Thanks to the whole Woody Allen thing, I asked the public, my friends, fans and admirers….my internet Valentines and haters…who they would have wanted to be molested by when they were 7…because as someone who doesn’t remember if he was molested, doesn’t care if he was molested, and doesn’t like hearing the drama from people who have been molested, I am heartless when it comes to age old issues great minds have been diddling for generations..like it is the foundation of humanity or some shit…not that 7 year olds, even orphans no one cares about but that get adopted to feed some spoiled Lindsay Lohan of her Generations ego….. And more than one person said Pam Anderson…because I probably talk to a lot of 30 year olds…or even 40 year olds…cuz being 7 when Pam Anderson mattered would make you pretty fucking old…but not as old as Pam Anderson…someone dying of liver disease who cut off all her hair…because looking like a porn granny on her way to go knitting with a dick in her battered asshole…who you can almost take seriously..is her new look…unless of course she’s got cancer…and this is her cancer hair…in which case..I’m an asshole…but you already knew that… TO SEE THE REST OF THE PICS CLICK HERE
Just because you post pics of yourself doesn’t mean it’s not still illegal Teen Charged With Child Porn After Posting Unclothed Selfies To Twitter Via Wavy James City County Police say a teenager is facing child pornography charges after allegedly tweeting nude pictures of herself. According to Stephanie Williams-Ortery with the James City County Police Department, officers received an anonymous tip about nude pictures posted on Twitter by the 16-year-old girl. It is unclear how many pictures were involved, but police say they were posted either on or around Jan. 30. Williams-Ortery said photos were also sent to some boys. A school resource officer was notified, and spoke with the teen and her mother. “It’s not just friends that see what they post but also strangers and everyone else out there,” said Williams-Ortery. “You have no idea who’s out there watching. You never know who’s going to see what you post.” The teen’s phone was confiscated for evidence, and she was charged with one count of distribution of child pornography. Williams-Ortery said other teens should be aware that they stand to get in trouble for pictures of this nature too, even if they aren’t the one’s who took the photo. “I would hope that they would not then forward it on to their friends because then they become guilty also of distribution of child pornography, whether they know that or not,” Williams-Ortery said. How crazy to you look being labeled a sex offender for posting pics of yourself? SMH Image via WAVY
This just in: People apparently hate George Clooney. And Tom Hanks. And even Matt Damon. Indeed, some of the biggest stars on the planet were featured on the latest edition of Jimmy Kimmel Live’s Celebrities Read Mean Tweets. It’s a grand television tradition and it’s one the the explains thusly: “We like to shine a light on those who post cruel and horrible comments on Twitter. People can be vicious, and it hurts. To raise awareness and to maybe make people think twice before they post something awful, once again we’ve assembled a group of famous faces…” Are these hate-filled Internet users the same folks who posted racist Tweets in response to the controversial Super Bowl Coke commercial ? Probably. Watch the newest edition of this feature now and then check out a few past installments as well: Stars Read Mean Tweets About Themselves Open Slideshow 1. Celebrities Read Mean Tweets About Themselves Celebrities, such as George Clooney, read mean Tweets about themselves in this video, courtesy of Jimmy Kimmel Live. The footage is hilarious. View As List 1. Celebrities Read Mean Tweets About Themselves Celebrities, such as George Clooney, read mean Tweets about themselves in this video, courtesy of Jimmy Kimmel Live. The footage is hilarious. 2. Celebrities Read Mean Tweets, Volume 5 Celebrities read mean Tweets about themselves on Jimmy Kimmel Live. And it’s hilarious. 3. NBA Players Read Mean Tweets NBA stars read mean tweets about themselves in the latest edition of Jimmy Kimmel Live’s Mean Tweets series. 4. Celebrities Read Mean Tweets Celebrities reading mean Tweets about themselves on Jimmy Kimmel. Funny stuff! 5. Stars Read Mean Tweets This is a hilarious bit by Jimmy Kimmel and a number of celebrities, as Kristen Stewart and others read mean Tweets directed at them.
