Mendeecees Poses With He And Yandy’s Daughter Mendeecees is continuing to be a proud papa and posing for pictures with he and Yandy Smith’s daughter. The “Love & Hip Hop” star posted the below picture this weekend of he and his baby girl, who has a head of hair, lounging. “Watching TV with my baby,” he captioned the photo. The picture marks the first time the couple’s shown their newborn’s face. What do YOU think about this preciousness??? Instagram
Iggy Azalea’s Grammy Hair Looked Like A Lot Of Funny Things Iggy Azalea had a rough Grammy night. First, her Papa John’s order went awry, then she didn’t win a single Grammy. And finally, her hair got all the slander imaginable. The good people of Twitter gave us all the things that her hair looked like and it’s glorious. Pure comedy.
Dear Bossip , I was sitting here conflicted with thoughts and needed some advice. I just recently married my husband and things have completely gone downhill. His kids’ mother is the number one enemy in our life. Well, correction, she was and now all of a sudden she’s found God and wants to play nice. He constantly texts her and responds to messages from her, and not just messages pertaining to the kids either. She sends naked photos, as well as songs telling him to listen to them to try to make him miss her. I am not sure why he responds to these messages to her nor do I think he feels like these things are inappropriate. He was once married to her and I thought he left the past in the past, but clearly maybe he has not. I don’t know too many REAL men who walk around still texting, calling, or talking to a messy ass ex-wife who does nothing but keep drama going, after dragging him through the mud with child support, the divorce, and even trying to keep his children from him, especially when you have a perfectly good wife at home. The kids have their own cell phones and they also use his phone so the need for them to text is none in my opinion. Even the children know she flirts with him and they have asked her to stop because it’s pathetic. Am I looking too much into this situation? Do you think it’s respectful for him to continue to text and respond to flirtatious messages from his ex-wife? How would you stop this situation? Do you think he feels like he is only worth all the drama? – His Messy Ex-Wife Dear Ms. His Messy Ex-Wife , Whatever is going on, and whatever your husband is going through needs to end TUHDAY! There is no reason he and his ex-wife should be sexting, sending photos, or love songs to one another, and especially she should not be doing any of these things with your husband. But, I’m gathering both of them are enjoying this attention, and they like this little game they have going on with one another. Otherwise, your husband would know it’s inappropriate and he would put her in her place and check her behavior. So, are the photos and songs drudging up memories for him? Does he feel some type of way and have they not really resolved their issues? Why does he feel the need to constantly respond to her messages and texts? If it has nothing to do with the kids, and they are divorced, then why is she reaching out to him, and why is he responding? There doesn’t need to be any communication between them, photos, or love songs. If they are not talking about the kids, then there is no reason for her to be texting him and calling. And, he shouldn’t be entertaining her. Therefore, you need to sit down with your husband and resolve this matter immediately. Let him know how you feel, why it bothers you, and how you won’t be disrespected in your own marriage. Tell him it’s not cute, nor is it appropriate for his ex-wife to be sending messages, naked photos, and songs to him. If he doesn’t see anything wrong with it, and he doesn’t find it inappropriate, then, I am quite sure he is feeding off her attention, and there are unresolved feelings, and the photos and songs are reminders of their time together. It’s obvious she hasn’t let him go, and she is doing everything to get his attention. She doesn’t want to be ignored. And, now that he is giving her the attention she wants, she is doing everything in her power to get her claws back into him. And, he’s falling for it. Nip this –ish in the bud right now. All that ego stroking, and pandering to him is what she knows will get him and under his skin. She’s done it before when they were married, and he’s falling for the same game and ploy she used as a tactic when they were together. Whatever his ego needs, or whatever stroking he needs should not be coming from his ex-wife, but from you, and he needs to recognize that you are now his wife. You are the woman in his world, and she is his past, and she needs to remain as part of his past. What she is doing