Khloe Kardashian may divorce Lamar Odom because he has allegedly been smocking crack while sleeping with other women. Most would consider these understandable grounds for a break-up. But tension created as the result of incessant church bell ringing?!? Don’t laugh, argues John Devaney. This Rhode Island resident recently split from his wife and says the marriage fell apart because the bells at St. Thomas More Parish ring approximately 700 times per week. The couple could not stop arguing as a result of the noise and Devaney has actually filed a lawsuit to cut down on the number of daily chimes. We are not making this up. Watch the following video for more: Man Blames Bells for Divorce
Khloe Kardashian may divorce Lamar Odom because he has allegedly been smocking crack while sleeping with other women. Most would consider these understandable grounds for a break-up. But tension created as the result of incessant church bell ringing?!? Don’t laugh, argues John Devaney. This Rhode Island resident recently split from his wife and says the marriage fell apart because the bells at St. Thomas More Parish ring approximately 700 times per week. The couple could not stop arguing as a result of the noise and Devaney has actually filed a lawsuit to cut down on the number of daily chimes. We are not making this up. Watch the following video for more: Man Blames Bells for Divorce
Lamar needs all the help he can get. Lamar Odom Refused Third Intervention His teammates and Khloe tried to help him. Maybe Iyanla needs to try next. According to Radar Online “He’s headed for destruction.” That’s what Lamar Odom‘s friends are saying about their once successful NBA star friend, who is now embroiled in a downward spiral where his alleged drug use has destroyed his career and his marriage to Khloe Kardashian. So concerned about his well-being were Odom’s childhood friends from Queens, New York, that a handful of them flew out to Los Angeles in an effort to stage an intervention with the former Clippers forward, RadarOnline.com is exclusively reporting. “A few weeks ago his friends from the projects in Queens flew out to LA and banged on Lamar’s door trying to have an intervention with him,” a source close to the situation told Radar. “They wanted to take him home to New York and get him clean but Lamar wouldn’t open the door initially, telling them he ‘didn’t give a f**k what the world thinks” and said they ‘don’t know the pressure he’s under.’” But the friends finally got Odom to open his door, and what they found was shocking. “He’s smoking rocks now,” the insider revealed. “His friends knew that he liked to freebase yayo, but they were shocked to see him with crack. They found more than 60 grams of crack in his possession and he had no intentions of stopping.” This intervention attempt is one of three that confronted Odom in an attempt to get him clean. “Lamar feels invincible because he’s rich and famous, but he also seems scared that his destiny is to be a drug addict like his father,” the source told Radar. Lamar, get your life together. Wenn Continue reading →
Lamar is finally getting his life together. Lamar Odom Checks Into Rehab How do you help someone who has been smoking rocks for so long? According to TMZ Lamar Odom has finally checked in to rehab to deal with his raging drug addiction … this according to a new report. People.com broke the story, saying Lamar had checked into a rehab facility … but did not specify when or where he started treatment. Lamar was seen out in public over the weekend … so the move to rehab had to be very recent. As TMZ first reported … the 32-year-old NBA star has been struggling with drug addiction for years, and most recently he’s gotten hooked on smoking rocks. Lamar was arrested for DUI last Friday. As we first reported, Khloe Kardashian issued an ultimatum to her husband over the weekend — enter rehab or their marriage is over. Hopefully, he can kick this drug addiction and get back on Khloe’s good side. It’s better to be with the Kardashians than against them. Wenn
They tried to make Lamar go to rehab he said no, no, no. Khoe Kardashian Wants Lamar To Go To Rehab Khloe is at the end of her rope. We can’t blame her..Lamar is smoking rocks with one hand caressing his hoes with the other. According to TMZ Khloe Kardashian has given Lamar Odom an ultimatum — get help or get an apartment. Our well-placed sources say Khloe has laid down the law — Lamar can’t live at home until he completes rehab — which he’s been unwilling to do since his addiction spun out of control. Khloe has kicked Lamar out before, but we’re told this time she’s vowing not to fold … and Friday’s DUI bust was the last straw. Our sources say Lamar didn’t call Khloe or his lawyers after the arrest. They found out when TMZ broke the story hours later. Khloe was pissed. Khloe and Lamar did spend time together Saturday at their home — but Lamar was sent on his merry way after 4 hours of jawboning about his addiction to smoking rocks and other drugs. As one source said … they’re still at an impasse and the prospects of saving their marriage are “grim.” At this point only Lamar can save himself. Hopefully, he takes his azz to rehab and gets his marriage back on track. Wenn Continue reading →
