Source: Axelle/Bauer-Griffin / Contributor / Getty Selita Ebanks Announces Engagement Selita Ebanks is getting married. The supermodel recently announced that she said “yes” to her sports and entertainment management bae Brian Amlani. “Before that day I met you I didn’t know what true love meant, but angels are for loving and you are heaven sent” – Charles Wiles #Soon2beMrs,” she captioned a beautiful beachside photo of them. View this post on Instagram “Before that day I met you I didn’t know what true love meant, but angels are for loving and you are heaven sent” – Charles Wiles #Soon2beMrs. Love you @brianamlani #HePutARingonIt #LookatGod #blessed A post shared by Selita (@selitaebanks) on Apr 18, 2019 at 2:44pm PDT Amlani also shared the photo saying; “I love you forever @Selitaebanks! Thank you for loving me the way you do! #FutureWife #AmlaniQueen.” View this post on Instagram I love you forever @selitaebanks ! Thank you for loving me the way you do! #FutureWife #AmlaniQueen A post shared by Brian Amlani (@brianamlani) on Apr 18, 2019 at 2:47pm PDT No word yet on how long the two have been dating. Selita previously dating Terrence J from 2011 to 2013. She was also engaged to Nick Cannon but they broke up in 2007. View this post on Instagram Falling in Love with you was easy… deciding we should Spend the rest of our lives together was even easier… I love you @selitaebanks ! Thank you to all my friends and family that supported our special day! #FutureMrsAmlani A post shared by Brian Amlani (@brianamlani) on Feb 27, 2019 at 5:39pm PST
The basketball season may be over for Tristan Thompson. But a new report alleges that the power forward has not stopped scoring in weeks. The Cleveland Cavaliers team member averaged 10.9 points per game over the past 82 games, but Us Weekly now alleges that he may be averaging more sexual liaisons than that per week. That may be a slight exaggeration, we grant you, but the overall point remains: Thompson has allegedly been going hard to the female hole ever since he was kicked to the curb by Khloe Kardashian. “ Tristan has been continuing to go out and has been partying with friends,” a source tells this tabloid, elaborating further as follows: “He’s been hooking up with other girls, and whenever he’s out, he’s had Instagram models … around him.” This doesn’t seem to be much different than the way Thompson acted when he was still with Khloe, of course, but it still seems notable. Thompson, of course, was caught cheating on his then-pregnant girlfriend mere weeks before she gave birth to their daughter last year. He then kissed Khloe’s good friend, Jordyn Woods, on the lips late this past winter, further cementing his reputation as a serial cheater who sucks a lot. Hence why this Us Weekly insider explains that the actions described are not all that surprising when it comes to the father of two. “That’s just the lifestyle that he lives,” the source says. Khloe decided to stick with Thompson after his first round of cheating because she wanted her daughter to have a father around and because she really thought Thompson would change. She even took issue at times when social media trolls slammed her as “weak,” standing up for herself as someone who was actually strong enough to put herself out there again and risk getting hurt. Does she now regret forgiving Tristan’s initial infidelity? Maybe. But she would probably simply say that there are worse traits one can have then trying to see the best in people and trying to give one’s child the most complete family life possible. Khloe and Tristan actually hung out this month in honor of little True turning a year old. By all accounts, Thompson is not an awful father; he does want to be involved in the infant’s life. But he hasn’t offered up any excuse at all for why he kissed Woods several weeks ago , cheating on Kardashian not with some random model… but with someone she has known for years. “He just kissed me,” Woods herself said in an interview with Jada Pinkett Smith. “It was a kiss on the lips. No tongue … no making out.” The Instagram star also clarified that having sex with Thompson was “never a consideration.” Thompson initially Tweeted the lame response of “fake news” when the Woods smooch first went viral. However, he quickly deleted that message and has said nothing in public about the act since. He has tried, though, to publicize his affection for young True. “You deserve all the jewels, baby girl,” the professional athlete told his daughter in an Instagram video taken during last week’s birthday party. The guy is a very bad boyfriend. But we do hope he’s dedicated to being a strong father. View Slideshow: Karizma Ramirez: Tristan Thompson Plaything of the Week Revealed!!