Courtland Rogers, Jenelle Evans’ husband and a hardcore drug fiend, has shared a video of himself getting high on the drug that killed Philip Seymour Hoffman . In the wake of Hoffman’s tragic demise, as well as the loss of beloved Glee star Cory Monteith just months ago, Radar and Rogers have jointly published this. In the sickening footage, ostensibly shared to show the impact of the narcotic, Rogers gazes into the camera, mixes the heroin in a small cap and fills a syringe. Rogers, who is still technically married to Jenelle Evans of Teen Mom 2, then flicks the syringe, slumps forward and injects it into his tattooed right arm. “I did relapse, see all my track marks,” he boasts to camera, then within seconds of shooting the heroin, Rogers slurs: “Now I am officially high as hell.” After kicking his habit in jail, Courtland Rogers says he is now clean and determined to help others avoid the dangerous drug by revealing his experiences. “Heroin gave me the most euphoric high,” he told Radar in an exclusive interview this week. “It was a feeling of finally being loved by something.” But that love quickly turned sour. He said, “It got to the point where I had to have it, where I’d do anything in the world to feel that high and not get sick.” “In the past six months, I have lost four friends to heroin,” Rogers revealed. “That is four families without their loved ones, one being my own cousin.” “It overpowers you and takes you away from everything! It kills.” “After a while, you do it just to not get sick. You don’t even get high, it’s just not to get sick. It is insane! You disappear from reality and forget about everything except [heroin].” But now, he says he has a new perspective on the world. “My life without it in it makes complete sense. I don’t have to do it to stay alive now and I can actually live my life to the fullest without any drugs.” Here’s hoping people learn from this cautionary tale. 21 Shocking Celebrity Deaths Open Slideshow 1. Philip Seymour Hoffman Philip Seymour Hoffman passed away at the age of 46. He was found with a needle in his arm and had a history of drug abuse. View As List 1. Philip Seymour Hoffman Philip Seymour Hoffman passed away at the age of 46. He was found with a needle in his arm and had a history of drug abuse. 2. Cory Monteith Cory Monteith was 27 years old when he passed away. He overdosed on drugs during a night of partying in Vancouver. 3. Heath Ledger Heath Ledger left us with one final, amazing performance. He earned an Oscar for his work as The Joker. 4. Paul Walker Paul Walker died in a car accident on November 30, 2013. He left behind a daughter and a burgeoning film career. 5. Gia Allemand Gia Allemand was only 29 when she died. The former Bachelor contestant took her own life. 6. James Gandolfini James Gandolfini will always be remembered as Tony Soprano. He died of a heart attack at the age of 51. 7. Amy Winehouse Amy Winehouse lived a hard life. She died of a drug overdose on July 23, 2011. 8. Gary Coleman Rest in peace, Gary Coleman. The sitcom star left this world at the age from an intercranial hemorrhage. 9. Corey Haim We lost Corey Haim to a reported drug overdose in March 2010. He is remembered for a number of roles, such as Lost Boys. 10. Brittany Murphy Brittany Murphy poses here at the 2009 Video Music Awards. She passed away at the age of 32. 11. Michael Jackson Celebrity death don’t hit the world harder than that of Michael Jackson. He was 50 years old when he passed away. 12. Tupac Shakur Tupac Shakur poses here with his mother. The rapper was gunned down at the age of 25. 13. Aaliyah The music world lost Aaliyah in 2001. She died in a plane crash. 14. Tim Russert Tim Russert was as respected as it gets in the world of journalism. He died in 2008. 15. Lisa “Left Eye” Lopes Lisa “Left Eye” Lopes was a key part of TLC. She was killed in a car accident. 16. Whitney Houston Whitney Houston passed away the night before the Grammys. She overdosed in a hotel bathtub. 17. Princess Diana Princess Diana was taken from us in 1997. The iconic figure died in a car crash. 18. Kurt Cobain Rest in peace, Kurt Cobain. The rocker committed suicide in 1997. 19. Anna Nicole Smith Anna Nicole Smith died at the young age of 39. She lived a very troubled life. 20. Biggie Smalls Biggie Smalls got caught up in the East Coast/West Coast rap war. He was killed in 1997. 21. Natasha Richardson Natasha Richardson was married to Liam Neeson at the time of her death. She passed away from a skiing accident.
