Catherine Giudici is officially a Lowe. The Bachelor winner took her husband’s last name following her fairy tale TV nuptials with Sean Lowe last month. The switch is official, as Catherine Giudici proudly declared, “The best day of my life. I’m a Lowe!” to her 500,000 Twitter and Instagram followers. The newlyweds have just returned from a romantic honeymoon in the tropics, and Sean says he is “so freakin’ happy” with how it all turned out. Married life does seem to suit the couple rather well. Since returning from her honeymoon, she’s been posting photos of her and her new husband cuddling in bed, as well as photos from her wedding. The two had their doubters when he picked her on The Bachelor, but he was true to his word that she was the one – and he was willing to wait for her. Seriously. They passed a premarital sex polygraph . In making the name change, Cat follows in the footsteps of Bachelorette Trista Rehn, took her husband Ryan Sutter’s last name after their marriage. Molly Malaney, who married former Bachelor Jason Mesnick in 2011, did the same, although Ashley Hebert did not take J.P. Rosenbaum’s last name. Desiree Hartsock is engaged to Chris Siegfried, and they seem like they’re going to make it, so we’ll see if she goes the Lowe route soon enough. As for Juan Pablo and his chosen bride? If you believe The Bachelor spoilers , don’t hold your breath for any name changes … we’re just saying. Where are all your favorite Bachelor and Bachelorette couples now? Scroll through the gallery below and find out who made it and who fizzled out? The Bachelor Couples: Are They Still Together? Open Slideshow 1. Ashley Hebert and JP Rosenbaum Ashley Hebert and JP Rosenbaum are married. He won her heart on The Bachelorette. View As List 1. Ashley Hebert and JP Rosenbaum Ashley Hebert and JP Rosenbaum are married. He won her heart on The Bachelorette. 2. Brad Womack and Emily Maynard Brad Womack and Emily Maynard did not last. He chose no one on his first stint on The Bachelor, making in 0-for-2. 3. Jake Pavelka and Vienna Girardi Jake Pavelka and Vienna Girardi got engaged on The Bachelor. They broke up in epic fashion and did not last long, to the surprise of no one. 4. Sean Lowe and Catherine Giudici Sean Lowe and Catherine Giudici got engaged on The Bachelor in 2013. They are set to wed in early 2014. 5. Desiree Hartsock and Chris Siegfried Desiree Hartsock and Chris Siegfried got engaged on The Bachelorette in 2013. They are still a thing! 6. Jason Mesnick and Molly Malaney Jason Mesnick and Molly Malaney got engaged, and married, and had a kid! After he dumped his final rose recipient Melissa Rycroft and chose Molly instead … close enough. 7. Ben Flajnik and Courtney Robertson Ben Flajnik and Courtney Robertson got engaged on The Bachelor, and lasted for about a year. They broke up. 8. Emily Maynard and Jef Holm Emily Maynard and Jef Holm broke up really fast. She chose Jef with one F over Sean Lowe on The Bachelorette. Bad call. 9. Ali Fedotowsky and Roberto Martinez Ali Fedotowsky and Roberto Martinez dated for a long while. They didn’t last, however. 10. Jillian Harris and Ed Swiderski Jillian Harris and Ed Swiderski’s engagement was short-lived. She’s better off for it. 11. Jesse Csincsak and Deanna Pappas Jesse Csincsak and Deanna Pappas got engaged after The Bachelorette chose him over Jason Mesnick. Did not take. 12. Trista Rehn and Ryan Sutter Trista Rehn and Ryan Sutter have been together so long, we forget that she was ever not Mrs. Ryan Sutter. They have been married for a decade and have two kids! 13. Matt Grant and Shayne Lamas These two lasted about four minutes.
