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Dear Bossip: I’m Bisexual And I’m In Relationship With A Man, But I Prefer Women

Dear Bossip , I would like to thank you first of all for being so real and for not being afraid to be yourself. I honor what you are doing and wish I had to strength to do it also. I’m a 21-year old female and I have been bisexual for as long as I can remember. It’s a struggle living on the low and not wanting to tell anyone because I feel so ashamed. I do have lesbian friends and we go out and I can really be myself, but having to keep all of my feelings locked up and having to lie is really becoming stressful. I have been in relationships with women before and I must say, during those short times it did last, I have never felt so good about myself, and so in love with any other person. When I was with a woman I wanted to tell my family, and the world, about this wonderful person I had met and fell in love with, but I could not. I couldn’t find the strength to do it. Since my last relationship with a woman I’ve found a man, (“The man”), I think, I would like to spend the rest of my life with. He is not like the other men I have dated. He is so different from what I used to deal with, and I love him so much. He pleases me in every way except for one, and that is sexually. You see, when we make love, I’m thinking of making love to FEMALES. When he’s away and I need to “get one off,” LOL, I think of females. I constantly think about the times I spent with them. I love this man and I never want to hurt him, but I’m so scared to tell him about my true desires. I don’t want him to feel like I don’t want him or that he doesn’t satisfy me, but the truth, Gay Best Friend, is that the urges I have for females, along with the want, desire, and passion that I hold towards women is becoming greater every day. I’m lost and I don’t know what to do. I mean, maybe, it’s because I’m so young and I keep telling myself I’m being greedy, and I can’t have both, and I keep hoping that one day the answer will just fall out of the sky. I doubt it, but, still every day I hope. I have so much on my plate, and me being a down low female is not making things easier. So, if you can guide me in any way, be it a book, website, poem, or anything I would appreciate it GREATLY. Thanks in advance for the advice, and for being so uplifting, and for making a way for those like you and myself. – Young and Struggling Dear Ms. Young and Struggling , You’re hoping the answer will fall from the sky, well, POOF! First, I want to thank you for sending your question. That, in and of itself, was very brave. It shows your strength and courage to find truth and answers. You have to do what makes you happy in your heart and your life. It’s obvious you prefer woman, and it’s an inner turmoil because you want to please not only yourself, but those you love. So, you are continuing to date men, and lo and behold, you find a man you really enjoy being with. Ain’t that something? However, when you are having sex with him you are thinking of women. When he is away you are thinking of women. Well, honey, if it walks like a duck and quacks like a duck, then it’s a duck. And, girl, you are a lesbian. I hope you didn’t think I was going to let you off the hook. Let me get comfortable. If you are deceiving others, that is not good. The man you are involved with has a right to know. If you don’t disclose your feelings, and he finds out, it will not be pretty. Besides, you are not allowing him any say in the relationship. You are taking that away from him and it’s not fair. What if he chooses to be with you after you tell him your true desires? Then what? Just as I thought, you’re stuck, huh? You stated perhaps you were being greedy. That is very selfish. Everybody wants to have their cake and eat it too. Imagine if someone did the same to you. Imagine if you discovered he was cheating on you. You would feel betrayed. You would be upset. And, you probably wouldn’t think he was “the man” for you. Girl, I understand it’s difficult, and you are struggling within yourself because you don’t want to disappoint your family and friends. You want to make them happy. We all want to please our family and friends because those are the people we love, and they love us. But, what about you? Are you doing what makes you happy?  Are you loving yourself? And, who are you living for? Let me tell you something, and it may take some time, hours, days, months, hell, even years before you get it, but first you’ve got to accept and love yourself. If you love you for who you are and not beat up yourself because of your sexuality, then others will love and accept you. Second, DON’T GET CAUGHT UP IN WHAT OTHERS THINK OF YOU. If they are your friends, your true friends, then they will stick by you and love you just the same because you are still the same lovable laughable personable good friend. Your family will still love you. They will support you and embrace you like they did before. If your friends don’t stick around, then guess what? They were never your true friends from the beginning. True friends will be there regardless. One thing I’ve learned in my long journey and process of accepting me, was loving myself, and being happy with me. I’ve learned you can’t please everybody. Nope. You sure can’t. So, stop trying. And you know who taught me that valuable lesson? My grandmother and aunt. They told me, “Boy, folks hated on Jesus. Look at how they persecuted him for what he did for others. Look how they talked about him. What makes you think folks won’t do it to you.” Ever since then I walked to the beat of my own drum. Well, that which God is drumming. So, Ms. Young and Struggling I am saying to you, “Love you! Damn it.” Stop trying to please everybody. Girl, you are going to run yourself ragged trying to make everyone around you happy. Besides, who’s to say that this guy can’t be a good friend to you? Sit down with him lovingly and tell him your feelings. Explain to him what you’re going through. You stated he is different from all the other guys you have dated, so hopefully he really is, and if he loves you, he will understand. And, thank goodness we are in a new day and age where there is a plethora of information for people who are struggling with their sexuality. You can read any of E. Lynn Harris’s books. His books changed the landscape for many men and women who were unaware of down low men and women in this world. You should also check out author, Laurinda Brown. She is a phenomenal and fabulous lesbian writer. And, I am certain there is a Lesbian, Gay, Bi-Sexual, Transgender (LGBT) Center in your area. Many have counselors who will speak with you over the phone, and you can remain anonymous until you are comfortable to share more information. Honey, you are not alone. There are more people in the world like you than you know. You’ve made one courageous step, now take another! – Terrance Dean Hey Bossip Fam, what do you think? Share your opinions and thoughts below! Also, e-mail all your questions Terrance Dean : loveandrelationships@bossip.com Follow Terrance Dean on Twitter : @terrancedean “LIKE” Terrance Dean on Facebook , click  HERE! Make sure to order my books Mogul: A Novel (Atria Books – June 2011; $15), and Straight From Your Gay Best Friend – The Straight Up Truth About Relationships, Love, And Having A Fabulous Life (Agate/Bolden Books – November 2010; $15). They are available in bookstores everywhere, and on Amazon, click HERE!     

