“My heart is pure” Keke Palmer Shuts Down A Fan KeKe Palmer recently got into a social media squabble with a fan who rudely told the actress that she “was turning into a thot.” The “Cinderella” star who’s rumored to be dating August Alsina , posted the below photo on Instagram yesterday of her chic haircut and plethora of piercings… and while some fans were complimentary in the comments section others were rude and told KeKe they “missed the old her.” Obviously offended, KeKe clapped back… and the fan did as well. SMH…these “fans” can be so nasty & so rude sometimes. See what else KeKe had to say about her “fans” calling her a thot after the flip.
Dear Bossip , So, I met this guy when I was on a short weekend gateway. We both happened to stay in the same hostel and clicked really quickly. He’s from Africa and was travelling around Asia countries, expecting to return home some time four months later. For sake of completion I will just mention that I’m Asian myself and live in Asia too. To cut long stories short, neither of us is denying that we have feelings for each other. We can spend hours talking in the hostel common area til the receptionist thinks we have dated for some time; that’s how good the chemistry was. But, of course, at that time, he was on his tour with two other guy friends, but even before he returns home, he has made some effort to visit me where I live, three times within four months. During that period, we were consistently in touch with each other. We exchanged so much about each other – jobs, careers, past relationships, travel experiences, life goals, etc. I find him very inspiring to me and it’s because I learned so much from the way he lives life that I have decided to quit my job as a lawyer in order to be a happy person. I do think he has made me the best version of myself, if not then at least the happiest version. Whenever we have the chance to be together, it all feels like I found where I belong – it’s homely, it’s comfortable, and I know it’s not just the sex (although yes, that too). Sadly, reality will always be harsh. He’s home been bound some two and half months ago. We’re still keeping in touch – sometimes we talk like friends, sometimes we flirt and sext each other and sometimes we get depressed because we could not share a future together (well, at least not given the current situation). Everything falls apart when I start inquiring as to whether we should make this a relationship, or should we just break the deal. This happened a month ago. We tried no contact, which really broke me within three days; we tried chatting plainly as friends, which eventually he came to admit it’s hard for him (for me too); we tried keeping minimal contact, which made me felt like he’s just purposely ignoring me. But, in the back of our minds, we know that we could not meet in the next two years as he’s going to start his training contract in order to qualify as a lawyer at home, and I know it is hard because I’ve been through the same procedure at home. Due to this, it all became a mess, because he’s made up his mind that he does not want to be in a relationship with someone that he could not see for two years. And, it’s made worse by the fact that he does not know if he wants to continue practicing as a lawyer at home (in order to live up to people’s expectations), or return to Asia for teaching (it’s his passion). I know it’s not fair and I know most guys won’t do a long distance relationship, which is a stretch of two years. As it stands now, we’ve reached the point that we don’t contact each other anymore as it causes too much emotional stir up on both of us. But, I think he deserves a place in my life. I really would like to try again after two years or whenever we have the chance to meet again. It’s just now, I’m not sure why he’s not saying anything about it. I can understand why he doesn’t want a long distance relationship, but at the same time I would very much rather be fighting together for this than to not know what he’s thinking. Do you think it’s worth it for me to keep a special place for him in my heart? I know for a fact that he will shut himself down from any relationship for about a year or so (I know this when we talked about our exes). Every time he takes it for real, so I do have some kind of advantage to roll it back in my hands. Am I just being silly, or truly fighting for something that’s worth it? – From Asia With Love Dear Ms. From Asia With Love , What are you fighting for? You and he were never in a relationship. You and he were not boyfriend and girlfriend, or long term partners. It was a hot fling that lasted a very short period of time. So, please explain to me what you are truly fighting for? (Sips tea) Let’s be clear, you’re in Asia. He is in Africa. That is not even remotely close in proximity. What type of long distance relationship do you really think will happen or occur? Chile, these women get some African d**k and go crazy! I’m sure your short weekend tourist fling with your African lover was amazing, wonderful, and he opened your eyes to some things by sharing his life