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Dayum, that was quick Terrell Owens Secretly Weds Postal Worker Bride Chick is a postal worker and got him to put a ring on it super quick…she must have some really good box. According to Radar Online: After a very short engagement, former NLF star Terrell Owens secretly married his postal worker bride at a Norwalk, Calif. courthouse on Thursday, RadarOnline.com is exclusively reporting. Owens, 40, and Rachel Snider, 33, tied the knot in front of one witness and both wore blue, an insider tells Radar. The father of four (from four separate women) confirmed the marriage to Radar. Snider only just confirmed her engagement to the reality TV star on Jan. 20, posting the announcement on her Facebook page. Congrats to the happy couple.
According to a woman who knows him very well, Bruce Jenner is not getting a sex change . Yes, rumors of this procedure have actually sprung up around the Internet, thanks to a National Enquirer story that says Bruce got his Adam’s Apple shaved down on January 19 and then asked about “having his penis removed next.” Should readers be buying this story? Or treating it like claims that OJ Simpson is Khloe Kardashian’s real dad? 39 Krazy Kardashian Tabloid Kover Klaims Open Slideshow 1. OJ as Khloe Kardashian’s Father? Bombshell alert! OJ Simpson may be Khloe Kardashian’s father. Do you believe this rumor? View As List 1. OJ as Khloe Kardashian’s Father? Bombshell alert! OJ Simpson may be Khloe Kardashian’s father. Do you believe this rumor? 2. Kim Kardashian: Under Kanye’s Control! Kim Kardashian is apparently being controlled by a madman named Kanye West. Tough break for the reality star. 3. Kardashians Split! Is it all over for Kourtney Kardashian and Scott Disick? Yes, based on this cover story. 4. Bruce Jenner Tell-All? Is Bruce Jenner going to write a tell-all? We doubt it, but you never know. 5. Kris Jenner and Ben Flajnik Cover Kris Jenner has been hooking up with Ben Flajnik. This cover story confirms it, clearly. 6. Kourtney Kardashian Wedding Story Is a wedding finally on the way for Kourtney Kardashian? This magazine claims she will tie the knot with Scott Disick. 7. Kim Kardashian is a Cheater! Kim Kardashian is a weight loss cheater! And she’s apparently been caught by Life & Style. 8. Kim-Kanye Wedding Cover The Kim Kardashian-Kanye West wedding is on hold, people! Will they ever make it down the aisle? 9. Khloe Kardashian: In Tears! Khloe Kardashian has one question when it comes to her sister’s engagement: Where is MY happy ending?!? 10. Kylie Jenner and Kendall Jenner Cover Are Kylie Jenner and Kendall Jenner teenage trainwrecks? Yes, according to Star. 11. Bruce Jenner to Destroy Kris Jenner? Bruce Jenner is out to destroy Kris Jenner. Will he succeed? 12. Kim Kardashian Bikini Body: The Return! It’s back! Kim Kardashian has regained her bikini body! We knew she could do it! 13. Kim Kardashian on Life & Style Cover Kourtney Kardashian is pissed at Kim Kardashian, according to this tabloid. She wants her sister to “act like a mom.” 14. Kim Kardashian and her New Body Kim Kardashian has a new body! Hooray for her! Check it out on this tabloid cover. 15. Exposing the Kardashians Kris Jenner’s sister cannot remain quiet any longer. She spills the family’s secrets in this issue of In Touch Weekly. 16. Kim Kardashian Dumped Cover Kim Kardashian has totally been dumped by Kanye West. Too bad. We liked these kids together. 