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This feels so surreal right now, like me writing my own Bieber…

This feels so surreal right now, like me writing my own Bieber Experience . My name is Trina and I’ve been a Belieber all my life. I’ve seen Justin at show tapings so many times that I can’t even keep count, but meeting him face to face was so hard to do. I found out about a year ago where  Justin’s rehearsal studios were, but I wasn’t sure if it was true or not. I waited a couple of months, which became a year of waiting . All of a sudden, I found a picture of him coming out of the studio on JustJaredJr’s page. I was the happiest girl because I finally found out where Justin was rehearsing at. It was August 15, 2012, where my friends and I decided to go and check out the place. We go and see that there are a group of girls in line. We asked them, “Are you guys here for Bieber?” and they said, “YES!” No one knows what was going through my mind on that day. We stood in line for 5 hours. While waiting in line, I decided to write a letter to Justin from all the Beliebers  with our Twitter names on it. Then all of sudden I see the Moshe park Justin’s swag van on the other side on the studio and Justin just jaywalked across the street to meet us. I was crying under my paper and I heard my best friend say, “Oh my god, Trina don’t cry. Get your act together because Justin will skip your turn.” I got my act together and within a blink of an eye, I see Justin’s right next to me. I was literally on Cloud 9, I didn’t even know what was going on. He came up to me, gave me a tight side hug . He saw me, and said “Hi” and all the words that came out of my mouth were “You are absolutely amazing.” As he was about to leave to go take pictures with other girls, I said “Justin, wait, please pinky promise me you will read this letter.” He looked me in the eyes and said “Sure, of course I will.” He brought his pinky out to mine and gave my pinky the best pinky hug ever . I don’t know what he said back because he was such in a rush. After my turn was over, my friends and I just ran up to each other and gave each other the biggest group hug ever! Even til this day, I still can’t believe I met my idol.  On August 21st, my friends and I decided to go back to the studio because our summer was almost going to be over, and we wanted to spend the end of the summer with Justin. We get there around like 3:00 and there were like a few girls. We waited for like an hour all sitting down, waiting and waiting since Justin usually comes out at late noon time. I decided to look up and then all of a sudden I see Justin with Moshe and Alfredo. The guy who worked there said, “Everyone get up, get in a straight line and this will be a fast one.” My heart was throbbing. I didn’t know what to do. He came walking up to everyone and said, “Hi everyone, how are you doing?” Justin decides to start from the back of the line, where me and my friends were standing. I just say “Hi Justin!” and he says “Did you guys all come together as a group or?” and I say “Um no” he goes “We will all just take a group picture.” My friends and I just gather up around him, and he says “Who has a phone that Moshe could use to take a picture?” Let alone did I know my camera app was open and ready to go, and I just yelled out “OMG I DO I DO!” I give my phone to Justin, and he hands it to Moshe. While we are waiting for Moshe to take the picture he goes, “Everyone smile at the camera!” and we all just smile. He decides to leave and I just grab him and I hug him so tight and he goes, “Woah there.” I’m like, “Sorry. I just had too,” and he smiles back. I was so excited. I didn’t know what to do. I saw Alfredo on the other side, and I say “ALFREDO! ALFREDO, CAN WE TAKE A PICTURE?!” he says “Yes” and he gave a thumbs up. He comes up to my group and he goes, “Oh my god, it so hot out here, I’m sweating!” and we all take the picture, and he goes “It was so nice seeing/meeting you all.” At the end of this day, Moshe decided to give us all Gatorades since we were so calm and patient! This day was the second best experience ever; I never thought that he would actually come out since he seemed so tired! I honestly cannot thank Justin and his crew for everything they’ve done for us. Even a thank you doesn’t cut it. After waiting 4 and half years of just sitting behind my phone, crying my eyes out because I always saw other girls with him. Now, my day had finally come! No one can understand how much I love Justin, nor can any words explain it. To the people who told me, I would never ever meet Justin, well look at me now! EVERYONE JUST BELIEVE AND NEVER SAY NEVER, your time will come. I promise you! -@TrinaNazarian Read more: This feels so surreal right now, like me writing my own Bieber…

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My name is Hannah and I’m from Manchester in England, UK….

