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Homophobia may have claimed another life | A tragedy close to home » USU SHAFT

Utah leads the nation in male youth suicides, and there was a tragic reminder of that fact yesterday. On July 19th, Todd Ransom, a young gay man from Salt Lake City, committed suicide. It is unclear why exactly Todd took his life, but his friends report that he faced disapproval from his family and struggled to reconcile his sexual orientation with his Mormon upbringing. I never knew Todd, despite sharing several mutual friends with him. But his death has greatly saddened me and countless others. There will be candle-light vigil held in memory of Todd tonight at 9:00 PM outside the state capitol building. In response to this and other recent gay Mormon suicides, my friend Isaac shared his own personal struggle as a gay Mormon on Facebook. With his permission, I’m posting the full note here. When I was a little boy, my beautiful mother would take me in her arms and together we would sing the words of the LDS primary song: I am a Child of God And he has sent me here Has given me an earthly home With parents kind and dear. There was no qualifier of “unless I grow up to be gay.” And yet nearly twenty years later things seemed to come full circle as I sat sobbing on the bathroom floor of a dirty missionary apartment where, after taking a knife from my hands and calling for help, my mission companion took me in his arms and began singing in a soft trembling voice “I am a Child of God”. I had struggled since childhood to combat what I felt was my true nature in favor of what my church taught was the plan of God. Weary, beaten, and worn I couldn’t fight anymore. I was lucky. I failed. But sadly there are those we love who do not fail. Tearfully we learn of and mourn those who we cannot judge for being weary of the fight and succumbing to the constant barrage of lashes coming from Utah’s predominant religion and dominant political party; their invariable actions declaring that we are not worthy of the same treatment as everyone else—that we are less than. When will we learn that this is not a game? The harsh rhetoric is not something to be used to score political points or to climb the rungs on the ladder of piety. When the stripping of legal status and protections from gay relationships is celebrated like a Super Bowl victory, what does the gay person feel? When a state senator tells gay adolescents they shouldn’t come together to talk about their struggles in accepting their sexuality, what message does that send? When a bishop stands at the pulpit and preaches that loving committed gay relationships will destroy their family and asks for time and money to ‘defeat’ them, what unimaginable fear shakes the soul of the gay child in the pews? We MUST normalize gay relationships. Every day that passes where being gay is viewed as undesirable and gay relations viewed as abnormal, is one more day that pushes our loved ones one step closer to the edge—to the point of no return. I’ve said it before and I reaffirm it now: This is a fight for life! As an LDS missionary I was taught that my purpose was to “Invite others to come unto Christ.” The LDS Church has admittedly done much good and provided legitimate hope and peace to many, but my dear Latter-Day Saints, your actions as members and the actions of your church organization when it comes to your LGBT children, brothers, sisters, and friends has done anything but invite me to come unto Christ. Gandhi put it beautifully: “I like your Christ; I do not like your Christians. Your Christians are so unlike your Christ.” Your message on LGBT related issues is a message of intolerance, of hatred (both external and internal self loathing), torment, and of death. And regrettably, too many children of God are hearing that message loud and clear. added by: toyotabedzrock

Lindsay Lohan’s Father, Friends Protest Jail Time On ‘Larry King Live’

