If you were a fan of 19 Kids and Counting , you know that the use contraception is highly discouraged in the Duggar family. After all, raising a massive brood is Michelle and Jim Bob’s claim to fame, and as adherents of the Quiverfull movement, they’ve taught their children that God wants them to bring as many offspring into the world as possible. Now, however, Jill Duggar may be breaking with tradition (and violating her parents’ beliefs) by both using birth control herself – and encouraging others to do the same. As you may know, Jill and her husband Derick are currently doing missionary work in El Salvador. Like many Central American nations, El Salvador is currently under threat from the mosquito-borne Zika virus, which is known to cause microcephaly and other serious birth defects when pregnant women are infected. The CDC has advised against pregnant women traveling to that part of the world, and the government of El Salvador has cautioned residents that they must “avoid getting pregnant between this year and next” or risk birth defects, and even infant death. As the Duggar Family News Facebook page pointed out earlier today, that could cause a major conflict of interest for Jill and Derick: View Slideshow: Jill Duggar and Derick Dillard Photos “El Salvador is now advising women to avoid getting pregnant until 2018,” reads a status update posted by DFN. “Will Jill follow that advice? Birth control and any type of family planning is evil according to the Duggars. It’s interfering with God’s will … Will Jill advise women in El Salvador of childbearing years to use birth control? “I can’t imagine she would. Jill ignoring or denying the crisis could be a death sentence for a fetus or a lifelong disability. “Jill and Derick will have to adapt to a harsh new reality or suffer the consequences. We all will if this virus keeps on spreading.” Jill and Derick’s time in El Salvador has already been fraught with controversy. The couple was accused of stealing donations from fans after collecting money for a missionary trip, departing, and then being photographed in their Arkansas hometown just days later. The couple apologized, returned an undisclosed amount in donations, and headed back to El Salvador for what they described as a “much longer stay.” Obviously, after that debacle, Jill and Derick are probably not eager to cut their trip short a second time – which means they might currently be grappling with a very tough decision.
We couldn’t help but notice his girl is showing NO emotion after watching the father of her children being murdered in front of her! No way we would be able to do interviews within hours of witnessing our loved one being killed.
Dear Bossip , I’m about to get right to the point. I’ve been married to my wife for 10 years. Our relationship is crap and all we do is fight and cheat. It’s a constant –ish cycle. I would cheat then she would cheat to get back at me. I honestly don’t know who would cheat with her, but whatever! Then, she would forgive me, then, I would forgive her. I got her pregnant when we were both 16 years old. My family forced me to marry her even though we were only together for 3 months. They told me if I didn’t marry her then they wouldn’t support me, so I did what I had to do. I can honestly say I never truly loved her even though we have 3 kids together and have been together for 10 years. I know she doesn’t love me either because she tells me that all the time. I even got another chick pregnant 2 years ago and I was going to leave her, but she threatened to not let me see my kids, so I came back. I always felt like we were just obligated to stay together because of our son, then the other kids came along and now I’m stuck. I keep telling her let’s get a divorce, but she doesn’t want to; probably because I’m the only one with a job. We do live with her mom, though. We pretty much lived with her since we were 16 years old and never left. Her mom and I handle all the bills. My wife has never worked a day in her life and that –ish is so unattractive to me. She doesn’t drive because she never learned how. I mean what almost 27 year old woman doesn’t know how to drive? Also, she doesn’t know how to cook. She’s nasty as hell. I swear I barely see her get in the shower. She’s a dirty ass white woman, OML! She also gotten fat (300lbs) and sloppy. I’m ashamed to tell people she’s my wife. Man, I also can’t even tell you the last time I touched her. She’s always begging, but I’m not interested. Now, for the second reason I haven’t left the house besides for my kids is for her mom. I know this is wrong, but her mom is so damn fine. Her mom is 41 years old and she’s so beautiful, and fit. She cooks, cleans and knows how to take care of a man. We have been sleeping together for the last 7 ½ months. I don’t know how my wife doesn’t know because we flirt all day every day. I don’t even hide the fact that I’m doing it. We probably have sex every night and my wife will be in the next room oblivious thinking her momma and I are smoking weed. Her mom keeps telling her to leave me and that she will help her get a place and a job. But, her mom is only doing that because she wants her gone so that me and her can really be together. Her mom can’t stand how lazy and unmotivated she is. She only puts up with her because of the kids. Her mom genuinely can’t stand her. They get into so many fists fights it’s not even funny. My wife has been to jail several times because of those fights. I want to tell her it’s over, but I know she won’t let me see our kids when she finds out I’m with her momma. How do I tell her so that things can go over smoothly? – Mr. Torn Dear Mr. Torn , So, you really think things are going to go over smoothly once your wife learns that you have been sleeping with her own mother! You really think she is going to just up and leave and