McGosling fans, rejoice. According to reports, Ryan Gosling and Eva Mendes are “taking a break” in their relationship after deciding they were “moving too fast.” 2 Fast 2 Furious, you could say. See what we did there? Eva was in a movie by that name … anyway. The actress and The Notebook hunk are on a break! Ryan Gosling, Eva Mendes on Break “There was a realization before Thanksgiving that they took things way too fast and were rushing toward a marriage that neither of them particularly needed,” a source said. “They’ve decided to take a break to reevaluate their romance.” And with that, we can reevaluate the rumors circulating earlier this fall that Ryan Gosling and Rachel McAdams are getting back together!! Maybe!!?? According to a source close to the actor, Gosling, 33, is the one who is undecided about a future with Mendes, whereas “Eva wanted to have his babies.” Don’t they all. Mendes, 39, has been Gosling’s girlfriend for more than two years, whereas he and Rachel haven’t been together since … several years before that. Eva was reportedly upset with Ryan this year after McAdams, his Notebook co-star and ex-girlfriend, called him for comfort after her split from Michael Sheen. McGosling is not back together … at least not yet, despite the rumors tying the two together for months. But she may well be a factor in all this. Ryan Gosling, Rachel McAdams Back On? “The real question is how Eva figures into Ryan’s plans,” the source said, adding that she’s starring in his directorial effort, How to Catch a Monster, in 2014. “They both know they need some kind of resolution in their relationship before they go out and promote their movie, in which Ryan directed Eva in a very big part.” “At the end of the day they are both so uncertain about their future. Don’t be surprised if these two resurface together for New Year’s,” the source adds. And don’t be surprised if we watch The Notebook on New Year’s in the event that reconciliation happens, yearning for what might have been. In the meantime … #McGoslingForever!!!!!!
Kris Jenner has spoken out about Khloe Kardashian once again. The First Mother of Reality Television told E! News not long after Khloe filed for divorce from Lamar Odom that her daughter is a strong blessing and will make it through this “process” intact. Last night, meanwhile, People caught up with Kris at her #cirocthenewyear pledge party in Los Angeles and asked for an update on the recent divorcee. Kris Jenner Talks Khloe Divorce “It’s also a very interesting time for her because it’s very cleansing,” Jenner said . “She’s also showed this side of her that I didn’t know she had. I always knew Khloé was strong, but I never dreamed that she had this kind of strength.” Yesterday, Kardashian spoke out for the first time since her split went public, taking to Twitter to shoot down talk that she’s already dating someone new saying simply of the divorce: “This, in and of itself, is heart breaking and torture to my soul.” But Kris hopes her child will soon see the big picture. “It’s definitely life lessons that she will be able to apply and use later in her life,” she said. “She’s learned a lot from this situation.” And, in conclusion, Kris said she harbors no ill will toward Odom, who has clearly been battling some pretty major demons for a very long time now. “I still love Lamar and I love Khloé, and I hate, hate they’re going through this. But if it’s something that Khloé feels she needs to do, then I’m 150 percent behind her. We all lean on each other, we have to.” Kris Jenner: Khloe Kardashian is Strong!
Kim Kardashian posted a new photo of North West online this week. Totally adorable, right? Yes. But also totally controversial. Upon viewing the latest North picture , many took to Twitter and expressed outrage, posting messages with one question in common: Did Kim wax young Nori’s eyebrows?!? Kim Kardashian Shoots Down Eyebrow Waxing Charges And now Kardashian has responded to that accusation, Tweeting consternation, humor and anger. “Do people really think I would wax my daughter’s eyebrows so young?” Kim asked. “Come on, I’d wait until she’s at least 2 1/2!” A minute later, she added: “I’m kidding!!! It’s pretty sick for people to insinuate that I would wax my daughter’s eyebrows. They are thick, natural, and amazing!” Kardashian has grown a lot more vocal on Twitter lately, especially when it comes to those questioning her parental decisions. Earlier this month, she went off on a user who claimed Kim never spends time with her child. Say what you want about Kim Kardashian – and we often do – but there’s not much merit to that assertion. There’s little doubt that she’s taken a break from the spotlight ever since Nori was born and she’s rarely seen in public without a stroller.
A Detroit woman allegedly trying to “protect” her pet dog from a stray cat ended up paying a painful price in an amazing viral video making the rounds today. Short story: Even if you dislike cats, do not attempt to shoo them away by kicking snow in one’s face. Cats possess agile, ninja-like skills and precision. Don’t make one retaliate. Not worth the risk. If you do, this might happen: Cat Attacks Woman in Snow After the cat responds by pouncing on her and mauling her grill, it choke-slams her to the ground like a WWE wrestler before she beats a hasty retreat. That’s a Top 10 Internet Cat Fight right there … albeit a one-sided one. Holding her injured head, she leaves the dog she was allegedly “protecting” behind as the cat approaches the unattended fence. WAY TO GO LADY! Hopefully the dog decided to take heed and let the visitor do its thing. Usually they just wanna prowl and be left alone anyway. No need to start $h!t. While the woman clearly didn’t expect the cat to attach itself to her face in response to her actions, you can’t blame the critter for reacting like that. No one likes snow.