My name is Hannah and I’m from Manchester in England, UK. I’ve been a huge fan since July 2009 but I never EVER thought that I’d be writing a Bieber experience, but on 06/06/2012 at 2:33pm, my dream really came true. It’s the school holidays so we all have a week off, it was just a normal day and I was sat at home on my own, studying, strangely enough I was wearing a Bieber shirt. About 6 months ago, I entered my details online to Radio One (UK) for a show called ‘Star Caller’ where celebrities call their biggest fans (if you’re lucky) I never thought that I had much of a chance, there was like a 1 in 27 million chance of Justin calling me. SO ANYWAY, my phone started ringing, I pick it up and I was like “Hello?” then I hear “Hannah? ” so I was like “Who is it?” (my phone is really quiet, and he sounds SO different on the phone!) “It’s Justin” so I said “It’s Justin?!” Then when he said “It’s Justin Bieber” MY WHOLE BODY STARTED SHAKING.. was this really him? I freaked out & asked him if he was joking, he said “It’s Justin, can’t you tell by my voice?” Then it really hit me that  JUSTIN BIEBER WAS TALKING TO ME ON THE PHONE.  I jumped out of my seat and tried to keep calm, I tensed up my whole body because I knew I’d only have a couple of minutes and I couldn’t blow this one opportunity to talk to him. He asked me a couple things and he knew where I was from, and my age, we talked about school, his new songs, Dan Kanter, my mum(lol) ..he asked me what my favourite song was out of ‘All Around The World’ or ‘Die In Your Arms’, I said Die In Your Arms. I told him that I love ‘Turn To You.’ At one point I told him, “I’m so excited to be talking to you,” he was like, “Aww your excited to talk to me?” ..HE SAID AWW TO ME. I’ve always loved how he says aww to other fans.  Then he just said it to me, how was I still breathing? And yes Justin, of course I am excited to talk to you! :’)  THEN THE BEST PART OF IT WAS WHEN HE SAID TO ME: “I love you!”  I replied with  “I love you so much!”  He said  “I love you, thank you for being my Biggest Fan!”  The fact that he called me his biggest fan made me feel so special, my 3 years of endless support have been noticed, I told him random things like that I was going to camp out for Believe tickets with my mum haha.. then he had to go. When he put the phone down, I literally  collapsed  to the ground screaming..it didn’t seem real, all I could hear going through my mind was Justin telling me he loved me. UNREAL. I called my mum to tell her all about it but I couldn’t even speak, I was CRYING hysterically down the phone, I couldn’t stand up straight. She thought something real bad had happened to me then I managed to squeel out what had just happened, she freaked out too. Then the radio station called me back about 30 minutes later, to talk to me about how I was feeling . By now, I was totally freaking out, everything was slowly sinking in. When Justin called me, my whole mind went blank. I’d planned what I’d say to him if I ever met him but I completely forgot everything. It was an amazing experience. I honestly spent the whole day shaking and crying, I felt like I hadn’t slept for days from so much jumping around and crying. I had to run up and down the stairs a couple of times to calm myself down. Imagine answering the phone and it’s your idol. Wow. IT WAS  THE BEST DAY OF MY WHOLE ENTIRE LIFE, seriously,  NEVER SAY NEVER!  Never give up on your dreams.  Thank you so so so much to Justin for taking the time to phone me, it’s made my life complete!  I wont ever forget this day. -Hannah Go here to read the rest: My name is Hannah and I’m from Manchester in England, UK….

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My name is Hannah and I’m from Manchester in England, UK….

My name is Hannah and I’m from Manchester in England, UK. I’ve been a huge fan since July 2009 but I never EVER thought that I’d be writing a Bieber experience, but on 06/06/2012 at 2:33pm, my dream really came true. It’s the school holidays so we all have a week off, it was just a normal day and I was sat at home on my own, studying, strangely enough I was wearing a Bieber shirt. About 6 months ago, I entered my details online to Radio One (UK) for a show called ‘Star Caller’ where celebrities call their biggest fans (if you’re lucky) I never thought that I had much of a chance, there was like a 1 in 27 million chance of Justin calling me. SO ANYWAY, my phone started ringing, I pick it up and I was like “Hello?” then I hear “Hannah? ” so I was like “Who is it?” (my phone is really quiet, and he sounds SO different on the phone!) “It’s Justin” so I said “It’s Justin?!” Then when he said “It’s Justin Bieber” MY WHOLE BODY STARTED SHAKING.. was this really him? I freaked out & asked him if he was joking, he said “It’s Justin, can’t you tell by my voice?” Then it really hit me that  JUSTIN BIEBER WAS TALKING TO ME ON THE PHONE.  I jumped out of my seat and tried to keep calm, I tensed up my whole body because I knew I’d only have a couple of minutes and I couldn’t blow this one opportunity to talk to him. He asked me a couple things and he knew where I was from, and my age, we talked about school, his new songs, Dan Kanter, my mum(lol) ..he asked me what my favourite song was out of ‘All Around The World’ or ‘Die In Your Arms’, I said Die In Your Arms. I told him that I love ‘Turn To You.’ At one point I told him, “I’m so excited to be talking to you,” he was like, “Aww your excited to talk to me?” ..HE SAID AWW TO ME. I’ve always loved how he says aww to other fans.  Then he just said it to me, how was I still breathing? And yes Justin, of course I am excited to talk to you! :’)  THEN THE BEST PART OF IT WAS WHEN HE SAID TO ME: “I love you!”  I replied with  “I love you so much!”  He said  “I love you, thank you for being my Biggest Fan!”  The fact that he called me his biggest fan made me feel so special, my 3 years of endless support have been noticed, I told him random things like that I was going to camp out for Believe tickets with my mum haha.. then he had to go. When he put the phone down, I literally  collapsed  to the ground screaming..it didn’t seem real, all I could hear going through my mind was Justin telling me he loved me. UNREAL. I called my mum to tell her all about it but I couldn’t even speak, I was CRYING hysterically down the phone, I couldn’t stand up straight. She thought something real bad had happened to me then I managed to squeel out what had just happened, she freaked out too. Then the radio station called me back about 30 minutes later, to talk to me about how I was feeling . By now, I was totally freaking out, everything was slowly sinking in. When Justin called me, my whole mind went blank. I’d planned what I’d say to him if I ever met him but I completely forgot everything. It was an amazing experience. I honestly spent the whole day shaking and crying, I felt like I hadn’t slept for days from so much jumping around and crying. I had to run up and down the stairs a couple of times to calm myself down. Imagine answering the phone and it’s your idol. Wow. IT WAS  THE BEST DAY OF MY WHOLE ENTIRE LIFE, seriously,  NEVER SAY NEVER!  Never give up on your dreams.  Thank you so so so much to Justin for taking the time to phone me, it’s made my life complete!  I wont ever forget this day. -Hannah Go here to read the rest: My name is Hannah and I’m from Manchester in England, UK….