With Justin Bieber lashing out and claiming Selena Gomez is a drunk who went to rehab to deal with her own damn issues, the L.A. County Sheriff’s Department now has something to say to the singer: YOU’RE A FELON! TMZ reports that the Justin Bieber egging case has officially been sent over to the Los Angeles County District Attorney and the police are recommending he be charged with a felony. Justin Bieber: Felony Charges to Come? As previously reported, Bieber is accused of causing over $20,000 worth in damage to his neighbor’s home in Calabasas last month after he hurled a number eggs in his enemy’s direction. The cops subsequently executed a search warrant of Bieber’s property, hoping to find some kind of evidence that would link him to the crime. They failed to find anything new inside his home, although they did arrest Lil Za there for drug possession. Still, authorities apparently believe there is enough to drop the hammer of justice down on the rule-breaking singer. “I went to the D.A.’s Office today with the paperwork, and I want a felony,” Lt. Dave Thompson tells TMZ , emphasizing: “Of course I want a felony.” 21 Biggest Justin Bieber Scandals Open Slideshow 1. Justin Bieber: Baby Daddy? In November 2011, Mariah Yeater accused Justin of fathering her child via a one-night quickie. The accusation eventually went away. View As List 1. Justin Bieber: Baby Daddy? In November 2011, Mariah Yeater accused Justin of fathering her child via a one-night quickie. The accusation eventually went away. 2. Justin Bieber Curses Off Fans He must have been having a bad day. In February 2012, Justin Bieber went off on some fans at Disneyland. 3. Justin Bieber Holds Fake Gun Yes, the gun was fake. But the controvery for Justin Bieber was very real in September 2012. 4. Justin Bieber Smokes Pot The first sign of trouble. Justin Bieber was photographed with a joint in his hand in January 2013. 5. Justin Bieber Accused of Bodyguard Assault Also in very early 2013, Justin Bieber was accused of assaulting a bodyguard who he eventually fired. 6. Justin Bieber Spits at Neighbor In March 2013, Justin Bieber got into it with his neighbor. A witness says the singer spit in the man’s face. 7. Justin Bieber Flips Out in London The video here says it all. In March 2013, Justin Bieber totally went off on a photographer in London. 8. Justin Bieber Makes Anne Frank Into a Belieber This was an odd on. In April 2013, Justin Bieber said he hopes Anne Frank would be a fan of his, somehow inserting himself into the history of this iconic individual. 9. Justin Bieber: Speed Freak! In May 2013, Keyshawn Johnson alllegedly confronted Bieber. He went off on the singer for driving too fast. 10. Justin Bieber: Cheap Skate! In June 2013, Justin Bieber was banned from a laser tag facility because he didn’t pay the bill in full. 11. Justin Bieber Pees in Mop Bucket Yes, this actually happened. A drunk Justin Bieber peed in a public mop bucket. 12. Justin Bieber Spits at DJ What’s up with Justin Bieber and spitting? He’s accused in July 2013 of this gross act when arguing with a DJ in Chicago. 13. Justin Bieber Gets Bloody in The Hamptons While partying in August 2013, Justin Bieber is accused of orchestrating a bloody parking lot brawl outside a nightclub. 14. Justin Bieber Drinks, Clubs in Texas Justin Bieber is not 21 years old. Hence the uproar over a night out in Texas in October 2013. 15. Justin Bieber Bangs at a Brothel In Novmber 2013, Justin Bieber was spotted leaving a brothel in Brazil. Draw your own conclusion! 16. Justin Bieber Steals Bike in Las Vegas Why did Justin Bieber steal a bicycle in Las Vegas? We wish we know. 17. Justin Bieber: Filmed in Bed! Justin Bieber clearly slept with some woman in Brazil. She even videotaped the singer while he slept! 