This is so sad. Husband, Wife And Their Babies Found Dead These poor parents and precious babies! Some people are just pure evil. According to KSWO: A husband and wife and their infant twin sons, a week away from celebrating their first birthdays, were found dead at their home on Monday after police were asked to check on them. Authorities released few details about the deaths, but a relative said the couple had experienced marital problems. Arlington police Chief Frederick Ryan said police weren’t looking for any suspects and there was no reason for the public to be alarmed, but he didn’t elaborate. “We’re quite certain that the community is safe and people can go out and go about their business this evening,” he said. An officer found the bodies in the two-family home in a quiet residential neighborhood in Arlington, just northwest of Boston, around noon. Authorities did not say how long they had been there. “This is obviously a very troubling, very tragic situation,” Middlesex County District Attorney Marian Ryan said. Ryan identified the dead as Scott Jones and his wife, Mei Kum Jones, both 43, and their sons, Colt and Cameron, who would’ve turned a year old on Nov. 26. Prayers go out to their families. Shutterstock
This is so sad. Husband, Wife And Their Babies Found Dead These poor parents and precious babies! Some people are just pure evil. According to KSWO: A husband and wife and their infant twin sons, a week away from celebrating their first birthdays, were found dead at their home on Monday after police were asked to check on them. Authorities released few details about the deaths, but a relative said the couple had experienced marital problems. Arlington police Chief Frederick Ryan said police weren’t looking for any suspects and there was no reason for the public to be alarmed, but he didn’t elaborate. “We’re quite certain that the community is safe and people can go out and go about their business this evening,” he said. An officer found the bodies in the two-family home in a quiet residential neighborhood in Arlington, just northwest of Boston, around noon. Authorities did not say how long they had been there. “This is obviously a very troubling, very tragic situation,” Middlesex County District Attorney Marian Ryan said. Ryan identified the dead as Scott Jones and his wife, Mei Kum Jones, both 43, and their sons, Colt and Cameron, who would’ve turned a year old on Nov. 26. Prayers go out to their families. Shutterstock
Dear Bossip , I appreciate you taking time to read my email and thank you in advance for your help. I am having doubts if my boyfriend will ever make it a priority to propose to me. I am a 29-year old white female and my boyfriend is a 25-year old black male. We have been friends for over 11 years, but decided to start a love relationship about four years ago. I approached him two years ago about the idea of marriage and we both came to the conclusion that this was something we both wanted with each other, but my boyfriend is a HUGE procrastinator and TERRIBLE with money. I am seriously doubt that he will ever overcome these shortfalls to save the money to buy me an engagement ring. He has NEVER done anything on time during the entire course of me knowing him. He is always late or waits until the 5th hour to get things done. Even if it is something that is important to him. He just can’t get right with doing things in a timely manner. I am in no way trying to bash him (nobody is perfect), but marriage is something that is very important to me and to be perfectly honest I do not want to be an old bride. Nor, do I want to be like so many other couples around our area that have just been playing house with each other for 13 years. I want this thing to be legit and I want my love to be validated with a ring on my finger. I told him a year ago that if he did not get a ring and propose to me by my 30th birthday that I would have to call off our relationship. I hated to give him an ultimatum like that but I have done similar things with him like this in the past and he seems to work better with a serious deadline. Problem is, I’m turning 30 in February and I know he hasn’t saved up a dime for the ring. Yes, I have reminded him off and on and every time I mention it I can see where he is like, “Awww, -ish, I have GOT to get on that.” But, thinking about it is as far as he gets with it. I like to get things done well in advance so that’s why I am coming to you now so you can give me your honest opinion and I can think about it for the last few months that I have before “D” Day. Should I really call off our relationship if he doesn’t propose to me by February? Was it fair for me to even give him a deadline like that? Marriage is so important to me, but is it really worth losing my lover and best friend? Any feedback would be greatly appreciated. – Ringless Dear Ms. Ringless , You created this. You set this into motion. You accepted this from the very beginning. You said, “He has NEVER done anything on time during the entire course of me knowing him.” So, if you know this, what do you want me to say? (Giving you the side eye) And, now you want me to give you advice on how to get him to change. Why? You’ve been allowing him to do this for 11 years as your friend, and then 4 years in an intimate relationship. Ma’am, HE IS NOT GOING TO CHANGE. He will always be a procrastinator and he will always be terrible with money. It appears that your “boy” friend is