Last month, we learned that Drake slept with Lil Wayne’s girlfriend while the latter was locked up on gun charges. Weezy has apparently forgiven Drizzy, but he’s also planning to release a memoir in which he discusses the whole sordid affair in detail. Tammy Torres is the woman stuck in the middle of the Young Money love triangle, and she recently spoke with TMZ about Wayne’s book of revelations: Tammy Torres Talks Sex With Drake & Lil Wayne It seems Tammy was out of the country when the news broke and she was shocked – SHOCKED! – to learn about the scandal when she recently returned home. We find it hard to believe that Tammy didn’t catch wind of the fact that the celebrity gossip world was buzzing about her, but we can see why she would want to play dumb. If Wayne actually releases his memoir, there could be a big payday in it for Ms. Torres. She could either sue him for defamation of character, or sell her version of the story. Both options, of course, require her to keep her mouth shut for the time being. Tammy teased that she will reveal which one of the rappers was better in bed, but only if Wayne goes ahead with his plan of publishing a tell-all. We’re guessing Drake was the superior lay. C’mon – the man croons sensitive R&B tunes, while Weezy raps lyrics like, “Tongue kiss her other tongue/Skeet, skeet, skeet water gun.” We need some Purell just from typing that. Hey, Wayne is dating Christina Milian these days. We’re sure his ego will be just fine. 13 Lil Rappers 1. Lil Wayne View Photo Lil Wayne, a.k.a. Tunechi a.k.a. Weezy a.k.a. Dwayne Michael Carter III, is the biggest hit-maker of all the LIL rappers. 2. Lil Jon View Photo Think Lil Jon would feel good about making this slideshow on THG? YEAH! OKAY! WHAT?! 3. Lil Kim View Photo Lil Kim is a big name in the rap game, and she just had a lil baby of her own! 4. Lil Za View Photo Lil Za is best known as being Lil Twist’s sidekick and Justin Bieber’s. He’s been arrested a couple of times as well. Advertisement A message from our sponsor. 5. Lil Twist View Photo Lil Twist is seen by some as being a big reason Justin Bieber has gone off the rails. 6. Lil Scrappy View Photo Love & Hip Hop: Atlanta fans know Lil Scrappy (and his mom) all too well. 7. Lil Mama View Photo Lil Mama, one of the few women on this list, has also made more than a lil noise in the hip hop universe. 8. Lil Flip Lil Flip was big for awhile. His tattoos and grills still are at least. Advertisement A message from our sponsor. 9. Lil Boosie View Photo Lil Boosie was a regular of our celebrity mug shots gallery for a time. 10. Lil Bow Wow Lil Bow Wow is a grown up Bow Wow now. One who cleans up well! 11. Lil Romeo Aww. Lil Romeo, son of Master P, is now just Romeo, but look at that baby face. 12. Lil Snupe View Photo R.I.P. Advertisement A message from our sponsor. 13. Lil O Lil O is big in the Houston hip hop arena. The End. Up Next: ” 13 Lil Rappers .” We’ll be redirecting you shortly…
Kerry Washington, Sarah Jessica Parker and Michelle Obama are feeling very Glamour-ous this month. Literally! The Scandal star, former Sex and the City actress and residing First Lady represent “Power Women,” according to the publication, as they opened up to Glamour about various aspects of life in the military. Washington, for example, spoke out on how diminishing the stigma of mental health, telling the magazine: “My brain and my heart are really important to me. I don’t know why I wouldn’t seek help to have those things be as healthy as my teeth. I go to the dentist. So why wouldn’t I go to a shrink?” Parker then discussed the issues female veterans face: “I feel like there’s a laundry list… Being a working mother, serving, returning from Iraq or Afghanistan – I almost don’t know where to begin…. And I feel intimidated by their service; I feel ashamed that I haven’t served.” And then Obama, who helped explain The Evolution of Mom Dancing on The Tonight Show last week, said she could never actually compare her lives to the lives of wives with husbands overseas. However… “I [try to] put myself in the place of some of these young women – maybe they’re in their twenties, they have their third kid, they’re not established in their careers, they’re miles away from their family – and imagine the stresses. “So my advice is, ask for help. Keep asking. Because that’s the only way I survived. My women friends – how we get through is we reach out.” Michelle Obama’s 9 Best Looks 1. The Lady In Red View Photo Michelle Obama’s Jason Wu dress for President Obama’s second Inaugural Ball wowed the crowd. 2. The Coordinated Couple View Photo Michelle and Barack Obama’s attire might be coordinated here, but the POTUS is just the accent to Michelle’s amazing style. 3. Stunning Michelle Obama View Photo Michelle Obama rocked her frock at the Democratic National Convention. 4. Slam Dunk! View Photo MO even looks good when she’s slam dunkin’ a basketball, you guys. THAT’S TALENT. Advertisement A message from our sponsor. 5. Covergirl Michelle Obama has covered Vogue magazine not once but twice! She’s only the second First Lady ever to appear on the cover. 6. Inauguration Style View Photo Michelle Obama wore a long coat and purple leather gloves to husband Barack Obama’s second inauguration. 7. Green With Envy View Photo Michelle Obama shows off her amazingly toned arms and shoulders in this green sundress. 8. In Michael Kors, Good Wife Style View Photo Michelle Obama in Michael Kors’ suit-dress that was made famous by Alicia Florrick on The Good Wife. Advertisement A message from our sponsor. 9. Best of the Best When it comes to Michelle Obama fashion, there’s rarely a zero and a whole lot of heroes! The End. Up Next: ” Michelle Obama’s 9 Best Looks .” We’ll be redirecting you shortly…
Dear Bossip , I’ve been with my boyfriend for 13 years. We were 15 when we met. We have three kids together. Our problems started 8 years ago when I first cheated on him after the birth of our first child. Ever since then we’ve been constantly fighting. But, things seem to have gotten worse when he started smoking weed about 4 years ago. It seems that ever since he started smoking our fights have gotten physical and he just went downhill. He lost his job two years ago because he began to show up to work late and he would always argue with his manager. Ever since then I’ve been the main provider for my family. He blames me for him smoking weed. He says because I cheated on him that’s why he’s depressed. I feel so bad and I have so much guilt, but I don’t feel that what I did justifies the way he continues to treat me. Our fights have gotten very physical. When he’s sober he gets violent with me, and then he’ll get high and he’ll be so much calmer. He’ll act like nothing happened, but I’ll still have a grudge and things just don’t get better. We also argue because of sex. He wants sex everyday and I don’t. He makes sex feel more like a job for me because I know if I don’t want it he’ll get mad. So, most of the time we have sex just so that I won’t piss him off. We just recently