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Midday Motivation | With Great Pain Comes Great Change

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  “With great pain comes great change.” – Author Unknown If you’re feeling overwhelmed, remind yourself of where your strength comes from. A higher power…

Midday Motivation | With Great Pain Comes Great Change

Dear Bossip: I’m A Virgin And I Feel Like I’m Missing Out On Life

Dear Bossip , I am a female and I am a virgin. However, I am VERY anxious to lose my virginity. I will be 21 years old soon, and I feel like I am missing out on life. I was a nerd in high school who came from a sheltered background. My life is fairly BORING! Normally when I am talking to a guy, he is quick to jump straight to sex. I do not like to mention that “fun fact” about me because 80% of the time men will become weirdly obsessed with my virginity. That 20% will get turned off completely and disappear. Sometimes, I do not even have to mention that I am a virgin I must have it stamped on my forehead. The first question that pops into their head is, “Why?” Honestly, I always thought that losing my virginity would be magical; a big deal like in the movies. Not only that, but, I have numerous friends that either became pregnant and/or caught an STD at a young age. Now, that I am getting older I am starting to feel like it’s not that big of a deal. I mean most of my family members have been having sex since they were 14/15 years old, so why not me? I want to see what all of the hype is about! They claim to be very proud of me for holding out, yet, they often poke fun at me. Lately, I’ve been having the urge to rebel and do some really stupid stuff, basically start living life. A few weeks ago I met a guy and we got along great, but he mentioned sex and I told him I was inexperienced. He asked what have I done so far and I told him nothing but kissing. Well, it’s been a couple days and I have not heard from him. Needless to say, he’s gone! I really want to get it over with. Is sex really that big of a deal? – Life As A Virgin Dear Ms. Life As A Virgin , Kudos to you for holding out and not giving in to peer pressure. And, I hope you continue to hold out and not leap out there and do something stupid … like having sex in order to “get the experience of it.” That isn’t very smart, sweetie. Be glad and thankful for the 20 percent of men who have disappeared and got turned off by your virginity. It goes to show that they were not really interested in you, and were not ready to invest in a relationship. They were only looking for sex, and possibly a one night stand. Now, the 80 percent is what you have to be leery regarding. They want to be the first. They want to be the ones who take what is special from you, and trust me, they won’t stick around either. Some men get off on that type of thing. Stay mindful and keep a close watch on these guys. They are not genuine in their pursuits and you don’t want to lose your virginity to someone who will treat you like a one night stand, and you never hear from them again. My advice is to wait until you’re ready. Don’t rush to have sex just to get it over with. You will regret your decision later, and you will regret that you did it with a guy that you neither were really into, or he wasn’t really into you. Your body is your temple, and you should protect it. You don’t have to succumb to the joking and prodding from your family and friends who are having sex, and like you mentioned, they are either pregnant or have STDs. That should be an even greater incentive for why you should wait, and not have sex. You don’t want to end up pregnant by some guy on your first experience, and you certainly don’t want to end up with an STD. Is sex a big deal? For some it is. And, for others it isn’t. We live in a sex craved and sex obsessed society. Sex is sold in commercials, magazines, movies, and on television. They sell sex to make it look wonderful, beautiful, and fantastical. But, it’s not like the movies. It’s not what you see on television or on the big screen. Sex is a serious issue, and in some instances it has serious consequences. The best thing you can do it is to follow your own moral and ethical barometer regarding your body, and who you want to share your body with. I can tell you to wait, and I can tell you that it is great. But, it is you who have to make the decision regarding your own body. And, you should never give your power over to anyone regarding your body. So, wait! Wait for the right guy, and the right moment. Wait until you are ready, and you feel the guy you are with is there for the long haul, and that he really wants to build something with you. Wait until you know for sure and it’s not because you’re trying to prove something to someone. There is no need to rush, and no need to give yourself to someone that you will regret losing your virginity to. The first person you decide to be with should be a memorable experience because it will always live with you, and you will always know the first person you lost your virginity to, and hopefully he will be your last. – Terrance Dean  Photo source: Shuttershock Hey Bossip Fam, what do you think? Share your opinions and thoughts below! Also, e-mail all your questions Terrance Dean:  loveandrelationships@bossip.com  Follow Terrance Dean on Twitter:   @ terrancedean and “LIKE” Terrance Dean on Facebook, click  HERE! Make sure to order my books Mogul: A Novel (Atria Books – June 2011; $15); Hiding In Hip Hop  (Atria Books – June 2008); and Straight From Your Gay Best Friend – The Straight Up Truth About Relationships, Love, And Having A Fabulous Life (Agate/Bolden Books – November 2010; $15). They are available in bookstores everywhere, and on Amazon, click  HERE!      

