Nene girl if he don’t sign the prenup, we would let him go! Nene Leakes Wants Husband To Sign Prenup According to The National Enquirer: NeNe, 45, and Gregg, 58, a real estate developer, were married for nearly 14 years before she filed for divorce in 2010. He fought hard to win her back, and earlier this year they joyously revealed they were engaged to be remarried. But NeNe, who’s worth an estimated $4.5 million, had second thoughts after getting a fat raise – from $750,000 to $1 million – for Season 6 of the hit Bravo series. The feisty performer also has income from roles on “The New Normal” and “Glee” and wants to make sure her good fortune doesn’t become a payday for Gregg if they split again. “NeNe loves Gregg and hopes their marriage will last this time, but if it doesn’t work out she wants him to walk away only with what he’s bringing into it,” a family friend revealed. “She says she earned what she’s got by herself, and is demanding Gregg sign a prenup or there won’t be a wedding.” The first time around, the couple did not have a prenuptial agreement, and Gregg is said to be insulted she’s now asking for one. “He feels he has always supported NeNe,” explained the friend. “Their divorce was not about spending too much or stealing from her, so he doesn’t think he needs a piece of paper to show he won’t take advantage.” NeNe first met Gregg in 1996. A year later, the single mom married the developer and they had a son. But during their marriage, Gregg encountered painful financial problems. He claimed on the reality show that he had invested a whopping $300,000 in NeNe’s career, and that remark led to a huge blowout which marked the beginning of the end of their marriage. “NeNe has written a memoir called ‘Never Make the Same Mistakes Twice,’ and she says she’s determined to live by that today,” noted the friend. “The prenup is not up for discussion. If Gregg doesn’t sign on the dotted line, NeNe won’t be saying ‘I do.’ Do you think their marriage will last this time around? WENN
Remaining celibate while in a relationship is difficult. Remaining celibate when your girlfriend is one of the most coveted women in Hollywood is a beast…
It’s about cotdamn time!!! Kim Kardashian And Kris Humphries May Settle Divorce Tomorrow According to TMZ reports : Kim Kardashian and Kris Humphries could settle their never-ending divorce case as early as tomorrow … TMZ has learned. The fleeting lovebirds are both ordered to appear in court tomorrow for a settlement conference. The big hang-up is that Kris has been fighting for an annulment based on alleged fraud, and Kim has steadfastly refused to go down that road. She wants a clean, simple divorce. Sources close to Kris say there are various factors that are softening his position, including: – There’s an ironclad prenup, if the case goes to trial Kris will get NO money from Kim (although as we previously reported Kris has demanded $7 mil from her — good luck with that). – After all the depositions and legal docs flying back and forth, no evidence has surfaced showing Kim defrauded Kris — and that goes to the heart of his claim. – Kris is about to get nailed with monetary sanctions for being a no-show at the last hearing and, in the process, he’s pissed off the judge who would be presiding over the divorce trial. – If the case goes to trial and Kris loses, he could be in the hole for as much as a million bucks in attorney’s fees. Sources tell us each side has already racked up $300k in lawyer’s fees, and they’ll spend another $200k if the case goes to trial. We broke the story, if the case goes to trial and Kim wins, she’ll ask the judge to make Kris pay HER lawyer’s fees. Our sources say it’s by no means a done deal that the case is going to settle tomorrow, but as one source put it, “Kris is opening his eyes a little bit, and what he sees doesn’t look good.” We won’t count any chickens, but this divorce has been goin’ on WAY too long. It’s time for Kris to let it go already and get ready for the NBA playoffs. If it’s any consolation, most people already assume that the marriage was a sham in the first place. Image via WENN
It’s The Real Housewives Beverly Hills and if one reunion show is good then “Reunion Part II” must be…pure torture. We recap all the tears and tantrums in our THG +/- review. We’re back on the couch with Andy Cohen as the ladies dished about Kim Richard’s sobriety and whether or not they suspected she fell off the wagon. The clips of some of Kyle’s comments throughout the season were at times cringe worthy. Minus 10. Always one to speak her mind, Brandi Glanville admitted that she felt Kyle was always doubting her sister and almost felt like “it would make her happy if she failed.” Let the waterworks begin. Kyle jumps in that it’s the meanest thing Brandi could say but the truth is that Kyle makes a lot of comments that could prove Brandi’s theory. But when you call Kyle out on it her fallback position is that she was just joking. Minus 20. That’s such a cop out. It’s Kyle’s way of not owning up to any of her crap. Lisa all but calls the Richards girls liars when she doesn’t believe their gossip about Yolanda trashing her in