is disrespectful to you, your husband, the kids, and your marriage. It’s a good thing she found God, but that doesn’t give her new found spiritual enlightenment to infringe upon your marriage and try to reconcile with her ex-husband. He needs to handle it. Put her in check. And, he seriously needs to let her know that he will not put up with it, nor will he allow her to disrespect you, his woman, his wife. You have to be adamant that this behavior will not be tolerated, and it will not continue. If he doesn’t handle it, then you will have to speak with her, and it won’t be pretty. You can do an initial talk with her woman to woman, and let her know that this has to stop, and she needs to let him go and move on. But, if this continues, then your next conversation with her won’t be so pretty. Give your husband the opportunity to handle it. And, make sure he knows how you feel, and what you won’t put up with or tolerate. Put your foot down, and don’t move or budge on how you feel or what your suspicions are. Happy home means a happy wife. – Terrance Dean Photo source: Shuttershock Hey Bossip Fam, what do you think? Share your opinions and thoughts below! Also, e-mail all your questions Terrance Dean: loveandrelationships@bossip.com Follow Terrance Dean on Twitter: @ terrancedean and “LIKE” Terrance Dean on Facebook, click HERE! Make sure to order my books Mogul: A Novel (Atria Books – June 2011; $15); Hiding In Hip Hop (Atria Books – June 2008); and Straight From Your Gay Best Friend – The Straight Up Truth About Relationships, Love, And Having A Fabulous Life (Agate/Bolden Books – November 2010; $15). They are available in bookstores everywhere, and on Amazon, click HERE!
Dear Bossip , I was sitting here conflicted with thoughts and needed some advice. I just recently married my husband and things have completely gone downhill. His kids’ mother is the number one enemy in our life. Well, correction, she was and now all of a sudden she’s found God and wants to play nice. He constantly texts her and responds to messages from her, and not just messages pertaining to the kids either. She sends naked photos, as well as songs telling him to listen to them to try to make him miss her. I am not sure why he responds to these messages to her nor do I think he feels like these things are inappropriate. He was once married to her and I thought he left the past in the past, but clearly maybe he has not. I don’t know too many REAL men who walk around still texting, calling, or talking to a messy ass ex-wife who does nothing but keep drama going, after dragging him through the mud with child support, the divorce, and even trying to keep his children from him, especially when you have a perfectly good wife at home. The kids have their own cell phones and they also use his phone so the need for them to text is none in my opinion. Even the children know she flirts with him and they have asked her to stop because it’s pathetic. Am I looking too much into this situation? Do you think it’s respectful for him to continue to text and respond to flirtatious messages from his ex-wife? How would you stop this situation? Do you think he feels like he is only worth all the drama? – His Messy Ex-Wife Dear Ms. His Messy Ex-Wife , Whatever is going on, and whatever your husband is going through needs to end TUHDAY! There is no reason he and his ex-wife should be sexting, sending photos, or love songs to one another, and especially she should not be doing any of these things with your husband. But, I’m gathering both of them are enjoying this attention, and they like this little game they have going on with one another. Otherwise, your husband would know it’s inappropriate and he would put her in her place and check her behavior. So, are the photos and songs drudging up memories for him? Does he feel some type of way and have they not really resolved their issues? Why does he feel the need to constantly respond to her messages and texts? If it has nothing to do with the kids, and they are divorced, then why is she reaching out to him, and why is he responding? There doesn’t need to be any communication between them, photos, or love songs. If they are not talking about the kids, then there is no reason for her to be texting him and calling. And, he shouldn’t be entertaining her. Therefore, you need to sit down with your husband and resolve this matter immediately. Let him know how you feel, why it bothers you, and how you won’t be disrespected in your own marriage. Tell him it’s not cute, nor is it appropriate for his ex-wife to be sending messages, naked photos, and songs to him. If he doesn’t see anything wrong with it, and he doesn’t find it inappropriate, then, I am quite sure he is feeding off her attention, and