content. That is how I would sum up your relationship. It’s contentment. Why does he have to work for anything when you’ve given him the comforts and luxuries of having everything before getting married? You’ve accepted his behaviors for nearly 15 years. For fifteen years he’s been this person, and now you want him to change because YOU want to get married, and have a ring by YOUR 30 th birthday. Bwahahahahahahaha! Good luck with that! Think about it: You were friends for 11 years before you started an intimate relationship. For 11 years you knew one another so well, that to him you were just like one of the guys. You were cool, someone he could chill with, and he enjoyed your friendship. He was comfortable with you. You were comfortable with him. Therefore, he didn’t have to do much work in getting you. Thus, he developed a lackadaisical attitude and simply figured I can be myself with her. Four years ago when you decided to date seriously, I’m sure he was like, “Okay. Sure. It saves me the work of having to prove anything, spend money, and court and date her because she already knows me, and I know her.” He simply went with the flow. And, why would he have to put his best foot forward, work hard, and be about his business when, “You’ve been my friend for eleven years, and I know you, and you know me.” Then two years ago, it was you who approached your boyfriend about marriage. And, again, I’m sure he was like, “Okay. Sure. Why not.” But, he didn’t think it through that he would have to propose, get a ring, set a date, plan a wedding, and all the other stuff required for a wedding. Why would he? You basically proposed to him when you asked him about marriage. Again, you fed into his lackadaisical attitude. He is content with how things are going, so why disrupt what is already working. You’ve made it too easy for him! You live together. You do everything a married couple does. You feed him. Sex him. Wash his clothes. Clean after him. Pay the bills together. You treat him like he’s already your man-child-husband, therefore, why is he going to change? For what? What motivating reason is there for him to change? Life is good, according to him. So, he is content. You do realize he is still the 14-year old boy you met 11 years ago. He has not grown. He is still the same 14-year who needs to be told what to do, when to do it, and why he needs to do it. If you were smart, wise, and really reflected on your relationship, then you would see that he is still that young teenage boy who procrastinates, and is terrible with money. I suggest marriage counseling before getting married, and I also suggest couples therapy. Yes, couples therapy because this relationship is about you keeping and maintaining the relationship with a teenager. He doesn’t have to do anything but simply show up whenever he wants or likes, and he goes with the flow. I’m sure he loves you, but he doesn’t love you enough to make the necessary changes to get his act together. On two different occasions in your letter you said marriage was important to you. Well, Ms. Thing, is it important to him? You said you don’t want to end up like the other couples in your area who are playing house for 13 years. Uhm, what the hell do you think you’re doing now? You also mentioned that you don’t want to be an old bride, and you want your relationship to be legit and validated by a ring. WOW! A ring will validate love for you? Okay. Yes, you need some serious therapy. You want marriage and a ring to not only make you feel validated, but to prove to others that you were able to get a man to marry you. You want to prove to others that you are not like them. You are about the show. I know your type, ma’am. And, you know what, you will have the man, and he may very well marry you, but you will forever be complaining, unhappy, miserable, and trying to change him into the man YOU want him to be. I want you to realize that if you marry him you will forever have to give him deadlines to get things done. You will always have to give him ultimatums, threats, and other ramifications to get what you want, or to get any results from him. And, you nailed it on the head when you said he is your “lover and best friend.” You are absolutely right. He is still your 14-year old best friend, and the only thing you’ve done is introduced sex into the mix. You have to ask yourself: Is he marriage material? Is he reliable? Can you count on him with money, and to handle the finances of the house? How will he be with children? Will he be responsible enough to get them to school on time? I’m telling you he is not going to change. You’ve allowed him to be this way for so long, and co-signed this bull-ish for 15 years. You have to decide if you’re willing to commit to another 15 years of co-signing this, and putting up with his procrastination and terrible finances. – Terrance Dean Hey Bossip Fam, what do you think? Share your opinions and thoughts below! Also, e-mail all your questions Terrance Dean : loveandrelationships@bossip.com Follow Terrance Dean on Twitter : @terrancedean “LIKE” Terrance Dean on Facebook , click HERE! Make sure to order my books Mogul: A Novel (Atria Books – June 2011; $15); Hiding In Hip Hop (Atria Books – June 2008); and Straight From Your Gay Best Friend – The Straight Up Truth About Relationships, Love, And Having A Fabulous Life (Agate/Bolden Books – November 2010; $15). They are available in bookstores everywhere, and on Amazon, click HERE!
