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Salty Massa’s Shipmate Speaks Out on ‘Lt. Commander Massage’ and ‘Meat-Gazing’ [Salty Tales]

Peter Clarke, former shipmate of ex-Rep Eric Massa , told the world about Massa’s “snorkeling” expedition. He’s been telling anyone who’d listen about Massa for years. All he wants in return? To warn future victims. And to be on Howard Stern. “19 years i’ve been dealing with this,” Clarke told me today. He’s talked to reporters about Massa’s history of what Clarke calls predatory behavior before. But because the victims of Massa’s advances were unwilling to come forward themselves, on the record, Clarke’s warnings went nowhere. That’s not the case anymore. Since Josh Green published some of Clarke’s (many) Massa stories at The Atlantic , Clarke’s been busy with interviews. “I’ve been on the computer for 48 hours straight,” he said. He’s doing Fox later today. “People are loving the snorkeling thing.” That would be this story: Clarke says that Massa’s roommate, Tom Maxfield, was also assaulted. “Tom lived on upper bunk,” Clarke say. “When you’re on ship, you’re almost exhausted 24-7. So a lot of times you sleep with your uniform on. Tom and Massa shared a stateroom together. Massa climbed up on the top of his bunk, which is hard to do—you never crawl up on somebody else’s bunk. He wakes up to Massa undoing his pants trying to snorkel him.” Clarke says a friend looked up “snorkeling” on Urban Dictionary after the story started getting around. Those definitions were slightly more obscence than theirs. “I was just using it as a substitute for oral copulation,” he told me. ( Attempted , non-consensual oral copulation, it should be noted.) Maxfield and Massa had roomed together for a while, and were friendly. After this incident, according to Clarke, Maxfield didn’t know what to do. Massa “begged and pleaded with Tom not to turn him in.” “Massa gets on his hands and knees and he’s sobbing,” Clarke said. And while he was begging, Massa told Maxfield about a friend on another ship he’d served on. That friend and Massa said had an understanding. According to Clarke, Massa said that understanding was: “What happens at sea stays at sea.” A couple years after the snorkeling, in 1997, Clarke met a Naval officer a few years younger than him in San Diego. Massa, it turned out, was this guy’s commanding officer. “He’s a huge asshole!” the guy said. “Everyone hates him!” They exchanged stories. This was his: “He used to take his laundry down to the self-serve laundry on the ship,” Clarke said. Which is odd, because everyone else used the laundry service. But the self-serve laundry was right by the berthing, where junior officers slept and showered. So Massa, the ship’s Executive Officer, “just happens to be doing his own laundry at 6 am right when everyone’s waking up.” “He was freaking totally meat-gazing!” As Clarke imagined Massa’s internal monologue: “Who needs Playgirl when I can just come down here and pretend I’m doing my laundry?” After the “Massa massage” incident (Massa rather forcefully attempted to give a subordinate one of his special massages while they shared a hotel room) Clarke says everyone on the ship “Lt Commandr Massa-ge.” The Mark Foley page scandal broke when Massa was running for congress. Clarke got an unsolicited email from an old shipmate: “I guess Massa is pretty pissed off that that Rep from Florida blew the lid off this Page scam,” his friend wrote. “I bet he was chomping at the bit to get to DC. Now he’s gonna have to work instead of going after little boys.” Clarke paints Massa as slightly pathetic. No one ever took their complaints to superiors because “they felt sorry for Massa.” He was a “freak” and an “asshole,” but he was also a competent officer. And Clarke feels especially sorry for his family. He’s coming forward now—largely against the wishes of his friends—because he doesn’t want anyone else to be victimized. “For years he’s been abusing people and getting away with it.” Massa’s 2006 campaign alarmed Clarke. “This guy’s running for congress and he’s molesting people!” He called a TV reporter in Rochester, NY, and told the stories of Massa’s gropey tendencies. The reporter got Tom Maxfield to confirm the allegations, but then he told Maxfield he was going to fly him out and get him on camera. That spooked Maxfield, and he backed out. The reporter abandoned the story, despite having confirmation of serious misconduct by a man running for congress. Clarke emailed the reporter this week—”you should stick to weather and traffic,” he told him. Clarke wants it made clear that the Massa incidents are not by any means common in the Navy, as Massa himself has claimed in interviews. Clarke is sick of potshots at the Navy, and sick of people snickering about the outrageous stories on TV. “There were no boundaries being broken, ” he told me. “A guy was assaulted!” As for MSNBC’s coverage of the whole affair: “If I ever have a chance to see that O’Donnell guy I’m gonna pop him.” As I said, what Clarke wants is to tell his stories on his own terms and in his own words—and he’d like to do it on Howard Stern’s show. Which, honestly, would make great radio. So if anyone from Stern’s program is interested, I’ll get you in touch with Peter Clarke. You won’t regret it. [Top pic: Getty]