17. Khloe Kardashian Baby Cover Khloe Kardashian wants to adopt. Who cares about her problems with Lamar Odom?!? 18. Lamar Odom Tell-All Claim Lamar Odom is totally writing a tell-all… if you believe this tabloid cover for some reason. We somehow do not. 19. Double Kardashian Divorce? We know Khloe Kardashian has been going through a lot. But this cover story claims Kris Jenner is also headed for a divorce. 20. Khloe Kardashian Divorce Story Khloe Kardashian could headed toward a $75 million divorce. Are you buying this cover story? 21. Kim Kardashian Baby Plea Kim Kardashian apparently wants the world to meet North West. But this tabloid cover claims Kanye is against it. 22. Kim Kardashian: So Tortured! Kim Kardashian is reportedly tortured by her very own body. That has to be kind of awkward. 23. Khloe Kardashian Kover Klaim Khloe Kardashian is facing her worst nightmare. Lamar Odom clearly had unprotected sex with another woman. 24. Kim Kardashian Pregnant Story No way Kim Kardashian is pregnant again…. right?!? Try telling that to this tabloid cover story! 25. Kim Kardashian Wedding Story Kim Kardashian wants to marry Kanye West. According to this Us Weekly cover story, at least. 26. Khloe Kardashian Star Cover Khloe Kardashian is not looking her best in this photo. She is not acting her best, either, apparently. 27. Kourtney Kardashian: Pregnant Again? Is Kourtney Kardashian pregnant again?!? Yes, according to this tabloid at least. 28. Khloe Kardashian Tabloid Picture Khloe Kardashian will raise her baby alone, dammit! Granted, she doesn’t have a baby. But still. 29. Khloe Kardashian In Touch Cover The marriage between Khloe Kardashian and Lamar Odom is on the rocks. If you believe this issue of In Touch Weekly. 30. Khloe Kardashian: Done! Khloe Kardashian is totally done with her marriage. If you are believing this tabloid cover, that is. 31. Khloe Kardashian Cover Will Khloe Kardashian be next? This cover story claims she is dead set on becoming a mother. 32. Kim Kardashian Weight Story Kim Kardashian is obsessed with losing her baby weight. So states this In Touch Weekly story at least. 33. Kim Kardashian: I Just Can’t Do This! Kim Kardashian says she just can’t do this. At least In Touch Weekly claims she says that. 34. Kanye West Cheating Claim Kanye West totally cheated on Kim Kardashian. If this cover story is to be believed, that is. 35. Kim Kardashian Life & Style Drama There may be drama in the delivery room for Kim Kardashian. Will she get a C section?!? 36. Kim Kardashian on In Touch Weekly Poor Kim Kardashian. It looks like she’ll be all alone in her delivery room when the big day arrives. 37. Scheming Kim Kardashian? Kim Kardashian has a plan! She is totally gonna sell baby photos behind Kanye West’s back! 38. Broke Kardashians? Are the Kardashians really broke?!? Yes, if you somehow believe this tabloid story. 39. Kanye West: Gay?!? Oh my God! Kanye West may be gay! No wonder Kim Kardashian is freaking out. The latter, Kris Jenner told Entertainment Tonight on Wednesday, saying “99 percent of the stuff in the media, in the tabloids, is made up.” So, wait… Kim Kardashian isn’t under the control of Kanye West? And she isn’t pregnant again? And Scott Disick isn’t a partying douchebag who hits on girls in Las Vegas? Okay, that last one may be part of the one percent. “The bottom line is we sell magazines,” Jenner concluded, not complaining about her family’s role in this world of fake journalism, but simply acknowledging why many publications conjure up tales about her loved ones. Still, just in case, we’re gonna keep a close eye on Bruce Jenner’s penis. That may have come out wrong.