You big dummy. Man Impersonates Cop To Get Discount On Donuts Those donuts must have been hella good. According to ABC 7: Pasco County Sheriff Deputies arrest a man after he tried to get a discount on donuts by impersonating a law enforcement officer. Deputies say 48-year-old Charles “Chuck” Barry went to the drive-thru of a Trinity Dunkin’ Donuts last week, and after identifying himself as law enforcement, asked for a discount on his order of donuts. When the clerk refused to give him the discount, Barry allegedly held up a gun — still in its holster — and said, “See, I’m a cop!” The witness told investigators Barry never pointed the gun at him or took it out of its holster. The next day he went through the drive-thru again and the manager took down his license plate tag. On November 12, surveillance was set up at Dunkin Donuts and a Deputy with the Pasco Sheriff’s Office observed Barry driving away from the business. A traffic stop was conducted and while speaking with Barry the deputy observed he had a law enforcement badge in his wallet. He was also carrying a .38 caliber revolver in his front pocket. He was positively identified by store personnel and arrested on above mentioned charges. Barry was charged with one count of False Impersonation of a law Enforcement Officer and Improper Exhibition of a Firearm. The dumbazz went back to the scene of the crime. Dayum. Shutterstock
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He needs his azz whooped. Coach Films Himself Having Forced Sex With Boys The kids aren’t even safe around the coaches. SMH. According to Seattle PI A Maple Valley youth baseball coach also accused of repeatedly having forced sex with at least two children on camera has been sentenced to 25 years in federal prison for child p0rn0graphy offenses. In addition to thousands of “commercial” child images and videos of himself sexually assaulting boys, David Scott Engle had at least 450 photos showing the clothed genitals of boys he coached, federal prosecutors now say. Engle, 50, was sentenced Monday on federal child p0rn0graphy charges. Allegations that Engle forced sex on one boy “countless” times over six years remain outstanding in state court; investigators found photos purported to show Engle sexually assault a second, sleeping child as well. Agents with the U.S. Postal Inspection Service and other agencies arrested Engle in November after tracing an online purchase of child films to him. They recovered dozens of videos from his home showing Engle sexually assault one boy. Before his Nov. 6 arrest, Engle had been extensively involved in youth baseball. He coached a Select Bronco team of 11- and 12-year olds, was president of Maple Valley Pony Baseball and Fast Pitch, served on two regional baseball organizations and one baseball business. Asking that Engle be sentenced to 30 years in prison, Assistant U.S. Attorney Marci Ellsworth said the former coach abused the trust parents placed in him. “While (Engle) was purportedly serving as a role model and mentor for these young boys, he was sexually interested in them,” Ellsworth said in court papers. “When (he) was taking pictures and shooting video of baseball games, his camera was focused on the players’ crotches, not on their batting stance, pitching arms, or any other aspect of their athletic performance.” Disgusting. Pleading guilty in July to the federal child freaky flick charges, Engle admitted he possessed hundreds of videos showing children being sexually abused. Now sentenced for his federal crimes, the child sex abuse charges filed against Engle in King County Superior Court will now proceed. Any state sentence would follow Engle’s term in federal prison; Engle likely faces at least 10 years in state prison if convicted as charged. A licensed attorney most recently employed as a freight clerk at a Fred Meyer store, Engle has also been charged by King County prosecutors with three counts of child rape following allegations he was shown having forced sex with a boy in several videos. His arrest stemmed from an international investigation of a website dealing in “naturist films” – a euphemism for child freaky flicks. Postal inspectors in the United States conducted a series of undercover purchases from the website; law enforcement working overseas then raided the business, seizing a trove of child pornography and business records; agents in the U.S. also raided a shipping facility used by the business. Since then, agents have been investigating the company’s customers in an effort to track down those who bought child sex videos. Among the suspects identified thus far was Engle, who spent $2,300 on videos and photos sent to him by the company. Investigators raided Engle’s Lake Lucerne-area home the day he was arrested, and recovered films well beyond what he bought online. Engle’s laptop contained about 11,000 suspicious images, and additional DVDs and digital storage devices were recovered. Engle was initially charged only with possession of child pornography. Since then, investigators claim to have uncovered photos and video of Engle sexually assaulting one boy, which prompted the even more serious federal charges to which he ultimately pleaded guilty. Writing the court, Ellsworth said investigators ultimately tallied 26,000 images and 400 videos of commercially produced child sex videos from computers seized at Engle’s home and storage space. He is going straight to hell. Shutterstock
Nina Agdal must be the busiest model in the business because it seems like every other day we are posting new photos of her. Not that I’m complaining, I would post every minute if I could. Anyway, here she is in the latest Aerie’s bra and pantie collection. Not that I care what brand it is, but I figure I should let my female readers know, so they can go out buy them, take selfies and send them to me.