tell you two to have a great life and wish you the best? You really think that all hell is not going to break loose once your wife discovers what has been going on? You truly have been smoking too much damn weed! You are utterly disgusting and trifling. You’re the worst type of man, and I use the word “man” loosely. You are a grown ass man living with your wife’s mother, and have been doing so for the past 10 years. You claim you are the breadwinner in the family, and your wife doesn’t work. Yet, instead of moving your family out, you are laying up in your mother-in-law’s house. Does that sound like a responsible man to you? Does that sound like a man who is about his business or a man who is taking care of his family without living in someone else’s home? No. You’re complaining about your wife, but you’re also just as complicit. You haven’t done anything to better your situation or to help motivate your wife. You have done anything to change your housing, or to make it better for you and your kids. You are living with two women!! HELLO! Then, you complain and bish about what your wife isn’t doing, how she looks, and making her out to be this horrible person. But, bruh, you’ve stayed with her for 10 years! If it was so bad and so horrible, then why not leave when you had the chance? Oh, yeah, because you were so afraid that your parents were going to cut you off financially. You are a spoiled brat. You got her pregnant at 16 years old, and your parents forced you to marry her in order that you may continue being financially supported. So, basically your mother (parents) were taking care of you, and in order to appease them, and not be broke, you marry someone you didn’t love. Then, you sit up here and complain about living with her mother, but her mother is also taking care of you and her daughter. You went from one household to another. You found another mother to take care of you and your problems. SMDH! But, what is seriously a bigger issue is that you are sleeping with your own wife’s mother. That is sad and pathetic. You lay up in this woman’s house with her own daughter, and you are engaging in a sexual relationship with her. Do you really think anyone will accept this behavior or say to you that they don’t blame you for what you’re doing? Do you really think how this will affect your wife and children? Do you not care how this will damage your kids? No! It’s because you’re selfish, spoiled, and you think everyone owes you something. You think that you can do whatever you want and not have any consequences for your actions because someone will come in and fix them or solve them for you. You can’t even take care of your own responsibility as a father, a dad, or a man. So, I don’t expect for you to recognize or acknowledge your silly, childish, and immature behavior. You are not a man. You are a grown ass boy! You had ample amount of opportunities to leave your wife, but you keep saying how she threatens you and won’t let you see your children if you leave. Well, that’s why they have family court, dumbass! If you were to leave and divorce her and they courts see that you are working and she lives at home with her mother, and that you have been there for 10 years, then don’t you think they would give you joint custody, or some type of visitation to see your own kids? You are just as dumb and silly as you claim she is. So, instead of leaving your wife, getting the divorce, and moving on with your life to pursue and find your own happiness, you feel it’s better to sleep with her mother, and destroy everyone else’s life around you? You honestly thought this through and feel that your behavior is justified because your wife doesn’t want to do anything to advance herself, or to save your marriage, and the best solution you could think of is to sleep with her mother. You have got to be the biggest donkey ever! I hope your wife learns the truth, and she takes your children away from you and gets all the alimony and child support she will deserve. Despite what you think of her, what she isn’t doing, and how she looks, she is still the mother of your children, she is still your wife, and she is still her mother’s daughter. She is a human being with feelings and emotions. She doesn’t deserve what you and her own mother are doing to her behind her back. She doesn’t deserve to be treated no less. You are the scumbag. You are the asshole. So, sir, there is nothing I can tell that will smooth things out between you and your wife so that you and her mother can continue screwing each other and to put her own daughter out of the home so you can lay up in the house and think you will have a relationship with her mother. There is absolutely nothing I can tell you that will resolutely be moral or ethical about what you’re doing. You deserve every bit of hell and wrath you will get once your wife learns what’s going on. – Terrance Dean ***(Attention all media/news outlets, if you use this story and letter, or any parts of this content for your outlets you must give credit to this site, the columnist, and his advice)*** Hey Bossip Fam, what do you think? S hare your opinions and thoughts below! Also, e-mail all your questions Terrance Dean: loveandrelationships@bossip.com Follow Terrance Dean on Twitter: @ terrancedean and “LIKE” Terrance Dean on Facebook, click HERE! 