with you. But, the reality is that he lives in Africa. You are in Asia. He is about to begin a two year program to become a lawyer. He will not have the time, finances, nor the energy to dedicate to you in a long distance relationship. Why fool yourself? Why even think you and he can have any type of intimate relationship for the next two years? It’s not a reality. And, you shouldn’t put your life on hold waiting on him to complete his program. What if he decides to stay in Africa, then what? He can meet another woman during that time, and you can meet another man. Why shut yourself off from the possibility of meeting someone new? Sweetie, it was a weekend filled and packed with a world wind of romance, passionate sex, and blissful lust speaking. He hooked you on that African penis and now you’re talking about you want to spend the rest of your life with him. Honey, you don’t know that much about him. You only know what he told you, and what he shared with you. I’m sure there is much more to his life than what he revealed in a weekend. And, let’s be clear, he’s only visited you three times in four months, and that is while he was in Asia. So, if he came to see you only three times in four months, then what do you think he was doing the other times he was not with you? (Sips tea) If he was really wrapped up in you and really wanted to make it work and he was madly in love with you as you are with him, then don’t you think he would have spent more time with you in those four months? Girl, he only saw you once a month, and one month he didn’t see you at all! D**k is a dangerous drug. And, he got you with that ole’ African d**k. I’m sure he inspired you, and gave you some great wisdom about life, but to up and quit your career as a lawyer is a bit rash. Don’t you find it ironic that, although he was in Asia to teach, but he is back in Africa to become a lawyer. If he was so unhappy and didn’t want to pursue a career as a lawyer, then why go through with the program? Why not stay and teach in Asia, or why not teach in Africa? So, don’t be fooled or too quick to stop your career and pursue your passions, well, not until you have well thought out and devised plan. Why quit your career and you have not fully thought it through, nor have you saved enough money to last you a few months while you pursue your passion? Long story, short: Don’t put your life on hold, or disrupt your life for a man. If he is not willing to disrupt his life or put his life on hold for you, then don’t you bend over backwards, or stop what you’re doing to follow him. Don’t wait on a man if he is not willing to wait on you. And, he’s told you that he is not willing to commit to a long distance relationship, and he is not willing to hold out for two years for you. He’s not making any promises or guarantees that you and he will be together. He is going on with his life, and so should you. And, notice that it’s you who is pursuing him. I bet you are the one doing all the calling, texting, and everything else. He is not chasing after you. Never, ever chase after a man. It was a great time, with great sex, and great conversation. Keep that memory, but soon it will fade. Soon he will be a faded memory of a hot and steamy romance which you had for a short while. Get back into the dating pool and I’m sure you’ll meet another wonderful, smart, inspiring, loving, and caring man who will sweep you off your feet. Just make sure he is local and not from another country or continent. – Terrance Dean Photo source: Shuttershock Hey Bossip Fam, what do you think? Share your opinions and thoughts below! 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Nick Young Caught Cheating On Iggy Azalea Just a few days after tongue-ing eachother down at the UCLA game, Iggy and Swaggy are on the rocks. Nick was allegedly spotted out in public leaving the bar with two randoms after a Lakers’ win last week — even letting one of the women push the classic Impala Iggy bought him for Christmas to their end destination. Via HollywoodLif e: Trouble in paradise? Nick Young was photographed getting cozy with two mystery girls after a victory on the court — is he cheating on Iggy Azalea? On Jan. 9, Nick was spotted after winning a b-ball game with the LA Lakers. After partying at Hooray Henry, Nick left with two women. He got into the car, that Iggy bought him for Christmas, and one of the girls actually got into the driver’s seat while he went in the back with the other girl! They arrived at a private residence and exited the car. Nick kept his hand on the small of one girl’s back the whole time while they walked inside. While we don’t know what went on inside, it’s not a stretch to say Nick was not being faithful to his girl Iggy — tsk tsk! Of course, Nick swears the story isn’t true and people just want to break him and his precious snowflake apart. But apparently that didn’t stop Iggy from kicking him to the couch while she figures out what’s going on for herself, as he told Twitter early Friday morning: Hmmmm…what do you think BOSSIP fam? Did Nick really let two skeezys break up his happy home?