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Kendall and Kylie Jenner: THG Celebrity of the Year #7!

2014 will be remembered for many reasons. It was the year when Ebola made its way to the United States; when civilians in Missouri and New York took their displeasure with the police to the street; when North Korea somehow prevented a movie from opening in the United States. And also when Kylie and Kendall Jenner fully emerged from the attention-hogging shadow of half-sister Kim Kardashian  … barely wearing any clothes in the process!  49 Inappropriate Kylie and Kendall Jenner Photos 1. Kendall and Kylie Jenner Bikini Photo This is ONE RACY photo of Kendall and Kylie Jenner in bikinis on Instagram. Goodness. This is not the first year the Jenners have made a splash, but with each passing week, their fame – and notoriety – grows, and not solely on Instagram. Indeed, these teenage siblings have been public figures to some degree since they were children, due to their roles on Keeping Up with the Kardashians . But Kylie and Kendall Jenner served as far more than background fodder for their feuding parents and famous half-sisters over the past 12 months. Kylie made us feel dirty every time she stripped down on Instagram, while clearly basking in the focus on those who wondered whether she has had lip injections . Making headlines for merely stoking the rumor mill with plastic surgery talk and for posing in skimpy outfits at a young age (Kylie is just 17 years old)? Hmmm. We wonder where she learned that lesson from. 31 Wildly Inappropriate Photos of Kylie Jenner 1. Kylie Jenner Cleavage Pic Kylie Jenner squats and shows off her cleavage in this photo. NOTE: She is 16 years old. Kendall, meanwhile, has accomplished more than just mastery of her social media accounts (though she remains a master of social media in her own right). A true runway star, the 19-year old stunner has helped anchor fashion shows in Paris, Milan and New York over the past several months. She’s appeared in Vogue, more than once. She possibly hooked up with Justin Bieber . She was named the most reblogged model of 2014 . To Jenner’s credit, she has gone out of her way to disassociate herself from her famous family, trying as hard as possible to establish herself in the fashion world on her own merits. So far, so very good for her, with no end in sight. It’s been an impressive year overall for Kendall and Kylie Jenner. Expect to see them back in this list in 2015, perhaps even ranked higher than Kim. Let’s just hope it’s not because they made a sex tape. 36 Wildly Inappropriate Photos of Kendall Jenner 1. Kendall Jenner: Naked and Smoking Kendall Jenner is smoking in this picture. In more ways than one! She was 18 years old at the time it was taken.

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Teresa Giudice Seeks Guardian For Daughters: Reality Star Doesn’t Want Joe Giudice In Charge While She’s Locked Up!