‘I don’t think jail is going to change her; I think she needs to change herself,’ one pal says. By Terri Schwartz Lindsay Lohan was checked into jail Tuesday (July 20) for the second time in her 24 years, but though her sentence is likely to be shortened from 90 days to 14 , there are many close to her who are arguing that time behind bars is not what she needs right now. Her father, Michael Lohan, and his attorney Lisa Bloom, as well as Lindsay’s photographer friends Indrani Pal-Chaudhuri and Marcus Klinko, went on CNN’s “Larry King Live” Tuesday night to argue their case, marking Michael’s second time on the show to talk about his daughter’s probation violation. As far as the shortened sentence, Bloom said the move was due to overcrowding in Los Angeles prisons, not because of special treatment for Lohan. She said 50,000 people were relieved of their sentences early in L.A. prisons due to overcrowding, and she felt that the young celebrity was actually worse off than other inmates because she would be left alone for 23 hours a day. An attorney could have filed an appeal on Lohan’s behalf to move for her to be forced to attend rehab before her jail time instead of after, Bloom said, a move that she and Lohan’s father both supported. Since Lohan is estranged from her father , Bloom had been reaching out on Michael’s behalf to encourage her to attend her court-ordered rehab, but Lohan ignored it. “This is Michael Lohan’s life: fighting for his daughter,” Bloom said of his devotion to supporting Lindsay. “The Insider” correspondent Chris Jacobs described the situation Lohan would be facing in jail, saying she would be well-fed, with a dinner tonight of turkey, pasta, applesauce and milk, but she will be without cigarettes, makeup and accessories and access to the Internet. Bloom reluctantly added that Lohan would still be provided some prescription drugs in prison but in limited quantities, which, in her words, “is an improvement.” “Jail helped because I wanted it to help,” Michael said about his experience behind bars. “But then again, I went into jail, Larry, because I wanted to be sober.” He added: “She’s got to get off prescription drugs.” He said he is optimistic for his daughter, because she is court-ordered to attend rehab after she gets out of jail but is pessimistic about the issues she is sure to have after she is released because of her time in prison. However, Pal-Chaudhuri and Klinko think Lohan’s bigger problem is who she is surrounded by in her personal life. Klinko said he feels Lohan doesn’t need jail, but needs rehab and someone she can trust. “What she needs is to have some time away from the cameras, from people following her,” Pal-Chaudhuri said. “But I really think that Lindsay needs to figure out what she needs to do for herself.” She added that no one is interested in what Lohan thinks is good for her: “I don’t think jail is going to change her; I think she needs to change herself,” Pal-Chaudhuri said. Related Videos Lindsay Lohan: Crime And Punishment Related Photos The Highs And Lows Of Lindsay Lohan Lindsay Lohan Goes To Court Busted! Celebrity Mug Shots

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Vienna Girardi: Drunk, Crying, Freaking Out

Looking to move on following her emotional breakup and volatile reunion with ex-fiance Jake Pavelka, Vienna Girardi has been hitting the Hollywood party scene. Hard. Unfortunately, she’s kind of unstable. “She doesn’t like being alone,” a witness said. “All her friends keep telling her how much better she’s looking without [Jake].” Later, at Syndicate Hospitality’s MyStudio nightclub, Girardi ran into Gregory Michael , the Greek star who “definitely made out” with the engaged reality star. “She stalked him!” another source says. Observing the actor (gasp) talking to another girl, Vienna “started crying. She freaked out. The entire club saw.” Vienna covered up for a change. [Photo: PacificCoastNewsOnline.com] Michael bolted. “He couldn’t deal with her behavior. He was trying to remain friends with her and be cordial but this just pushed him over the edge.” Yet Girardi kept at it and was all-smiles at a Playboy event at bar210. At that shindig, a witness reports Girardi “was drunk and all over the place.” How drunk? “She was opening her shirt and showing her bra and hanging on every guy.” Says one club observer: “I’m embarrassed for her!” Join the club. Hopefully she sent some drunk emails to Lee Smith after.

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‘The Hills’ Finale: Kristin And Audrina Move On, Lo Moves In