Dear Bossip , I’m coming to you to ask advice on how to handle a situation that affects my whole entire family. My boyfriend and I are expecting our first born. Although this wasn’t planned, I was actually still using birth control when we found out, I am looking forward to motherhood and this new chapter in my life. My parents (especially my mother) are livid that his has happened before we are married. She blatantly told me that I am a failure even though I have a college degree, masters, and currently working on my PhD. There is no doubt in my mind that my boyfriend is who I want to be with and he has expressed the same as well. I have also heard that he is putting down on a ring and planning on proposing in the near future. My parents are pushing for us to have a civil wedding and go to justice of the peace before the baby is born and then have a religious wedding after. They are worried about how they will be viewed by other family and friends being that their daughter is pregnant and unwed. My boyfriend’s family would like for us to marry in a civil wedding but they are supportive of whatever decision we decide to go with as long as we are doing what we feel is best for us. They are overjoyed that there is a baby on the way and looking forward to a new addition. My boyfriend has expressed to me (and my parents) that he is in love with me but only wants one wedding. He wants to give me the dream wedding that I want. The dream wedding that I don’t have the time, energy or finances to plan just yet because we are in the process of getting ready for the baby and moving into a bigger place. He has also told me that if I really want a civil wedding then he will give me just that but that a later ceremony is out of the question because if we are already married why go through the hassle of planning and having a ceremony for show? His wish is to go through with this one time. And stay married. My father and I have a decent relationship and we speak regularly, but things have gotten so bad with my mother that she barely talks to me. She doesn’t mention my pregnancy and never asks how I am feeling. I have never changed the way I act around her but her attitude towards me has been a complete 180; almost as if this is her way of punishing me. She doesn’t even know when my due date is. When I bring up my feelings to her, that as her daughter all I ask for is support and motherly advice and that right now my main focus is my health and remaining stress free, she ignores me. When she’s not ignoring me she’s shaming me and telling me that if I don’t get married before the baby is born I will never get married and that my boyfriend will leave me. I have already been to the ER for an anxiety attack and spiking blood pressure. She feels as if I don’t care about her or my father and that I should be worried about what my aunts, uncles, cousins, etc think about me. That is not the case. I am extremely attached to my family, but I expressed to her that my biggest fear is that if I marry someone because someone else wanted me to and not because I was not yet ready in my heart. Her response, “Then break up, people do it all the time.” So, then what is the point of marriage? Just to run down the altar, and later get a divorce? I don’t agree with that. As strong as my bond is with my boyfriend, this has put a dent on our relationship because he feels that I am spending too much time stressing myself out and that I am not putting our future family first. He has expressed to me that all he wants is to see me happy and that if the situation with my family is so volatile, I should try to distance myself as much as possible for my sake and sanity, but it’s not that easy. He is scared for my health and our unborn child and fears all this stress could lead me to miscarry. My question, should I rush into marriage because that’s what my family wants and put my relationship on the line? Or do I take my time and do what makes me happy and put my wants first? – Civil or Wedding Ceremony Dear Ms. Civil or Wedding Ceremony , First, congratulations on your pregnancy. It sounds as if you have some wonderful support systems in place that are encouraging and positive. But, ma’am, your momma needs to “sat” down somewhere and mind her business. THE HELL!!?!?! These mommas and their trying to keep a leash on their grown a** children need to get some business, or some good piping! I’m just saying. Now, what I’m going to need for you to do is grow up the hell up, and stop acting like a little girl seeking her mother’s approval. And, that is what’s going on here. You are still that little girl who is desperately trying to make her mother happy. You’re trying to do all the right things to bring her happiness, and to make her proud of you. You boast of your education, and living up to these standards for your mother’s approval. Unfortunately all she sees is her daughter pregnant, unmarried, and shacking up with some man. Not that she has done a great job in raising you, instilling morals and values, and that you are competent and capable of taking care of yourself. No, all your mother is concerned about is what other people will think. Who the “F**K” cares what other people think. They are not paying your bills, paying for your education, sleeping with you at night, financing you, feeding you, or taking care of you in any capacity. So, why be bothered and concerned with your mother’s issues that she’s imposing upon you. That’s her –ish, and don’t let her dump her –ish off on you attempting to make you feel guilty. Ugh! I can’t stand bourgeoisie uppity a** folks! You