18. Justin Bieber Eggs Neighbor’s Hom Justin Bieber kicked off 2014 by egging his neighbor’s home. Allegedly, that is, despite clear video proof. 19. Justin Bieber Urinates in Snow In January 2014, Justin Bieber peed his initials into the Colorado snow while onlookers stared in disbelief. Seems about right for the guy at this point. 20. Justin Bieber Arrested For DUI Justin Bieber, seen here in his mug shot after being arrested for DUI and drag racing in Miami, keeps on spiraling downward here in early 2014. 21. Justin Bieber Accused of Assault in Canada Following his DUI arrested, Justin Bieber was charged with criminal assault for allegedly beating up a limo driver in Toronto. The District Attorney will take about a week to decide what to do with the case: file no charges, file misdemeanor charges of file felony charges. In the meantime, of course, Bieber is due in court next month to face his DUI charges and still has to answer for an alleged assault in Toronto in late 2013. Not that Justin seems very concerned about any of it. He’s too busy bragging about how he took Selena Gomez’s virginity .
Justin Bieber is reportedly far from pleased that he’s being blamed for Selena Gomez’s rehab stint, saying his former flame is a party girl through and through. The addiction problems that resulted in Gomez checking into rehab are hers and hers alone, says Bieber, regardless of what he and his friends do for fun. TMZ, citing “sources with daily Bieber contact” (Lil Za?) says the star and his posse are laughing at the “bad influence” claims reported in the press. That’s because Selena, they say, is always the drunk girl at the party. Bieber acknowledges he gets trashed, too. There’s no dispute there, nor could there possibly be, given the stories, photos and videos we’ve all seen. What he does dispute is the idea that he corrupted her, seeing she was known to smoke just as much weed as the guys and sometimes outdo them. Justin’s camp say Gomez was/is very into drinking alcohol as well. So what’s with the story that she went to rehab because of him? Selena Gomez Bailed on Rehab: Why? Justin apparently feels Selena’s parents are behind that narrative … because they despise him. In his eyes, he’s a convenient scapegoat for them. As we previously reported, Bieber’s camp warned him to stay away from her, believing she is the bad influence here, despite her good girl reputation. The Biebs’ brushes with the law are well-documented, and his handlers think she indirectly fuels that, as he tends to act out when he’s hung up on her. As you can see, the finger-pointing appears to be reciprocal. For his part, Justin’s happy she’s out of the picture because she’s just too high maintenance and out of control – a far cry from what Gomez’s people say. Whatever and whomever is to blame for their issues, it’s a far cry from the good ol’ days when Justin took Selena’s virginity and all was right with the world … Justin Bieber and Selena Gomez Pictures: Young, Star-Crossed Love Open Slideshow 1. Justin Bieber With Selena Gomez Photo Justin Bieber loves him some Selena Gomez. Just see these pics from happier times and you’ll know it. View As List 1. Justin Bieber With Selena Gomez Photo Justin Bieber loves him some Selena Gomez. Just see these pics from happier times and you’ll know it. 2. Justin Bieber Loves Selena Gomez Justin Bieber loves Selena Gomez. Just see these pics from happier times and you’ll know it. 3. Selena Gomez, Justin Bieber Photo Selena Gomez and Justin Bieber during one of their many stints as a couple. Or at least a couple of hot stars who hooked up. 4. Justin Bieber, Selena Gomez Instagram Photo Justin Bieber and Selena Gomez are back together again. Check out this Instagram pic and see for yourself. 