got into a fight because he says I don’t pay enough attention to him. But, he’s so aggressive and violent, and it’s not just with me he’s that way with everyone in his family. I left to stay with my mom and I’ve been ignoring his calls, but I love him and I do want to be with him. But, I’m so tired of feeling scared and tired of taking care of someone who has the capability of taking care of themselves. I feel so bad and guilty because I left him and he doesn’t make much money and he doesn’t have a car to get to work. I need advice. I don’t know what to do. – Tired Of Being Tired Dear Ms. Tired Of Being Tired , Don’t stay. Don’t go back. Don’t feel sorry or bad for your decision to leave. You have to save yourself and your children and begin the work on healing yourself. If not, you will go back to the situation, things will continue to go worse, and you will grow miserable, and depressed yourself. You didn’t say why you cheated after your first child, but you do play a huge role in this situation. And, I find it convenient that you left that crucial piece of the puzzle out of your story. Why? You’re going on this rant about him, and all of these things he’s doing, but you owed up to the cheating and infidelity which seems to snowballed this entire situation. Why leave that out of your story? Why not share what was going on with you, and him? What was it that drove you to cheat? Whatever your reasons for cheating, you should have worked that out after you cheated, and got into therapy, or you should have left the relationship. If you’re cheating, then it’s obvious you’re not getting something at home, or your partner is not providing you with something that you feel the need to go out and get it from someone else. Regardless, you cheated, you stepped out on your relationship, and you broke the trust. Your actions were contributors to his reactions. Does it justify his behavior and treatment toward you? – Hell NO! Do you deserve to pounced on, mistreated, and physically abused? – Hell NO! Are you responsible for him losing his job and not taking care of his business? – Hell NO! Are you obliged to have sex with him every day even when you don’t want to? –Hell NO! I also find it interesting that the violence seems to be an “our fights have become physical.” You didn’t state that he was the physically violent one, but that you and he are both physically violent. Thus, you are complicit in this physical violence. Don’t throw rocks then hide your hand. If you’re both putting hands on one another, it’s time to go! Point blank simple. Violence in any form should be the end of the relationship. But, here are some things I want to address: One – You are not married. After 13 years you are still playing house. You are still giving him everything with no commitment. Why? Why are you not married? This is a problem. You folks want to be in these long-term relationships, producing children, and co-habitating with one another, yet, you want the privileges and expectations of a marriage. HUH? I’m confused. Why be together 13 years, and all you have is this sob story, pitiful relationship, and you’re seeking a way out. You don’t have to seek a way out because you can just get up and leave. You don’t have to file for a divorce. Just leave. Go to court and get full custody of the children and put him on child support. Two – He smokes weed and wants to blame you for him smoking weed. I’m sorry, but how did you force him to go to the weed man, purchase the weed, roll it up, and smoke it? He claims to be depressed and his resolve to handle it is to smoke weed? Girl, stop and tell him to have several seats. He’s listening to his homeboys and getting advice from them, and one of them probably mentioned he should start smoking to take the edge off. Now, he has a created a habit, but wants to blame his habit on you and what you did to him. Don’t take the blame for that. Don’t feel guilty for it, and don’t allow him to put it all on you. He is a grown ass man and he chooses to smoke weed. Instead of being an adult and doing what most responsible and mature adults would do and seek therapy, he resorts to smoking weed. Therefore, please know you are dealing with someone who is emotionally, and mentally unstable. Three – As a result of him smoking weed, he used to fight with his manager on his job, and lost his job. Again, he’s emotionally and mentally unstable. He didn’t work for two years, and you became the caretaker and provider of the family. He’s not emotionally or mentally able to handle taking care of his family. He is not a provider or supporter. He is another child in your home. Then, he fights with you, and it’s become physical. His emotional and mental well-being has become unmanageable and now he’s physical. TIME TO GO! LEAVE HIM AND STAY GONE! Four – He’s demanding you have sex every day even when you don’t want to. Uhm, I’m sorry, but why do you have to engage in having sex with him every day? It’s your body, and he can’t impose upon you something that you don’t want to do. Having sex daily is taxing, and if you’re not in the mood, or you don’t want to do it, then it became painful and not pleasurable. Besides, it seems the only reason he wants to do it is because he feels you’re ignoring him, or you don’t pay him any attention. Again, how old is he? He’s acting like a child, and that you owe him something. What he’s basically saying it that you owe him for making him smoke weed. You owe him for making him depressed. You owe him for making him lose his job. You owe him for making him treat you the way that he does. And, you owe him because you don’t pay him enough attention, so you owe him sex. You don’t owe him a damn thing! He’s throwing a tantrum and pouting and pointing the finger at you for his miserable and pathetic life. Girl, please leave this relationship, and recognize it’s a dead relationship. I don’t want to hear how much you say, “But, I love him and want to be with him.” Why? What does he have to offer you? He’s mentally, emotionally, and physically abusive. Once a relationship resorts to violence, it is time to go! Find the strength, power, and encouragement to leave him. If you don’t he will drain you emotionally and spiritually. You will become mentally tired, and the physical abuse will grow more intense. Save yourself and your children. You have to choose your life and your children’s lives over his. – Terrance Dean Photo courtesy: Shuttershock Hey Bossip Fam, what do you think? Share your opinions and thoughts below! Also, e-mail all your questions Terrance Dean: loveandrelationships@bossip.com Follow Terrance Dean on Twitter: @ terrancedean and “LIKE” Terrance Dean on Facebook, click HERE! Make sure to order my books Mogul: A Novel (Atria Books – June 2011; $15); Hiding In Hip Hop (Atria Books – June 2008); and Straight From Your Gay Best Friend – The Straight Up Truth About Relationships, Love, And Having A Fabulous Life (Agate/Bolden Books – November 2010; $15). They are available in bookstores everywhere, and on Amazon, click HERE!