have a boyfriend who is standing by your side, and is committed to marrying you and building a family with you, and his family is even supportive of whatever you decide to do. So, why is your mother’s panties all in a bunch? She needs to get over herself, and have several seats. I agree with your boyfriend in that this joyous moment in your life should not be filled with anxiety and stress. Your focus and concern should be your health and well-being for the sake of your baby. And, here you are worrying about what your mother thinks. Like your boyfriend said, you are going to have to distance yourself, focus on your health and your unborn baby so that you can deliver a healthy and happy baby. Look, I understand you have a close relationship with your family. But, why would you keep allowing yourself to be mistreated and dogged by your mother, who’s already created anxiety in your life which sent you to the ER. IT’S NOT WORTH IT! Stop trying to prove yourself to her. Stop trying to make her happy. Stop trying to get her approval. No matter what you do she will not be happy. Not unless you do it her way. So, you have to make a choice: Either you grow up and be a woman and start making grown woman decisions and choices; or you continue being this little girl waiting on your mother to tell you things are okay, and she’s proud of you. In regard to the wedding, you have to do what makes you happy. Again, I agree with you boyfriend and his family, if getting married is so important to your family, then a civil wedding will do. But, to do another wedding just for show is costly, and can put a financial strain on the future of your marriage. Don’t create added or extra stress if you don’t have to. Now, if you decide to wait to do the big ceremony after the child is born, then simply wait. You can take your time and plan a wedding, coordinate all the details, and go all out. Is this what you truly desire? Is this what you need to validate yourself, or will it be for show and for your mother and her friends and the rest of your family? Honestly, you have to do what makes you happy. Think about your future, and take into consideration how this will affect your relationship. You’ve already stated this has put a dent in your relationship. What you don’t want to do is run off a good man because you are trying to make your mother happy. Your boyfriend has told you that he is supportive of whatever you decide, and his family is even encouraging. The decision is yours. Not your mothers and what she wants. Look, I understand your mother is concerned that if you don’t do it now then you never will. What I think is going on is that she is worried and concerned about losing her daughter. She can no longer control you. You will become your husband’s wife, his partner, and she won’t have a say in your life any longer. So, now she is guilting you and shaming you. But, all she really wants is just to protect you, however, the way she is going about it is extremely unhealthy and inappropriate. She is creating unnecessary stress and drama. And, as a mother and parent she should know better. Furthermore, she is the one who is caught up in appearances, and what others think. Unfortunately, she cannot see how what she is doing is causing damage to you, and making you unhappy. Ma’ma, don’t allow her to displace her own issues and problems onto you. Again, distance yourself and keep the lines of communication open with your father. Keep him informed of what’s going on, what’s happening, your due date, and all other important information. Trust me, he will relay this information to your mother. And, when it’s for the baby to be delivered, your parents will be there. Despite all this drama, she will be right there trying to lay claim on her grandbaby. After the baby is born you and your mother need to have a serious conversation. You need to readjust your life as an adult woman, stop trying to appease your mother and make her happy, and eventually come into your own. This level of doing things for your mother’s sake has got to stop. It will ruin your marriage, and relationship with your man. It’s not worth it. At some point you’re going to have to put your mother in her place, politely, and let her know she did a great job, but now it’s time to take off the overly protective mother gloves off, and let go of what people think. – Terrance Dean Hey Bossip Fam, what do you think? Share your opinions and thoughts below! Also, e-mail all your questions Terrance Dean : loveandrelationships@bossip.com Follow Terrance Dean on Twitter : @terrancedean “LIKE” Terrance Dean on Facebook , click HERE! 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Kevin Hart Admits That He’s Talked About Marriage With Girlfriend Eniko Sounds like Hollyweird funnyman Kevin Hart will be the next one headed down the aisle sooner than later. In a recent interview with Power 106 Radio , Kevin admitted that marriage with his long-time lady love Eniko is definitely on his mind. He had this to say in response to a question about being ready for marriage again: It’s definitely in my future. I got a good one. I wish I could sit up here and lie and say that it hasn’t been talked about and ‘oh my god there’s no way’ but we’ve got some years in. We’re going on almost five years pretty soon. She’s definitely proven herself, she’s there for me, I know that she loves me. She’s stepped up and taken a role in my life as well as my kids its a beautiful thing. So it’s something that definitely in talks. Hmmmmm. Wonder how long before Kevin pops the question…he sounds like it could be any day now.