Meanwhile, the show’s “fake” farewell scene gives a wink to the audience. By Amy Wilkinson Audrina Patridge and Kristin Cavallari Photo: Matthias Clamer Four years, six seasons, two leading ladies and plenty of drama later, the trials and tribulations of a group of L.A. 20-somethings — or our chance to watch them, anyway — came to a rather surreal end on Tuesday night’s series finale of “The Hills.” The episode began with Audrina, Lo, Stephanie and Kristin contemplating their futures , realizing that each was setting out on her own path. For Audrina, that path led away from Hollywood and the drama of Justin Bobby and his ilk. Lo decided she’s ready to settle down. “I want little babies,” she squealed. Seeing her friends’ certain destinies and the big question mark looming in her future made Kristin decide it was time to shake things up. “I just need a change,” she said. Meanwhile, Stephanie wondered if she should make her romance official with Josh, Brody’s motocross-racing friend. She decided to visit him at the race track to see how he felt. “You’re like the manliest guy I’ve ever dated,” she said. “But at the same time, the sweetest too. I like hanging out with you a lot.” And there really wasn’t much to say after that, as the two declared they hadn’t seen anyone else since they started dating, and didn’t want to. Stephanie finally had someone she could call her boyfriend. Kristin caught up with Stacie to dish about her Brody drama and discuss her plans for the future. “It needs to be a big change,” she told Stacie of the shakeup she was planning. “I need to be completely uncomfortable, and I need to be scared again. The only place I can think of is somewhere in Europe.” Where? She wasn’t terribly specific on that point, but she knew what she didn’t want happening. “I don’t want to wake up in 10 years still looking for that guy,” Kristin lamented. “Brody found his girl, so I have to go find what I want.” Telling Brody, though, would prove a bit trickier. When she went to his condo to tell him about her plans, he couldn’t help but ask (rightfully so) if her decision to move abroad had anything to do with him. She denied it did and invited him to her going-away party. “I’m not going to celebrate you leaving,” he said. “I don’t want to see you leave.” But in the end, Brody showed up at Kristin’s party, trying again to dissuade her. But Kristin wasn’t budging. “I need to go somewhere to figure out who I am and what I want in life,” she explained. “Don’t leave,” Brody pleaded again, bringing Kristin and himself to tears as they hugged. Lo finally decided it was OK to break her rule about moving in with a guy she’s not engaged to, but it sounded as though she wouldn’t have to wait long for Scott to put a ring on it. “I want this to be a long- term deal,” he said. “I want to spend the rest of my life with you. I’d marry you right now.” As Kristin grabbed her luggage and cast a final wistful glance across her home, Brody pulled up just in time to say one final goodbye. “If I were to know that if I were to go and see someone else, you were to leave town because of that, I probably wouldn’t have done it,” he said. “I don’t want you leaving.” “I can’t believe this is really goodbye,” she said, and the former couple hugged a final time in front of the Hollywood sign before Kristin departed in a black town car. But then, as the camera focused on the abandoned Brody, the backdrop was wheeled away revealing a soundstage — a sly wink to the viewers of this La-La Land reality show. What did you think of the finale of “The Hills”? Share your reviews in the comments below. Related Videos On The Red Carpet At ‘The Hills’ Finale The Hills Live: A Hollywood Ending Related Photos The Hills Finale: Behind The Scenes At The Roosevelt The Hills Finale: Red Carpet

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Lauren Conrad Makes Her ‘Hills’ Return On After Show

‘I’m just really proud,’ LC says of her five seasons on the show. By Jocelyn Vena Lauren Conrad at “The Hills Live: A Hollywood Ending” on Tuesday Photo: John Shearer/WireImage Immediately after “The Hills” ended its six-season run on Tuesday (July 13), the show’s original star, Lauren Conrad, stopped by its after show to reminisce about her time in the spotlight.

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Jersey Shore Soundtrack — Hear It Now On ‘The Leak’!

Enrique Iglesias and Pitbull, Taio Cruz, Ludacris, Lil Jon, David Guetta with Fergie and LMFAO and more star on the album — check it out now! By James Montgomery The cast of “Jersey Shore” in the “I Like It” video Photo: Interscope Do you like to party? Are your fists in dire need of some pumping? If so, you’re in luck! We’ve got the album for you, and all your friends, too: the Jersey Shore Soundtrack ! And while it doesn’t hit stores until July 20 — the same day the first season of MTV’s breakout hit is available on DVD, btw — you can hear the entire Jersey Shore Soundtrack right now, only on MTV.com’s The Leak . Along with Enrique Iglesias and Pitbull’s first single from the album, “I Like It,” you also get tracks from Taio Cruz, Ludacris, Lil Jon (who teams up with 3OH!3 on “Hey”) and David Guetta (who brings together Fergie, Chris Willis and LMFAO on the decidedly epic “Getting Over You”). It’s sure to be the soundtrack to all your GTL-related activities, not to mention the beach, the boardwalk, and probably the bedroom (depending, of course, on just how you get down ). And since there’s also music from superstar DJs like Deadmau5, Steve Aoki, Ti