Victoria’s Secret is pretty funny. First they cast Josie Canseco Now they cast Jasmine Sanders…. Who you may not know, but who is one of the Kardashian Jenner friends, with a lot of instagram followers, who I guess they are trying to use to become relevant.. But this is what happens when old people try to be relevant, they google social media, influencer, and try to figure out who the right people are with the most influence…only to clearly fuck right up… They probably put millions into market research, figuring out how to make the instagram generation connect with their brand as they are losing.. This is what they came up with. Pretty disappointing… TO SEE THE REST OF THE PICS CLICK HERE JOIN THE NEWSLETTER YOU ASSHOLES! The post Jasmine Sanders Topless for VS of the Day appeared first on DrunkenStepFather.com .
Source: Warner Bros. Pictures Surviving La Llorona Hey party people, Alex here with another exclusive edition of Bossip Be Trippin’ fresh out the grease for your weekend thrills (and chills). Now, before we start, I urge you to bless your laptop or phone before reading about my experience at the 2019 SXSW Movie Festival in Austin, Texas (where I may or may not have been haunted by a very ashy and very vindictive Mexican ghost named Ll Llorona). For those not hip, La Llorona is a spooky legend passed down through generations that I just learned about a few weeks ago. And yes, she’s probably standing behind you right now without shoes on. But, anyway, the legend begins with a beautiful woman in love with a man she caught creepin’ ( Note : definitely not a Black man, though, because we don’t cheat) before drowning their kids and herself in a spiteful rage. Boom, the curse of La Llorona was born and lives on as a terrifying tale of “the weeping woman” who stalks and drowns kids when she isn’t looking for her own murdered kids in the darkness. Whew, it’s quite the spook fest that inspired Warner Bros. to connect her to the Conjuring universe and invite me to a haunted hotel for a press junket. Peep my lil video recap here. Pray first, though. View this post on Instagram Survived the Curse of #LaLlorona at #SXSW things went from 0 to hell nawl real quick. @wbpictures had us at @thedriskill (WHICH IS HAUNTED ). No one told me about the hotel’s spooky shenanigans until I was already inside. A little girl died in the lobby & they say she still skips around at night she didn’t come out to play when I was there, tho. She knew better . DEF a Top 5 press junket. Special thanks to @shayross for the experience A post shared by Alejandro NIGlesias (@alejandro_niglesias) on Mar 20, 2019 at 3:55pm PDT Imagine walking into a swanky hotel full of friendly people, delicious food and an open bar without knowing it’s haunted. That’s exactly what I did. And I didn’t find out it was haunted until after drink and plate #2. At that point, it was too late. I was already inside the famously haunted Driskill in downtown Austin where Warner Bros. set up a spiritual cleansing experience along with a haunted hotel historian (to basically tell you about everyone who died in the hotel). Look, I’ve never actually been haunted (as far as I know) but played along anyway and let the healer bless me with rose water and a very special egg. I also learned about a little girl who fell and broke her neck on the lobby steps that you can still (allegedly) hear skipping around. Sadly, she didn’t come out to play with me. I know because I looked for her. While some people were shook and claimed to feel presences around them, I cackled at the over-the-top presentations that continued before AND after the screening of “The Curse of La Llorona” (which I enjoyed and recommend to anyone who enjoys stalker ghost shenanigans). Fast forward to our cast interviews the next day at the (you guessed it) haunted Driskill on the fourth floor aka the most haunted floor in the hotel. BECAUSE OF COURSE. Legend has it that Annie Lennox stayed on that floor and couldn’t decide what dress to wear. Moments later, she returns from the bathroom and finds one of her dresses laid out for her on the bed. THE OTHER WAS LOCKED IN THE CLOSET. BoOoO. Seriously, if you’re ever looking for a hotel where fancy ghosts pick out your outfits, the Driskell is perfect for you. Free show idea: “Paranormal Fashion Police. Yea buddy, and the cast was great. Big shouts to Raymond Cruz for being cooler than cool. View this post on Instagram Watch: “The Curse Of La Llorona” star Raymond Cruz talks bringing the funny to a creepy spook fest •• Get the FULL interview on #BOSSIP.com •• cc: @alejandro_niglesias •• #LaLlorona @lalloronamovie #SXSW A post shared by Bossip.com (@bossipofficial) on Apr 18, 2019 at 8:35am PDT Special thanks to Warner Bros. & The MRKT for inviting me. I had a dope time (as you can tell) and will never forget eating like a Wildling at the Driskill while ghosts watched in the corner. As always, I appreciate you reading. Austin, Texas, you’re beautiful. “The Curse of La Llorona” in theaters now!