Love don’t live here anymore. Hilary Duff And Husband Divorcing These two gave it the old college try, but just couldn’t make it work. Oh well…at least he didn’t have a secret baby on her. According to ABC News: Hilary Duff and Mike Comrie are ending their marriage. According to a rep for the actress, the two have agreed upon “an amicable separation.” “They remain best friends and will continue to be in each other’s lives,” Duff’s publicist told ABC News. “They are dedicated to loving and parenting their amazing son, and ask for privacy at this time.” Duff, 26, and Comrie, 33, wed in 2010, and welcomed son Luca more than a year later. According to People magazine, though they tried to work out their issues in couples therapy, it ultimately became clear that they “work better as friends.” “There was no major incident – no big event between the two of them. They really did drift apart,” a source told the magazine. “They have put effort and thought into this decision for a long time…. And they really are great friends.” It’s good that they’re remaining cordial for their son. Getty
Once dem babies are away, the parents will play. Nick Cannon And Mariah Carey Have Frequent Sex To Keep Marriage Alive Nick must be laying that pipe right if Mariah feels comfortable enough to stunt in a red bikini before Christmas. According to US Weekly: Nick Cannon got extra personal while sharing the secret to his successful marriage with Mariah Carey. The 33-year-old America’s Got Talent host recently chatted with Us Weekly about his recent family vacation — and how he and Carey don’t let their 2-year-old twins cramp their love life! How do the spouses of five years keep the flame alive in their marriage? “Lots of sex,” Cannon candidly told Us at the Variety Breakthrough Awards in Las Vegas on Thursday, Jan. 9. The lovebirds also enjoy quality time together on vacation. “It was wonderful. We do that every year,” he shared. “We go away and have a nice little Winter Wonderland.” But Cannon explained to Us that he doesn’t need vacations to keep him happy in life. “I tell everybody that my vocation is my vacation. It doesn’t seem like work,” the comedian shared. “Not like where you come home your feet hurt, you’ve been out in the hot sun . . . that’s work. I get to get up and be creative.” Let’s see if these two are still getting it poppin’ when they’re drooling and in diapers. GSI
Dear Bossip, I am really confused. I have been married to my husband for a year and we have been together almost a three years. Five months before we got married he moved out of our home and moved back with his mother. He told me he wasn’t ready to get married. Two weeks later, I find out that he has went back to his baby’s mother. I was devastated and mad as hell. Two months later we talked and ended up getting back together. A couple months after that we got married. I thought we were doing good. We got married in August and then I found out I was pregnant. Not exactly was I was planning on since I had started school again. With my pregnancy I became super sick because of my high blood pressure. Two months later my husband loses his job and I’m dumbfounded. Our relationship went from bad, because of my pregnancy, to worst, because of his job lost. We talked many times about getting a divorce and getting on with our lives. During these last couple of months I have been in and out of the hospital with this pregnancy. Eventually, my husband got a job cutting hair. One day I went to get my tags for my car and I called him while I was in line and I didn’t get an answer, and he always answers when I call. I remember getting off the exit to go home and something told me to go check his job or his mom house to see if he was there. No he wasn’t. I went to his baby’s mother apartment and there is his car sitting there. I’m crying and calling him and got no answer. I decided to put him out. I had the spare key to his car and I took his car, brought it home and loaded it up. I talked to his baby mother and I found out that they had been sleeping with each other since he lost his job in March. I just so happen to catch him that day. I’m confused on what to do. Of course he has begged and apologized. I’m due in a few months and our lease will be up our apartment. I’m on disability because of my pregnancy and money is small compared to what I made before getting pregnant. He says that he doesn’t want a divorce and he was sorry and it won’t happen again. I’m on my last straw, the last monhts of my pregnancy and lease for our apartment. What should I do? We have already gone through counseling. – Stay Or Try Again Dear Ms. Stay Or Try Again , Let the lease run out. Move your things out. Leave him. Get a divorce and move on with your life. See how easy that is! Chile, I swear the common sense gene is rare the days. You can sit over there and fool your own