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ARRIVALS: Director Jamie Travis Leaps From Shorts To Phone Sex With For A Good Time, Call…

Worlds collide in the raunchy comedy For A Good Time, Call… , the sweet and salty tale of two reluctant roommates ( Ari Graynor and Lauren Anne Miller) tentatively building a friendship as they embark on a phone sex business venture together. It’s a long-awaited starring vehicle for Graynor and Miller and a warmly funny offering in the current wave of raunchy R-rated female-driven comedies – and For A Good Time, Call… also marks the anticipated debut of shorts filmmaker Jamie Travis ( The Patterns Trilogy , The Saddest Boy in the World ), who here earns the distinction of inspiring Justin Long ‘s performance in the film and getting to direct Kevin Smith jerking off in his feature debut. All of the above may surprise those who’ve followed Travis’s work over the past decade, during which time the Toronto-based filmmaker burst onto the film festival scene with award-winning, impeccably-crafted short films (highly recommended and viewable here ) that dealt effectively in nostalgic sensibilities, a Wes Anderson-like mise en scene, and a stylistic formalism largely absent from his fast-talking lady comedy. But after years of searching for the right project, Travis fell for the script by real life friends Miller and Katie Anne Naylon and subsequently launched into his first feature on an incredibly packed 16-day shooting schedule. After premiering at Sundance and debuting in limited release this weekend, For a Good Time, Call… expands to additional cities on September 7. “I honestly don’t know how to direct a movie unless I love it,” Travis offered, looking back on the film. “I feel like that love needs to drive you, and without it what are you doing?” I fell in love with your Patterns trilogy and your short films, so when I heard that you were directing For A Good Time, Call… I was very intrigued — I’d been wondering when we’d see a feature from you. You must have been surprised that I was making what people will refer to as a “phone sex comedy!” It definitely wasn’t the kind of film I thought I was going to direct. I thought of myself as directing something I wrote myself because all of my short films, including the Patterns trilogy, are written from a personal place. So it was a great surprise when I read the script. Knowing it was a phone sex comedy, I didn’t know what to think. I was so pleasantly surprised by how sweet it is, and how it shows female friendship in a way I don’t think enough movies show. It took a vehicle like phone sex and hung female friendship on it in such a grounded way. I just loved it, so I couldn’t say no! You must have been reading a lot of scripts over the years. Yeah – I had been reading so many scripts, and had gotten a lot of interest from American agents and eventually signed with WME, all from my films being at the Toronto Film Festival and Sundance. And I found that in particular it was The Saddest Boy in the World that people could see how I could kind of go in a commercial direction from that. The Patterns Trilogy is pretty out there; I feel like that’s for a very specific kind of audience, which apparently is you, Jen Yamato. It is! But it’s funny, I had been reading scripts for five or six years and hadn’t taken a meeting on anything. There was nothing I was interested in, I was growing increasingly skeptical that I was ever going to direct someone else’s script, and then I read this one and fell in love with it. It was just so funny to me, it bounced off the page in a way that I hadn’t experienced reading other people’s scripts. I immediately knew that I was the right person to direct it. I felt like I got it, and I also could see a really bad version of the movie in the hands of the wrong person who didn’t really get it, and I felt like I got it. I immediately connected it to these great ‘80s movies with Bette Midler and Goldie Hawn — Outrageous Fortune is a particular favorite of mine — and I loved that there’s a fine line of groundedness and also camp, a full-on female spirit. There’s a tricky tone to nail here. It’s a very sweet story about friendship between women, but it’s also raunchy, and that so much better reflects what real women are like than historically most movies about or for women have been. I mainly spend my time with girls — or more correctly, women — and my girlfriends talk dirty! They are brutally honest. And you’re right, I never see that in movies in a way that feels authentic to me. This script was written by two best friends, Lauren Miller and Katie Naylon, and they put so much of themselves into this script. You could really feel that, and it informed the whole project that it was loosely based on their real relationship. There’s this great quote from you, where the story goes that as you were lobbying for the directing job, you told Katie and Lauren, “You cannot let a straight man direct this movie.” [Laughs] I mean, certainly there are other people who could have directed this movie, I’m sure. But I did feel that as a gay man, and I don’t want to speak for all gay men, I have a certain reverence for women that is completely uncomplicated by sexuality or sexual tension. And I felt like that’s the spirit the film needed. It’s funny, because all the girls in this film — Ari, Lauren, and Katie, the writer — they all have their gay BFFs, and I felt like that perspective of reverence for women and for the kind of truthful aspects of female relationships — and I feel like I really get female relationships — I feel like a lot of that access comes because I am a gay man. You’re right — watching the film, I realized how so many of these scenes of phone sex or even just Katie and Lauren becoming close could easily have gone in another direction. That was my fear. This whole film was kind of a high wire act in tone. How do we have fun and keep it funny and keep it light and raunchy, but also find a way to keep the focus on the friendship between the girls? When I read the script I could see that someone, maybe a straight man, could read it in a whole other way, and could aim to titillate the audience or objectify the girls in their phone sex calls, and I hated that version of the movie in my mind. So I think I used this whole “a gay man must direct this movie” as a bit of a ploy to get the job, but at the same time it was my way of saying you guys have a sensitive tone here, and it would be very easy for it to go off the grid. But I’m sure there are many straight men out there who have great insight into female relationships. For me, it’s something I see among the gay men that I know; we just love women in a way that’s really uncomplicated. Speaking of which, I love the story of how Justin Long “found” his character. He plays Katie and Lauren’s mutual best friend, and after a conversation with you he decided he’d like to model the character on… you. How did you feel about that? Are you kidding me, I felt great about it! I basically wanted that, deep down in my subconscious mind. When that was the direction he wanted to take it in, I was very pleased. We had been talking about how to keep the character away from the stereotypical gay character that we see, and for me the most important part was not sexualizing the character as the lascivious gay man who’s chasing tail — because I’ve never been that