Dear Bossip , I need help co-parenting with my daughter’s father. My daughter’s father and I were in relationship for fifteen years. He was the love of my life. We haven’t been together for five years and we still can’t co- parents. My daughter’s father has cheated on me three times with three different chicks and I tried to forgive him. It’s hard to forgive someone who you loved such much and for him to disrespect me so many times. He made a video tape having sex with this one chick. I tried to forgive him, but I decided to walk away from our relationship. Before I called it quits I can remember early in the relationship several people would ask him when we were getting married. On several occasions he responded he would never get married to me. Why would I stay in a relationship with a dude more than fifteen years who cheated on me one time too many and he doesn’t plan on marrying me? He brought me a promise ring like it’s supposes to keep me waiting. I have my own apartment, career, car and money and purchase everything in my apartment by myself. My daughter’s father always complains about paying bills. He wanted me to take him out to a restaurant and movies and wanted me to pay for it. I come from the old school where dudes are supposed to take a chick out and wine and dine her. My daughter’s father never came home after work. Sometimes he would come home at 7pm or whenever he feel like it, which could be at 11:30pm sometimes. He felt like just because he paid the rent and he was a man he had the upper hand. He felt like he didn’t need to help our daughter with her homework or see her before she went to bed. Every time I went food shopping he would get upset because he had to help me bring them the groceries in the house. What the heck I look like sitting around waiting for him to change his mind or decide if he wanted to be in our life. My daughter’s father was livid at me before I called it quits. I started hanging out, going to clubs, and drinking and having fun. After I was tired of partying I started working 10 hour shifts six days a week because I didn’t want to spend any time around him. Saturday after work I would travel to another state and stay the night over family member’s homes with my son until Sunday night because he refused to leave. Why should I stay in the house or relationship with a dude who doesn’t plan on marrying me? Fast forward to now, my daughter’s father and I can’t talk on the telephone without a screaming match. I tired communicating directly with his girlfriend, whom he has been in relationship with for five years. She is sick and tired of being in the middle of our mess and she changed her telephone number. My daughter has her own cell phone to talk to her father directly, but we have to communicate. I can’t have a conversation with him unless he reflects on the past. He gets too emotional on the telephone and he is always making up an excuse to hang up the phone. One time, my daughter’s father said to me, “Eventually I would have married you. You were impatient.” We never resolve the issue at hand when we talk on the telephone. I pray to God to heal our relationship so that we can co-parent and to learn how to communicate again. The judge is tired of us coming back and forth to court. The judge said we need to learn how to co-parent and communicate with each other. The judge asked us what happen in our relationship and why can’t we come to an agreement. But, neither of us wants to reveal what happen. I come from a two-parent home in the suburbs and he comes from a single-parent home in the inner city. I don’t like the fact that when I talk to my family members about my daughter’s father they always respond he doesn’t know how to be a man because he didn’t have father around when he was a child. I’m tired of people giving me the same old sorry accuse. Problems between my daughter’s father are real deep. I can’t write the things down to share with anyone because I am too embarrassed. I get too upset with myself for putting up with BS for so long. In the last five years I feel like I’ve been on a rollercoaster ride with my daughter’s father, and it’s not over. We can’t come to an agreement on anything. It’s been five years and he’s moved on, yet, he still has resentment towards me. I was in a relationship with a guy for 2 ½ years, but we are not together. My ex was sick and tired of me and my daughter’s father arguing all the time. Every time me and my daughter’s father see each other we always smile and laugh. My ex was upset. I believe we smile at each other because we remember all the good times we had together. But, on the phone we fight like cats and dogs. I apologized to him and asked him to forgive me if I’ve done anything wrong to him and he apologized to me as well. But, we always end up back at the same place. When I meet a dude who has kids with their exes and they say that their child’s mother and them is best friends I get jealous. My daughter’s father and I would never be friends or cordial. I don’t want to bring my new dude onto a rollercoaster ride to see him jump off. I need help communicating with daughter’s father. He doesn’t take me serious and always take my kindness for my weakness. My