Amber Rose and Khloe Kardashian don’t have much in common. Remember their epic feud? In which Khloe called Amber out for having been a stripper and Rose responded by mentioning the Kim Kardashian sex tape ? Still, Rose came out this week and said she wanted to get back together with Wiz Khalifa , despite his alleged infidelity. And now Khloe has said the same about Lamar Odom. Khloe and Lamar in Happier Times 1. Lamar with Kim and Khloe View Photo Lamar Odom poses here with Kim Kardashian and Khloe Kardashian. He has since fallen on hard time. 2. Lamar Odom, Kris Humphries, Kardashians View Photo Lamar Odom and Kris Humphries have something in common: they have each seen a Kardashian sister naked. 3. Khloe and Lamar Sighting View Photo Khloe Kardashian and Lamar Odom have fallen on hard times. Can their marriage be saved? 4. Lamar and Khloe, Looking Sad View Photo Lamar Odom and Khloe Kardashian have seen better days. They walk with their heads down in this photo. Advertisement A message from our sponsor. 5. Lamar Odom and Khloe Kardashian in a Car View Photo Lamar Odom and Khloe Kardashian look fine in this photo. But there’s been talk that their marriage is in ruins. 6. Khloe Kardashian and Lamar Odom in NYC View Photo Khloe Kardashian and Lamar Odom go for a stroll in NYC in this photograph. They actually seem like a happy couple. 7. Khloe Kardashian Odom and Lamar Odom View Photo The sex life between Khloe Kardashian and Lamar Odom is “intense.” Khloe says so herself. 8. Lamar and Khloe Kardashian-Odom View Photo Lamar Odom laughs it up here with wife Khloe Kardashian. They actually do seem in love. Advertisement A message from our sponsor. 9. Khloe Kardashian and Lamar Odom Fragrance View Photo Khloe Kardashian and Lamar Odom have come out with a new fragrance. Will you give it a whiff? 10. Khloe and Lamar Pic View Photo Khloe Kardashian and Lamar Odom have talked openly about someday having a baby. They actually seem like they’d make good parents. 11. Lamar & Khloe View Photo Lamar Odom and Khloe Kardashian pose here at the E! network Upfronts. The married couple has defied all divorce expectations. 12. Khloe & Lamar Picture View Photo Khloe Kardashian strikes a pose here alongside Lamar Odom. It’s a promotional photo for their reality show. Advertisement A message from our sponsor. 13. Khloe & Lamar Photo View Photo Khloe & Lamar look so cute in this promo pic. 14. Khloe & Lamar Logo View Photo Khloe & Lamar. So HOT. 15. Dallas Bound View Photo Lamar Odom and Khloe Kardashian have proven us wrong. This couple has stuck together and seems truly happy. 16. Lamar Odom and Khloe Kardashian Together View Photo Look out, Dallas. Due to a NBA trade, Lamar Odom and Khloe Kardashian are headed your way. Advertisement A message from our sponsor. 17. Khloe and Lamar on the Red Carpet View Photo This is either sweet or sickening, depending on your point of view. Lamar Odom lays a big kiss in wife Khloe Kardashian. 18. Khloe Kardashian and Lamar Odom Photograph View Photo Khloe Kardashian and Lamar Odom will continue to star in their own reality show. It has been renewed for season two and three. 19. Khlomar Pic View Photo Khloe and Lamar Odom have been married for longer than they were engaged. Many people didn’t think it would last that long. 20. Lamar Odom and Khloe Kardashian Wedding Picture View Photo A gorgeous wedding photo of Lamar Odom and Khloe Kardashian. They make the sweetest pair. We really hope this thing lasts. Advertisement A message from our sponsor. 21. Mr. and Mrs. Lamar Odom! View Photo Khloe Kardashian and Lamar Odom kiss for the cameras. The two got married in September 2009. We give it at least until the end of the year! 22. Khloe Kardashian and Lamar Odom View Photo Khloe Kardashian has done it! She’s found someone taller than she is to date: Los Angeles Lakers power forward Lamar Odom. 23. Khloe and Lamar Cover View Photo Is Khloe Kardashian taking Lamar Odom back? This tabloid cover seems to think so. The End. Up Next: ” Khloe and Lamar in Happier Times .” We’ll be redirecting you shortly… “I will never ever not love Lamar,” Khloe confessed to E! News this week. “I was so obsessed with him in a healthy way. He was my husband, and I still wish he was, and I don’t think there’s anything wrong with that.” Lamar ruined his relationship a couple years ago by becoming hooked on drugs and then cheating on his wife. He’s now out of the NBA and has been out of the spotlight for a very long time. “There’s nothing I can do,” Khloe said about the state of her husband/marriage. “Lamar has to do things in order to change in that aspect, but yeah, if I had my way I’d be married to Lamar in two seconds.” But what about French Montana, with whom Kardashian was once again recently spotted ? “I love French. He’s an awesome guy,” she said. “We are on-again, off-again…but I don’t want to be too labeled to anyone right now. I’m still figuring out a lot of emotions with me.” Gotta give Khloe some points for honesty, huh? 23 Celebrities Who Are Known Cheaters 1. Tiger Woods View Photo Really, everyone else on this list is just playing for second place. 2. Jesse James View Photo Jesse James cheated on Sandra Bullock. But she eventually found his replacement: a little guy named Oscar. 3. Dean McDermott View Photo Tori Spelling is the mother of his kids, but Dean McDermott has admitted to having another woman call him “daddy.” 4. Ryan Phillippe View Photo Ryan Phillippe cheated on Reese Witherspoon with Abbie Cornish. Who breaks the heart of America’s Sweetheart?!? Advertisement A message from our sponsor. 5. Ashton Kutcher View Photo We do not approve of Ashton Kutcher cheating on Demi Moore with a random blonde. But it did eventually land him Mila Kunis, so… 6. Kristen Stewart View Photo Much to the continued shock of Robsten fans everywhere, Kristen Stewart blew it with Robert Pattinson in order to swap spit with Rupert Sanders. 7. LeAnn Rimes View Photo LeAnn Rimes and Eddie Cibrian are now a happy couple. But they arrived their via an ugly mess. 8. Eddie Cibrian View Photo Eddie Cibrian cheated on Brandi Glanville with LeAnn Rimes. Brandi will be glad to tell you all about it. Advertisement A message from our sponsor. 9. Kobe Bryant View Photo Kobe Bryant didn’t merely cheat on his wife; he was accused of rape the women he slept with in Colorado. 10. Katharine McPhee View Photo Katharine McPhee was caught kissing Smash director Michael Morris while she was married. Dishonest AND stupid. 