guy, and those are not the gay men that I’m attracted to as friends or otherwise. I like the wholesomeness of [the character] — he has his own thing, he’s a budding comedian, and his real thrust in the film is trying to get his two best friends to be friends, which is a very human impulse to me. I remember we were having our first phone conversation and we were talking about the character and he might have mentioned hair extensions at one point and I was like, “Oh my God dear, no!” I think as soon as I responded to whatever he said about hair extensions he caught onto my voice and told me he liked the quality of my voice. And from then on he was following me around on set on the first day kind of mimicking my physical behavior, which was a little uncomfortable but I was also so busy making the film in the scenes that he was not in that I didn’t have enough time to feel terribly weird. But I think deep down in my subconscious it was very healthy for my ego. [Laughs] When you watch Justin’s scenes, do you recognize something familiar? It’s funny because I do see some of myself onscreen in him, and how could you not like that as a director? That calls to mind another tidbit about the production, which is that you shot it on an insanely fast schedule — something like 16 days? I know! It’s crazy. It was 16 days. My first short film, Why the Anderson Children Didn’t Come To Dinner , is on Vimeo, and that was a 16 minute film that I shot in 16 days. So here I am shooting a 90-minute feature in 16 days – I have never worked that quickly, but you do what you need to do to tell the story. I knew that my usual style of filmmaking, which is very visual and the directorial voice is very present — I knew that I couldn’t just plunk my so-called trademark aesthetic on this movie. It had to be looser, and the strength of the movie was going to be on the performances and the comedy so we had to take a really simplified style to it because otherwise we wouldn’t have a movie! You may notice there aren’t so many wide shots in the movie, and that’s because when you have a scene between two people and you have 20 minutes to shoot it, the close-ups, in a comedy like this where it’s all about engaging the audience with the characters, are important. So there were a lot of sacrifices made to make this film in 16 days, but at the same time the 16-day schedule forced us to have this indie spirit. We were making this film which, based on its synopsis, is really a commercial comedy but it was made in a very indie way and I think that informs our approach and our spirit. I see that everyone was loving what they were doing in this film and I think that’s important. That separates it from the average studio comedy. Has it been tempting to make a feature that is more in the voice of your short films, the style that had become your signature? The thing is, I’m also bored with my own voice! I’m still doing what I love and what feels natural to me, and I do see a lot of my voice in For A Good Time, Call… — but every project is different. For example, there’s a project that I’m in love with right now where there’s a lot of room for my voice and it is kind of a perfect balance between a formal, stylized world and we’re inside the head of a really interesting, very special teenage character. Is it tempting to do something like I’ve done in the past? I feel like I want to meet in the middle. I want to write it myself, and writing is the hardest and most emotional part of the process for me. I’ve really found a comfortable nook in directing; my confidence has really grown and if I love a project and know how I want to execute it, it feels very natural to me. So I’m not at a point where I want to write right now. I’m getting a lot of opportunities, reading really great scripts, and had such a good experience working with collaborators so I’m following that path. But on the other hand I would never choose a project for money or do a completely broad studio comedy. If it doesn’t engage me on the page, I don’t consider it. And I don’t really consider what I do a job; I’m able to make a living in commercials and I love making commercials, and it enables me to not have to make my filmmaking decisions based on money. Five years from now I’ll probably be directing Mission to Mars 5 or something and maybe we’ll talk again, but I don’t think that’s going to happen. [Laughs] I honestly don’t know how to direct a movie unless I love it. I feel like that love needs to drive you, and without it what are you doing? That said, Jamie Travis’s Mission to Mars 5 would be the most beautiful installment of the franchise. [Laughs] That’s the thing — I do get to jump outside my own style in commercials, and if I got a 30-second commercial that was Mission to Mars -esque I would take it on and be so excited about it. But films are different; you put yourself into it so much, and I think there are only so many film projects that a director can make in their life. You have to be careful about your decisions. After Sundance, there were opportunities for sex comedies and it was like, well, hold on — I’m not a sex comedy director. I’m just a director. And while I see myself directing horror films or comedies or thrillers in the future, I really do love the idea of exploring different genres, it’s all about the first experience of reading the script. If it’s not the equivalent of reading a piece of literature, I’m not even going to consider it. It’s fun, as a longtime Jamie Travis fan, to see your world and the raunchy Judd Apatowian R-rated comedy world collide as it does particularly in your cameos. The cameos were a combination of our amazing casting directors in LA and our personal relationships. Obviously we got Seth because he is Lauren’s husband, and Kevin has a relationship with Lauren and Seth. To give you a sense, when I first came down to LA I was living with Lauren and Seth. This was a low-budget movie — I was the house guest who wouldn’t leave, so there was a real spirit there of everyone helping each other out and figuring out this movie. What was it like, in your big first feature, to direct Kevin Smith and Seth Rogen jerking off? Everyone was jerking off in this movie! Working with Seth was amazing — the cameos in particular were very much improvised. A lot of this movie, because we shot in 16 days, is not as improvised as you’d think. But the cameos were very much so. Seth is a brilliant comedic actor and you never know what he’s going to say. He always says something better than you could possibly imagine and takes it to places you didn’t see it going. And Kevin Smith, he came to set for I think three hours one day — we sat him down in the car and Ari was in the back seat saying her lines and I was talking to him through a walkie. What notes do you possibly give Kevin Smith as he’s, shall we say, in flagrante? He just invented it on the spot! In those situations where you’re working with comedic minds like that, it’s more like taking the elements of what they said and trying to refine it or combine the great thing they said here with the great thing they said there. But really with them and Ken Marino and Martha MacIsaac, it’s really about letting them go and shooting and shooting. That’s what we did, and it worked out for us. 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The Real Housewives of New York City Recap: Pirate Booty Call