Source: Warner Bros. Pictures Surviving La Llorona Hey party people, Alex here with another exclusive edition of Bossip Be Trippin’ fresh out the grease for your weekend thrills (and chills). Now, before we start, I urge you to bless your laptop or phone before reading about my experience at the 2019 SXSW Movie Festival in Austin, Texas (where I may or may not have been haunted by a very ashy and very vindictive Mexican ghost named Ll Llorona). For those not hip, La Llorona is a spooky legend passed down through generations that I just learned about a few weeks ago. And yes, she’s probably standing behind you right now without shoes on. But, anyway, the legend begins with a beautiful woman in love with a man she caught creepin’ ( Note : definitely not a Black man, though, because we don’t cheat) before drowning their kids and herself in a spiteful rage. Boom, the curse of La Llorona was born and lives on as a terrifying tale of “the weeping woman” who stalks and drowns kids when she isn’t looking for her own murdered kids in the darkness. Whew, it’s quite the spook fest that inspired Warner Bros. to connect her to the Conjuring universe and invite me to a haunted hotel for a press junket. Peep my lil video recap here. Pray first, though. View this post on Instagram Survived the Curse of #LaLlorona at #SXSW things went from 0 to hell nawl real quick. @wbpictures had us at @thedriskill (WHICH IS HAUNTED ). No one told me about the hotel’s spooky shenanigans until I was already inside. A little girl died in the lobby & they say she still skips around at night she didn’t come out to play when I was there, tho. She knew better . DEF a Top 5 press junket. Special thanks to @shayross for the experience A post shared by Alejandro NIGlesias (@alejandro_niglesias) on Mar 20, 2019 at 3:55pm PDT Imagine walking into a swanky hotel full of friendly people, delicious food and an open bar without knowing it’s haunted. That’s exactly what I did. And I didn’t find out it was haunted until after drink and plate #2. At that point, it was too late. I was already inside the famously haunted Driskill in downtown Austin where Warner Bros. set up a spiritual cleansing experience along with a haunted hotel historian (to basically tell you about everyone who died in the hotel). Look, I’ve never actually been haunted (as far as I know) but played along anyway and let the healer bless me with rose water and a very special egg. I also learned about a little girl who fell and broke her neck on the lobby steps that you can still (allegedly) hear skipping around. Sadly, she didn’t come out to play with me. I know because I looked for her. While some people were shook and claimed to feel presences around them, I cackled at the over-the-top presentations that continued before AND after the screening of “The Curse of La Llorona” (which I enjoyed and recommend to anyone who enjoys stalker ghost shenanigans). Fast forward to our cast interviews the next day at the (you guessed it) haunted Driskill on the fourth floor aka the most haunted floor in the hotel. BECAUSE OF COURSE. Legend has it that Annie Lennox stayed on that floor and couldn’t decide what dress to wear. Moments later, she returns from the bathroom and finds one of her dresses laid out for her on the bed. THE OTHER WAS LOCKED IN THE CLOSET. BoOoO. Seriously, if you’re ever looking for a hotel where fancy ghosts pick out your outfits, the Driskell is perfect for you. Free show idea: “Paranormal Fashion Police. Yea buddy, and the cast was great. Big shouts to Raymond Cruz for being cooler than cool. View this post on Instagram Watch: “The Curse Of La Llorona” star Raymond Cruz talks bringing the funny to a creepy spook fest •• Get the FULL interview on #BOSSIP.com •• cc: @alejandro_niglesias •• #LaLlorona @lalloronamovie #SXSW A post shared by Bossip.com (@bossipofficial) on Apr 18, 2019 at 8:35am PDT Special thanks to Warner Bros. & The MRKT for inviting me. I had a dope time (as you can tell) and will never forget eating like a Wildling at the Driskill while ghosts watched in the corner. As always, I appreciate you reading. Austin, Texas, you’re beautiful. “The Curse of La Llorona” in theaters now!