11. Jude Law Jude Law cheated on Sienna Miller with their nanny. That’s almost impressive! 12. Mario Lopez View Photo Mario Lopez didn’t just cheat on Ali Landry. He slept with someone else days before their wedding. Advertisement A message from our sponsor. 13. Lamar Odom View Photo Lamar Odom didn’t just go on a drug binge. He went on a binge with his penis during an ugly run in 2013, while still married to Khloe Kardashian. 14. Rita Ora View Photo We can’t confirm this one. But Rob Kardashian says she slept with “like 20 dudes” while dating him. 15. Nick Carter View Photo Nick Carter has admitted it: he cheated on Paris Hilton with Ashlee Simpson… a long time ago. 16. Brad Pitt View Photo It’s old news, but we know it’s true: Brad Pitt did cheat on Jennifer Aniston with Angelina Jolie. Advertisement A message from our sponsor. 17. David Boreanaz David Boreanaz slept with Rachel Uchitel while married. Yes, he has something in common with Tiger Woods. 18. Hank Baskett View Photo Hank Baskett is accused of stepping out on Kendra Wilkinson. With a transgender model. While his wife was pregnant. 19. John Edwards View Photo Once considered a top-tier candidate for U.S. President, former Senator John Edwards saw his career unravel after an affair, and love child, with Rielle Hunter. 20. Bill Clinton View Photo Bill Clinton was impeached after an affair with Monica Lewinsky, one of his many rumored extramarital liaisons. Advertisement A message from our sponsor. 21. Warren G. Harding View Photo Warren G. Harding, the 29th president of the United States, was quite the philanderer. 22. Future View Photo Mere months after Ciara gave birth to his son, Future cheated on the singer and she ended their engagement. 23. Steve Kroft View Photo Steve Kroft of 60 Minutes was reportedly busted cheating on his wife Jennet Conant. He admitted the infidelity. The End. Up Next: ” 23 Celebrities Who Are Known Cheaters .” We’ll be redirecting you shortly…
Dear Bossip , I’ve been in a relationship with a guy for 2, going on 3 years now. I just turned 22 and he is 30 years old. But, you literally could not tell by looking at him, seeing that he looks very young, about 20 and he acts very youthful. About 5 months into us dating he was looking for a new place to live because his aunt who he lived with was relocating and was selling the house. He didn’t know much about finding a place in America, seeing that he was in the states for 3 years. So, I tried helping him find a place, but to no avail. I felt bad for him and told him he can stay at my place since his aunt was selling the house within a few days, but he would have to continue looking for a place to live. He lost his job working as a sales person and couldn’t find another one, which was a little strange to me, and he began to stress out. Around this time he came clean to me and told me he was married and going through a divorce, and also told me he wasn’t legal in America and that his wife volunteered to “help him,” but he left her because she cheated on him. So, he decided to go through the process alone. Right then and there I already knew what time it was. Now, before you start saying, “She’s so young and naive.” No, I am far from it. I decided that since his wife didn’t help him, then I will, only because he’s a very, very ambitious person with sky high goals, a go-getter, caring, intelligent and motivating person, even to this day and someone like that needs a chance. After telling him that I would help him, things got back to normal. He received a job and decided he would stay with me and help pay the bills and rent. My mother literally fell in love with him, my brothers go crazy over him, and he makes everyone laugh, and feel comfortable. He motivates everyone he comes in contact with. He’s still the gentle man he was from day one. Holding doors open for myself, as well as others, male or female, pulling seats out and he just oozes mannerism. I have nothing negative to say about him except…he’s very sneaky. About 6 months into our relationship with him living with me, I noticed he would always walk around the house with his cell phone and would never leave it in just hanging around like any normal person would in their home. He would tuck it under the couch, take it in the bathroom with him. That’s when I knew something was up. So, one morning I decided to check his phone and low and behold there’s a pic of another woman’s private area in his message. When I confronted him about it he didn’t apologize all he did was laugh…a very nervous and, “Oh, -ish I got caught” laugh. I told him he is very ungrateful and disrespectful especially if he knows that I’m helping him with his “legal” issues. Months go by and I go out for my birthday to California, and he lost his phone. The neighbor found it (my pic was on his screensaver) and something told me to check his Facebook because he always told me he didn’t have one, but I knew he did. I checked the messages and almost every female he messaged he asked them when they would have sex and even asked a female to go out for drinks on my birthday! He apologized (because he got caught) and volunteered to delete his FB. Now, that was in the pass and I got over it, but it still kills me inside. Fast forward to 2015 and things changed drastically since the beginning of our relationship, and I could tell he started to have a lot more respect towards me and we began to have much more fun. A few weeks ago he received a call from a female and she asked him if he was watching “Empire” because she could hear it in the back ground. He says no and she asked who is. He says, “uhhh…” that’s it. He doesn’t tell her his woman is watching it like how he would tell his male friends. He knows the password to my phone and I don’t care because I barely call or text anyone, and I’m not doing anything I’m not supposed to be doing. Now, all of a sudden he has a new phone and even if I look at the phone it’s like he’s going to die. Last night we were watching TV and I asked him if I could use his phone to edit my pic since I deleted that app from my phone. He said sure, but instead texted someone 2 times then deleted the text and told me he will edit the pic for me. I replied by telling him that I know how to do it and he still refused. So, I explained to him what I seen him do and he literally sat in my face and told me I’m crazy because he isn’t texting anyone. I do have strong feelings for him and he’s really an amazing guy. He helped me receive a job I’ve been dying for. He’s always there for me and vice