5. Justin Bieber Shirtess With Selena Gomez Justin Bieber is shirtless with Selena Gomez in a hot new Instagram photo. 6. Justin Bieber, Selena Gomez Instagram Justin Bieber and Selena Gomez in an Instagram pic that briefly made the online rounds before he took it down. 7. Justin and Selena in the Water Remember the good times between Justin Bieber and Selena Gomez? They cozy up big time in this photograph. 8. Jelena Makes Out! Selena Gomez gets her bikini on here. And her makeout session with Justin Bieber. 9. Selena Gomez and Justin Bieber on Vacation Selena Gomez and Justin Bieber share a romantic moment here while on vacation. We really hope these two make it! 10. Selena Gomez and Justin Bieber Together Selena Gomez and Justin Bieber arrived at the Vanity Fair Oscars party in this photo. They look cute together, don’t they? 11. Selena and Justin Hug Is everything as happy-go-lucky as it seems here between Justin Bieber and Selena Gomez? Rumors sprung up in the summer of 2012 that placed this relationship on the rocks. 12. Justin with Selena Selena Gomez has a great reason for smiling large in this photo. She’s staring right at Justin Bieber! 13. Justin Bieber and Selena Gomez Photograph Justin Bieber looks quite smitten with Selena Gomez in this Twitter photo, doesn’t he? The couple is celebrating Justin’s 18th birthday in Hollywood. 14. Justin Bieber and Selena Gomez on Oscar Night Justin Bieber and Selena Gomez were fortunate to each have a very cute date on Oscar night 2011: one another! 15. Jelena Smooch Justin Bieber lays a kiss on Selena Gomez in this cute photo. The former has said he’d like to be a young father. 16. Jelena Date Pic Justin Bieber loves a good smoothies. The singer and girlfriend Selena Gomez are seen here on a date. 17. Justin and Selena as One Justin and Selena as One. That’s the name of this ridiculous statue, which was created by some idiot named Daniel Edwards. 18. Selena and Justin Photo Justin Bieber and Selena Gomez appear on stage together here. But the real news is what goes on between these two off stage! 19. Cleavage Ogling Like what you see, Justin Bieber? The singer ogles girlfriend Selena Gomez in this shot from the MuchMusic Video Awards. 20. Lovey Dovey Couple Selena Gomez looks over at Justin Bieber in this photo. It’s easy to imagine what she is thinking, isn’t it? 21. Jelena Kiss They made it clear at the 2011 Billboard Music Awards: Justin Bieber and Selena Gomez are very much an item. 22. A Justin Bieber Foot Rub Justin Bieber gives Selena Gomez a foot rub in this Twit pic. We’re really sorry, gals. You might wanna turn away. 23. Justin Bieber and Selena Gomez at Dinner Justin Bieber and Selena Gomez went out to dinner for the former’s 17th birthday. They wanted to be left alone by photographers. 24. Justin and Selena Justin Bieber gives a sexy nod to his girlfriend in this photo. Yup, he and Selena Gomez are very much an item. 25. Taylor Swift: Grossed Out By Jelena Kiss Watch Taylor Swift react to Justin Bieber and Selena Gomez pecking each other on the cheek in this gif. It’s rather classic. 26. Adorable Hand Holders It doesn’t get much more clear than this: Justin Bieber and Selena Gomez are holding hands! 27. Precious Twosome Are they or aren’t they? That’s the question fans are debating, as they watch Justin Bieber hang out often with Selena Gomez. 28. Near Hand Holding! Their hands are almost touching! Check out Justin Bieber and Selena Gomez going for a walk in Miami together. 29. Selena Gomez and Justin Bieber Photo Selena Gomez and Justin Bieber at the 2011 American Music Awards held at the Nokia Theatre in L.A.
