Ireland Baldwin is a big girl, and not just because she turned 18, but because she’s 8 feet tall and 240 lbs…but you can’t tell because she’s in a picture…and in that picture she’s in a bikini… Ireland Baldwin used to follow me on twitter, back when she was 17, it was a glorious few hours before she blocked me…then one day she unblocked me and followed me again and I knew magic was going to happen when she turned 18…only to be blocked again… So I wrote her what I write every girl who stops following me if I notice..cuz I general don’t care about these things..unless it opens up the door to troll…like this: I am ok with you ignoring me because our love being unrequited…it is more romantic…they make movies about these things…movies we won’t see together…but I know are about us….I dream about you everynight…I can’t wait to go to sleep – so that we can be together…and more importantly that I can wake up tomorrow and have another day loving you… Here are her bikini pics…
Dear Bossip , I appreciate you taking time to read my email and thank you in advance for your help. I am having doubts if my boyfriend will ever make it a priority to propose to me. I am a 29-year old white female and my boyfriend is a 25-year old black male. We have been friends for over 11 years, but decided to start a love relationship about four years ago. I approached him two years ago about the idea of marriage and we both came to the conclusion that this was something we both wanted with each other, but my boyfriend is a HUGE procrastinator and TERRIBLE with money. I am seriously doubt that he will ever overcome these shortfalls to save the money to buy me an engagement ring. He has NEVER done anything on time during the entire course of me knowing him. He is always late or waits until the 5th hour to get things done. Even if it is something that is important to him. He just can’t get right with doing things in a timely manner. I am in no way trying to bash him (nobody is perfect), but marriage is something that is very important to me and to be perfectly honest I do not want to be an old bride. Nor, do I want to be like so many other couples around our area that have just been playing house with each other for 13 years. I want this thing to be legit and I want my love to be validated with a ring on my finger. I told him a year ago that if he did not get a ring and propose to me by my 30th birthday that I would have to call off our relationship. I hated to give him an ultimatum like that but I have done similar things with him like this in the past and he seems to work better with a serious deadline. Problem is, I’m turning 30 in February and I know he hasn’t saved up a dime for the ring. Yes, I have reminded him off and on and every time I mention it I can see where he is like, “Awww, -ish, I have GOT to get on that.” But, thinking about it is as far as he gets with it. I like to get things done well in advance so that’s why I am coming to you now so you can give me your honest opinion and I can think about it for the last few months that I have before “D” Day. Should I really call off our relationship if he doesn’t propose to me by February? Was it fair for me to even give him a deadline like that? Marriage is so important to me, but is it really worth losing my lover and best friend? Any feedback would be greatly appreciated. – Ringless Dear Ms. Ringless , You created this. You set this into motion. You accepted this from the very beginning. You said, “He has NEVER done anything on time during the entire course of me knowing him.” So, if you know this, what do you want me to say? (Giving you the side eye) And, now you want me to give you advice on how to get him to change. Why? You’ve been allowing him to do this for 11 years as your friend, and then 4 years in an intimate relationship. Ma’am, HE IS NOT GOING TO CHANGE. He will always be a procrastinator and he will always be terrible with money. It appears that your “boy” friend is content. That is how I would sum up your relationship. It’s contentment. Why does he have to work for anything when you’ve given him the comforts and luxuries of having everything before getting married? You’ve accepted his behaviors for nearly 15 years. For fifteen years he’s been this person, and now you want him to change because YOU want to get married, and have a ring by YOUR 30 th birthday. Bwahahahahahahaha! Good luck with that! Think about it: You were friends for 11 years before you started an intimate relationship. For 11 years you knew one another so well, that to him you were just like one of the guys. You were cool, someone he could chill with, and he enjoyed your friendship. He was comfortable with you. You were comfortable with