versa. We literally stay up all night talking about how we want to open up multiple businesses and want other couples to look up to us. But, I just cannot deal with the sneaky side to him. Please help me figure out what to do. I know what to do, but I’m still holding on. – Don’t Trust Him Dear Ms. Don’t Trust Him , Did you say he doesn’t look 30, and he looks like he’s in his twenties, and he acts very youthful? Welp, why are you complaining about him when he’s acting like the age he thinks he is? He’s young, silly, and immature, but you’re investing him because???? By the way, you are young and you are naïve. He is taking advantage of you, the situation, and the opportunity. You claim to be so mature, yet, this fool that you had only been dating for 5 months misled and lied to you about his life and situation. You didn’t know he was married, which meant you were dating a married man, and still are. He told you he was illegal in America, but you chose to harbor an illegal person in your home because, please, again tell me how smart and mature you are? SMDH! You do realize if he –ish goes down, you’re going down too because you know he is here illegally. But, then, you sit your so smart and intelligent ass up here and offer to marry him to keep him in the country talking about someone like him deserves a second chance. Please tell me how smart is that? Please tell me why you, someone who is not naïve, would offer to marry someone you barely know, and he’s been lying to you from the beginning, and he is still lying to you. (Sips tea) You have this fool living in your house, but, he’s emailing, texting, calling, and attempting to hook up with other women even after you’ve offered to help him and his situation. Yeah, okay. You’re smart and you’re not naïve. I have a question – Who is going to pay for his divorce from his wife? And, when is this supposed to happen? Oh, yeah, and when are you and he getting married? (Sips tea) What’s sad is that you allowed this man into your home and then you let him meet your family. But, he is playing all of you. He is manipulating and being deceptive to your mother and brothers, telling you all what you want to hear. He’s showing you what you want to see. If he’s deceptive and sneaky with you, then why would you think he wouldn’t be the same with them? Then, you say he motivates everyone and he makes people laugh and feel comfortable. Well, they have a name for someone like that – con artist. You notice the pattern that every time you catch him in a lie, or catch him texting, and talking with other women he laughs if off, and doesn’t admit it. However, he falls into the pattern of being on his best behavior for a few days or weeks, and you think everything is fine and things are going great, until you learn he’s doing it all over again. HE HAS A PATTERN! Wake your young dumbass up and stop being naïve. He’s playing you. And, I bet he’s already met up and slept with another woman. You’re not as smart as you think you are. He is one step ahead of you. What’s sad is that you keep believing his ole okey-doke bull-ish about getting married, being this perfect couple, opening up businesses, and having this wonderful life together. Sweetie, he is using you until he can become legal in this country. Trust and believe that he didn’t leave his other wife because she was cheating. She left him for the very same reason you should leave him. He’s the cheater. He’s the liar. She recognized his game and she woke her ass up and realized that he was using her to get into this country, and she learned he was hitting up other women. And, now he’s found another pawn, that will be you, and he’s playing you like the young naïve dumbass you are. Notice that the beginning of your letter when he came to you with the sob story that his aunt was moving and he had no place to go. Yeah, I don’t believe that. Then, he had days to find a place to live, but he couldn’t find an apartment, or room to live? I’m sorry, but I’m sure he knew his aunt was moving way before he told you. She didn’t just decide to up and leave and sell her house. That takes time. He is the one who waited until the last few days to tell you because he had a plan. And, now he’s living with you. Then, he lost his job. Oh, how convenient. But, let’s say that all of this really happened. You offered to let him stay with you, but the deal was that he was supposed to continue looking for an apartment. Well, what happened to that? Why didn’t he continue looking for a place? You see, Ms. Honey, you’re not as smart as you think you are. You think you have the man of your dreams. You have a con artist living with you. Get him out of your life. Move on from him and do not marry this man. He is not to be trusted. If you can’t trust him now, then after you marry him please know that things will not change. He will continue doing what he is doing, and it will get worse. You will find out he’s sleeping with various women, and he will be staying out late, taking them to dinner, and will have a full on relationship with them. The man received a call from another woman while he was sitting with you watching television, and he didn’t even state you were his woman. HELLO!?!?! And, he has a new phone and he’s doing the very same thing he did when he had his last phone. He won’t let you see it. He has it with him at all times. He’s gotten smarter about deleting his messages. And, girl, please know he didn’t delete his Facebook. He has another one, but it’s under a different name. Don’t play yourself. And, stop letting him play you. If you’re so smart and not naïve, then do what you got to do and put him out of your house. You don’t owe him anything. You are harboring an illegal in your home, and you’re dating a married man. End this relationship and find someone your own age, and who doesn’t have all this drama going on in their life. – Terrance Dean Photo courtesy: Shuttershock Hey Bossip Fam, what do you think? Share your opinions and thoughts below! Also, e-mail all your questions Terrance Dean: loveandrelationships@bossip.com Follow Terrance Dean on Twitter: @ terrancedean and “LIKE” Terrance Dean on Facebook, click HERE! Make sure to order my books Mogul: A Novel (Atria Books – June 2011; $15); Hiding In Hip Hop (Atria Books – June 2008); and Straight From Your Gay Best Friend – The Straight Up Truth About Relationships, Love, And Having A Fabulous Life (Agate/Bolden Books – November 2010; $15). They are available in bookstores everywhere, and on Amazon, click HERE!