Parents Furious Over Freaky Party Hosted At Kids’ Play Center via CBS New York An adult pajama party hosted after hours inside a children’s entertainment facility had parents on Long Island furious Tuesday night. Krazy Kidz, at 3235 Horseblock Road in Medford, has been under fire ever since it hosted an event this past Saturday night promoted via Meetup.com, and titled, “Jungle Gym & Pajama All-Night Dance Party: For Grown Ups Who Won’t Grow Up,” CBS 2’s Jennifer McLogan reported, “That’s not how you generate extra money. It’s a kids’ place,” Samantha Gray said. “And they have an adult nude sleepover?” Gray was supposed to drop off students for an after-school function at the popular children’s party center, but she found it had been abruptly closed for a “thorough sanitizing,” as stated by the owners of Krazy Kidz. Krazy Kidz has been in the public crosshairs since local parents got wind of fliers and invitations distributed by the private group that rented the facility out for the adult party, which included body painting, Jello wrestling, pillow fights and a Twister contest. “THIS IS JUST GOOD CLEAN WHOLESOME FUN. There will be no orgy, smut, strippers, or sexually lewd content …… however… there will be tasteful nudity.. feety pajamas…and probably little nighties,” the invitation said. But parents who take their children to the facility did not believe the adult party amounted to “good, clean, wholesome fun.” “Most of my friends and everybody who’s talking about it will refuse to go there now,” said parent Elissa Trusnovec of Yaphank. The invitation said there would be “ABSOLUTELY NO CAMERAS ALLOWED,” although some semi-professional photographers and a photo booth would be set up. But what appeared to be candid shots ended up on social media anyway. Partygoers posted photos showing what appeared to be naked revelers enjoying themselves on the equipment and floors at the children’s entertainment center. Shutterstock
Parents Furious Over Freaky Party Hosted At Kids’ Play Center via CBS New York An adult pajama party hosted after hours inside a children’s entertainment facility had parents on Long Island furious Tuesday night. Krazy Kidz, at 3235 Horseblock Road in Medford, has been under fire ever since it hosted an event this past Saturday night promoted via Meetup.com, and titled, “Jungle Gym & Pajama All-Night Dance Party: For Grown Ups Who Won’t Grow Up,” CBS 2’s Jennifer McLogan reported, “That’s not how you generate extra money. It’s a kids’ place,” Samantha Gray said. “And they have an adult nude sleepover?” Gray was supposed to drop off students for an after-school function at the popular children’s party center, but she found it had been abruptly closed for a “thorough sanitizing,” as stated by the owners of Krazy Kidz. Krazy Kidz has been in the public crosshairs since local parents got wind of fliers and invitations distributed by the private group that rented the facility out for the adult party, which included body painting, Jello wrestling, pillow fights and a Twister contest. “THIS IS JUST GOOD CLEAN WHOLESOME FUN. There will be no orgy, smut, strippers, or sexually lewd content …… however… there will be tasteful nudity.. feety pajamas…and probably little nighties,” the invitation said. But parents who take their children to the facility did not believe the adult party amounted to “good, clean, wholesome fun.” “Most of my friends and everybody who’s talking about it will refuse to go there now,” said parent Elissa Trusnovec of Yaphank. The invitation said there would be “ABSOLUTELY NO CAMERAS ALLOWED,” although some semi-professional photographers and a photo booth would be set up. But what appeared to be candid shots ended up on social media anyway. Partygoers posted photos showing what appeared to be naked revelers enjoying themselves on the equipment and floors at the children’s entertainment center. Shutterstock
Dear Bossip , We met through my cousin about a year ago. We clicked immediately, and the chemistry was over whelming. I was single and he said he didn’t have a girlfriend. So, we dated for about a month and everything was perfect. Then, one Sunday, a chick shows up at his house — THE GIRLFRIEND. He apologized for lying to me. He said he lied because he was no longer in love with her, and he just didn’t know how to break up with her. But, he broke up with her that evening. So, things got back on track. We got very close, and we were in a relationship. I was introduced to his friends and vice-versa he met mine. Eight Months down the line he tells me he can’t take it to the next level because his not ready to be a step dad. I have a child and he doesn’t. He said he can’t take the relationship to the next level because his parents will disapprove and he wants to settle down, but he’s not sure if his ready to settle down with someone with a kid. I was hurt because he waited 8 months to tell me this. We broke it