him. Therefore, he didn’t have to do much work in getting you. Thus, he developed a lackadaisical attitude and simply figured I can be myself with her. Four years ago when you decided to date seriously, I’m sure he was like, “Okay. Sure. It saves me the work of having to prove anything, spend money, and court and date her because she already knows me, and I know her.” He simply went with the flow. And, why would he have to put his best foot forward, work hard, and be about his business when, “You’ve been my friend for eleven years, and I know you, and you know me.” Then two years ago, it was you who approached your boyfriend about marriage. And, again, I’m sure he was like, “Okay. Sure. Why not.” But, he didn’t think it through that he would have to propose, get a ring, set a date, plan a wedding, and all the other stuff required for a wedding. Why would he? You basically proposed to him when you asked him about marriage. Again, you fed into his lackadaisical attitude. He is content with how things are going, so why disrupt what is already working. You’ve made it too easy for him! You live together. You do everything a married couple does. You feed him. Sex him. Wash his clothes. Clean after him. Pay the bills together. You treat him like he’s already your man-child-husband, therefore, why is he going to change? For what? What motivating reason is there for him to change? Life is good, according to him. So, he is content. You do realize he is still the 14-year old boy you met 11 years ago. He has not grown. He is still the same 14-year who needs to be told what to do, when to do it, and why he needs to do it. If you were smart, wise, and really reflected on your relationship, then you would see that he is still that young teenage boy who procrastinates, and is terrible with money. I suggest marriage counseling before getting married, and I also suggest couples therapy. Yes, couples therapy because this relationship is about you keeping and maintaining the relationship with a teenager. He doesn’t have to do anything but simply show up whenever he wants or likes, and he goes with the flow. I’m sure he loves you, but he doesn’t love you enough to make the necessary changes to get his act together. On two different occasions in your letter you said marriage was important to you. Well, Ms. Thing, is it important to him? You said you don’t want to end up like the other couples in your area who are playing house for 13 years. Uhm, what the hell do you think you’re doing now? You also mentioned that you don’t want to be an old bride, and you want your relationship to be legit and validated by a ring. WOW! A ring will validate love for you? Okay. Yes, you need some serious therapy. You want marriage and a ring to not only make you feel validated, but to prove to others that you were able to get a man to marry you. You want to prove to others that you are not like them. You are about the show. I know your type, ma’am. And, you know what, you will have the man, and he may very well marry you, but you will forever be complaining, unhappy, miserable, and trying to change him into the man YOU want him to be. I want you to realize that if you marry him you will forever have to give him deadlines to get things done. You will always have to give him ultimatums, threats, and other ramifications to get what you want, or to get any results from him. And, you nailed it on the head when you said he is your “lover and best friend.” You are absolutely right. He is still your 14-year old best friend, and the only thing you’ve done is introduced sex into the mix. You have to ask yourself: Is he marriage material? Is he reliable? Can you count on him with money, and to handle the finances of the house? How will he be with children? Will he be responsible enough to get them to school on time? I’m telling you he is not going to change. You’ve allowed him to be this way for so long, and co-signed this bull-ish for 15 years. You have to decide if you’re willing to commit to another 15 years of co-signing this, and putting up with his procrastination and terrible finances. – Terrance Dean Hey Bossip Fam, what do you think? Share your opinions and thoughts below! Also, e-mail all your questions Terrance Dean : loveandrelationships@bossip.com Follow Terrance Dean on Twitter : @terrancedean “LIKE” Terrance Dean on Facebook , click HERE! Make sure to order my books Mogul: A Novel (Atria Books – June 2011; $15); Hiding In Hip Hop (Atria Books – June 2008); and Straight From Your Gay Best Friend – The Straight Up Truth About Relationships, Love, And Having A Fabulous Life (Agate/Bolden Books – November 2010; $15). They are available in bookstores everywhere, and on Amazon, click HERE!