Over the past couple days, one man has proposed to his girlfriend with the help of Justin Timberlake and another with the assistance of Aaron Paul . But Tim Witherspoon went a slightly less awesome route when popping the big question to Kelly Rowland last month: the singer revealed today that he did so via Skype! Kelly Rowland Answers Fan Questions “He put a ring on it,” the Destiny’s Child alum said as a guest on the Queen Latifah Show, admitting that her manager did propose on Skype because “we’re so far away from each other!” How far, exactly? The artist said she was “somewhere in Bulgaria” when the inquiry was offered up during one of her and Witherspoon’s late-night video chats. “I remember we were both honestly just staring at each other and he asked me,” she said. “And it was that simple to say yes. I have my best friend to ride through life with.” Okay, that’s very sweet, Skype or no Skype. And this is one pretty impressive ring as well. Well done, Tim Witherspoon!
Dear Bossip , I’ve been with my husband for almost 8 years now and for almost 2 of those years we have been married. We also have 2 children together. Either right before or right after our wedding day my husband cheated with a woman from his past and a baby came of it exactly 9 months into our marriage. This woman is still in love with my husband, and always has been willing to do anything to have him. She and I have had many run-ins before we got married, so we don’t get along at all. The baby recently turned 1-year old and she went out of her way to have a birthday party at my husband’s family house. She wouldn’t allow separate parties. She said if my husband had his own party she would come to that also. I wasn’t even informed about the party until the day before, so I hardly had any time to prepare myself mentally and emotionally. It was humiliating for me to have to be at this child’s party with her walking around also. My husband lets this woman run all over him and she does whatever she wants, and it makes me feel like I’m overreacting. I (his wife) should not be put in situations like that. He acts as if he doesn’t see what she’s doing. I’m on the verge of filing for divorce. I’m tired of the drama, hurt & pain I’ve had to go through because of my husband’s selfishness. What should I do? – Another Woman In Our Marriage Dear Ms. Another Woman In Our Marriage , Divorce! Divorce! Divorce! I’ll be damned if I would sit up and marry a man who cheated right before or right after our wedding and produced a baby. So, the first nine months of your marriage you are dealing with another woman carrying your husband’s baby. Yet, you stayed and figured what? She would move on and out of your lives? You and your husband would live happily ever after? SMDH! And, he knew you had run-ins with her before you got married, yet, he cheated with her. The woman you don’t get along with? Welp! She can have him. Why did, or do you stay? What are you getting out of it? There has to be some reason you are staying, or there is something you are trying to prove. Is it because you were together 6 years prior to marrying him, and you feel you’ve made an investment in him. You got him to where you needed him to be, and you’ve dealt with his infidelities before, so, you figured if he married he would straighten out? Uhm, Ms. Honey, that didn’t work, now did it? The man cheated right before or right after your wedding. He is a low-down scum dirty rat bastard. He is not a man. He is a child. He is hoe, a trifling crusty d**k piece of –ish. Your man had unprotected sex with this woman, and she is not the first or last, and then he came home and had unprotected sex with you. Think about that. Let that marinate in your thick a** skull. The man you’ve been with for nearly 8 years has raw sex with women with no regard for his health, his safety, or your health or your safety. Think about that. Let it stir in your head. He is going in women RAW, doing lawd knows what with them, and then you are letting him lay in your bed at night. He is up under you in the bed acting as if nothing has happened. Please let that sink in, and marinate under that polyester wig. Ma’am cut your loses, divorce his a**, collect alimony, and put him on child support. Ain’t no way I would stick around and deal with him, or her shenanigans for the next 18 years, and especially if he wants to act like he doesn’t see what she’s doing. Uhm, no ma’am. He can act stupid and dumb all he want, but it shouldn’t be with you. You are not ignorant to her ways and what’s she’s up to. A fool you are not! Then, on top of it all, she had the nerve to throw the child a birthday party at your husband’s family house, and they let her?!?! What type of hood ghetto –ish is that? I would have shut all that down! You can try to be the bigger woman all you want, but why the hell would you go and torment yourself by sitting there, at your husband’s family house, entertaining a woman who wants to flaunt your husband’s child around, acting like she is the Queen B. You sitting there all humiliated, and sad. Chile, I would have snatched her up, and drug her all through that house, backyard, and up the street. Then, served his a** with the divorce papers! Ain’t no way you should have allowed your husband to agree to that bull-ish, and he should have told his family to not entertain that mess. But, like you said, your husband wants to play dumb, and stupid. I feel that he likes this drama. He is enjoying this. He is benefiting from this. How? He has two women in his life fighting over him. You’re both competing and vying for his attention. She will do anything to get under his skin, and he enjoys it. You complain, yell, and scream, and demand that he treats you like his wife, and stop disrespecting you. And, he gets a kick out of this. You and the other woman are treating him just like he wants to be treated, like a little as boy. He is not a man, and will never be a man. So, let them two ratchet birds have one another. It’s not worth it to stay. It’s not worth it have to deal with this for the next 18 years of your life because trust and believe it will get worse over the years. Someone is going to get hurt, and so that you won’t end up in jail, it’s just best to walk away. You deserve better. You don’t deserve to have to feel humiliated, mistreated, or disrespected, especially by some woman your husband won’t put into check, and is running over his life, and your marriage. For your own sanity, and peace of mind, let this go. Be thankful for this lesson because now you know what love is not. You know what you deserve, how to be treated, and the type of man you need in your life. Be encouraged, and be empowered. You have the power. – Terrance Dean Hey Bossip Fam, what do you think? Share your opinions and thoughts below! Also, e-mail all your questions Terrance Dean : loveandrelationships@bossip.com Follow Terrance Dean on Twitter : @terrancedean “LIKE” Terrance Dean on Facebook , click HERE! Make sure to order my books Mogul: A Novel (Atria Books – June 2011; $15); Hiding In Hip Hop (Atria Books – June 2008); and Straight From Your Gay Best Friend – The Straight Up Truth About Relationships, Love, And Having A Fabulous Life (Agate/Bolden Books – November 2010; $15). They are available in bookstores everywhere, and on Amazon, click HERE!