there are unresolved feelings, and the photos and songs are reminders of their time together. It’s obvious she hasn’t let him go, and she is doing everything to get his attention. She doesn’t want to be ignored. And, now that he is giving her the attention she wants, she is doing everything in her power to get her claws back into him. And, he’s falling for it. Nip this –ish in the bud right now. All that ego stroking, and pandering to him is what she knows will get him and under his skin. She’s done it before when they were married, and he’s falling for the same game and ploy she used as a tactic when they were together. Whatever his ego needs, or whatever stroking he needs should not be coming from his ex-wife, but from you, and he needs to recognize that you are now his wife. You are the woman in his world, and she is his past, and she needs to remain as part of his past. What she is doing is disrespectful to you, your husband, the kids, and your marriage. It’s a good thing she found God, but that doesn’t give her new found spiritual enlightenment to infringe upon your marriage and try to reconcile with her ex-husband. He needs to handle it. Put her in check. And, he seriously needs to let her know that he will not put up with it, nor will he allow her to disrespect you, his woman, his wife. You have to be adamant that this behavior will not be tolerated, and it will not continue. If he doesn’t handle it, then you will have to speak with her, and it won’t be pretty. You can do an initial talk with her woman to woman, and let her know that this has to stop, and she needs to let him go and move on. But, if this continues, then your next conversation with her won’t be so pretty. Give your husband the opportunity to handle it. And, make sure he knows how you feel, and what you won’t put up with or tolerate. Put your foot down, and don’t move or budge on how you feel or what your suspicions are. Happy home means a happy wife. – Terrance Dean Photo source: Shuttershock Hey Bossip Fam, what do you think? Share your opinions and thoughts below! Also, e-mail all your questions Terrance Dean: loveandrelationships@bossip.com Follow Terrance Dean on Twitter: @ terrancedean and “LIKE” Terrance Dean on Facebook, click HERE! Make sure to order my books Mogul: A Novel (Atria Books – June 2011; $15); Hiding In Hip Hop (Atria Books – June 2008); and Straight From Your Gay Best Friend – The Straight Up Truth About Relationships, Love, And Having A Fabulous Life (Agate/Bolden Books – November 2010; $15). They are available in bookstores everywhere, and on Amazon, click HERE!
Jennifer Aniston Says Brad & Angelina Weren’t Wrong For Affair Jennifer Aniston wants you to know that there is no bad blood (or bird beef) between her, Brad Pitt and Angelina Jolie — despite how dirty they did her in the early stages of their extra-marital relationship . Via HollywoodLife : Jennifer Aniston, 45, has definitely moved on from her messy split from ex, Brad Pitt! The beautiful Friends actress revealed to The Hollywood Reporter that she doesn’t harbor any ill will towards Brad and his wife, Angelina Jolie. It sounds like her relationship with her ex, is extremely friendly and that she harbors no ill will towards him at all. “We’re not in daily communication. But we wish nothing but wonderful things for each other.” She even dished about his relationship with Angelina while they were still married. “Nobody did anything wrong. You know what I mean?” she dished to the publication. “It was just like, sometimes things [happen]. If the world only could just stop with the stupid, soap-opera bulls–t. There’s no story. I mean, at this point it’s starting to become—please, give more credit to these human beings.” It sounds like Jennifer not only is fine with her ex, but is also on good terms with Angelina as well. As HollywoodLife.com previously reported, Jennifer revealed to Entertainment Tonight that she thinks the stories about their feud are coming to an end. “I think that’s slowly coming to an end. I really do,” she revealed. “I think it’s time people stop with that petty B.S. and just start celebrating great work and stop with the petty kind of silliness.” Looks like that beef is finally squashed. Or, at least she’s tired of talking about it…
