First the cornrows , now this… Kylie Jenner Gets Blasted For Wearing A Yaki Ponytail Kylie Jenner was spotted at the Alexander Wang fashion show this week rocking a unique look. The Jenner sat alongside her boyfriend Tyga … and Taraji P. Henson … while rocking a kinky curly ponytail made of Yaki or Kanekalon hair. She’s since been blasted by fans for cultural appropriation of the hairstyle. I know Kylie Jenner does not have a Kanekalon pony tail? I quit. We can't have nothing. — RetcHy Ci (@CiaraXCiara) February 14, 2016 Even taraj is wondering why Kylie has a kanekalon ponytail on
Dear Bossip , For the past 3 ½ years I’ve been in an off and on relationship. When I first met him he had a son. A few months later after getting to know him a girl stated that she was pregnant with his child. That caused a big damp in the relationship, so I left him alone. When she delivered he took a DNA test and come to find out the child wasn’t his. He reached out to me for months, but I never budged. One day, he found me and insisted I hear him out. I heard him out and he told me how sorry he was and that the child wasn’t his. A few weeks later, we ended up trying to work this out and decided we wanted to make it official. Year two, we’re official and now the same girl comes back again and says she’s pregnant with his child and this time she said it’s his. Another stressful situation we had to go through. This time I stuck it out. I stuck it out because I felt like this girl is really trying to ruin us and is a whore that just sleeps with everybody. This time my boyfriend’s reaction towards this situation was different. This time he wasn’t so sure. He said it was a 50/50 chance that the child could possibly be his. He and I ended up breaking up towards the end of her giving birth. He cheated on me with another female and I ended up blowing up and rushed him (meaning I fought him). After that he decided to be with his baby momma for the sake of the child. This time the child is his. He reached out to me for 10 months without any response from me. I was crushed (I never wanted to speak to him again, let alone be with him because of his bad decisions). Ten months later we met at a party. He found out I was going to be there by a source. That night we ended up talking a few things out. He wanted to prove his love for me and of course to tell me how sorry he was. About a month later we were official again, but taking things really slow. It was very difficult for me to accept his child. But, it was easy to accept his first child due to the fact I knew about that child and he was already there in the beginning. My boyfriend and I decided to move in together. We spoke about marriage and all. Living together didn’t last too long. He ended up cheating again, talking to me any kind of way, coming home late (three times), etc. When he cheated he and I had a huge fight. At the point I felt like again!?! Still, with all the lies and cheating? I was in shock because this time around I wanted to trust him and he gave me every reason to trust him again based on his actions. But, I guess obviously not. I just wanted us to be happy and on one accord. He felt like I didn’t love his 2nd child and I neglected him. I can say that isn’t true at all. I just needed help in acceptance, but it was never the child. My thing was after he cheated I couldn’t help but to bring back what happened in the past. All the things he had done to me, and to us who were supposed to be a family. From there our relationship declined. Everybody was involved. Family and friends. Some tried to help the situation and some tried to break us apart (my side of family and friends). I ended up packing my bags and left and went back to my dad’s home. I never wanted to leave because I wanted it to work. Three months after moving out, we got in touch. I changed my number as soon as I left. And, now we are on talking terms. But, since I’ve left he’s slept with his baby mama again. That’s the part I don’t like, whether we’re together or not. If she is supposed to be a mistake then why are they sleeping together? I know I skipped so much of my story, but I hope I can get some advice as to why all of this keeps happening. To include more details, he ended up taking her to court for shared custody of the child because she was keeping the child away because of me. She felt if they weren’t together, then the child won’t see his father either. I supported him along the way and I still get a slap in the face. What should I do? Right now I feel like the cycle will continue on. He claims he loves me. And, he probably does, but his way of going about things just won’t change. His first child’s mother passed away after giving birth to him. I wonder if that could have been an affect towards his cycle. I’m not trying to find an excuse because it’s been 8 years. And his 2 nd baby mama is a whore. He said it isn’t in him to hate her and he can’t. I don’t want him to hate her, I want him to be straightforward and stop playing games. He says one thing and does the next. I don’t know if he really wants be with her or not, but if he does then that’s where he should be. And, no, I have no children of my own. I desire some, but he and can’t conceive for some reason. I’ve been pregnant before by my last boyfriend but never with this one. So, no, I don’t know what to do because that’s also important to me. I’m 28 years old and he’s 30 years old. Please help the best way you can from what I gave you. It’s not the full story because it’s so