The Real Housewives of New York City head to St. Barts for a girls week but did a fun filled night turn into a “Pirate Booty Call” for one housewife? We break down the lies, confessions, and speculation here in THG’s +/- recap. The ladies fly into to St. Barts and I must agree with Aviva and Carole.

The Expendables 2 Explodes Again, Anti-Obama Documentary Soars

The Expendables 2 once again took a machine gun to its box office competitors this weekend, taking in the most money for a second consecutive Friday and Saturday, this time by about $4 million over The Bourne Legacy . But it was a mostly quiet weekend in Hollywood, with few new films opening and Sylvester Stallone’s sequel winning the weekend with a haul of just $13.9 million. The major movie news instead centered around 2016: Obama’s America , a conservative documentary that cracked the top 10 overall, earning $6.2 million and enjoying an impressive per-theater average of over $5,700.

Jenelle Evans Granted One-Year Restraining Order Against Gary Head

Troubled Teen Mom 2 star Jenelle Evans has been granted a one-year restraining order against her troubled ex-fiance Gary Head, reports indicate. Head was arrested in June following a fight so brutal that a source claimed he “beat the sh!t out of her” and tried to strangle her with a bed sheet. Jenelle, who was also arrested, is so terrified of him now that she sought the restraining order and was relieved when the judge granted it to her. “Jenelle is afraid of Gary,” a source tells Radar . “She was viciously attacked by him and she is really frightened that he is going to come at her.” “That’s why she wanted a restraining order .” The restraining order forbids Gary from having any sort of contact with Jenelle Evans in person, via the phone, online or through a third party. “She doesn’t ever want to talk to Gary again, she just hopes that he obeys the law and stays away from her,” a source close to Evans says. “She knows that the restraining order is just a piece of paper but she feels safer knowing that he can’t and shouldn’t ever come near her.” Jenelle must appear in court today regarding her own role in the fight, and also plans on seeking custody of her son Jace. Good luck there.