The cast of Pretty Woman reunited this week on the Today show this week, a quarter century after the now-iconic film was first released in theaters. Richard Gere, Julia Roberts, Hector Elizondo, Laura San Giacomo, and director Garry Marshall all appeared to mark the occasion and all looked terrific: With the appearance came little known facts about Pretty Woman, which apparently wasn’t going to be called Pretty Woman when it was first conceived. When Marshall joined the cast, the film was called 3,000 , and was a rather dark tale. Roberts, now 47, explained of the original script for the 1990 classic: “At the end of the original script, Richard’s character threw my character out of the car, threw the money on top of her, and drove away, and the credits rolled.” Yikes. No wonder Marshall decided to turn it into a love story. Gere said back then he needed convincing to take on the role he referred to as “the suit,” saying, “you could put a suit on a goa … so I didn’t get it.” It took one “pretty woman” to persuade him to accept, though. Marshall took Roberts to visit Gere and left the room so they could have a conversation. “She’s across the desk and she takes a piece of paper, a Post-it , and she turns it around and she pushes it to me and she says ‘Please say yes,’” Gere said. “It was so sweet, and I said, ‘I just said yes.’” As for their chemistry, which made the film such a classic, Gere said it was instant, noting, “We loved each other immediately, it was a really great thing.” 17 TV & Movie Casts Who Have Come Back Together 1. Seventh Heaven Mackenzie Rosman wasn’t available for this Seventh Heaven reunion because she was too busy posing in lingerie and trying to shed her child star image. 2. Laguna Beach The boys of Laguna Beach got together recently at a wedding and recreated an image from their glory days of MTV Reality programming. 3. Married…With Children When Married…With Children matriarch Peg Bundy, aka Katey Sagal, was awarded a star on the Hollywood Walk of Fame, her TV family showed up to support her. No, the OTHER TV family. The ones without motorcycles. 4. Facts of Life My how the ladies of Facts of Life have changed! And where’s Tootie? Advertisement A message from our sponsor. 5. Sisterhood of the Traveling Pants The stars of the Sisterhood of the Traveling Pants are all grown up! But they’ll be best friends forever, you guys! 6. Napoleon Dynamite The stars of Napoleon Dynamite reunited to commemorate a bronzed statue of John Heder. Yes, the statue wants you to vote for Pedro. 7. Field of Dreams If you build it…they will reunite to promote it. Probably. (Because what else does Kevin Costner have going on these days besides really, really terrible movies?) 8. Little Rascals The Little Rascals got together to recreate the film’s original movie cover. We’re not exactly sure whether or not that’s the same dog. Advertisement A message from our sponsor. 9. Friends We’re pretty much always hoping for the day the Friends grace Central Perk together again, but for now, we’ll settle for the women showing up on Jimmy Kimmel. 10. Buffy The only thing that would make this even remotely better is if they’d been attending a showing of Buffy the Musical together. ONCE MORE! WITH FEELING! 11. Buffy. Again. Xander and Anya forever, amiright? (I’m totally right.) 12. One Tree Hill View Photo Sophia Bush, Bethany Joy Lenz and Hilarie Burton are back together! The three One Tree Hill alums pose here for a reunion photo. Advertisement A message from our sponsor. 13. Scrubs View Photo It’s a Scrubs reunion for Donald Faison, John C. McGinley and Zach Braff. Good times were had, no doubt. 14. Saved By the Bell View Video This is amazing. Watch Jimmy Fallon reunite the cast of Saved by the Bell by going back to Bayside High School. 15. Cast Away View Photo It’s Tom Hanks… and Wilson!!!! This is the Castaway reunion we’ve been waiting years and years to see. 16. Gossip Girl View Photo It’s a Gossip Girl reunion!!! Chace Crawford, Jessica Szohr, Kelly Rutherford and Michelle Trachtenberg all hung out at a post-Academy Awards party in 2015. Advertisement A message from our sponsor. 17. Pretty Woman View Photo The Pretty Woman cast has gotten back together! This photo was taken on the Today show, 25 years after the film came out. The End. Up Next: ” 17 TV & Movie Casts Who Have Come Back Together .” We’ll be redirecting you shortly…
We now know when Barry Allen will run really fast for the last time in awhile. We also know when Elijah Mikaelson will don his final suit and Damon Salvatore will smirk his final smirk for the summer. Because The CW has unveiled the season finale air dates for all its hit dramas. 17 Sexy Small Screen Superheroes 1. Stephen Amell (Arrow) How good looking is Stephen Amell? Even with his shirt on in this photo, the actor just caused half the women reading this post to dump their boyfriends. 2. Grant Gustin (The Flash) Women rarely like their men fast. But Grant Gustin causes them to make an exception as The Flash. 3. Dean Cain (Superman) It’s a bird! It’s a plane! It’s the best looking Man of Steel we’ve ever seen. 4. Lynda Carter (Wonder Woman) Perhaps we should stop searching for a new Wonder Woman and just hand Lynda Carter the job back. Advertisement A message from our sponsor. 5. Tom Welling (Smallville) Yes, Dean Cain still wins as Superman. But give us Tom Welling as Clark Kent please! 