A new source has come forward and disputed the allegation that embattled NBA star Lamar Odom is hooked on crack . HOWEVER, the basketball player and reality star most definitely does have a drug problem. A very serious one at that. “The problem is cocaine ,” an anonymous insider tells Us . “He would be high for three or four days at a time… The addiction had taken over [his] marriage.” Khloe and Lamar: On the Mend? In response to Odom sadly falling off the wagon, the athlete’s wife, Khloe Kardashian held an intervention for her husband last week. It did not go well, Lamar refused assistance and Khloe subsequently kicked him out of their home. He reportedly went off the grid after that. But he is reportedly back at home now and friends say he’s open to getting treatment of some kind, though his relationship with Khloe remains on the rocks. She “wants to save her marriage and him,” the celebrity gossip tabloid reports, while an acquaintance feels nothing but pity for Kardashian: “I feel so bad for her. She really loves Lamar.” And, along those lines, Khloe Kardashian is focusing her energy on the personal demons that have once again come to haunt her husband of four years. Let’s all hope Odom manages to overcome them. Khloe and Lamar: Will it last? Yes. With love and hard work, they will find a way. No. The damage has been done and is too great. View Poll »
Dear Bossip , I’ve been married to my husband for 4 and a half years, and we have to kids. My problem is that my husband and his sister are obsessed with each other so much so that I want to leave him because he allows her to act like his wife and she does things I don’t approve of. She’s always been jealous of me because I have a family and she doesn’t. She would always say ugly things about me and be sarcastic toward me. But, most of the time I ignore it because I feel it’s childish and I respect my husband too much, but he turns a blind eye. She does things like answer questions when I’m asking him a question. Or, she mingles in when we are having a private conversation that does not require her input. She even tries to play mother to my kids sometimes. She plays mind games with him by saying things like he doesn’t have time for her now that his married. There’s never a time that we go anywhere without her. She has to act like wifey to make people think that. I asked my husband for some time alone with him, but he said “Never gonna happen.” He speaks about all of our business to her and she makes sure that she let’s me know about it. He talks a lot about her. He pushes me away from him when she walks in the room. And, I can’t decide if it’s just out of respect or what. He is also at fault many times, but I try to understand that they have no parents and their family abandoned them. He’s not treating me too well and he always cuts me off when I want to explain my side. I’m always wrong in his eyes. But, what is driving me too the divorce is the fact that I made an effort to take him out to be alone, and he had to invite her to where we were without telling me. So, I got upset because I think I realized that he will never be the husband I need him to be because I feel he doesn’t contribute to our marriage. He just told me that he has had enough and to leave. So, I feel like doing just that. He won’t talk about his feelings or show me any affection, so I’m guessing he doesn’t love me. I’m also very worried about how my kids will deal with this. Please help. – My Husband And His Sister Dear Ms. My Husband And His Sister , Uhm, are you sure it’s his sister?!? Hello! Chile, by the way they are acting he and her both need the side eye with the lips pursed and the stank look. Ma’am, you’re better than me because I would have snatched her up and got her right together! And, in that order! Something isn’t right with this relationship, and I agree that they are a little too close for comfort. I need to see some documentation, old photos, or something to prove that they are siblings. What the hell type of incestuous relationship they got going on?!? Girl, is this woman sleeping in the same bed with y’all? I’m just asking. Ain’t no way in hell a woman should be that damn close to her brother. Sister or not, she needs to stay in her lane, and out of your marriage. But, I’m guessing that because they have no parents, and their family has abandoned them, that they’ve developed a bond in which they are totally reliant upon one another, and they both fear abandonment. Thus, they cling to one another in fear of losing one another. They’ve had no one else but each other, so unfortunately they have made each other dependent on one another. They have developed the mentality, “It’s us against the world. And, no one is going to keep us away from one another.” And, also, since they have no parents, and no other family members, she has become his surrogate mother. She has taken on the role of his mother, and may feel the need to be protective of him, which comes across as overbearing, overprotective, and incestuous. So, married or not, he is not going to let his sister go. She is his rock, and his shelter. She is his voice of reason, and go to person for times of trouble. And, vise versa he is those things for her. Remember, they’ve always been dependent on one another before you came into the picture. I’m certain they told one another that no matter what happens or what’s going on that they will never let anyone come into their lives and replace the other. And, that includes you. I’m surprised that he got married, and was able to have a family. This woman sounds like the type who will try to have your children sucking on her tit trying to breast feed them, and cutting you out of the pictures of their photo album and replacing her face with yours. Watch that woman! But, the more important factor about all of this is the fact that when you asked your husband for some time alone he told you, “Never gonna happen.” That right there should have been your clue to exit stage left. But, what’s more disturbing is that he pushes you away from him when she enters the