My name is Krissi and I met Justin, the crew and some of his family members on July 25th at the Air Canada Center in Toronto . I’ve been a belieber for about four years now. I would first like to say I never thought in a million years I would be one of the lucky girls to actually meet Justin and write one of these. When I first heard Justin was adding new tour dates, I knew immediately I had to try and get tickets. I had been to one of the Believe Tour shows before and it was amazing but I wanted to try and get better seats for the show coming up. I asked my mom and she promised me she would try to get them while she was at work. During our Christmas dinner with the family, she made me try to guess where I was sitting. After many much failed guesses my uncle finally said “GUESS THE FIRST ROW!” I was in shock and I almost started crying. My mom told me I was going to watch the concert from the first row and meet him before the show. I pretty much just ran inside another room and cried. Pattie (Justin’s mom) was doing a book signing the morning of the concert , for her teen version of “Nowhere But Up.” When I saw Pattie I immediately started crying but when I went up to meet her, I was able to pull it together. “Hi! How are you hun?” is the first thing she said to me. I told her that I loved her book so much and she said, “Aww thanks you’re adorable.” I basically started tearing up again from there and we took a picture. She gave me a hug too! Now let’s fast forward to meeting Justin. My friend Mackenzie, who also went with me to the concert was waiting in line with me. We were so nervous. I had no clue what I was going to say or do when I saw Justin. She walked right in and I stood there watching him take the picture with her. It felt like a dream. I could barely even breathe just looking at him knowing I was next. Kenny then told me I was next so I walked up to Justin. He held his arm out so he could put it around my waist for the picture. I asked if I could have a hug and he responded saying, “Ya of course!” He was so warm and he smelled amazing! We posed for the picture and I turned to him with my hand on his arm saying “Thank you so much Justin!” He took my hand and held it. He winked at me and smiled. I just about died. When I walked out of the room I was so happy, I started bawling my eyes out. I’ve never cried like that before, ever. Later on during the concert while Justin was singing ‘Baby,’ he pointed directly at me, then walked up right in front of me while singing. It was so amazing! During the show I waved to Fredo, Scooter, Pattie, his grandparents, and Ryan Butler. I also gave Dan Kanter a high five. This was the best day of my entire life and I want to thank my mom for getting me tickets and being so supportive of my love for Justin. If Justin ever reads this I would also like to thank him for helping me to never say never and chase my dream. Read more here: My name is Krissi and I met Justin, the crew and some of his…
On Wednesday July 24 (the day before the show), everyone who entered the BieberFever contest was so anxious to see if they won. My friend Brenna (@AvonsSahyounie) and I saw that at around 7pm, one Canadian belieber got emailed so we thought that all of them did and we no longer had hope that we would meet Justin. It turned out that those emails were fake. At about 10:21pm, my friend Brenna got an email saying she won! When she told me, I didn’t even believe her. We had promised each other that if we would win, we’d take each other. We got to the venue the next day (July 25) and got our wristbands. While waiting for our turn, we saw Kenny, Chaz and Ryan. I was so anxious to finally meet Justin for the first time. At about 7:21/7:22pm (I know this because I had turned my voice memo on) it was my turn to meet him. When I was in front of the curtain, I was shaking so hard knowing Justin was right behind there. When I walked in and saw Justin, my heart stopped. I paused and then slowly walked over because I couldn’t believe it. I didn’t get there fast enough to stand beside Justin. I tried to bend in front of Justin for the photo but security was like, “That’s a bad spot, move to the side.” Then the girl on the far right from my meet and greet photo said to Brenna, “Get on your knees” and Justin said, “That’s what she said,” and we all laughed! Right after that, the photographer (Mike Lerner) said, “1,2,3 SMILE!” We all did (well Justin isn’t really smiling, haha) and a second after the photo had been taken, I asked Justin for a hug and he responded with, “Guys I can’t sorry there’s too many people but I love you all.” I started bawling because security would NOT let go of me and I was yelling “JUSTIN, JUSTIN, JUSTIN” and Justin was like “BLAHBDHSJDHK STOP STOP, STOP, I LOVE YOU!” while 2 security guards were pushing me. I just bawled even more after hearing him yell, “I LOVE YOUUUU!” On July 25th, my idol finally told me up close he loved me and I still can’t believe it. I have been waiting for so long to write a My Bieber Experience like many of you beliebers and my time has finally come. Do not ever give up. -Nisma (@XOJBIIEBERXO) The rest is here: On Wednesday July 24 (the day before the show), everyone who…
I hate lingerie catalog pictures and always have…when it came to pre-internet, no available porn because it was confiscated masturbation, I was always the more cultured and exotic type who hit National Geographic, while the while suburbanites did the Sears Catalog…sure it was an era of bush, nipples and shitty manual photoshop airbrushing skills, where nipples and vagina definition happened, but just the studio environment was with the same pose over and over was just fucking dull…so even now when I post these things, of models I have professed my love to over and over, in emails, tweets, instagram comments, packages sent, interpretive dance and even song…only to be ignored because they know they can do better than me, the pics bore me, but her belly button doesn’t that thing looks like it has a vagina of it’s own and I want to dig in deep with my tongue…but I may just be overly excited since Emily Ratajkowski is one of the best there ever was as far as I’m concerned….