6. Sarah Michelle Gellar (Buffy the Vampire Slayer) We don’t care how many new roles Sarah Michelle Gellar takes on, she will always be Buffy. 7. David Boreanz (Buffy the Vampire Slayer) Seeley Booth who?!? Give us David Boreanz as Angel any day of the week! 8. Christian Kane (The Librarians) Didn’t see this one coming, did you? You should really check out the new TNT drama. Advertisement A message from our sponsor. 9. Hayley Atwell (Marvel’s Agent Carter) We’d never want to mess with Hayley Atwell in the field. But in the bedroom? Oh yes! 10. Ming-Na Wen (Marvel’s Agents of SHIELD) The show she is on may be boring, but Ming-Na Wen brings Melinda May to hot life! 11. Milo Ventimiglia (Heroes) After the first season of Heroes, we only watched this terrible show for Milo Ventimiglia. 12. Hayden Panettiere (Heroes) Okay, maybe the guys stuck around for Hayden Panettiere. Advertisement A message from our sponsor. 13. Summer Glau (The Cape) Pretty much no one watched The Cape on NBC. But they should have because it starred Summer Glau. 14. Joshua Jackson (Fringe) Did Joshua Jackson really play a superhero on Fringe? Hey, he did heroic stuff and he’s super good looking. 15. Jensen Ackles (Supernatural) As Dean Winchester, Jensen Ackles is one half of the best looking superhero sibling team on TV… 16. Jared Padalecki (Supernatural) … and now you can meet the other half. Advertisement A message from our sponsor. 17. Ian Somerhalder (The Vampire Diaries) View Photo You thought we forgot him, didn’t you? Damon Salvatore has SUPERatural ability and, whether he wants to admit it or not, the guy acts like a HERO on a weekly basis. The End. Up Next: ” 17 Sexy Small Screen Superheroes .” We’ll be redirecting you shortly… With the Hart of Dixie‘s Season 4 finale already confirmed air Friday, March 27, and Beauty and the Beast Season 3 premiere set for Thursday, May 21, here’s a look at when the network’s other shows will kick off their summer hiatus: Jane the Virgin Season 1: Monday, May 11 The Original Season 2: Monday, May 11 Arrow Season 3 : Wednesday, May 13 Reign Season 2: Thursday, May 14 The Vampire Diaries Season 6 : Thursday, May 14 The Flash Season 1: Tuesday, May 19 Supernatural Season 10: Wednesday, May 20 There is good news, of course. Even when these dramas are in rerun, you can visit TV Fanatic and watch The Flash online or watch any of them online in just a couple easy steps. Or you can go outside this summer and enjoy the sunshine. Either or, really.
Taylor Swift is on her way to a FOURpeat. The singer has been named Most Charitable Celebrity alive three years running… and her latest endeavor makes it pretty clear she’ll nab this honor in 2015 as well. The Department of Education revealed yesterday that Swift has already donated $50,000 to the New York City public school system via proceeds earned from the single “Welcome to New York.” “We’re deeply appreciative of this kind gesture to donate her proceeds of the single ‘Welcome to New York’ to benefit NYC public schools,” Devora Kaye, the press secretary for the Department of Education, tells E! News. Swift pledged to give away all money earned from this track during an October appearance on The View. “It’s selling really, really well,” the crooner said of her Big Apple-themed anthem. “Which is good because I’m donating all my proceeds to New York City public schools.” And she’ll continue to do so until the end of time, insiders confirm. Since moving to New York about a year ago, the singer has made no secret of her love for the iconic city. “It’s amazing. It’s the greatest place ever,” the transplant previously gushed on The Late Show, telling viewers they should “drop everything” and go there as soon as possible. Taylor Swift, of course, has grown well known for magnanimous actions such as paying off the school loans of a fan and bringing another supporter backstage with her at the Grammys . She’s the best. 13 Fun Facts About Taylor Swift! 1. Her First Job Was Knocking Bugs Out of Christmas Trees We’re guessing she prefers singing. 2. She Made an Awesome Drake Needlepoint for Ed Sheeran Taylor immortalized Drake’s lyrics as a gift for Ed Sheeran. As funny as it is thoughtful 3. Her Favorite Song to Sing is “White Horse” View Video Taylor said that she still gets “chills” when performing the deeply personal ballad. 4. Her Worst Nightmare? Losing Her Fans! View Photo Taylor has said she has a recurring dream in which no one goes to her concerts! Advertisement A message from our sponsor. 5. She’s a Poet and Author! View Photo Taylor won a national poetry award in 4th grade. She a wrote a 350-pade novel shortly thereafter and has hinted that she may publish it eventually. 6. She Wrote Her Own SNL Monologue! Taylor’s hilarious “Monolgue Song” included a shout-out to “douchebags who cheat on me.” 7. Her Grandmother Was a Famous Opera Singer! Guess awesome pipes run in the family! 8. She Sang the National Anthem at an NBA Game … When She Was 11! View Photo Taylor’s voice stood out from a very young age. She got an early start singing for a huge crowd at a Philadelphia 76ers game. Advertisement A message from our sponsor. 9. She’s Been Asked to Pose for Playboy View Photo Sadly, she turned them down…Swiftly! 10. She Hates Tattoos! View Photo Taylor has been known to scrawl song lyrics on her body, but she’s vowed she’ll never get any real ink. 11. She Grew Up Wealthy View Photo Taylor’s dad is a big-wig financial adviser for Merill Lynch. These days, of course, she does alright on her own. 12. She Vowed Never to Reveal Her Belly Button … View Photo But she did, on Instagram, after seeing paparazzi stalking her a half mile off shore! Gotta beat them at their own game! Advertisement A message from our sponsor. 13. She Can’t Dance! View Photo Okay, that fact you knew. And so does she, and she doesn’t care in the least, which makes it even better. The End. Up Next: ” 13 Fun Facts About Taylor Swift! .” We’ll be redirecting you shortly…