off. A week later we got back together. I don’t know why I did that but I did. I loved him too much. We continued dating, even though he still showed no interest in getting to know my little one. I hung on hoping our love was strong enough to overcome this, and that he would come around, which he didn’t. He gave me so much love and attention, but, he just was not showing any interest in getting to know my daughter. I was hopeful because I didn’t want another failed relationship so I hung on. Then, one day he asked me to check something on his Facebook page. I went to his inbox, and then BOOM! He is seeing someone else who is childless. I confronted him about this. He didn’t deny it. He admitted that he’d been seeing her and she asked him out and he fell for it. And, yes he was falling for her. She is educated and young and childless. So, I said what’s going to happen to us? He said he loves me and he’s not about to let me go, and he wants to settle down and he’s trying her out. So, I told him I will not share him. I broke it off. We share mutual friends and we were both invited to a Braai. He came with her. I was heartbroken nonetheless. I couldn’t show him I was hurting. I carried on having a great time and he texted me during the Braai while he was with her telling me how great I looked. I texted back and said, “Thanks, she looks great too.” He asked if we could talk outside and I went to talk to him. He told me that he loved me still and he can’t seem to forget about me. He said he can’t stop thinking about me, and we kissed. We left together and he left her there. We had sex, and months later I learned I was pregnant. He said we couldn’t keep it. I agreed. I aborted the child. He was very supportive, took me to counseling, and spent all this time with me to make sure I got back on my feet. He suggested I enroll part-time in school so I can get my degree as I’m working a fairly good job. I just don’t have any form of education. He’s paying for it. But, he is still with her. He says he loves me and wants me in his life, but he just can’t marry someone with a child. Do I walk away or stick around? He’s 28-years old, and I’m hoping that maybe in time he will embrace the situation because we keep breaking up, but we end up getting back together somehow. We are like best friends. He even says that he’s never had a relationship where he felt so close with someone on that level where he can talk about absolute anything. We are into the same things, and we perfect together. – He Won’t Accept My Child Dear Ms. He Won’t Accept My Child , Sigh! Rejection is a bish! Honestly, there is nothing I will tell you, say to you, or recommend in which you will listen or take heed because you are too wrapped up into him. You are strung out, and unfortunately there is no rehab or treatment to help you from, “penisamilization.” See, being addicted to penisamilization will make you lose all your thinking and mental faculties, and you will make irrational judgments and decisions. You are unable to decipher between right and wrong, or good and evil. You neglect your loved ones, and will put yourself in harm’s way, (including having unprotected sex, aborting a child he doesn’t want, and neglecting your own child), despite the alarming red signals, signs, and treatment from the man behind penisamilization. You are willing to continue pursuing a relationship with a man who has told you repeatedly that he is not interested in being with someone who has a child. He has made no effort in getting to know your child, refuses to meet her, and he was so adamant about it that he went out and found another woman who was childless and began dating her. He didn’t tell you about her, however, he instructed you to his Facebook page to make the big reveal. WOW! WOW! WOW! But, let’s look at this man’s pattern with you. One month into dating him, he lied about being in a relationship, and it wasn’t until his girlfriend popped up at his house that you learned about her. Yet, you continued to sleep with him, hoping for a relationship with him. SMDH! Months later, he tells you that he can’t take your relationship to the next level because he doesn’t want to be with someone who has a child. He didn’t tell you this upfront, but waited months later to tell you this. Therefore, he manipulated you, lied to you, and led you to believe that you were moving toward a serious relationship when in actuality he was simply using you. As he was when you first started dating. Yet, you continued dating him, hanging on, hoping he would change his mind. SMDH! Then, he tells you to check his Facebook page where he announces that he is in another relationship with another woman, and she is childless, but, he loves you and is trying her out to see where it goes. Trying her out? Trying her out! This man had the gall and nerve to say that he loves you, wants to be with you, yet, he is trying out another