Source: DjelicS / Getty Growing up, we’re made to believe that perfectionism is something positive. We’re unconsciously taught that being first, never making a mistake, appearing flawless and constantly winning in every facet of life is what’ll get us the best job, the highest salary, a successful friend group, thousands of likes and followers on Instagram, the envy of our peers and the most perfect life ever. Sure, our teachers, parents and coaches probably told us “winning isn’t everything” to make us feel better after some devastating defeat we experienced in adolescence, but since then, literally everything in society seems to contradict their words, assuring us that there’s no way that statement can actually be true. Whether it’s in sports, politics or the work place; whoever the perfect team, candidate or employee is will be rewarded while the rest are left to sulk in their self-identified imperfections. It’s no surprise that seeing this happen repeatedly would lead us to believe that winning is everything, and being perfect is the only thing that opens the door to the success we so desperately seek. So, what exactly is perfectionism? Psychologists define this mindset as “an irrational desire to achieve along with being overly critical of oneself and others” and in our socially connected society, perfectionism has become more than just a mindset, it’s now a way of life. We’ve somehow allowed ourselves to believe that we are defined by what we are, or rather how “perfect” we are when in actuality, that dangerous thought process is holding us back more than it is propelling us forward. The problem with a mindset fixated on perfectionism is that… it simply doesn’t exist. Instead, perfectionism is the ultimate self-sabotage. It’s based on moving through life attempting to avoid mistakes, even when those mistakes are necessary to help us grow, learn, develop confidence and actually achieve the level of success we desire. If you struggle with perfectionism, you’re not alone. A 2017 study found that there has been a 33% rise in socially prescribed perfectionism since 1989, with this generation in particular struggling to keep up with a culture that makes us feel depressed if we’re not on track to becoming the next Kylie Jenner. However, with this rise of perfectionism comes a rise in productive ways to combat this mindset as the conversation around mental health has shifted from one that’s taboo to one that’s open, accepting and understanding. Yes, having ambition and determination to succeed is healthy. But the idea of perfectionism, the fear of making mistakes and listening to the inner voice that leads you to believe that you’re nothing unless you’re winning is what can lead to depression, anxiety and other mental health problems that take us down a path of constant self-criticism, fear and worry that we’re not measuring up to whatever society’s idea of perfect is. Psychologists suggest reversing this unhealthy idea of perfectionism with mental health exercises that’ll help you develop a more realistic view of yourself and your successes. Understand that being perfect isn’t what leads to social acceptance, but rather being your true, authentic and relatable self does. Mistakes are inevitable. They will happen. And the best thing you can do for yourself is to accept them, learn from them and move on to become the person you’re meant to be. To be clear, letting go of the idea of perfectionism doesn’t mean that you give up on your desire to do well. Instead, this means giving up on the inner voice that tells you that you cannot make a mistake, and if you do, you’ll lose everything. Learning to let go of the idea of perfectionism and replacing it with the mantra of “your best is good enough” might sound intimidating at first, but doing so will free your mind from bondage. Rather than letting social expectations tell you what perfection is, strive for a life defined by learning experiences, deep personal connections, and self-assurance that you are enough. RELATED STORIES: Listen To Black Women | Should You Marie Kondo Your Personal Life? 8 Spring Cleaning Tips to Get Your Home Ready For Warmer Weather
