, and the family of the disgraced former lobbyist is still feeling the fallout. All this week, rumors that Anna Duggar is planning to divorce Josh have been circulating on social media. Now, it seems another Duggar couple may be headed for Splitsville, and sources say the trouble in their marriage is also the result of Josh’s misdeeds: We’ve heard reports of Jim Bob and Michelle Duggar getting divorced before, but this time, there’s a new wrinkle to the rumors. According to In Touch , the Duggars took a major financial hit as a result of Josh’s scandals and sex crimes. The tabloid claims that the family’s deal for their second reality series – Counting On , now in its second season – has them getting paid a fraction of what they were receiving for 19 Kids and Counting . Worse, their other businesses have struggled as a result of the family’s badly damaged reputation, and there have been frequent rumors of Counting On being canceled due to declining ratings and advertisers cutting ties with the network. It seems major corporations don’t like being tied to families that admitted to sheltering a child molester. Who would have thought?! Sources say the main issue is that Michelle is aware that the family is close to losing everything, including their beloved “Duggar Compound.” Jim Bob, on the other hand, reportedly refuses to acknowledge his money troubles or do what it takes to pull his family back from the brink of poverty. Jim Bob is said to still be putting all his eggs in the Counting On basket, but if ratings don’t improve dramatically in the very near future, it seems those hopes will soon be shattered. Insiders claim he was hoping from a major boost from the Jinger Duggar-Jeremy Vuolo courtship , but the viewership spike never quite materialized. Jinger and Jeremy got married over the weekend, and the wedding was filmed for TLC, but it remains unclear if the family’s show will be picked up for a full third season. Currently, it seems TLC is planning a wedding-centric miniseries that will conclude with the nuptials. View Slideshow: The 11 Biggest Duggar Family Scandals of 2015 It would bring a decent-sized paycheck for the Duggars. But it would also bring an end to their dreams of reality stardom – and possibly to Jim Bob and Michelle’s marriage.

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