It may be cold in the Great White North, but it certainly won’t be Breezy! Chris Brown has been denied entry to Canada and forced to cancel scheduled shows in Montreal and Canada. Brown broke the news yesterday in a tweet addressed to his Canuck fans: “Good people of the Canadian government won’t allow me entry,” Brown tweeted. “I’ll be back this summer to see all my Canadian fans!” So why might the people of Canada want someone like Chris to remain south of their border? Oh, so very many reasons: For one thing, it’s a miracle that the singer is able to tour at all. Brown’s probation was revoked in January after a series of violent incidents at his concerts. But Chris Brown isn’t banned from Canada due to the tiny little problem of people getting shot at Chris Brown concerts . No, our neighbors to the North want to keep their distance from Breezy simply because he has a rap sheet a mile long, and the Canadian government reserves the right to deny anyone admittance on the basis of their criminal record. Remember when Chris went to jail last year for violating his probation? We know – he has so many scrapes with the law that you can’t keep them all straight. But Canada never forgets. It’s like an elephant. A big, snowy elephant that wants nothing to do with Chris Brown. 25 Pics of Chris Brown Thuggin’ It! 1. Chris Brown Virginity View Photo Chris Brown says he lost his virginity at age eight. And is a beast at sex as a result. 2. Chris Brown Smoking Weed View Photo Chris Brown smoking weed – 3 joints at the same time no less. What a class act as always. 3. Chris Brown Mugshot View Photo Chris Brown’s mug shot following his D.C. assault arrest in 2013. 4. Chris Brown in Court (May 2014) View Video Nothing says thug quite like the ol’ orange jumpsuit. Advertisement A message from our sponsor. 5. Chris Brown Thrusting View Photo Chris Brown does his seductive thing on stage. In GIF form. 6. Chris Brown Smoking Photo View Photo Chris Brown has himself a cigarette. Smoking is a thing that he does from time to time. 7. Chris Brown Teeth View Photo Chris Brown’s teeth have seen better days. Lookin a little busted, dat grill. 8. Chris Brown Arm Tattoos View Photo Check out Chris Brown’s arm tattoos. Those are some serious tats. Advertisement A message from our sponsor. 9. Chris Brown RAGE! View Photo Chris Brown has that rage in his eyes again. Okay, it’s just during his performance at the Billboard Music Awards, but still. 10. Chris Brown Lookin’ Ridic View Photo Chris Brown looking ridiculous, even by his lofty standards. 11. Christopher Brown Picture View Photo Chris Brown. Always one to count on for news. 12. Chris Brown is a Douche View Photo At least in this photo. We get it man! You’re cool! Advertisement A message from our sponsor. 13. Chris Brown, Rihanna: Thug Life View Photo Chris Brown and Rihanna are here to wish you a Merry Christmas …. Thug Life style. 14. Chris Brown: Terrorist View Photo Chris Brown is a terrorist … for Halloween, at least. Check out dude’s costume. 15. Chris Brown Grinding View Photo Chris Brown grinds up on some sexy lady not named Rihanna or Karrueche. 16. Chris Brown Shirtless Picture View Photo Chris Brown shirtless. And looking like kind of a douche. A ripped douche, but still douchey. Advertisement A message from our sponsor. 17. Champagne Shower View Photo Chris Brown is about to produce a champagne shower like no other. Karrueche Tran, get ready. 18. Chris Brown, Champagne View Photo Chris Brown is a class act, as demonstrated by this photo of him at the club. Champagne showers, anyone? From Chris Brown’s mouth? 19. Chris Brown Shirtless Pic View Photo Chris Brown partying without a shirt at W.I.P. nightclub in New York. Not long after this pic was taken, crazy stuff went down. 20. Chris Brown Twitpic View Photo Chris Brown was hurt in a fight with Drake’s entourage. Yes, he actually got into a fight with guys for once. Advertisement A message from our sponsor. 21. Contemplative Chris View Photo Chris Brown contemplates life as he sees it. This is just before he reportedly flew into a blinding rage behind the scenes of Good Morning America. 22. Chris Brown Grabs Crotch View Photo Chris Brown grabs some crotch in concert. Lovely. 23. Chris Brown Topless View Photo Chris Brown likes to blow his top. Or perform without one in this case. 24. Beat Women, Not Animals View Photo Words to live by from a Chris Brown meme right here ladies and gentlemen. Advertisement A message from our sponsor. 25. Chris Brown Jumpsuit View Photo Chris Brown rocks an orange jumpsuit quite often these days. It’s like his fashion go-to. 26. Rihanna Beaten Face Poster View Photo This is one way to advertise a Chris Brown concert. Point, Stockholm, Sweden. The End. Up Next: ” 25 Pics of Chris Brown Thuggin’ It! .” We’ll be redirecting you shortly…