Source: DjelicS / Getty Growing up, we’re made to believe that perfectionism is something positive. We’re unconsciously taught that being first, never making a mistake, appearing flawless and constantly winning in every facet of life is what’ll get us the best job, the highest salary, a successful friend group, thousands of likes and followers on Instagram, the envy of our peers and the most perfect life ever. Sure, our teachers, parents and coaches probably told us “winning isn’t everything” to make us feel better after some devastating defeat we experienced in adolescence, but since then, literally everything in society seems to contradict their words, assuring us that there’s no way that statement can actually be true. Whether it’s in sports, politics or the work place; whoever the perfect team, candidate or employee is will be rewarded while the rest are left to sulk in their self-identified imperfections. It’s no surprise that seeing this happen repeatedly would lead us to believe that winning is everything, and being perfect is the only thing that opens the door to the success we so desperately seek. So, what exactly is perfectionism? Psychologists define this mindset as “an irrational desire to achieve along with being overly critical of oneself and others” and in our socially connected society, perfectionism has become more than just a mindset, it’s now a way of life. We’ve somehow allowed ourselves to believe that we are defined by what we are, or rather how “perfect” we are when in actuality, that dangerous thought process is holding us back more than it is propelling us forward. The problem with a mindset fixated on perfectionism is that… it simply doesn’t exist. Instead, perfectionism is the ultimate self-sabotage. It’s based on moving through life attempting to avoid mistakes, even when those mistakes are necessary to help us grow, learn, develop confidence and actually achieve the level of success we desire. If you struggle with perfectionism, you’re not alone. A 2017 study found that there has been a 33% rise in socially prescribed perfectionism since 1989, with this generation in particular struggling to keep up with a culture that makes us feel depressed if we’re not on track to becoming the next Kylie Jenner. However, with this rise of perfectionism comes a rise in productive ways to combat this mindset as the conversation around mental health has shifted from one that’s taboo to one that’s open, accepting and understanding. Yes, having ambition and determination to succeed is healthy. But the idea of perfectionism, the fear of making mistakes and listening to the inner voice that leads you to believe that you’re nothing unless you’re winning is what can lead to depression, anxiety and other mental health problems that take us down a path of constant self-criticism, fear and worry that we’re not measuring up to whatever society’s idea of perfect is. Psychologists suggest reversing this unhealthy idea of perfectionism with mental health exercises that’ll help you develop a more realistic view of yourself and your successes. Understand that being perfect isn’t what leads to social acceptance, but rather being your true, authentic and relatable self does. Mistakes are inevitable. They will happen. And the best thing you can do for yourself is to accept them, learn from them and move on to become the person you’re meant to be. To be clear, letting go of the idea of perfectionism doesn’t mean that you give up on your desire to do well. Instead, this means giving up on the inner voice that tells you that you cannot make a mistake, and if you do, you’ll lose everything. Learning to let go of the idea of perfectionism and replacing it with the mantra of “your best is good enough” might sound intimidating at first, but doing so will free your mind from bondage. Rather than letting social expectations tell you what perfection is, strive for a life defined by learning experiences, deep personal connections, and self-assurance that you are enough. RELATED STORIES: Listen To Black Women | Should You Marie Kondo Your Personal Life? 8 Spring Cleaning Tips to Get Your Home Ready For Warmer Weather
I am old enough to remember Brooke Shields before she transitioned and became a man… I am old enough to remember seeing a 15 year old Brooke Shield when she was a girl…naked on a deserted island…in Blue Lagoon…a role that I like to think was her only worthy role…but also one I was confused about because getting a 15 year old naked in Hollywood is a thing they like to do…but they are usually not so bold as to film it – even if it is for the sake of ART or content….they usually hire 20 year olds to play 15 year olds who get naked. I remember her sitcom, or when she made me question Agassi’s sexuality, something I am sure tennis fans wondered with all his flamboyant neon outfits… Yet here she is in her 50s, maybe 60s…with her ass in the air, like she just washed up on shore….and it’s weird…but not overly weird cuz it looks like she may be back n her estrogen as she’s looking more womanly than she has in years…. Menopause usually does the opposite…so silly…you are…Brooke Shields.. Funny what instagram does to these people, just naked all the time… The post Brooke Shields Beach Slutting Like it was Blue Lagoon’s 50th Anniversary of the Day appeared first on DrunkenStepFather.com .