daughter turns thirteen next year and she graduates from the eighth grade. We can’t sit next to each other and have decent conversation. Everybody is looking forward to daughter eight grade graduation, but me I terrified daughter father going to cause a scene. – My Nightmare Daughter’s Father Dear Ms. My Nightmare Daughter’s Father, I don’t understand how and why some of you women fall into these situations with these men that you have chosen, and you cohabitate with them, and then create children, yet, only to break-up and you are unable to be cordial with one another and communicate effectively to at least co-parent for the sake of the child. I don’t get it. Then, you were in a relationship for 15 years, he’s cheated on you with three different women that you know of, but, you are the one who stayed after he cheated the first time. You had an out, but you stayed. Why? What’s sad is that you took him back three different times before you decided you were fed up. You left him because he said he would never marry you, but it took 15 years before you walked away. I’m sorry, but who the hell is waiting 15 years on someone and there is no progress in your relationship? You are not moving forward, you are not growing, and you are not maturing. Fifteen years with someone, and then all of a sudden you get fed up! I’m sorry, but you chose this man, and you keep choosing his behavior and allowing him to do what he did, so why would expect his behavior to change after the relationship ended? He is not going to change. He is not going to be the father, dad, or co-parent you hope he will be for the sake of your child. He’s shown you his a** for 15 years, and you refuse to believe or accept who he is. Girl, I’m so tired of saying this, but, WHEN SOMEONE SHOWS YOU WHO THEY ARE BELIEVE THEM. WHEN SOMEONE TELLS YOU WHO THEY ARE BELIEVE THEM. You and he keep running back and forth to court and you want the judge to handle it, but you and he are dishonest and don’t want to reveal the real reason why you two can’t get along. If you keep playing this game, then you’re not serious about wanting to co-parent with him. I feel that you like and enjoy the drama. It gives you the opportunity for you and he to continue to argue, fight, and have this ‘other’ sadistic relationship that no one wants to be a part of. Hell, his own girlfriend changed her number because she doesn’t want to be in the middle of it. And, you’ve lost your ex-boyfriend over it because he didn’t want to be around your incessant need to be in drama with your daughter’s father. So, therefore, it leads me to believe that you and he enjoy this sick game and all this back and forth that you two are engaged in. There is something that the both of you are getting out of it, and until you’re really ready to let him go and move on with your life, then you and he will continue this soap opera drama you two seem to enjoy. Why do you two continue to talk about the past? Why are you holding on to it, and what you had? Why are you and he arguing on the phone, and it has nothing to do with your daughter? As a matter of act why are you even engaging him and it has nothing to do with your daughter? Why are you doing all this grinning and cheesing up in each other’s face, and you’re talking about it’s because you and he remember what you once had. It’s over! Let that –ish go! Ma’am you gave me all this back story of your relationship with him, what he did, and how you shouldn’t have to wait on someone who wasn’t going to marry you. But, you chose him. You chose to stay 15 years. You chose to produce a child with him. You obviously kept choosing him to stay with him after he cheated on you three different times. So, was the back story an attempt to paint him as the bad guy? Honey, I don’t do voluntary suffering and misery. You stayed, so you got what you got. If you want to co-parent, and you’re serious about it, then you and he need to be in therapy. You need to let go of your past, and your relationship. It’s over. It’s ended. It’s done. It’s no longer. However, you and he are holding on to some unfinished business. So, go to therapy with a mediating third party and let them help you decipher through this bull-ish. Let them help you resolve this game, and end this back and forth. You two can’t seem to do it yourselves, and it’s obvious that you don’t want to the judge to handle it. Therefore, therapy with a professional counselor will help you get to the root of your issues, the underlying tension of your drama, and end this torrid love/hate relationship you have with one another, and this ongoing relationship that you two don’t seem to want to let go. – Terrance Dean Photo source: Shuttershock Hey Bossip Fam, what do you think? Share your opinions and thoughts below! 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I guess Nina Dobrev got tired of hearing me call her super-cute all the time, because here she is at the Elle Women in TV Event looking all grown up. But as good as Nina’s looking, I think I’m going to need to see a little more skin before I can graduate her to super-hot status. So forget about classy award shows, Nina. All it takes is one beach day with the paps. I’m easy that way. » view all 11 photos Photos: WENN.com