Paris. When Andy asks who of the Housewives she trusts the most, Brandi ends up at the top of the list…and Kyle’s at the bottom. How times have changed. Andy hands out t-shirts with each of the ladies’ lame tag lines on them. I think I’d rather have Yolanda’s lemons. Plus 8. The best moment was when he tossed Adrienne Maloof’s shirt to the back of the sofa. Plus 18 . But don’t think that means we’re done talking about her. Supposedly Adrienne still claims that Brandi destroyed her family and that her cozying up to Paul now is just a ploy but Paul has a different story. Via video Paul tells his side of the story. Paul admits that Brandi said hurtful things but that she “graciously apologized” for them and he doesn’t blame Brandi for the demise of his marriage. Plus 15. Apparently the divorce has gotten messy. Chef Bernie published pictures of Adrienne with bruises and claims that Paul abused her and the kids. Minus 22. Everyone agrees that Bernie’s just looking for attention but leave it to Ken to be the stand up guy. Ken says he’s never witnessed any signs of abuse and he’s not buying the rumors. If it were true then why would Adrienne share custody of the kids. Good question. Mauricio also shows up and kind of buries the hatchet with Brandi. Yolanda’s husband had better things to do than show up as a house husband…like recording with Stevie Wonder. At the end of the season, Brandi earned her spot on the Housewives sofa and a life long friendship with Lisa. The two make a charmingly odd couple and appear to be true friends. Plus 30. Plus 25 to Yolanda. I didn’t think she’d fit in but her no nonsense delivery and her ability to call out other people’s bullsh*t made her a great addition to the show. Kim proved herself to still be quirky while being sober. Not easy. Plus 10. Taylor was almost nonexistent. I’m not complaining. Plus 5. Camille resorted to her former season one b*tchiness. Minus 13. Maybe she’ll just stay home next season. Kyle on the other hand looked two faced with both friends and family. She hung Lisa out to dry, joked about her sister’s sobriety, and made nice to Brandi’s face while bashing her behind her back. And her friendship with Faye Resnick is worth at least a minus 50 . But it’s Adrienne Maloof who lands at the bottom of the list. She caused a lot of drama about some secret that viewers were never allowed to hear. If you have secrets then stay off of reality TV. Then she gave quotes to magazines but refused to show up for the reunion. When you sign on for a job, you finish it. Minus 60. Who should take Adrienne’s spot on next seasons The Real Housewives of Beverly Hills ? Episode total = -64! Season total = -361!
Poor Porsha ! On Sunday Hollywood Life reported that there is a possibility that Porsha and Kordell Stewart may reconcile, which falls right in line with an interview they did with her just days before Kordell filed for divorce. In that interview Porsha defends her husband, declares him her king and says they are “Team Stewart”: The ‘Real Housewives of Atlanta’ star come to the HollywoodLife.com offices just one week before her husband Kordell Stewart filed for divorce. In the video she says that she and Kordell were still trying to have kids and that he’s her ‘king.’ Porsha Stewart didn’t mention any trouble in her marriage when she came to HollywoodLife.com to talk about her hit Bravo reality show The Real Housewives Of Atlanta. We had to ask her about her marriage, and she didn’t even bat an eye when we asked whether Kordell was controlling. “Well I don’t have a problem with a man having an opinion,” she told us. “If you’re a man, I need to know where you are leading our family. And I love that about him and along the way, there are some things I agree with and some things I don’t. As long as he can respect my opinion and let me woo him into what I want.” We followed up our controlling question by asking the reality star is her voice is heard in the marriage and she said: “Absolutely! Oh ya we are a team. This is Team Stewart. He’s the king and I’m the queen.” In our interview with Porsha, she also talks about wanting to build her family with Kordell and keep trying to have a baby. How sad is that? She was out there defending him while he was plotting on dropping her. Photo Credit: John Cook/DreamDesignWeddings
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One is about the Defense of Marriage Act, another seeks to strike down California’s Prop 8. By Gil Kaufman Same-sex marriage supporters demonstrate in front of the Supreme Court on March 27, 2013 in Washington, DC Photo: JEWEL SAMAD