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Last we checked in on Scott Disick he was trying to win back his baby mama despite the fact that the whole world knew Kourtney Kardashian was banging Justin Bieber . There was talk of Disick seducing Selena Gomez in hopes of a revenge bang, but it seems those plans never materialized. Fortunately, you can’t keep a good Lord down, and several sources are now reporting that Scott is gettin’ it in with Swedish model Lina Sandberg. “He’s seen her a few times in L.A. and thinks she’s really hot,” a source tells Us Weekly . “He’s definitely interested and seeing where it goes.” Yes, even though Scott cheated on Kourtney with Chloe Bartoli that relationship quickly fizzled, and Scott reportedly proceeded to hook up with a bunch of models. Then he went to rehab, sobered up, and decided he wanted Kourtney back. Now that he’s realized that’s never gonna happen, Scott’s back to banging models. There are worse ways to handle bad news. Anyway, Lina is apparently Disick’s flavor of the month, but we’re assuming it won’t last. The guy couldn’t even stay faithful to the mother of his children; we doubt he’ll keep it in his pants for a random Swedish chick he met in the VIP at 1Oak. Whatever happens, of course, the tables definitely seem to have turned in Scott’s favor. Not only is he in a new relationship, Kourtney has been freshly kicked to the curb, as evidenced by the photos of Bieber kissing Hailey Baldwin on New Year’s Eve. Kourt better find herself a new world famous pop star pronto, otherwise Scott is totally gonna win this breakup. View Slideshow: The Good, The Bad, The Lord: 21 Times Scott Disick Owned Reality TV
Lamar Odom is feeling good enough these days to pose for selfies. Courtesy of his son, Lamar Odom Jr., we now have our first look at the estranged husband of Khloe Kardashian since his hospitalization in mid-October. “Christmas with my pops,” the teenage wrote as a caption to this Instagram photo, which includes his sister, Destiny, and the former NBA standout. “Here’s to 2016. Blessed.” Odom, of course, fell unconscious while on a weekend bender in a Las Vegas brothel this fall, the latest in a sad number of life setbacks. He was rushed to a Nevada hospital at the time before being transferred to a Los Angeles facility, where he has remained ever since. Khloe has spent a ton of time by the side of the ex-power forward, who took his first steps about two months after falling ill. In the family picture featured here, half of Lamar’s face is visible as his children with ex-girlfriend Liza Morales pose behind him. The athlete – who is still legally still Kardashian’s husband – also had a son named Jayden with Morales, his partner of 10 years… but that child died at six months old from sudden infant death syndrome in 2006. There’s no timetable yet set regarding when Odom may be released from the hospital, but at least he is showing signs of progress. We continue to send him our best wishes. View Slideshow: Lamar Odom: A Timeline of Tragedy
Stop the violence… 7-Year-Old Girl Killed, 8-Year-Old Wounded In Detroit The family of Chanell Berry is reeling after the 7-year-old child was murdered while playing with Christmas presents. Authorities report that 23-year-old Sharonda Benson killed Chanell and wounded her 8-year-old friend Ellen Garjo while arguing with Ellen’s mother. Benson, who shares a baby’s father with the woman, apparently fired shots into the Detroit area home where the children were playing after an argument. Fox 2 Detroit reports: A 7-year-old girl is killed and an 8-year-old girl is in critical condition after both were shot Sunday night. Two people of interest are in custody for the Steel Street shooting in which the Detroit house was “sprayed” with bullets, according to police. Chanell Berry died in the shooting, while Ellen Garjo was wounded, while playing with Christmas presents. “My baby died in my arms,” said Kiana Johnson, mother of Chanell, her youngest child. “My baby was down, I (went) to pick my baby up in my arms and my baby died in my arms. Police say the shooting happened after 23-year-old Sharonda Benson began arguing with Ellen’s mother. Apparently both have children with the same man. And after leaving, Benson threatened to return. “It was because of her,” Johnson said. “That my baby lost her life. She knew there were kids in here.” Chanell and Ellen were both shot multiple times. Ellen lies critical in the hospital on Monday. Police say Benson turned herself in.l Sources say her 22-year-old relative, found in a taxi on Lamphere near Joy, was also arrested. A GoFundMe has been started by Chanell’s family for funeral costs. So, so sad. Hopefully the family gets justice for this little girl.
Madonna Asks Courts To Force Son To Spend Christmas With Her Madonna’s been on a world tour for over a year now, taking her children along for the ride. But her 15-year-old son Rocco has decided he’s had enough of the road life, misses his father, and would just like to have a calm Christmas in London. However…Madonna isn’t having it and she’s getting legal backup to force him home . Via TMZ : Madonna’s 15-year-old son has flown the coup so he could stay with his dad … the teen refuses to come home, Madonna went to court, Guy Ritchie went to another court … it’s a mess. It seems Rocco is sick of tagging along with mom during her world tour, and Thanksgiving on the road with her may have been the final straw. Rocco jumped ship and decided to live with his dad, Guy Ritchie over in London, and refused to return to Manhattan to spend XMAS with Madonna. That enraged her and, according to the NY Post, she personally ran to court Wednesday with her lawyer to get an order to force Ritchie to ante up their son. When Ritchie’s lawyer said Rocco expressed a clear desire to stay with his dad, Madonna started to go nuclear but her lawyer muzzled her. In the end, the judge ordered Rocco to return, but that wasn’t the end of it. Ritchie went to a London court, and it appears the judge has determined the case should be heard in New York where the original custody matter was handled. A hearing has now been set where Rocco will make his case. Man, let that little boy spend Christmas with his father! She’s already taken him all over the world with her. He’s old enough to make his own decision to sit still and spend time with his dad. Splash