George Clooney’s Italian Tits Fondle a Mic of the Day

Here is George Clooney’s hired pussy and I know you’re thinking that she’s not a hired pussy, she’s an actual accomplished performer from Italy that has established a great career of her own and she just happened to get seduced by Clooney when he was at his house in Italy cuz he’s George Clooney, and instead of jerking off to pussy he sees on local TV, he makes a few phone calls and gets to fuck it in person…but based on her gutter stripper tattoos,I can tell there is more to this story than you think, and that is that George Clooney isn’t the first powerful dick she’s had inside her, cuz when a bitch like this gets on TV, no matter what country she is in, I know she’s used her pussy to get there….and that at least one person is getting extorted to shit….and who really cares about the details, just look at her tits and the way she rocks the mic like a pro….and not a pro on the mic…and actual pro…if you know what I mean. Pics via Bauer

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Renee Zelwegger is Still a Fucking Monster of the Day

I don’t know what the fuck kind of accident or experiment went on with Renee Zelwegger’s face. I don’t know if she was in a dairy farming accident as a child and suffered a life of painful surgeries to reconfigure her face, only to land in Hollywood, eager to persevere as growing up disabled made her strong and eager to never take no for an answer or feel she can’t achieve greatness, in one of those handicapped person being too proud to allow their handicap hold them back situations….or if this is just the product of getting plastic surgery in efforts to keep her naturally weird looking face that gave her a great career in check as she aged…so that she wouldn’t lose her competitive edge, or maybe some botched botox went down in her friends living room after being talked into the shit after one too many cocktails, but I do know whatever happened, it’s not very pretty… Pics via Bauer

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CBS Continues to Pressure Congress to Extend Unemployment Benefits