damn self listening to that man as he tells you that he doesn’t want a divorce and he’s sorry and it won’t happen again, yet he keeps sleeping with his baby momma. LMBAO! Girl, hop on one leg and pat yourself on the head if you believe that. Your husband is deceitful, manipulative, trifling, and a liar. He’s cheated on you several times, even during your pregnancy, and you caught him, yet, you’re asking me what to do. Sigh! This is the classic case of, “Even though he told me he didn’t want to get married, I didn’t care what he wanted because I wanted to be married, and besides, I LOVE HIM!” Thus, when –ish hits the fan, such as when he cheats on you, then you want to get all up in a huff because, “How dare he sleep with another woman and we’re married.” Sigh! If I’ve said it once, I’ve said it a thousand times in letters to women like you in this situation: When someone tells you who they are, believe them. When someone shows you who they are, believe them. If someone tells you they don’t want to be in a relationship, then guess what? They don’t want to be in a relationship with you either. And, if someone tells you they don’t want to get married, then guess what? Say it with me class: THEY DON’T WANT TO GET MARRIED, AND NOT TO YOU EITHER. Why are you holding on to someone who doesn’t want to be held? Why make someone commit to you and they are not ready to commit to themselves? If he isn’t ready to commit to marriage or a relationship, then you get exactly what you deserve. He won’t commit to you or anyone else, so he’ll keep sleeping with you and his baby momma because the both of you are silly a** broads who keep letting him lay between your legs and fill your small heads with lies. And, because he knows you’re not going to go anywhere, and neither will she, he keeps playing this game with the both of you. And, because the both of you are so desperate for a man, you’ll rather have a piece of man, who keeps showing you who he is with his trifling cheating ways, and yet you keep running behind him trying to convince him to love you, and that you need him. Sweetie, this MoFo doesn’t give a “F” about you! Stop perching your lips and drinking from his nut sac! Now, guess what’s going to happen? You’re going to be baby momma number two. He’s going to get back into a relationship with his first baby momma. You two women are going to end up arguing and fighting over this bum a** dude who cuts hair and can’t afford to pay child support. And, even though he’s the problem in this equation, and he’s cheating and sleeping with the both of you, the two of you are going to fight and brawl with each other like two chicken heads fighting for scraps of d**k meat. SMDH! Then, he’s going to tell you how much he loves you and misses you and you’re going to believe him and spread your legs wide open for him, again. Which means he’s sticking the both of you raw, i.e. Sharing community d**k. And, you two aren’t the only women he’s running up in. Trust me there is a third and fourth chick out there somewhere. Probably in the same apartment complex as you, and his baby momma. And, guess what’s going to happen? All of y’all are going to end up pregnant at the same time. Chile, I should put my psychic abilities to better use. LMBAO! Look, Ms. Honey, chalk this up as a lesson learned. I need for you take a good look at yourself and become conscious of how you played a part in all of this, and how you should start listening to what someone says to you, as well as what they are doing. Pay attention. If someone tells you they don’t want to be married, then listen to them. Stop trying to make someone be with you for the sake of what you want. You can’t make someone love you, be with you, or marry you if they don’t want to be. He’s shown you time and time again who he is. He doesn’t want to be faithful or monogamous. He wants to have it all. Leave his nasty narrow a**. Stop fighting for his love when he is not willing to fight for your marriage, or his commitment to you. He’s a child, a boy, and you can’t teach him or make him be a grown man. Walking away from this madness, and being about your business and empowering you will make him look like the fool in the end. He is not worth it. Get the divorce. Get the alimony, and take his barber tip money. And, then you march to the court house and put his a** on child support. Stop letting him belittle and demean you. Ugh! Now, get your life together and stop stressing because the innocent child you’re carrying doesn’t deserve all this madness coming into the world. – Terrance Dean Hey Bossip Fam, what do you think? Share your opinions and thoughts below! Also, e-mail all your questions Terrance Dean : loveandrelationships@bossip.com Follow Terrance Dean on Twitter : @terrancedean “LIKE” Terrance Dean on Facebook , click HERE! 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