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The Eric Massa Story Is About Every Single Political Story of Our Time [Salty Tales]

“He wakes up to Massa undoing his pants trying to snorkel him.” Eric Massa ‘s Navy shipmates are speaking out. Add them to the list of people Massa’s touched, from Rahm Emanuel to David Paterson. This story has everything. In the course of his meltdown, this former New York congressman has managed to inject himself into every single major political/media story of the last year. It is uncanny. Just take a look at the list. Sex Scandals Viewed in the right light, politics is just an endless succession of sex scandals of varying magnitude. When the initial reports of “sexual harassment” surfaced, devoid of details, it was easy to place Representative Eric Massa alongside Eliot Spitzer, John Edwards, Mark Sanford, and the rest of the losers who let their unchecked passions ruin their political careers. But it was not some boring consensual heterosexual affair that Massa was guilty of! Closeted Politicians The harassment allegations were apparently made by a male staffer. Massa, of course, is married to a woman—and so was Larry Craig. The news that a congressman was making unwelcome sexual advances toward male staffers immediately brought to mind the glory days of the Mark Foley affair. (The Democratic leadership, though, seemed to be handling it a little better. ) But is Massa a closet case, or is he just a guy who really, really enjoys roughhousing? He says that back in his day, the Navy was run like an English boarding school. It looks like his shipmates did not find his games to be as harmless, though. The Operatic, Paranoid Madness of Glenn Beck We are living in a world where Bill O’Reilly is practically Fox News’ voice of reason. And we have Glenn Beck to thank for it. The repulsive morning shock jock and formerly drug-addled Mormon weirdo uses his Fox platform to make conspiracy theories mainstream and to inculcate a sense of apocalyptic dread in his audiences. Chief among his tactics: constantly announcing his fear for his own safety. Glenn Beck wants you to know that shadowy, powerful forces will someday destroy Glenn Beck. And his Massa interview was one of the weirdest hours in the history of television. Glenn wanted to sit down with a guy who’d affirm, for his audience, the crazy things Glenn says about the fantastic power of the fascistic progressive movement. Instead he got tickle fights and a campaign finance reform lecture. So on his radio show today, Glenn suggests that a person or persons “got to” Massa before Beck did. What’s Wrong with New York Politicians? Spitzer! Monserrate! Paterson! Rangel! Add Massa to the list. LA is mocking us, guys. (Hey, have you met your mayor? Or your governor? ) But there’s no denying that New York politicians are publicly melting down at an alarming rate. Some of them are melting down before they even get around to running for office! The Gradual Self-Destruction of David Paterson Yes, even our beloved incompetent blind semi-corrupt accidental governor who probably abused his power and intimidated a domestic violence victim is tangentially involved in this Eric Massa mess. Because now New York has a vacant congressional seat. And it is up to David Paterson to figure out how to fill it. As of yesterday, he couldn’t decide when or if to hold a special election. But, you know, he probably will. Whatever. Who knows with this guy? Republican Internecine Warfare Before Massa went on Beck yesterday, there was some spirited debate between Glenn and fellow crazy person Michelle Malkin about the appearance of welcoming Massa into the conservative fold. Incompetent Democratic Governance Massa is also one of those incredibly incoherent Democrats who can’t figure out why they’re Democrats or what they stand for. The Progressive Caucus co-founder insisted to Glenn Beck that he’s a fiscal conservative. He voted against the House health care bill because it wasn’t liberal enough, and he complains that unions are trying to intimidate him. He was formerly a Republican until he decided to support Wesley Clark. The party has such a huge tent now that it’s just made up of people who don’t actively want to destroy the nation as hard as Republicans do. And this is one of the reasons Democrats can’t do anything with control of both houses of Congress. Health Care And, yes, this health care bill! It was passed by both houses of Congress. But now they both need to pass it again, sort of. Right now, the most incredibly nerdy sorts of political wonks are obsessively going over the House vote count . The sudden resignation of a former Democratic Nay vote is huge to these sad people. Rahm Emanuel Has Been In the News Lately How absolutely, wonderfully perfect that this should all happen during the month of never-ending Rahm Emanuel profiles. Within days of the allegations surfacing, Massa was telling wild stories about a naked Emanuel cornering him in a curtain-less shower. That’s the image that caught everyone’s attention—Letterman devoted his Top Ten List to it last night even. Even though it’s probably a fantasy, it’ll end up a part of the Rmythology, along with the fish and the knife and all that shit. Rush Limbaugh Said Something Racist! Oh, didn’t you hear? Rush Limbaugh said something racist about this whole thing. Yes, that’s right: you thought there was no way in hell this story could somehow also expand to include the Hot New Trend of constant right-wing racism, but you were wrong.