On Saturday’s CBS Evening News, anchor Jeff Glor decided what should be at the top of Congress’s agenda as it returned from the July 4th recess: “Congress returns to Washington next week to face a big backlog of unfinished business, and topping the list is the future of unemployment benefits.” In a report that followed, senior White House correspondent Bill Plante chided elected officials for going on vacation without resolving the issue: “It’s been ten days since senators went home for their July 4th vacation without extending unemployment benefits ….They’ve now run out for more than 1.3 million people and the Labor Department says that number could rise to 3 million by the end of this month.”   Plante then touted Democrats blaming the GOP for the inaction: “As he campaigns for Democrats, the President paints the lack of new benefits as Republican heartlessness ….There were protests this week from labor unions against some Senate Republicans. This one in Lexington, Kentucky directed at the GOP leader Mitch Mcconnell, calling for action when the Senate returns next week.” Plante noted the Republican response to such claims: “But Mcconnell blames Democrats for refusing to cut spending to pay the $34 billion cost of the extension.” Saturday’s broadcast was taking over where CBS had left off prior to the holiday. As Congress adjourned on July 1 , fill-in Evening News anchor Scott Pelley proclaimed: “We have decided to start with the 1.3 million Americans whose unemployment benefits have run out, stopped cold, in the last 30 days. And we’re starting there because the U.S. Senate went on vacation today without solving the problem.” Correspondent Chip Reid then reported: “So who’s fault is that? On the surface, it appears Senate Republicans are to blame. Led by Mitch McConnell, they killed the bill with a filibuster. But McConnell points the finger at Democrats, especially Leader Harry Reid, for refusing to pay for the bill in this age of sky-high deficits.” Unlike the July 1 coverage, Saturday’s Evening News briefly highlighted the debate among economists over whether unemployment benefits even should be extended. Plante explained: “Some economists contend that unemployment benefits did not help that much in earlier recessions.” A clip was played of University of Maryland Professor Peter Morici citing past abuse of such benefits. Plante then noted: “Others believe the time paid for unemployment benefits is when the economy improves. They argue that the extension is needed right now.” A clip of Moody’s Analytics chief economist Mark Zandi was played: “It’s the most effective stimulus that can be provided….They get a check and they spend it and it helps the economy immediately.” Despite that back and forth, Plante concluded his piece by anticipating an extension of benefits: “When the Senate returns next week they will bring the benefit extension to another vote, but not until West Virginia’s governor appoints someone to fill the Senate seat of the late Robert Byrd. That should give the Democrats enough votes to pass the extension.” Also on the economic front, on Tuesday’s Early Show, Plante reported the results of a new CBS News poll , which “shows that the public, when it comes to the economy, has very little confidence in either Congress or the President.” He described how 54% of respondents disapprove of the President’s handling of the economy and that a majority believe the recession will last at least another two years. However, Plante tempered the bad news for the White House by noting: “He’ll [Obama will] blame Republicans for the policies which led up to the recession. And it may be small comfort for Democrats, but the public has just as low an opinion of Republicans in Congress.” Here is a full transcript of Plante’s July 10 Saturday Evening News report: 6:35PM ET JEFF GLOR: Congress returns to Washington next week to face a big backlog of unfinished business, and topping the list is the future of unemployment benefits. Senior White House correspondent Bill Plante has more tonight. BILL PLANTE: It’s been ten days since senators went home for their July 4th vacation without extending unemployment benefits. ROLAND BURRIS [SENATOR, D-ILLINOIS]: The motion is not agreed to.                                  BILL PLANTE: They’ve now run out for more than 1.3 million people and the Labor Department says that number could rise to 3 million by the end of this month. As he campaigns for Democrats, the President paints the lack of new benefits as Republican heartlessness. BARACK OBAMA: They said no to extended unemployment insurance for folks who desperately needed help. PLANTE: There were protests this week from labor unions against some Senate Republicans. This one in Lexington, Kentucky directed at the GOP leader Mitch Mcconnell, calling for action when the Senate returns next week. But Mcconnell blames Democrats for refusing to cut spending to pay the $34 billion cost of the extension. MITCH MCCONNELL: The only reason the unemployment extension hasn’t passed is because our friends on the other side simply refuse to pass a bill that does not add to the debt. PLANTE: Some economists contend that unemployment benefits did not help that much in earlier recessions. PETER MORICI [UNIVERSITY OF MARYLAND]: Unemployment was a terribly intractable problem and we had big benefits. And many folks abused those benefits to stay out of the labor force to do other things they were interested in doing. PLANTE: Others believe the time paid for unemployment benefits is when the economy improves. They argue that the extension is needed right now. MARK ZANDI [CHIEF ECONOMIST, MOODY’S ANALYTICS]: It’s the most effective stimulus that can be provided. Many of these people are very hard pressed. They get a check and they spend it and it helps the economy immediately. PLANTE: When the Senate returns next week they will bring the benefit extension to another vote, but not until West Virginia’s governor appoints someone to fill the Senate seat of the late Robert Byrd. That should give the Democrats enough votes to pass the extension. Jeff. GLOR: Bill Plante at the White House tonight. Bill, thank you. 

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Justin Bieber, Snoop, Shakira And More Tweet About World Cup Final

Will.I.Am, Paris and Perez Hilton and others post excitement over Spain’s win over the Netherlands. By Mawuse Ziegbe Justin Bieber Photo: Stephen Lovekin/ Getty Images As Spain took home its first-ever FIFA World Cup win on Sunday, stars of all kinds took to Twitter to reflect on the final match of the global soccer tourney. British songstress Estelle shouted out the Spanish team, tweeting, “Spain were…on dis ting!!!!! Congrats!!!” Justin Bieber apparently enjoyed the matchup between Spain and the Netherlands, tweeting, “wow…SPAIN!! great game…nothing to be ashamed of.” The Spanish team may have reigned victorious but the Canadian teen showed love to the Netherlands as well. “True champions on both sides,” Bieber wrote. Some stars shared their eager anticipation of the final match with their Twitter followers. Paris Hilton, who was still taking in the games after a run-in with local police over alleged marijuana possession, sent out a picture of an illuminated stadium before the match kicked off. Will.I.Am tweeted his support for the Spaniards before the game: “Spain, please be victorious tonight against Holland…(Pay back for beating my Brazilian team).” Three hours later, as “La Furia Roja” scored the winning goal in overtime, the Peas producer typed, “Vamos Spain…victory.” Gossip-monger Perez Hilton tweeted a similarly succinct message, typing, “Ol