much to say but this sums it all. – Where To Turn Dear Ms. Where To Turn , Well, this keeps happening to you because you keep taking him back. You keep allowing him to mistreat you and take advantage of you. As long as you continue to lay down and let him wipe his feet on you, then he will keep doing it. His baby momma is not going anywhere. She will forever and always be in the picture. And, the fact that he chose to be with his baby momma after you learned he cheated with another woman, that should have been the end of him, FOREVER! You are a glutton for punishment. You like all this drama and stress in your life. So, you have to ask yourself what is it about you that need this and him in your life? He is not positively adding to your life. He is not bringing anything to the table. He doesn’t lift you up, or inspire you or empower you. He is not going above and beyond to make sure you know that you are the number one woman in his life. No, he is lying to you. He doesn’t love you. He loves no one but himself. He’s made his choice in which woman he wants to be with, and that is why he keeps sleeping with his baby momma. That is where he wants to be. So, why can’t you get that inside your thick ass skull? You’re making excuses for him and his behavior, and trying to figure out what is it about him, or his baby momma that he keeps going back to her. You are justifying his behavior instead of holding him accountable for what he is doing. STOP IT! Stop trying to rationalize and justify what he is doing. He is doing it because he can, and you allow him to. Lawd, you are truly emotionally and mentally unstable. I don’t know any woman who would remain with a man after learning that the woman he supposedly got pregnant the first time comes back again a second time and says she’s pregnant, and he tells you that it’s a 50/50 chance it may be his. That was when the relationship should have ended for good. There was no coming back, talking things through, or reconciling. NO! That should have been the end of it. Obviously you’re thirsty and desperate for a man. Obviously you are the one who can’t seem to let him go. There is some soul searching and some deep interrogations you need to do with yourself of why you keep letting him back into your life. He lies to you. You take him back. He cheats on you with multiple women. You take him back. He has babies with other women. You take him back. He tells you that he wants to be with his baby momma, but after they take a break, you take him back. You see the pattern, and the common denominator in all of this – it’s you! You keep letting him back into your life. He can’t keep coming and going unless you allow him. And, for the life of me, I don’t understand why you are clamoring to be baby momma number three. Are you serious? Girl, you are that desperate to keep and have a man that you are willing to bring a child into this horrid drama and life with this low life piece of scum of man? He has two children by two different women, and you said the other child lost his mother right after the child was born. So, ask yourself, where is that child? He is not taking care of that child. If he isn’t involved in that child’s life, and he is recklessly active in his second child’s life, then only imagine what type of father/parent he will be with your child. Please save yourself and don’t consider procreating with this man. It’s a reason you can’t get pregnant by him, and be thankful you can’t. Besides, if he’s running up in his baby momma raw, then why are you letting him have unprotected sex with you? GIRL! I CAN’T! All I can tell you is that at some point you are going to have to start loving yourself. You are going to have to start choosing you, and your happiness. Until you can authentically look at yourself, and learn to love yourself and choose you, then you will keep choosing him and his happiness and trying to make him happy when you are miserable and dying inside. He is killing you spiritually, mentally, and emotionally and you don’t even recognize that you are dying. I hope you will read your letter again, see the pattern, and recognize that you keep this going with him. This could all end if you simply decide to choose you, end it for good, and completely delete him out of your life. Notice that he doesn’t build you, or add to your life. He doesn’t contribute anything positive or good. He is a detriment to your happiness, your joy, and your love. Eliminate him and a whole new world will open up for you. And, please stop calling his baby momma a whore. You’re angry and upset with her when your man is the problem. You’re pointing fingers at her, yet, your man keeps going to her bed. What do you think she is saying about you? – Terrance Dean ***(Attention all media/news outlets, if you use this story and letter, or any parts of this content for your outlets you must give credit to this site, the columnist, and his advice)*** Hey Bossip Fam, what do you think? S hare your opinions and thoughts below! Also, e-mail all your questions Terrance Dean: loveandrelationships@bossip.com Follow Terrance Dean on Twitter: @ terrancedean and “LIKE” Terrance Dean on Facebook, click HERE! Make sure to order my books Mogul: A Novel (Atria Books – June 2011; $15); Hiding In Hip Hop (Atria Books – June 2008); and Straight From Your Gay Best Friend – The Straight Up Truth About Relationships, Love, And Having A Fabulous Life (Agate/Bolden Books – November 2010; $15). They are available in bookstores everywhere, and on Amazon, click HERE!