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Sh*t show: India’s toilet museum

Today was one of the strangest shoot days I’ve had in quite some time: I toured the museum of toilets in Delhi. Yes, a place dedicated to the history and the evolution of toilets. Here’s a small sampling of some of the more interesting models: This is the throne-toilet. For the king who doesn’t want to leave the chamber to take a dump. This is the travel toilet. For the outdoorsy type who wants to enjoy a nice spread on a table, or a desk to write on, but who doesn’t like to squat. This model is a multi-purpose solution for those willing to lug it around. Have a hearty lunch, then flip open the tabletop to let it back out. And finally, the comfort toilet. For those who like the comfort of fine leather, and the convenience of a built-in crapper. The toilet docent added that this is favored by the “fat and lazy,” who might not want to get up from the couch while watching TV or playing a game of cards. Follow me on Twitter for more defecation. added by: Adam_Yamaguchi

‘American Idol’ Top 10 Men’s Report Card

Michael Lynche, Alex Lambert lead the pack in a week that showed much-needed improvement. By Eric Ditzian Michael Lynche performs on “American Idol” on Tuesday Photo: Frank Micelotta/ Getty Images The top 10 “American Idol” men could only improve after last week’s string of uninspiring, borderline panic-inducing, “Hoo boy, this season is looking weak” musical performances. On Tuesday night’s show , improve is exactly what they did … most of them, anyway. The evening was still pocked with pitchy renditions, poor song choices and “How is this dude still around?” confusion, but overall the men stepped up in their second week of live shows. Who surprised us, who disappointed us and who’s in danger of going home? Let’s take a look at the top 10 men’s report card. (And don’t miss Jim Cantiello’s review in the Newsroom .) Excellent Michael Lynche : Not to toot our own horn, but before last night’s show, we urged Big Mike to ditch the guitar and show us what kind of artist he truly wants to be, because we weren’t sure Jason Mraz? James Brown? On Tuesday the new daddy delivered, busting out a soulful take on Brown’s “It’s a Man’s, Man’s, Man’s World.” What’s more, during his post-performance banter with Ryan Seacrest, he cemented his reputation as the season’s most engaging personality. While we wouldn’t go so far as to give him a standing ovation, as Randy Jackson did, Lynche still deserves much credit and the chance to keep singing for weeks to come. Alex Lambert : You could see this one coming, since the kid was torn apart last week. Nothing’s better on reality TV than the rise of the underdog, and that’s exactly what happened to Lambert during his performance of John Legend’s “Everybody Knows.” Who knew the Mulleted One had soul? His pre-performance package displayed a winning vulnerability — I was so nervous! I just love to sing sooo much! — that only augmented Lambert’s comeback-kid-of-the-week status. Satisfactory Casey James : We’d been hoping to see James’ rock and roll side, and we got what we asked for — but we’re just not sure we were asking for the right thing from James, a realization that became clear during his southern-fried rock rendition of Gavin DeGraw’s “I Don’t Want to Be.” His electric guitar noodling felt a bit like amateur hour and the whole song sounded like the work of a bar band, but you know what? It was a bar band that’d have you doing a sweaty group boogie and ordering another pitcher. Even though Kara DioGuardi finally found the opportunity to criticize the guy, James ain’t going away this week. Andrew Garcia : Garcia followed the pleas of the judges to stop futzing with tunes and just step up to the mic and wail. Well, he went with a straight-forward arrangement in James Morrison’s “You Give Me Something.” He just didn’t seem to have the vocal fortitude to blow us away. Is it possible that behind all that technical wizardry lays a mediocre singer? We don’t think so, and Garcia is going to have to pull himself together next week to convince the rest of America. Tim Urban : The brothers, the sisters, the prayers! Urban might be as brilliant a tactician as he is middling a singer. His take on “Come on Get Higher” by Matt Nathanson reeked of high school talent show blandness, which honestly doesn’t matter after Urban established himself as a God-fearing family boy from Texas. Simon Cowell made a savvy decision to fete Urban for his work ethic and ability to listen to criticism, rather than focus on his singing. The judge knows better than anyone: Urban is safe this week. Lee DeWyze : The judges implored Dewyze to drop the coffehouse singer-songwriter vibe last week and indulge his rock instincts. That’s exactly what he did with “Lips of an Angel” by Hinder. Was it as ethereal a performance as Simon wanted us to believe? Is DeWyze really one of this season’s frontrunners? We’re not willing to go there yet, but