Pauly D, be more selective about your next baby mama. Pauly D’s Baby Mama Told Live-In Boyfriend He Was The Father Good thing Pauly got that paternity test…now he needs to stop sticking his peen in random slores. According to Radar Online: The Hooters waitress who bedded reality star Pauly D during a one-night stand and later gave birth to his love child lived an EPIC lie, allowing her live-in boyfriend to believe the child was his… when it actually was not. Donn Barbitta, who lived with Amanda Markert in Egg Harbor, N.J. until this week, believed five-month old Amabella was his offspring, RadarOnline.com has exclusively learned. He only learned of the ultimate deception when news of the paternity broke earlier this week. “He broke up with Amanda on Monday,” a source close to the situation told Radar. “He’s been humiliated.” When contacted, Barbitta confirmed he had been in a relationship with Markert but remained tight-lipped. “I really don’t want to talk about this right now… but you have seen my Facebook photos,” he said, in an exclusive interview. Indeed, Barbitta’s Facebook page is littered with images of of the proud ”dad” cradling tiny Amabella, the most recent on October 2. In one message posted on July 26, two months after the child was born, he referred to girlfriend Markert as his “wifey” and said “I love you so much baby.” “Even through the ups and downs were stronger than ever,” he wrote. “Today is your day so let’s enjoy it and party it up boo!!” As Radar previously reported, 33-year-old Pauly D, aka Paul DelVecchio, revealed he and Markert had not been in a relationship, beyond a hook-up in Las Vegas in 2012. “[He] wasn’t exactly planning for it to happen this way,” a source said, ”but God works in mysterious ways.” They added, “He tried to keep the baby news a secret. Most of his family and friends found out the news the same time as the rest of the world did. Everyone was shocked!” Poor guy is posting pics of the baby on Facebook and thinking it’s his….these slores are scandalous. WENN/Twitter Continue reading →
What happened to “we want prenup” Kanye? Kanye West Doesn’t Want Prenup We understand Kanye is all in love, but those Kardashians are sneaky. They dragged the dumped hump Kris Humphries and have blackballed Bruce Jenner. According to Hollywood Life: So sweet! Kanye, 36, is really showing how much he loves and trusts Kim by refusing to get a prenup, a source tells HollywoodLife.com EXCLUSIVELY. “Kanye’s in love with Kim to the point of infatuation. It’s scary because the love is so powerful, Kanye doesn’t even want to have a prenup,” the source says. “He thinks it’s tacky and he doesn’t want to offend Kim or make anything seem awkward. He loves Kim too much for that to even cross his mind. He thinks of his money and his accomplishments and hers and he wants to share them with her — no strings attached.” Kanye is turning out to be a real family man! His top priority is making sure that his future wife and their baby North West are taken care of. “Kanye’s got more money than the he knows what to do with — so does Kim. He doesn’t care about that,” the source reveals. “If he died tomorrow, everything he has is in Kim and Nori’s name. There will be no prenup. It’s all about love, nothing else matters.” Kanye needs to think with the head on his shoulders and not on his peen. Continue reading →
What happened to “we want prenup” Kanye? Kanye West Doesn’t Want Prenup We understand Kanye is all in love, but those Kardashians are sneaky. They dragged the dumped hump Kris Humphries and have blackballed Bruce Jenner. According to Hollywood Life: So sweet! Kanye, 36, is really showing how much he loves and trusts Kim by refusing to get a prenup, a source tells HollywoodLife.com EXCLUSIVELY. “Kanye’s in love with Kim to the point of infatuation. It’s scary because the love is so powerful, Kanye doesn’t even want to have a prenup,” the source says. “He thinks it’s tacky and he doesn’t want to offend Kim or make anything seem awkward. He loves Kim too much for that to even cross his mind. He thinks of his money and his accomplishments and hers and he wants to share them with her — no strings attached.” Kanye is turning out to be a real family man! His top priority is making sure that his future wife and their baby North West are taken care of. “Kanye’s got more money than the he knows what to do with — so does Kim. He doesn’t care about that,” the source reveals. “If he died tomorrow, everything he has is in Kim and Nori’s name. There will be no prenup. It’s all about love, nothing else matters.” Kanye needs to think with the head on his shoulders and not on his peen. Continue reading →
Elijah Wood attended the premiere of his exec-produced flick Toad Road held at Arena Cinema in Hollywood. The film is a documentary style horror thriller. Elijah talks about his love for the…