Meet Kanye West’s Cover Model Sheniz Halil Kanye’s “The Life Of Pablo” cover art is only slightly more confusing than his album title choice . But among all the overlapped font and family photo collage, a seemingly randomly placed big-booty white woman who is NOT Kim Kardashian caught social media’s attention. As it turns out, the cakes in question belong to Instagram model Sheniz Halil, and she was just as shocked as everyone else to find her back on the front of Kanye’s new album. Apparently ‘Ye brought a stack of photo options to Kim for approval, and she chose Sheniz’ pic because she felt like she had the best booty of them all… And if you can’t quiiiite see it, here’s a closer look at the photo that Kimmy found “Pablo”-worthy: What a lucky day for this Ista-model. Hit the flip to take a closer look at what exactly caught KimYe’s attention… Instagram
Woman Tries To Shoot Barber Because She Hated Haircut An angry San Diego was ready to shoot up a barbershop because she hated her new haircut. According to WKBW reports, 29-year-old Adrian Blanche Swain wanted a haircut like Rihanna but returned to the salon after realizing the style wasn’t good enough. Swain tried to open fire at the stylist with a pistol — pulling the trigger three times — but police said the “gun had bullets but malfunctioned.” “619 Barber Shop has been in business for 20-plus years here in North Park, we’ve never had any incident like that,” barber Chris Tatum said. “When she came in she seemed to be a very pleasant young lady.” A barber named Manny cut her hair, Tatum said. “Kind of like the Rihanna haircut,” barber Joe Cooper said. Rihanna’s Mohawk cut, he said, with the sides short, not shaved. “Easy haircut to do, to be honest,” Cooper said. Cooper was not at work when it happened, but his co-workers told him what happened. Cooper said at first Swain loved the haircut. “The woman, when she got up. She tipped him. She actually tipped him an extra 20-bucks. He only charged $24,” Cooper said. “Apparently she left, went out and sat in front of the shop in her vehicle for 30 minutes or so,” Tatum said. They say Swain gave herself a more dramatic look. “[Police] found razors inside of her vehicle. She had shaved her hair,” Tatum said. Tatum said Swain came back, mad about her hair. “As she was walking in the back she was fumbling in her purse and once she got back to the back, she pulled the gun out and tried to pull the trigger three times,” Tatum said. The gun didn’t fire. The stylist and another person grabbed Swain and held her until police arrived to take her into custody. “Grabbed her, grabbed the gun. We threw her to the ground and held her until the authorities came,” Tatum said. “It’s by the grace of God we’re still here. It could have ended up a whole different way,” Tatum said. #BlameRihanna
George Lucas Says ‘Star Wars’ Was Sold To “White Slavers” Even after clocking over $1 billion at the box office worldwide in just a few days, OG Star Wars creator George Lucas ain’t feelin’ the new version of his baby. In fact, Lucas feels like the new producers just bit his whole style from the original flick and didn’t do enough to make “The Force Awakens” it’s own entity. Via NYDailyNews “They wanted to do a retro movie,” Lucas said in an interview with Charlie Rose. “I don’t like that.” “Every movie, I work very hard to make them different,” he continued. “I make them completely different, with different planets and different spaceships, to make it new.” He also called the first six movies his “kids,” saying he “sold them to white slavers that take these things and…,” before halting the remark and laughing it off, presumably thinking better of it. Now before you go and weep for Lucas and his tragically bastardized creativity, be aware that he sold Lucasfilm to Disney in 2012 for, wait for it…$4 BILLION! Boo-the-f***-hoo, George Lucas. Boo f***ing hoo. Far as the “slavers” comment, there was prolly a MUCH better choice of words considering he has a black wife and the ugly controversy surrounding black “storm trooper” John Boyega. Image via WENN
Even though a grand jury opted not to indict the shooting officer, Tamir Rice was still a 12-year-old boy who lost his life at the hands of the person hired to protect and serve. There’s no way around that fact. Continue