In less than two weeks, Teresa Giudice will turn herself over to authorities and begin serving 15 months in prison on fraud charges. Sources say Teresa’s been doing everything in her power to give her daughters an enjoyable final Christmas with their parents ( Joe Giudice begins his 41-month sentence after Teresa gets released), but not surprisingly, she’s found that to be easier said than done. In addition to the stress brought about by a looming prison sentence, Teresa has reportedly grown increasingly frustrated with her turbulent marriage.  There have been rumors that Joe plans to divorce Teresa while she’s locked up, and given his behavior over the years, we wouldn’t put it past him. Neither would Teresa, it seems, as the Housewife has reportedly grown desperate in her search for a temporary guardian to care for her four daughters while she’s behind bars. “She knows Joe doesn’t want to take care of them, and she doesn’t think he’s capable,” a source tells Life & Style. “Teresa has become so desperate she’s now considering giving her kids to friends.” The insider says Teresa has struck out in her search for a family member to take her three youngest daughters. Her oldest, Gia, is reportedly planning to live with one of bandmates from the girl group 3KT. “[Gia] knows her family needs her, but she also realizes she need a mother figure while her mom is locked away,” says the source. Watch The Real Housewives of New Jersey online to see the Giudice family in slightly happier times. 11 Teresa Giudice GIFs That Should Worry Her Fellow Inmates 1. Table Flipping Fiend Teresa Giudice is not gonna take any crap. Her table-flipping reputation will precede her in prison, thanks to The Real Housewives of New Jersey Season 1.

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33 Last Minute Gifts For The Power Basic In Your Life

Never heard of a “Power Basic” before? That’s because we made it up. The Power Basic unabashedly drinks pumpkin spice lattes (henceforth referred to as “PSLs”) and wears leggings as pants without hesitation. The Power Basic is fully aware that her (hey, or his) favorite things are beloved by a wide majority but genuinely DGAF…. Read more »

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Clapback: Karrueche BLASTS Chris Brown For Announcing Their Split – “N***as Be In They Feelings When You Break Up With Them”

Karrueche Responds To Chris Brown Announcing Their Break Up During Performance In L.A. Last night, Chris Brown publicly confirmed his single status yet again during his performance at the Power 106 Cali Christmas concert in L.A. where he blatantly told the crowd “Well….I’m single too! F**k that b***h!”. Karrueche, who took her talents to Miami with her friends for Art Basel last night, had this to say once she got wind of Breezy’s on-stage antics…. Welp. You can peep the video of Chris airing out his single status HERE and see if you think Kae’s response was accurate.

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Clapback: Karrueche BLASTS Chris Brown For Announcing Their Split – “N***as Be In They Feelings When You Break Up With Them”

Top 10 Nude Scenes of 2014: Whose Boobs Took the Top Spots?

Each year, the website Mr. Skin releases its list of the year’s top nude scenes. There was a time when the entries were something of a foregone conclusion, but in the Golden Age of Nudity in which we live, there are dozens and sometimes hundreds of “hoots and glutes” (as Skin himself so eloquently put it) from which to choose. Sadly, in 2014, the world of nudity was dominated by The Fappening – that unfortunate event in which hackers violated the privacy of hundreds of young starlets by posting their private photos online. After that, of course, we were blessed with the sight of Kim Kardashian’s naked butt on the cover of Paper magazine. Kim may not have succeeded in breaking the Internet, but she probably caused a worldwide shortage of baby oil. 10 Best Nude Scenes of 2014 10. Cameron Diaz in Sex Tape Cameron made her nudity debut with the aptly-titled Sex Tape. She did not disappoint. Fortunately, Mr. Skin’s nude scene list focuses on consensual, non-greasy nudity that actually moves (and bounces). The list has just about everything Hollywood boob aficionados would expect: There’s Alexandra Daddario on True Detective , forcing Woody Harrelson to live up to his name. And, of course, who could forget Scarlett Johansson in Under the Skin ? Sadly, there’s one omission that we simply can’t believe. Somehow, Emily Ratajkowski’s nude scene in Gone Girl was left off the list, which is a bit like leaving Michael Jordan out of a conversation about great basketball players. We’re not sure about to do about this slight (Maybe call our congressmen?), but feel free to check out the year’s top nude scenes in the gallery above while you await further instruction.