On this weekend’s Keeping Up With The Kardashians , viewers will see Kourtney bait Khloe into SNAPPING . In real time, Kourtney’s still basking in the aftermath of her 40th birthday. But she can’t help but wonder if she made a huge mistake in her 30s. She and ex-boyfriend Younes Bendjima are back in touch and extremely flirty. Are they getting back together? Kourtney Kardashian an absoutely radiant photo of herself. In the image, which was uploaded to Instagram, she is wearing a stunning and vibrant leather dress. Scarlet is really her color. “Do you take Amex?” Kourtney captioned her gorgeous photo. The pic caught the eyes of her fans and followers … including one person who knows her very, very well. Younes Bendjima, Kourtney’s ex, appreciated the photo. The pair have been broken up for a full nine months, but he left an Instagram comment. “Ya look good minnie mouse,” Younes wrote. Instead of ignoring the compliment or calling him out for being horny on main, Kourtney responded. “Merci, Mickey,” Kourt wrote. Was that just innocent banter between exes? Maybe. But an inside source tells RadarOnline that there is “definitely more to it!” “Kourtney and Younes are talking again,” the insider reports. “And,” the source continues. “She is not going to pretend like she doesn’t still have strong feelings for him.” “Because she does” very much still have feelings for him, the insider explains. Apparently that simple public back-and-forth led to a lot more talk behind-the-scenes. “The whole flirting episode led to the two of them talking again,” the source reveals. “And,” the insider adds. “She told him that she really misses him” “She is trying to be this single and independent woman,” the source expresses. “And she is,” the insider affirms, before adding: “To an extent.” Independence is all well and good, but … “But at the end of the day,” the source says. “Kourtney really does miss him,” the insider affirms. “And,” the source continues. “She is telling her sisters that she needs to get him back.” If she wants to, we would hope that it would be easy. Assuming that Younes has even a shred of common sense, that is. Of course, that may be too bold of an assumption. As you may recall, Kourtney dumped Younes last August. There were reports that Younes had cheated — or at least been overly friendly with — a gorgeous woman. (Seriously, what is it with vaguely suspicious party activities and ending relationships for the Kardashians?) As you can imagine, that did not go over well with Kourtney, and she dropped Younes and never looked back. Until now, that is. Sometimes, moving on means that the negative things from a relationship feel less important than they once were. The human memory is very subjective, and a lot of people romanticize their exes. Remembering the good times can help exes reconnect. Sometimes, it’s a huge success. We think that Kourtney loves too deeply to be as casual with relationships as some imagine. After all, at first, Younes was supposed to be a boy toy, but she fell head over heels. Maybe she and Younes will give it another shot. Or maybe this was just a little friendly banter between super hot exes. View Slideshow: Kourtney Kardashian and Younes Bendjima: See Their Sexy Vacation Pics!
The ovaries are an important part of the female reproductive system. Their job is what got Jenelle Evans a job on the MTV hit show Teen Mom 2 . But now the 27-year-old is opening up about why one of her ovaries was recently removed while she underwent a surgical procedure to tie her tubes. The reality star answered fan questions via her Instagram Stories on Wednesday and told one of her followers why she “only [got] one tube tied.” She explained, “When she tied the other my doc thought the blood supply might be cut off in the long run then die so she took it out completely.” Evans’ rep told Us Weekly on Saturday, April 13 that the TV personality was “healing” after getting surgery to have polyps and cysts removed and get her tubes tied . The North Carolina native later explained why she chose to go forward with the procedure. “I decided to get this procedure because I had a really bad problem of irregular bleeding, which led to ultrasounds then led to my OBGYN suggesting exploration surgery and tubes being tied,” she told the media outlet. “She told me my IUD made my lining very thin, which isn’t good. … I would have never known about any of this unless I had this procedure done.” “In the long run, it was the best decision for my health and gave me a lot of answers to many problems I was experiencing,” she said. One of her problems included her getting “very sick” while pregnant with her three children — Jace, 9, Kaiser, 4, and Ensley, 2 — but she revealed that she is done having kids. “I am happy with the number of kids I have now,” she said in an interview with E! . The JE cosmetics founder’s husband David Eason, whom she married in September of 2017 , “was by her side” during her time in the hospital. Even though he couldn’t for the life of him understand what his wife was even having surgery on. After Jenelle’s procedure, David got her a surfboard as a get-well-soon gift to “get her back on her feet” — but when he shared the picture a fan asked if she had her tubes tied and he said um … no. Jenelle later cleared up her husband’s confusion and confirmed to her fans that she did indeed have her tubes tied. And even though we are once again shaking our heads at David Eason , he has reportedly been a good husband (gasps!) and has continued to take care of her throughout her recovery. “I’m still crippled, y’all,” the MTV star said via her Instagram Stories earlier on Wednesday. “I feel helpless.” We wish the mother of three a speedy recovery so she can get on out there and catch some waves with her (shudders) sweetheart. Now that we would actually tune in to see. Surfs up. View Slideshow: Jenelle Evans Says She’s Done Having Kids; David Eason Says She’s Lying [UPDATED]