after two solid weeks of live shows, the 23-year-old is one of the most comfortable contestants up on stage. It should only get better for him in the coming weeks. Unsatisfactory John Park : Dude, what is going on? Simon nailed it when he said Park put on a so-what performance. We’ve been rooting for this kid for a while, but it might be time to give up on him. His song choice was at least something written in the 21st Century (“Gravity” by John Mayer), but the delivery was still reminiscent of something you might hear at a retirement home soiree. His sweet story about growing up in a bilingual Korean-American home might win him enough votes to make it through to next week, but we’re fairly certain he doesn’t deserve it. Todrick Hall : We’ve actually enjoyed Hall’s risky song choices: Kelly Clarkson’s “Since U Been Gone” last week, Tina Turner’s “What’s Love Got to Do With It” on Tuesday. Whereas his twisted take on Clarkson was oddly amusing, his butchering of Tina was sacrilegious. Two straight eviscerations from the judges do not bode well for Hall. The guy’s in trouble this week. Jermaine Sellers : Was it that the judges were cut-throat last week or that Hall just plain stunk up the joint? For two straight weeks, the church singer has ditched the soulfulness we loved and amped up his cheeseball ’70s lounge singer impulses. The guy can still nail a high note, as evidenced with “What’s Goin’ On” by Marvin Gaye, but many of the others made our ears hurt. Jesus may be his homeboy, but the viewers at home hold his fate in their cell phones. To quote Randy, “Ah man, it’s like urrrggggh!” Aaron Kelly : Pardon us while we head for another cup of coffee, because even thinking about Kelly’s insipid performance of the Temptations’ “My Girl” makes us drowsy. In the 16-year-old’s defense, that song was no worse than last week’s rendition of “Here Comes Goodbye” by Rascal Flatts. The only difference was that Simon and Ellen seemed to have tired of, um, whatever it was they liked about him in the first place. We’d say Kelly is in serious trouble this week, but that was our opinion last week and look what happened. With praise from Randy and Ellen DeGeneres, expect the oldest teenager in the history of the world is stick around the “Idol” stage. How do you think the guys did this week? Let us know in the comments below! Get your “Idol” fix on MTV News’ “American Idol” page, where you’ll find all the latest news, interviews and opinions. Related Photos ‘American Idol’ Season Nine Performances

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‘Ax Men’ Star’s Daughter Killed by Family Dog

Filed under: R.I.P. The 4-year-old daughter of Jesse Browning — one of the stars of The History Channel’s “Ax Men” — died tragically yesterday in Oregon after being mauled by one of the family’s pet Rottweilers.Jesse — whose father owns the “Browning Logging” company … Permalink

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Conan O’Brien Joins Twitter

‘Today I interviewed a squirrel in my backyard and then threw to commercial,’ former ‘Tonight Show’ host joked. By Joel Hanek Conan O’Brien Photo: Bryan Bedder/ Getty Images Conan O’Brien has been lying low since his final “Tonight Show” appearance on January 22, where he performed a hilarious and heartwarming rendition of Lynyrd Skynyrd’s “Free Bird” alongside Will Ferrell to close out the show. On Wednesday, however, the comedian broke his silence through what is currently one of the most popular mediums for celebrities: Twitter. “Today I interviewed a squirrel in my backyard and then threw to commercial,” O’Brien tweeted . “Somebody help me.” With just one tweet and less than 24 hours since signing up for the social-networking site, O’Brien has already gained over 235,000 followers. At the beginning of the year, O’Brien and his longtime employer NBC were involved in a much publicized disaccord over the future of “The Tonight Show.” After receiving low ratings due to a failed experiment that involved moving previous “Tonight Show” host Jay Leno to a 10 p.m. time slot and letting O’Brien helm the late-night staple, NBC proposed to push Leno’s new show to 11:30 and bump O’Brien’s “Tonight Show” back to 12:05 a.m. Believing that a time slot shift would “seriously damage” what Conan called “the greatest franchise in the history of broadcasting,” O’Brien chose to walk away from the network with a $33 million settlement deal. The comedian sardonically joked about the ordeal in the “Bio” section of his Twitter profile: “I had a show. Then I had a different show. Now I have a Twitter account.” Conan chose to create a Twitter account just days before Jay Leno will resume hosting “The Tonight Show” on Monday, March 1. And while O’Brien has not announced any future plans to host another talk show, in January, NBC picked up a series produced by his company, Conaco . And judging from the traffic on his Twitter, it’s clear that his army of dedicated fans still care what the comedian has to say.