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Chris Brown: F–k Karrueche! I’m Single! I Got THREE Kardashians on Deez …

Chris Brown announced that he and Karrueche Tran are over, putting his ex-girlfriend on blast in concert and proceeding to pose with three Kardashians. Yes, it was a particularly busy night in the life of Chris. Chris Brown: I’m Single! F–k Karrueche! Friday night during Power 106’s annual Cali Christmas show in L.A, the R&B star asked the crowd if there were any single women in the house. The applicable members of Team Breezy cheered. After a brief pause, Chris noted, “I’m single too!” Team Breezy erupted , electrified and ecstatic. Apparently, he broke up with Karrueche Tran again, and it doesn’t sound like they parted on good terms. Of his now-ex, the star said “F–k that b-tch!” Chris never was good at break-ups with girls. He wasn’t done making headlines on this night. On Instagram, he later posed with not one, not two, but three Kardashian family members hanging onto him … Khloe Kardashian joined the Kylie and Kendall Jenner lovefest, making for a truly strange scene, and one no doubt meant as a giant eff-you to Kae. Wonder what Kylie’s boyfriend (assuming she’s really cradle robbed by Tyga , Chris’ boy) thinks about this. We’re guessing he’s cool with it … maybe. On the plus side, he and Chris are tight, so better that than Kylie crawling all over some random dude, and Kendall looks more interested anyway. On the flip side … well, it’s still Chris Brown. His on-stage, humiliating, crude kiss-off directed at Karrueche Tran was about as nicely as he’s ever parted ways with a woman, which says a lot. The model has yet to passive-aggressively reply on social media, but we assume it’s just a matter of time. Then they’ll get back together after that. Anyone want to bet against us there? 25 Pics of Chris Brown Thuggin’ It! 1. Chris Brown Smoking Weed Chris Brown smoking weed – 3 joints at the same time no less. What a class act as always.

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Chris Brown: F–k Karrueche! I’m Single! I Got THREE Kardashians on Deez …

Chris Brown announced that he and Karrueche Tran are over, putting his ex-girlfriend on blast in concert and proceeding to pose with three Kardashians. Yes, it was a particularly busy night in the life of Chris. Chris Brown: I’m Single! F–k Karrueche! Friday night during Power 106’s annual Cali Christmas show in L.A, the R&B star asked the crowd if there were any single women in the house. The applicable members of Team Breezy cheered. After a brief pause, Chris noted, “I’m single too!” Team Breezy erupted , electrified and ecstatic. Apparently, he broke up with Karrueche Tran again, and it doesn’t sound like they parted on good terms. Of his now-ex, the star said “F–k that b-tch!” Chris never was good at break-ups with girls. He wasn’t done making headlines on this night. On Instagram, he later posed with not one, not two, but three Kardashian family members hanging onto him … Khloe Kardashian joined the Kylie and Kendall Jenner lovefest, making for a truly strange scene, and one no doubt meant as a giant eff-you to Kae. Wonder what Kylie’s boyfriend (assuming she’s really cradle robbed by Tyga , Chris’ boy) thinks about this. We’re guessing he’s cool with it … maybe. On the plus side, he and Chris are tight, so better that than Kylie crawling all over some random dude, and Kendall looks more interested anyway. On the flip side … well, it’s still Chris Brown. His on-stage, humiliating, crude kiss-off directed at Karrueche Tran was about as nicely as he’s ever parted ways with a woman, which says a lot. The model has yet to passive-aggressively reply on social media, but we assume it’s just a matter of time. Then they’ll get back together after that. Anyone want to bet against us there? 25 Pics of Chris Brown Thuggin’ It! 1. Chris Brown Smoking Weed Chris Brown smoking weed – 3 joints at the same time no less. What a class act as always.

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Blue Armpit Hair Fetish Video of the Day

I am not thankful for armpits or armpit hair, even though I know it is a fetish. I am also not thankful for new age feminists, who don’t really understand feminism, because they weren’t alive when gender roles were actually one-sided, even if women theoretically get paid less than men for the same job, I call bullshit, because I’ve been living off my wife’s checks for years… Meaning, you’re all a bunch of entitled babies, looking to be politically correct and boring, causing dumb controversy, by dying your armpits blue like the misguided fuck that you are… It’s like “I’m a feminist, women’s rights, I’ll fuck 12 dudes in a row on a porn set, then dye my armpits blue, Girl Power”…not that this girl is a pornstar, she’s just an idiot…

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