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Wow, I never once in my life thought I’d be writing a “mybieberexperience” so to anyone reading this, honestly, NEVER SAY NEVER. It’s the truth. I’m Sarah and I’m 15 years old. I live in Pittsburgh, Pennsylvania! Okay well this is my Bieber experience! So yeah I live in Pittsburgh, PA right? But I met Justin in L.A. outside of his studio. I drove for 3 days, 14 hours each day, in a tiny car, across the country to California. You can guess why right? To see if I could even get a glimpse of Justin! See I’ve never seen Justin live. Last time he came to my city, I couldn’t afford a ticket to his concert.. so I didn’t get to go. I’ve never seen him in person and I thought it would be the coolest thing if the very first time I saw him in person, I was meeting him! My family thought I drove across the country to help my sister settle into college? But really I would have never gotten into that car and suffered those 14 hour long car rides if my sister didn’t promise to take me to L.A. Well, once we got to California it was 3 days of agonizing waiting/wondering if I would even see him. My sister drove me an hour from where we are at in that horrible L.A. traffic just to see if I could catch a glimpse of him. Well, after an hour and a half driving blindly through traffic and getting lost more than once, we finally pulled up to the dance studio. My heart was beating faster than I could breathe. I was a wreck to say the least. I got out of the car with my brother and headed to the back of the line. I sat down and legit was shaking so badly. I was on the phone with my friend @JDBdreamBelieb and she asked what time it was and I couldn’t even tell her cause I was shaking like crazy. Well I sat down for a little as my sister and her friend Jesse came after parking like a mile away. I met legit some of the SWEETEST beliebers. We talked and they helped calm me down. And kept me from having a crying attack right there, before Justin even came out. So then after like 20 minutes it got all quiet… I was freaking out. Everyone stood up and people kept shushing everyone. Then everyone started walking one way and let me tell you, I was internally screaming my lungs out. Was I actually going to meet the boy who saved my life? The boy who I drove across the country for?! We were waking and I suddenly see this gorgeous amazing looking kid in bright red Supras, grey Chachimama sweats, and a red tank-top and of course his hat. I grabbed my brother’s shoulder to keep from screaming. My brother simply responds with, “Hey look it’s Bieber.” I couldn’t take it. I was so close to crying. I got to the back of the line and waited to meet him. My hands were sweaty and I was breathing like a maniac. These two amazing, wonderful beliebers told me to go in front of them. They said they’ve met him before and the fact that I’ve never seen him before and drove all this way, they said I deserved it! I wanted to cry even more. My brother and sister made a huge deal about how sweet and different beliebers are. “They are so nice, like you guys care for each other. And every time we asked you guys something you guys would say we, like you’re all connected.” All I could answer was, “We’re a family.” ANYWAY. I was next in line to meet him. I was so nervous I felt like vomiting, so gross but true. Finally moment of truth, it was my turn. I walked up to him and he opened his arms for a hug yet I stupidly still asked, “Can I hug you?!” He smiled and was like, “Yeah of course!” And hugged me. Let me tell you, I never wanted to let go. So then we took our pictures and I turned to him before I walked away. Somehow we ended up holding hands as I drifted to the side, I looked in his eyes and I said sincerely from the bottom of my heart, “Justin. Thank you for saving my life.” He was smiling but when I said that his eyes went a bit wide and he looked a little caught off guard. He quickly replied, “Oh my gosh, yeah of course. You’re welcome,” and he was still holding my hands may I add. He looked a bit concerned to me, but like I mean if someone said, “Thanks for saving my life” that basically means they were on the edge of like suicide. Which yeah he saved me from that. But then after he told me that I was like, “No seriously Justin, thank you so so much.” I felt like crying. He squeezed my hand so tight and smiled at me. “Seriously no you’re so welcome I..” He couldn’t like finish his sentence. I smiled so wide and walked away. I broke down crying on the sidewalk legit like 2 seconds after. All I’ve ever dreamed about was telling him how he saved my life, and now the boy of my dreams finally knows. I heard him talking to my brother and sister and I started laughing. Then Angelina and Jade, the two amazing sweet beliebers who let me go ahead of them, came over and hugged me. I was like, “I want to cry but I have no tears!” It was the best day of my life. I got to my car and called my mom. When I uttered the words, “I just met Justin Bieber.” She couldn’t understand me cause I started bawling my eyes out. I never imagined in my life I’d be writing this. THANK YOU FOR BELIEVING IN ME. Thank you so much for making my dreams come true Justin. Sincerely your belieber, Sarah. -@ShakeItForMeJDB Read the original here: Wow, I never once in my life thought I’d be writing a…

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My name is Briarna, I’m 16 and I have been supporting Justin…