Dear Bossip , I’m responding to a similar scenario that was posted on your site with the title, “I Love Him & Feel He’s The One, But He Told Me He’s Not In Love With Me.” Okay, take all that into consideration but then include the fact that I am his second cousin. Does this change anything? Let’s say he tells me he loves me more than anyone. He loves being with me more than anyone, and that he feels more alive with me then anyone, but he isn’t in love with me. Please read the following scenario. Everyone thinks he is in denial. I know from your advice column you generally feel that what men say is the same as what they feel, but isn’t it different when society dictates he can’t say what he feels? Or, is the answer that love conquers all and if he wanted to be with me he would be, period. Keep in mind that he is only 24-years old and I am 29-years old. He is still living under his father’s thumb who is paying his way. I am at my wits end with this situation. My cousin and I are having numerous issues right now. Basically it boils down to this: I am in love with him and can admit it, but he cannot. He tells me he loves me more than anyone in the world, and I make him happier than anyone in the world, and being with me is liking being in heaven, but he isn’t in love with me. Everyone else who sees us tells me he is in love with me, but cannot admit it. He tells me numerous times that he is a self-preservationist and that we would have messed up children, and that he isn’t sexually attracted to me (this while staring at my lips and breasts). We sleep in the same bed together, but lately he is having trouble sleeping in the bed. He is restless and tosses and turns and tells me he can’t get a good night’s sleep with me in bed. He tells me he doesn’t have the same problem with his girlfriend (they are currently long distance). I’m assuming this is because he is sexually frustrated around me. I’ve already seen him with an erection and he quickly resorts to yelling. He has gone from letting me sleep in bed, to telling me I need to sleep elsewhere, to telling me I can’t sleep in the apartment all together. The girlfriend knows how close we are and basically hates me. Right now I feel as though he has the best of both worlds. He cannot commit to me physically and he cannot commit to her emotionally. He is having his cake and eating it to. He has been more open about discussing things with me. At first he wouldn’t even run the idea in his head. He eventually understood where I was coming from. Now, he has agreed to go to therapy if and when he breaks up with his girlfriend, but that I am not allowed to bring up kissing him or having sex with him until that time. This means I am stuck in limbo. To add on to the problem, his grandmother who is absolutely crazy about me wants us to be together. Mind you she does not know who I actually am (though I’m about 70% sure she does know and is playing along based on hints she has dropped). Long story short, our families dislike each other. He and I have only known each other for about 4 years. I hadn’t seen him before then since we were babies. He tells me he doesn’t have sexual feelings for me because he knew I was his second cousin when we meet. However, he is constantly staring at me, he strokes my arms, he wrestles with me etc. He tells me I fulfill 9/10ths of a wife, but he can’t have sex with me. I tell him he can but he won’t. So, now I need to know what to do. I can’t stop talking to him completely this is not an option. Should I distance myself from him, just do things with his grandmother and let him go off with his girlfriend, or should I be around him and his girlfriend a lot to show him the difference he feels around the two of us (he has actually told her to her face that he feels truly more alive around me than anyone else), or should I tell him I promise not to bring anything sexually up and just be a friend to him always hoping something works out, or should I just bite the bullet, kiss him, and if he stops talking to me he stops talking to me, or should I date someone and bring them around to make him jealous (possibly with the hopes of liking them.) I have tried to kiss him so many times but I am not sexually experienced and I always chicken out and wind up talking about it. Each time he tells me we need a break but we just go right back to being together. We hang out every weekend from Friday to Sunday usually. I have spent about 80% of my time with him in the last year. Basically what is the best way to proceed to get him to admit he is in love with me? I have no idea what my next step should be. P.S. – This is not me being in denial. Literally everyone else sees he is in love with me and we are meant to be. Our family says it, our friends drop hints, and strangers comment that we are so in love. Members of the board how shall I proceed? – Madly In Love With My Cousin Dear Ms. Madly In Love With My Cousin , Girl, please go someplace else with this damn –ish! The hell is going on in the world with folks lusting, desiring, and trying to freak with their own family members? Is this how life is now in the hood? Has this backwoods rural –ish infiltrated into the streets of MLK Boulevard and on the South and North sides of the hood? I’m going to need you to take this back to the mountains and have several seats on a cliff someplace! I don’t understand why you’re looking to have a sexual relationship with your own cousin? Why? For what? One thing is he right about is that you both need some therapy for this –ish! You both need to have your heads examined. This donkey a** behavior has got to stop tuhday! I know there is not a limited supply of d**k out there! I know there isn’t! It can’t be! Well, based on