Parents Force Child To Smoke Sticky Icky Some people reallllyyyy shouldn’t have kids. According to Buffalo News: Two Mayville teenage parents have been charged with forcing their 2-year-old to smoke sticky icky, the Chautauqua County Sheriff’s Office reported Friday. The toddler’s mother, Jessica Kelsey, 17; the father, George Kelsey, 18; and Jessica’s father, Don Baker, 54, all of South Erie Street, are charged with second-degree reckless endangerment and endangering the welfare of a child, authorities said. The incident allegedly occurred in the family’s apartment on the evening of Dec. 5, when the three adults either helped, observed or encouraged the 23-month-old to smoke sticky icky from a lighted bowl, the sheriff’s office said. The case was investigated by the Chautauqua County sheriff’s office, the district attorney and child protection department. All three were arrested on warrants and arraigned in Town of Chautauqua Court. They are being held in lieu of $10,000 cash or $20,000 bond. The toddler and another sibling are in the care of Child Protective Services, authorities said. These parents need their azzes whooped.
This just in: Aubrey O’Day is not shy. In case that wasn’t apparent enough in this Maxim spread from 2009 , the singer/reality star has posed on Instagram in her lingerie in order to show off her recent weight loss. The former Danity Kane artist leaves very little to the imagination in the image featured below, dressing up (down?) in a black bra and high-waisted knickers. Sit back, ogle away and try not to get any drool on your keyboard, fellas. Aubrey O’Day Weight Loss Pic
Hot on the heels of Gisele Bundchen’s breastfeeding photos , a Norwich, CT mother has come forward to share her tale of being thrown out of a courtroom there when she began to breastfeed her 3 month old son. Danielle Gendron was in court to testify but was waved out by a marshal when her son, Maddox, needed to eat. Norwich Mom Thrown Out of Courtroom for Breastfeeding “I went to feed him and the marshal just, you know, she immediately just waved me out,” Gendron says. “That’s never happened to me so I wasn’t sure she was speaking to me at first so I kind of looked around and she was like ‘you get out.'” Because of her removal from the courtroom, Gendron didn’t get the chance to take the stand. The state of Connecticut is one of 45 states and the District of Columbia which have laws protecting the rights of mothers to breastfeed in any public or private location. Sadly, Gendron’s story is not an anomaly. Earlier this year, Laura Trickle was nearly held in contempt of court for being unable to attend jury duty and care for her infant child at the same time. A judge gave her the order to feed her child by bottle or find a babysitter. Jessica Moser was told to give her baby formula so that the child could spend the night with her father. Gendron, it seems, is just the latest in a line of mothers to be shamed for breastfeeding.
Gisele Bundchen has once again sparked debate and discussion over breastfeeding, this time by simply sitting there doing so in a terry cloth robe. While being made up and styled for a photo shoot, obviously. The Brazilian beauty shared Tuesday this somewhat controversial photo of herself breastfeeding her daughter as a beauty squad carried out its aesthetic duties: “What would I do without this beauty squad after the 15 hours flying and only 3 hours of sleep #multitasking #gettingready,” Tom Brady’s wife captioned the photo. Nursing daughter Vivian as she gets her nails, makeup and hair done by three different people, Bundchen also translated the caption into her native Portuguese. That’s taking multitasking to a new level. Back in August 2010, the former Victoria’s Secret Angel caused a stir after the birth of her first child with her quarterback husband, son Benjamin. “I think breastfeeding really helped,” she told Harper’s Bazaar UK about getting back the figure that made her the world’s highest paid supermodel. “Some people here think they don’t have to breastfeed, and I think, ‘Are you going to give chemical food to your child, when they are so little?'” “There should be a worldwide law, in my opinion,” Bundchen added controversially, “that mothers should breastfeed their babies for six months.”