Look at this big dummy … Rape Victim Forced To Call Boyfriend Calls 911 Instead A sick rapist was recently arrested after he attempted to make a woman call her boyfriend during a sexual assault. Robert Giles, 27, of Atlanta is in custody after the woman he tried to attack called 911 instead and the operator pretended to be her significant other. WSBTV reports: Police say quick thinking by the victim of a frightening abduction and assault helped them catch her attacker in the act. Officers say Robert Giles, 27, asked the victim to call her boyfriend so he could hear the assault. Instead of calling her boyfriend, she called 911. Police say the savvy 911 operator also kept his wits about him. “It was quick thinking on his behalf. In fact, (it) might have saved her life,” Clayton County police Maj. Joe Woodall said. Officers say Giles kidnapped the victim from Hapeville and brought her to the closed Starship Novelties and Gifts store on Tara Boulevard around 4 a.m. Monday intending to rape her. That’s when he allegedly asked her to call her boyfriend so he could listen to the assault. The victim called 911 and told her attacker it was her boyfriend. The 911 operator played along. “She explained to him what the perpetrator had told her; that he was wanting him to listen while she was being raped,” Woodall said. The operator tried to talk the attacker out of the assault and sent police. Police quickly arrived and say they arrested Giles in the act. SMH…thank God for the 911 operator and thank God this guy’s an idiot who didn’t realize she only dialed three numbers. What do YOU think about this story???
Look at this big dummy … Rape Victim Forced To Call Boyfriend Calls 911 Instead A sick rapist was recently arrested after he attempted to make a woman call her boyfriend during a sexual assault. Robert Giles, 27, of Atlanta is in custody after the woman he tried to attack called 911 instead and the operator pretended to be her significant other. WSBTV reports: Police say quick thinking by the victim of a frightening abduction and assault helped them catch her attacker in the act. Officers say Robert Giles, 27, asked the victim to call her boyfriend so he could hear the assault. Instead of calling her boyfriend, she called 911. Police say the savvy 911 operator also kept his wits about him. “It was quick thinking on his behalf. In fact, (it) might have saved her life,” Clayton County police Maj. Joe Woodall said. Officers say Giles kidnapped the victim from Hapeville and brought her to the closed Starship Novelties and Gifts store on Tara Boulevard around 4 a.m. Monday intending to rape her. That’s when he allegedly asked her to call her boyfriend so he could listen to the assault. The victim called 911 and told her attacker it was her boyfriend. The 911 operator played along. “She explained to him what the perpetrator had told her; that he was wanting him to listen while she was being raped,” Woodall said. The operator tried to talk the attacker out of the assault and sent police. Police quickly arrived and say they arrested Giles in the act. SMH…thank God for the 911 operator and thank God this guy’s an idiot who didn’t realize she only dialed three numbers. What do YOU think about this story???
Pimp C’s Son Chad Butler Jr. Releases New Songs R.I.P Pimp C, Underground King of the South ! Pimp C’s son Chad Butler Jr. just dropped three new songs in honor of his late father’s birthday on December 29th. If you listen closely to his lyrics you may find some references to his longtime issues with Pimp’s widow Chinara Butler. The above photo of Chad Jr. includes a copy of Julia Beverly’s Pimp C biography “Sweet Jones: Pimp C’s Trill Life Story” which gives plenty of background to why Pimp’s kids have been at odds with her. Chapter 61 specifically discusses the court battle where Chinara was removed from Pimp’s estate for mismanagement and negligence (she was accused of stealing money he intended to leave for his kids). Chinara was allegedly opposed to the release of the biography because of those details. You can find more of Chad Butler Jr.’s music HERE