room. The hell!!??!! So, he can’t show you any affection in front of her? Uhm, that is bizarre and weird. Hell, the next time he does it just reach down and grab his d**k and look her in her face and yell, “This is mine! It belongs to me.” LMBAO! Honestly, I’m rationalizing the reason he pushes you away from him is that it could because she may feel a certain type of way, or he may feel a way about it. It may be uncomforting, and/or he may feel ashamed by showing affection to another woman. But, nonetheless, you are his wife, and for him to push you away only shows his disregard, and disrespect of you. If he can’t respect and honor you in front of her, then he will never respect and honor you. GET OUT! And, look here, if he is choosing his sister over you, telling her all your business, inviting her on your date nights without your consent, and he’s not willing to communicate with you, has stopped showing you affection and love, and he has told you that he’s had enough and for you to leave, then, ma’am, it’s time to leave! Hell, I’ll be damned if I’m in a relationship with someone, and married to them, and they are always choosing their sibling over me. This is when you step in and say, “Look here, I know you both are special to one another, and y’all are family and everything, but, err, uhm, this –ish is going to cease with you telling them all of our business, and you can’t show me any affection and love because they will get jealous. And, I’ll be damned if you’re going to invite them on our date night without my consent. So, if you and your sibling need that much time together, then I’ll make this easy for the both of you. You can both have each other. I’m throwing up the deuces, and I’m taking your a** for everything. The house, the car, and all your damn money.” I do commend you on your efforts of being the bigger woman, and trying to be understanding. You’ve gone to your husband with your concerns. You’ve expressed how you feel, and you’ve gone above and beyond by being respectful to his sister, and not engaging her in her little childish antics. Yet, he doesn’t acknowledge, or see anything wrong with their relationship. And, she isn’t grown enough, or woman enough to know her place and position in this situation, so, therefore you have to make an adult decision, and re-evaluate the past four and a half years and ask yourself do you want to spend the next four, ten, or fifteen years dealing with this. Do you want to have to fight for your husband’s affection and love? Are you willing to put up with him always choosing her over you? Are you willing to share your husband with another woman, and who will always have his heart, mind, and soul? The bond between them is one you will never be able to develop between you and he because he has already decided that his sister means more to him than anything. It’s time to create an action plan, and get to moving. Ask your husband if he wants to seek counseling, therapy, or a marriage counselor to get to the root and issue of his relationship with his sister, and how it is affecting your marriage. If he doesn’t want to take you up on your offer, then it’s time to consult a lawyer, and figure out how you want to handle child support, and custody. He’s told you to leave, and he’s had enough. If he’s fed up and has told you to leave, then he has checked out of the marriage. He doesn’t want to save it. You’re going to have to pull it together emotionally and mentally. Be strong, and know it has nothing to do with you. You’ve done all you could. You’ve worked hard, and gave all your love. Now, it’s time to love you, and your children enough to walk away and save yourself. He and his sister have a bizarre and unusual relationship, and they both need serious help. And, unfortunately it has come at the detriment of your marriage. Good luck! – Terrance Dean Hey Bossip Fam, what do you think? 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Rasheeda And Kirk Spotted Leaving The Hospital With Baby Karter Love & Hip Hop Atlanta struggle couple Rasheeda and Kirk have yet to confirm or deny that there’s been any mending of their marriage since ending the last season of LHHATL in a “separated” status with Rasheeda even considering divorce at one point, but it was all family everything recently when the cameras caught them leaving the hospital shortly after welcoming the newest addition to their family earlier this month. Hopefully things are on the mend and Kirk has his aint isht ways under control. Hit the flip for more pics of Kirk and Rasheeda leaving hospital with baby Karter in tow.
Forget her marriage. Khloe Kardashian is desperate to save Lamar Odom’s life. As we’ve documented in detail over the last couple days, Odom is reportedly in serious trouble: sources allege he is hooked on crack cocaine and disappeared for days toward the end of last week. But TMZ now says Khloe has tracked down her estranged husband and is doing all she can to get him back on the clean and sober track. Lamar Odom: Missing? On Drugs? Khloe and Lamar Divorce: Will it Happen? Last Wednesday, Kardashian attempted an intervention and kicked Odom out when he refused to get help. The couple is now essentially separated , but insiders say Khloe refuses to give up on Lamar. However, she will not consider a reconciliation unless he admits to his substance abuse issues and seeks assistance. So the relationship remains at a standstill. Khloe believes there’s hope for Odom and neither side has conferred with divorce lawyers. But the most important topic at the moment is Odom’s well being. Only once that is taken care of can these two even contemplate a healthy marriage again.