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Shyne Signs To Def Jam

‘It is an honor and a pleasure,’ MC says of signing to the legendary label. By Shaheem Reid Shyne Photo: Frances M. Roberts/ Newscom Signed, sealed, delivered — according to reports , Shyne is back at his second recording home, Def Jam. His contract, which is rumored to be between $1 million and $5 million, was finalized Monday (February 22) when the company’s chairman L.A. Reid traveled to Belize to close the deal. In an interview with 7Newsbelize.com, Reid said it was an honor to have Shyne back under the Def Jam umbrella. “I have come here to stand by Shyne and to officially kick off our partnership with Island Def Jam Music Group and Gangland Records,” Reid said. “So it is really an honor to be here, really very special place. I am here because great people are worthy of travelling many, many miles for it and I come here to say that your country is great and I hope you guys know that this is a great man from your country who deserves this kind of respect and who deserves this kind of support. So that is why we are here.” Reid also promised a “big comeback” for Shyne’s career — according to the report, the deal will not just house Shyne as an artist, but also provide distribution for his Gangland Records imprint. “It is an honor and a pleasure, not just for me but for Belize,” Shyne said. “Chairman Reid is on the level of Berry Gordy, Clive Davis — the biggest music men in the history of music — and so to have a partnership with Gangland Records and Island/Def Jam is incredible for me.” Def Jam records has not released a statement as of press time. Related Photos Photo Timeline Of Shyne’s Legal Troubles Related Artists Shyne

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Squeaky Pig Pull Toy

Why the hell don't they make squeaky/cute?/utterly baffling porcine German “pull toys” like this any more? The human race is clearly in a pretty serious decline. Regardless, this smug toy-pig owner finding out that his absurd contraption is worth actual dollars is Antiques Roadshow at its finest. Masterful. ( Via .) The Best Links: Quite possibly the greatest segment in the history of Antiques Roadshow Man and His Pig, A Love Story by the Antiques Roadshow Extreme Craft: Pulled Pork Watch

Lauren Conrad Admits She’s Not A Fan Of Valentine’s Day

‘I’ve never really had an amazing Valentine’s Day,’ said the ‘Sweet Little Lies’ author and former ‘Hills’ star. By Jocelyn Vena Lauren Conrad Photo: MTV News These days novelist and former “Hills” star Lauren Conrad may be happy dating actor Kyle Howard, but it seems that she’s been burned enough in the past to have some negative feelings about Valentine’s Day. So, when asked if she’s got any fond memories of the holiday, she simply said she does not. “I’m not really a Valentine’s Day girl. I’m not big on celebrating it. I’ve never really had an amazing Valentine’s Day,” she told MTV News while promoting her best-selling novel Sweet Little Lies . “I’m kind of the guy in that way. … I’m home for the weekend. I don’t really do dinner because dinner reservations are hard to get. I just prefer takeout and a movie.” Perhaps Conrad has found that she isn’t into Valentine’s Day thanks to some crummy experiences with boyfriends in the past. She recently told Seventeen magazine that she’s finally gained enough self-confidence to make sure men are treating her properly. “Oh, I knew back then when I was being cheated on. But I overlooked it. The more confident me has come to the point where I’ve finally realized it’s not something that everyone does,” she shared. “And it’s not okay to have your guy hook up with someone else. You deserve better.” And it seems she’s found something better in current beau Kyle Howard , who loves Conrad for who she is, boyfriend layers and all. “I just ask Kyle, ‘You feel like working out?’ It’s more fun than hitting the gym alone,” she said. “We like doing outdoor stuff: tennis, bike riding, kayaking, stand-up surfing, hiking in the canyons around L.A.”