I guess Nina Dobrev got tired of hearing me call her super-cute all the time, because here she is at the Elle Women in TV Event looking all grown up. But as good as Nina’s looking, I think I’m going to need to see a little more skin before I can graduate her to super-hot status. So forget about classy award shows, Nina. All it takes is one beach day with the paps. I’m easy that way. » view all 11 photos Photos: WENN.com
Last night on WE tv, the king of Friday reality programming, Marriage Boot Camp Season 2 Episode 1 turned five celebrity couples over to Jim and Elizabeth Carroll. The relationship drill sergeants’ goal? Fix these troubled marriages, STAT! Ten-HUT! Watch Marriage Boot Camp Season 2 Episode 1 Online The twosomes in need of assistance on Marriage Boot Camp Season 2 Episode 1: Heidi Montag and Spencer Pratt Aviva and Reid Drescher Natalie Nunn and Jacob Payne Tyson Apostol and Rachel Foulger Syleena Johnson and Kiwane Garris Yeah. If you haven’t heard of most or all of these couples, we do not blame you. In fact, we sort of envy you. Heidi Montag and Spencer Pratt were omnipresent on THG for years, but the rest of these pairs, we know a lot less about. When you watch Marriage Boot Camp online , you will predictably discover that things aren’t going great for them these days, for a variety of reasons … Syleena and Kiwane are a blank slate to us. She seems resentful that he retired from the NBA early, based on the results of the lie detector questions. Kiwane appears very quiet and doesn’t really voice his emotions … not that Syleena will let him get a word in edgewise before cutting him off altogether. Maybe she just loves to hear herself talk. Natalie and Jacob appear to be angry, scared of one another, and totally distrustful. Always a winning combo for a marriage that stands the test of time. She tells him not to take his shirt off on TV. She proceeded to try to break the Internet, Kim Kardashian style, with butt selfies. Belfies if you will. Because that makes sense you guys. Tyson and Rachel are in a familiar position to many couples. Rachel wants to get married, Tyson does not, otherwise they would not be on this show. Guy seems content to do his own thing, which is the sort of line you give someone when you break up, not for putting off getting engaged or married. This a six and a half year relationship. Aviva and Reid are struggling with the fact that her Bravo stardom – remember when Aviva Drescher threw her leg ? – is really putting a strain on their family. He doesn’t want to have another baby together as a result, and he feels that negative press she’s getting is not good for their marriage or their family. Aviva seems less concerned. Shocker. Spencer Pratt & Heidi Montag Photos: Through the Years 1. Classic Spencer and Heidi These were the days, when Heidi Montag and Spencer Pratt used to just pose for pictures and stir up trouble on The Hills. Nowadays it’s kind of gone to $h!t. Spencer and Heidi are in a class by themselves, filled with drama and theatrics, demanding attention and apologies for who even knows what. They must be something to deal with. When Jim called them out on “faking it” for The Hills cameras, which they 100 percent did, Spencer is incredulous, and he makes Heidi frustrated. Clearly, Speidi does not understand how Marriage Boot Camp works, or they’re pretending not to just to cause their own particular brand of drama. He did admit that he misses being famous. Either way, they feel like they’re being attacked when really they’re not, and it’s kind of awkward to watch. Even more than the gallery above.
Friday’s Hawaii Five-0 Season 5 Episode 11 saw Kono and Chin going undercover, delving into the world of black market art after a tourist was killed. Unwittingly transporting a stolen Van Gogh can lead to that, we’re told. But what did our heroes uncover, and what else went down on the hit CBS show? Watch Hawaii Five-0 Season 5 Episode 11 Online Hawaii Five-0 Season 5 Episode 11 kicked off with a family arriving in Hawaii for a vacation, and the father killed as he answers the door to his room. His carry-on bag is then stolen. McGarret learns that the father of the family has not had a job for a long time, making the family trip to Hawaii suspicious. The team believes the shooter was actually responsible for putting a stolen painting in the father of the family’s bag and then shooting him to reclaim it. The team also discovers that the stolen work is a Vincent van Gogh painting. Kono and Chen must go under cover in order to catch the art seller. While working the op, Jerry shows up and nearly blows their cover. Kono and Chen attend a private party as art buyers, but the art show turns out to be a stage heist, and Jerry manages to save the day for the team. It is ultimately revealed that Nicole was the real mastermind behind stealing all the paintings, which she sought to return to their real owners for a bounty. Meanwhile, Kamekona is upset that he was entered into a cook off against a famous chef, but ends up using an old unorthodox method from his prison days. How did he do, and what else went down on the islands this week? Follow the link to watch Hawaii Five-0 online and find out!