some of the letters I get, you’d think there was a d**k shortage. LMBAO! Honey, you’re running after him, confessing your love, and he keeps telling you that he’s not in love with you. He doesn’t want to be with you. He doesn’t want to engage in this relationship because he knows it’s wrong, but you keep insisting that you belong together. You’re the one living in this false sense of reality. Why keep running after someone who doesn’t want to be with you? Regardless if he is in denial, or trying to resist his feelings for you, SEXING, LOVING, AND BEING IN A RELATIONSHIP WITH YOUR OWN COUSIN IS INAPPROPRIATE! Who in their right mind will condone this asinine –ish? You can’t be that desperate and lonely that you really are considering being in an intimate relationship with YOUR OWN COUSIN! Family, regardless of how distant they are, is still family. And, why are his grandmother, and your family members co-signing this bull-ish? Are they in-breeders as well? Chile, let me find out that the family is doing nothing but breeding with one another and, thus, this will explain the slow degenerate gene being passed along in this family. Let’s look at your slow a** questions and get you some answers. 1.) “I need to know what to do. I can’t stop talking to him completely this is not an option.” Uhm, yes you can! The other option is to move on with your life, and get this silly a** idea of sleeping with him out of your head. And, to do this you have to eliminate him out of your life, and you have to stop communicating with him. If you’re so turned on by him, and desiring him, then you have to remove yourself from this situation. It’s not healthy emotionally and mentally. You’re going to seriously do more harm to yourself, and him, if you keep thinking having a relationship with your own cousin will result in a loving relationship. IT’S NOT and IT WON’T! 2.) “Should I distance myself from him, just do things with his grandmother and let him go off with his girlfriend?” Yes, you should distance yourself from him. He doesn’t want to be with you. He’s made this abundantly clear. Stop laying in the bed with him. Stop putting yourself in these awkward situations with him. And, stop engaging him with sexual conversations, and relationship possibilities. He’s in a relationship with another woman. He has a girlfriend. Let him be with his girlfriend regardless of how much he says he loves you and what you provide mentally. It’s inappropriate! 3.) “Should I be around him and his girlfriend a lot to show him the difference he feels around the two of us (he has actually told her to her face that he feels truly more alive around me than anyone else)” This just sounds dumb! All this will do is result in a fight with you and his girlfriend. Two women fighting over a man who is mentally inept, and you’re the mentally challenged cousin vying for her cousin’s attention. Does that even sound attractive to you? Hell naw! 4.) “Should I tell him I promise not to bring anything sexually up and just be a friend to him always hoping something works out?” Girl, please stop. You’re sounding real desperate and hopeless. You’re going to torture yourself by thinking you can just be his friend, and ignore your sexual attraction and desire for YOUR OWN COUSIN! Girl, leave him alone and move on with your life. There are over a billion men in the world, why do you want to sleep with the one who happens to be YOUR OWN COUSIN? Ugh!! 5.) “Should I just bite the bullet, kiss him, and if he stops talking to me he stops talking to me?” Again, engaging in any type of sexual relationship with YOUR OWN COUSIN is not healthy or sane. You are family members. Why are you interested with in-breeding? Only animals in-breed. Oh, wait, this explains your donkey behavior! 6.) “Should I date someone and bring them around to make him jealous (possibly with the hopes of liking them.)” Ugh! Girl, you are showing your intellect and age. I figured your IQ was the same as your age. You sound real silly. Why am I even engaging this bull-ish? Look, there is nothing right about this situation. Nothing positive or nothing even remotely affirming about desiring and wanting to have sex with your OWN COUSIN. Please consider getting some help, and into some therapy. You need your head examined. Well, that won’t do anything because this in-breeding in your family is inherit. You’ll figure out some way to get your cousin to sleep with you. I can see you getting him drunk off some Henney, or slipping him a Molly so that you can get what you want. SMDH! Walk away from this situation. Walk away with some dignity as a woman. There are many men who are single and available that you can work on having a loving, monogamous, and non-family member relationship with. Stop running after YOUR OWN COUSIN. Stop lusting after YOUR OWN COUSIN. He’s your family member! – Terrance Dean Hey Bossip Fam, what do you think? Share your opinions and thoughts below! Also, e-mail all your questions Terrance Dean : loveandrelationships@bossip.com Follow Terrance Dean on Twitter : @terrancedean “LIKE” Terrance Dean on Facebook , click HERE! 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