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John Mayer’s Playboy Interview: Readers Weigh In

MTV News readers react to controversial comments Mayer made in his recent Playboy interview. By Josh Wigler John Mayer Photo: Stephen Lovekin/ Getty Images Singer-songwriter John Mayer’s controversial interview with Playboy magazine has sparked a wide range of reactions from the musician’s fans, detractors, contemporaries and even the most impartial of MTV News readers. Responses have illustrated an array of emotions and reactions ranging from disgust and disappointment to support and ambivalence. While many readers loathed Mayer’s racially charged assertions and detailed comments regarding his sexual exploits, some felt that the musician wasn’t acting out of the ordinary , and still others felt that he had a right to voice his opinion. Several readers utilized choice lyrics from “Waiting on the World to Change,” “My Stupid Mouth” and more to deride Mayer. Needless to say, feedback has been plentiful and strongly voiced, no matter the reader’s opinion. Below are just some of the many reactions that readers have expressed in response to the Mayer controversy, lightly edited for grammar, over the past several days. Please note that these opinions are not reflective of MTV News’ stance on the matter; this is simply a sampling of reader reactions to Mayer’s recent comments. To continue the conversation, please head to the comments section below. “Stop ‘waiting on the world to change.’ What happened to that talented, humble guy? Now you are the monster that can belittle, hurt and shame with no thought for how your words can affect others. I’m waiting for you to change.” — Laurence “Whew…John…you gotta work on the damage control there, seriously. I’m still a fan of your music though. And I keep hearing your song ‘My Stupid Mouth’ in my head.” — trouble520 “John Mayer is a 32-year-old incredible guitar playing singer-songwriter. He is also ignorant and senseless. Every time John thinks he has something of relevance to share, he should just shut his mouth and pick up his guitar — that’s what he’s good at. I will never understand why celebrities think we are interested in [their] sexual exploits and their bad behavior. Grow up, John Boy!!” — sugarray “Being mad every time someone uses the N-word is very ignorant, and this is why racism will never die. There are always two parts [of] every situation. In my opinion, in this situation, there is the negative and people that keep the negative alive, and that’s us African Americans, because we get so mad when the N-word is passed around, when we already do a great job without white people when we rap about it. What makes it so different when a white person [says] it than when we entertain our generation with it? Put that anger into teaching the next generation about our history and stop being ignorant. Stop rapping about *******, whores, money and cars and let something that is meaningful come out of your mouth.” — christina “I don’t believe John Mayer is racist. I understood his intent with those comments. However, he — as he admitted in his bid to save himself from his mouth — tries too hard to be clever, provocative and witty. Usually the people and topics he talks about are too insignificant for anybody to care, but this time people cared and now the foot that usually is in his mouth choked him.” — micdus “Dear John, your apology is accepted as far as I am [concerned] because you did no harm. You used it to make a point and my people use it haphazardly all the time and I don’t like it and we should get rid of this word. I mean we can’t even differentiate between dark-skin and light-skin blacks so we should be [ashamed] of ourselves when this word comes out of our mouths. The first thing you’ll hear for an excuse is it’s a way of expressing [affection] and such and that’s a whole lot of bull and we need to just stop it and not be such hypocrites when we [hear] someone of another race use it. I mean if [you’re] going to mock yourself, then why get angry when others mock you?” — Rosetta Marie Archie “I don’t think he should apologize. If this is really the way he feels, then there’s no reason for him to feel sorry about that. Fans want to know the real artist, not someone who is censored and can’t voice openly his/her opinion.” — takingthestagefan5 “He’s human. We all say and do things we regret. He apologized. What more can be asked of him? He isn’t this perfect god, he’s just a man that is very talented, therefore we’re trying to hold him to a higher standard. Yes, it was a stupid remark, but come on.” — SunCityGirl2 “As a black female, I don’t find what he said racist or offensive. John Mayer is an arrogant jackass. We’ve all known that for some time now. He’s an attention [whore] and this is what he’s getting. Whatever, end of it. But, boy, Playboy just handed him the shovel to dig the hole in deeper and deeper and deeper. Good job, interview!” — iiShannon “I am obsessed with John Mayer, but I have to admit [I’ve] been hard pressed not to tear up every time I think about what he said. It was so hurtful, as a black woman who has bought every one of his albums, campaigned for him against those who thought he was nothing more than a playboy poptart, and was happily telling everyone she knew that she’s going to his concert for the first time. I feel like an idiot.” — candycorps “John, please shut up. Let your music do your talking. Stick that guitar in that big mouth of yours and just shut up.” — yoo Related Artists John Mayer

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