woman? Girl, I can’t with you! This man is never honest and upfront with you. He lies about everything. He plays you, and makes you look like a fool. He knows you lack self-esteem because you keep taking him back, and remain hopeful of something he’s told you time and time again: He doesn’t want a relationship with you, and will not take it to the next level with you because he doesn’t want a woman with a child. Yet, you stick around, continuing to open your legs, and let him run up in you raw. Penisamilization is a helluva addiction. Yet, it gets better. You meet up at a gathering, and he shows up with her, but he leaves with you and he leaves her there? If he will come to an event with another woman, yet, leave with you, then this is indicative of his behavior in how he treats women. He uses women for his own disposal, plays with your emotions and feelings (refer back to his girlfriend he had while dating you, and now he is dating another woman and didn’t tell you upfront, nor did he tell her about you). Yet, you make yourself accessible to him because you want to prove how loyal you are. Honestly, you left with him and felt happy because for once he chose you, instead of rejecting you. And, this validated you, and made you feel good about yourself. Unfortunately, you felt you were getting over on the other woman because he left with you. He chose you. SMDH! Weak-minded, delusional and insecure women like you are easily manipulated and men will continue to take advantage of you. Then, you have sex with him, and months later discover you’re pregnant. He tells you to abort the baby, and you do because you agree with him? How can you awake each day and look at yourself and think you are remotely intelligent, smart, or have any type of common sense, and call yourself a woman and mother? Penisamilization is real people. It will have you doing ignorant, dumb, stupid –ish like this woman all in the efforts of attempting and hoping to keep a man. His game is so tight and pimped out, that he has led you to believe the lie you tell yourself every day you awake that one day he will come to his senses and accept your child, and that you will live happily ever after. IT WON’T HAPPEN. IT’S NOT GOING TO HAPPEN. You are, and forever will be a side piece. His side chick. You are reserved p***y. You are his backup plan, his dumb down, basic chick who will never ever be the main chick. Do you realize that every woman he meets who is childless, has a career, and educated is his come up from you? They are constant reminders that he can do better than you. And, he will always throw it up in your face and remind you of the fact that you have a child. And, every time he introduces you to the new women in his life, he will point out that you have a child, you are uneducated, you have a basic job, and your life is basic. He’s already told you that his parents will disapprove of him having a relationship with a woman with a child. And, though he wants to settle down, he’s told you that he doesn’t want to settle down with you. Therefore, what are you hoping and waiting around for? What exactly do you think will happen or change his mind about this fact? The man made you abort a child because he knew it would trap him and you will forever be tied to him. He doesn’t love you. He despises you. He despises your child. Ma’am, he doesn’t want to meet your child, and refuses to meet your child (Rejection). And, you continue to choose this man over your child. Every time you lay with him, having unprotected sex knowing he is sleeping with other women, and he has a full-on relationship with another woman, yet, he won’t leave her and told you that he is not leaving her, however, he won’t settle down with you because you have a child, and that is something he doesn’t want (Rejection). Do you realize that every time he rejects you and your daughter, and you keep hoping, wishing, praying, and desiring for him to choose you, however, you are choosing him over your own child? You are neglecting the well-being of your own child for your own selfish desires, wants, and needs. Regardless of having a man in your life who will love you and your child, embrace your child, and desire to be with you and love your child equally, you are running after a man who neglects your child, which ultimately is a rejection of you because she is a part of you. Therefore, I have nothing to tell you, or say to you because a woman who will allow a man to reject her child, a part of her, and will continue to pursue him despite the constant rejection, then, you are not a woman at all. – Terrance Dean Hey Bossip Fam, what do you think? Share your opinions and thoughts below! Also, e-mail all your questions Terrance Dean : loveandrelationships@bossip.com Follow Terrance Dean on Twitter : @terrancedean “LIKE” Terrance Dean on Facebook , click HERE! 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