Iggy Azalea Speaks On Her Role In Hip Hop In GQ Magazine Iggy Azalea sat for an interview with GQ just ahead of her big night at the Grammys, and seemed to be really feeling herself. The rapper told the mag that Hip Hop, a genre which Q-tip tried to explain to her was created for and by urban youth, didn’t represent people like her very much — tall, white, blonde, model-built Australian women — so her voice is necessary. Via GQ : People say some harsh things about you. What helps you bear up under that? Uh, awards season helps. Anytime where people get to choose who they want to have a voice and they choose me, I just think that makes it worth it. And that gives me the patience to just bite my tongue. When people choose me as the person they think should be speaking for them, I think, Well, I don’t really care what someone in the industry or another artist has to say about it. Your opinion is biased anyway, because you want people to listen to your voice. So having actual people who choose me, it makes me think, I have a place, and I don’t care what other people have to say about it. I was a fan of rap music growing up, and I didn’t feel like there were enough characters that represented me and my situation. So I think it’s needed. Um…when exactly does Iggy bite her tongue on this topic?? But wait, there’s more. The Aussie starlet also says she’s brought about a change in what’s accepted as “real Hip Hop:” Fast-forward to the end of your career. What do you want your legacy to be? You never know how long you’ll be in people’s good graces, especially in this business. So I hope it’s long—but I could be here for three or four years and then be out, like most artists. So it depends. I might be here for a long time. At the very worst, if I have a short-lived career, at least I could say I sparked a change—that I inspired some leniency in what people accept in hip-hop. And if I have a very long career and can be gyrating in a leotard at 35, that would be great. Hmmmmm….what do you think BOSSIP fam? Has this little bit of success is given Iggy a few delusions of grandeur or is she on point to feel so important?
Vince Staples Defends Iggy Azalea Against Character Attacks Faster than a speeding bullet, more powerful than a locomotive, able to leap tall, twerking, blondes in a single bound… Via HipHopDX “I do not care,” Staples said in a clip that debuted as a part of today’s DX Daily. “White people invented basketball. I don’t care. Why would I care? She getting paid. We speak English, we go to Christian churches. It’s the same thing. Yeah it’s fucked up but you just now getting a whiff of that? That’s what it is. Nobody got mad when Eminem did it. Why you mad at her ’cause she a girl and Eminem would probably slap you? It’s more than that. Azealia Banks got a point with the stuff she saying. Everybody got a point. But at the end of the day we all just got jobs. That’s the way I look at it because a lot of things are culture, you never know where none of this shit come from, man. Of course Hip Hop is something that’s very important to Black people but it’s a lot of other things that are important to us that we tend to neglect like family structure. It is what it is. It happens. “Everybody entitled to their opinion,” he added. “I stay out of all that. I don’t wanna argue with nobody. I wanna be able to pay my rent and I need a carwash right now so I’m ’bout to go do that. I’m just happy I’m able to do the little stuff. I don’t care, all that bigger picture—ain’t nobody give a fuck when my homies got shot in their face. So if you talk about, ‘What you care about?’ That’s what I care about. When the police start paying for some funerals and something like that instead of softball games then I’ll probably have something to say about that issue. It just don’t relate to me. I come from a different place. We got white people [who] gangbang. We got white boys from the hood. Are they appropriating Black culture? Yeah, but them is my niggas because they care just as much as me. Who are you to say what somebody actually love? You can’t say what touched anybody any kind of way. I don’t think that’s up to me personally. That’s not up to me. She might love Hip Hop to her core. That might be what she always wanted to do when she was younger because she seen it on the TV but that’s the reason everybody wanted to do it. We just happen to look like them.” Does young Vince Staples have valid point? Is there a possibility that Iggy has hip-hop in her heart? Image via Splash/XXL
“Mayor 2 Chainz?” ET of the Durtty Boyz proclaims in a recent interview with the Rapper/Activist. 2 Chainz expressed his opinion on the legalization of marijuana…
I post a lot of pictures of parties I didn’t get invited to on this site, and for the most part, it doesn’t really bother me. I mean, I understand why nobody wants a blogger in sweatpants at their fancy black-tie charity ball. But a Hooters party? C’mon! I bet I’d be the best-dressed guy in there. Anyway, here’s the 2015 Hooters Swimsuit Calendar Girls celebrating at a party in New York, and I’m not mad, I’m just disappointed. And also experiencing a major pants fire. It’s a confusing time for me right now. » view all 21 photos Photos: WENN.com