My name is Briarna, I’m 16 and I have been supporting Justin since early 2009, which makes it nearly 4 years now. All of those 4 years I have been absolutely determined to meet Justin, that finally happened when Justin came down to Australia for promo . My best friend Gabi and myself went to the hotel Justin was staying at in Sydney. There were hundreds of fans waiting outside. I scrolled through my Twitter feed and came across a photo that @allisonkaye posted of herself, @dankanter and @scrappy at a restaurant they were eating at. We knew where the restaurant was so went straight to it, when we arrived there were around 400 fans waiting . Fans were tapping on the window, standing on each other’s shoulders and screaming. I decided to DM Kenny that I was outside the restaurant and wanted to say hey but I never received a reply. My friend Mim had a notepad and she wrote on it “Please get Kenny to check his DM’s from BieberFlexes”, Allison was busy on her phone but Scrappy came over to the window and put his thumbs up as if he would tell Kenny. Gabi had wondered off and I hadn’t noticed where she had gone until she came back and told me she saw Allison outside the restaurant going to the bathroom and she spoke to her and asked her to tell Kenny to check his DM’s. She said she would and we waited, but nothing. Allison, Dan and Scrappy were getting ready to leave the restaurant so Gabi and myself went to a door that lead into the restaurant, security was blocking it but Gabi pushed past them and she held my hand and we went into the restaurant. We saw Allison and Gabi went up to her and told her that I was BieberFlexes and she said, “Okay, I promise I’ll tell Kenny to check his DM’s”. Luckily enough Allison kept her promise. We made our way to the lobby and waited there, shortly after we heard girls screaming saying that Kenny just came outside the restaurant for no apparent reason, so as I thought. My phone then lit up with a notification from Kenny saying, “I just went out. Come outside the restaurant.” We ran straight back to the restaurant and when we got there, there were still so many fans . The door we pushed open was not covered by security so Gabi opened it again and went in. She saw Kenny sitting down at a table, getting his attention letting him know that I was outside. Kenny then came out being mobbed by every fan that was there. He then said, “Whoa whoa whoa, time out. Now where is BieberFlexes?” I was standing at the back of the fans and I put my hand up signaling Kenny that it was me. Kenny then walked towards me and said, “So what’s up”, I was speechless so I called Gabi through all the fans and told her to come over. We explained to Kenny how hard I had been trying to meet Justin after 4 years. Kenny took in everything we said whilst pulling out a packet of gum and popping it into his mouth, LOL! He then said, “Now let’s keep it down and not make it obvious, I’ve got you two tickets to the secret show tomorrow night and I’ll make sure you meet him.” Freaking out inside, I gave Kenny a huge hug and thanked him. He told me not to stress and that I was welcome. He told me he would DM me the rest of the information. I was completely speechless, after 4 years of trying to meet him it was actually going to happen. I could go to sleep knowing that I was actually meeting Justin the next day. The next day Gabi and myself got up and made our way to the secret show. We arrived and there was a red carpet, paparazzi and the rest. We headed inside and saw Kenny, we hugged him and spoke for a while and I thanked him again. Justin came out and we watched him perform, he was incredible. The secret show was the best thing I had ever experienced, only around 300 fans in the room. I was able to not worry about anything around me, I just kept looking at Justin hitting every note perfectly thinking I was going to meet him. It was surreal. After the show had finished we waited in the line for the M&G and we were at the back of the line, as the line kept getting shorter my moment to meet Justin finally came. I walked up to Justin and introduced myself; he smiled and gave me a kiss on the cheek and then a hug to follow. After that he said to me, “Hello how are you?” I said, “I’m good thank you, how are you?” he replied, “I’m great thank you”. I told him I loved him and he told me he loved me back. Surprisingly I was super calm, Justin made me feel so comfortable, and it was amazing. We took the photo and he mentioned us to take one more, he said, “Wait aren’t we going to do that swap thing, so you’re next to me?” He pulled me in by the waist and we took the photo. I turned and smiled at him, I thanked him and he said no worries. I gave him another kiss and a hug and I told him I’d see him at Sunrise the next morning. After that all happened we walked down the path and we saw Justin walk over to the fans that were at the gate. It was just Gabi and myself; we stood there and watched him take photos with fans through the gate that couldn’t get into the show. After that, Justin started walking our way, he was with Alfredo. I smiled at Justin and he came straight over to us, was this really happening? Justin walked over and he was like, “Hey guys what’s up?” I asked him if he would mind if we took some photos, he said sure no worries. Justin took the first photo with Gabi and as he was holding her phone it had an unexpected incoming call from @KidrauhlYolo so Justin picked up greeting her saying, “Hey Abbey it’s Justin” then cracking up at her freaking out he handed the phone back to Gabi. After that I got my iPhone out and I said, “How about a selfie?” he nodded and said “Why not”. I was trying to press the button that flipped the camera around so I could take the photo with Justin but my Twitter notifications were covering the button and my phone was going crazy. Justin looked at me and we both laughed, it was so cute. Alfredo then said he’d take the photo so I gave my phone to him. After we took the photos, Justin stayed to talk to us, he was so sweet and patient. Gabi then said to Justin, “Briarna has been trying so long to meet you and Kenny met us at the hotel last night and that’s how we got to meet you” Justin then replied saying “Aww that’s so sweet”. I told him, “After 4 years of trying to meet you I finally did it” Justin looked at me and said, “I’m so glad we finally met, look at you now”. I was literally squealing on the inside at this point. I thanked him for taking the time to come and see us; he then gave me a hug and said no problem. I waved to him and he waved back and hopped in his car. After of all the hard times I went through trying to meet Justin and after all of the people who told me I would never meet him. I did it. I actually did it. And it was the most incredible experience of my life. I have never met someone so down to earth, patient, humble, sweet, caring and genuine as Justin. I’ll never ever forget everything that happened, I am so thankful for the experience I’ve had. I want to thank Allison and Kenny for being so generous towards me, it was unbelievable. If I could re live this experience I would, I’ll never forget it. -@BieberFlexes Here’s my recording of when I met Justin. ( x ) Read this article: My name is Briarna, I’m 16 and I have been supporting Justin…

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