OH MY GOD….CAN YOU BELIEVE IT….THERE IS A FASHION SHOW TODAY THAT WILL BE TELEVISED AT THE END OF THE MONTH….AND MIRANDA KERR IS IN IT….SHE IS ONE OF THEIR KEY MODELS….AND SHE TWEETED A PIC OF HER GETTING READY…..OH MY GOD….I AM FREAKING OUT…. No seriously…who gives a fuck…I am actually mad that I am promoting these sweatshop made panties and their marketing bullshit for free…I should invoice them when I am done staring at her breasts peaking out of her robe…
My name is Ajmin, I’m 15 and just like most believers, I’m devoted to Justin night and day, for the last (almost) four years: tweeting him, blogging about him daily, reading fan fiction stories, and other belieber stuff. I’d been counting down the last 100 Days before the concert in Vancouver that would take place on October 10th. Everyone I know, knows that I love Justin more than anything in this world. I never thought in a billion years I would meet him, let alone have his arm around me, and here’s how it all happened. My mom had made plans for us to leave right after school on Tuesday (the night before) so we could stay in a hotel near the arena and run around Vancouver looking for Justin’s tour bus. I was waiting for my cousin Gagan and my bff Vanessa. When I went to check my inbox, I had a message from BieberFever telling me I won the meet and greet contest (which I totally forgot I entered due to thinking I had zero chance at winning). I let out a blood curdling scream which sent my mom racing up the stairs, and then I told her and my mom hugged me . I got to choose one person to come with me, so I chose my mom because she means the world to me. After no luck finding Justin, we rested a bit and headed back out the day of the concert at 7:30 a.m. We found other Beliebers (Ashley and Raven), they were super nice. We hid in the bushes for about 40 minutes until a VERY nice man named Tony told us we couldn’t be there, but said he wasn’t allowed to tell us when Justin would arrive. Then he winked at us and said, “If I were you I’d wait at gate 7” and walked away. Later, Justin’s bus arrived and we all lost it. We screamed as him and Selena walked out. Justin blew us kisses, I thought I was going to faint . I had made a Believe sign and Dan Kanter liked it so much that he took it. Then it was time for the M&G. I waited in line with my mom, wearing a purple dress, which I sewed ‘JB’ in sparky material. I couldn’t breathe and I became nauseous. I kept repeating, “Mom I can’t do this. I’m not ready.” She comforted me, and finally Kenny pulled back the curtain. My mom went over to Justin, who hugged her, while I covered my eyes breathing heavily saying, “OH MY GOD, I CAN’T LOOK MOM, IM GONNA BARF” LOL and Justin was right there. As soon as I did look my breathing went buck, and lost all control. I think I frightened Justin a bit, and he had a look of genuine concern on his face. He hugged me, and said, “Hello sweet heart.” He put his arm around me, I could feel his pelvic bone on my hip, and he held me so tight from behind. I couldn’t even put my arm around him. He smelled like a BABY UNICORN!! My brain turned to mush and all I could do was stare at him, and he stared back at me, except when we took a picture I smiled so big, because I was really trying not to scream. Then Justin said my dress was pretty! When I got out, people congratulated me and I began to cry. I can’t believe I finally met him, I never thought that going unnoticed by Justin would ever pay off, but I love him so much, and although I am still kicking myself for not saying anything to him, he was super sweet, and I will never forget this moment. All my prayers were finally answered. I love you Justin. See the article here: My name is Ajmin, I’m 15 and just like most believers, I’m…
I’m Danyelle and I’m 15 years old. On October 9/12, I was siting in my socials class and decided to check my email on my phone. I was so surprised when I looked in my inbox and saw a message from BieberFever. I thought it was just a message regarding my membership but actually it was a message that made my dream come true of meeting Justin! It was stated with: “Congratulations you’re officially invited to attend the photo meet & greet on October 10, 2012 at Rogers Arena.” I was freaking out in class and immediately called my sister and mom. I actually thought that my dream of meeting my idol wouldn’t happen this year. I tried everything with the help of my family and friends. We joined all the contests, messaging the crew, skipping school during the pre-sale and general sale, asking each one of my mom’s friends, asked people working at the arena and we even asked our bank for help. I was getting so upset that I wouldn’t get the chance of meeting Justin. The email that I received from BieberFever definitely changed everything. I will never forget this and will forever treasure every second of it. That morning I felt sick but that wouldn’t stop me from making my dream come true. I went to the arena at 4:00 p.m. to claim my wristbands. While waiting in line, Kenny came out and I freaked. I was in line for about an hour and 30 minutes until I was next to the curtains. The moment Kenny opened the curtains I was freaking out and trying to calm myself down. I walked inside with my sister and some other girls who won from this radio station contest. The first thing Justin said to us was, “Hey girls, how are you doing?” I was still in shock. It felt like a dream but I had to tell myself that this is really happening. I walked up to Justin and gave him my present and letter. “Aww, is this for me?” Then he replied with, “Thank you sweetheart.” It was time for our picture to be taken. After I asked him if I could have a hug and he said of course. He gives the best hugs and it just felt so good that I didn’t want to let go. I just kept staring at him. He was so perfect. Afterwards, he signed my album. Before I left I said, “Thank you so much for everything and I love you,” and he replied with, “Awee thank you sweetie. I love you too.” It was the fastest few minutes of my life that it even felt like it only lasted for a few seconds but I remember every second of it. It was just the best feeling ever getting to meet your idol. Then it was finally time for the much awaited show. I had the best catwalk seats. Carly came out first and she did her thing. It was my first time seeing her live too and she was amazing. Without even noticing, the countdown for Justin had started. From the video montage, to the lights, to the effects, to the stage, and to the choreography it was incredible and beyond amazing. Justin sounded like an angel. With his performance on stage, he just proved to the world what a true and talented artist he is. Before performing ‘Fall’ and ‘Be Alright,’ he lifted his shirt twice. Until today, I am still shocked and amazed that this all happened and I’ll forever be. It proved to me that anything is possible and dreams do come true if you just believe. Lastly, I want you all to promise me that you’ll never give up and you’ll keep dreaming! I promise you that you’ll all get to experience that same moment I had. Your time will come. I waited for so long and never thought this could happen but it did. -@Danyellaaaa17 See the rest here: I’m Danyelle and I’m 15 years old. On October 9/12,…
Hey guys, my name is Noortje and I’m from the Netherlands. So my first MBE took place on: 1 January 2010 at 14:42:53. That day was the day Justin followed me on my old personal twitter, almost 3 years ago. My second MBE took place on March 27/11 in Rotterdam, The Netherlands on the My World Tour. I entered the BieberFever competition, I had to make a video where I was promoting BF. After that I had to wait for a while, one day before the concert I got the BEST e-mail ever. I was at my work secretly checking my mailbox till I found the mail from Brad. This is one of the moments I will never forget, I won the competition and was going to meet MY IDOL the next day, are you kidding me. I couldn’t believe it. So I called my best friend Marit who was going with me to the concert and we freaked out over the phone. The next day we went to Ahoy, the stadium he was playing at in Holland. Me and my friend Marit were there at around 2pm cause we couldn’t get there earlier. It was so amazing meeting up with all the other Dutch Beliebers, and there was a karaoke party and stuff. Around 5pm we had to head in to get our wristbands at the reception. After that we went with this big group to a room where Justin was. Some guy told us the rules and then all of the sudden Kenny walked in LIKE OMG , being the shy person I am I didn’t talk to him. How stupid of me. After some minutes the door to Justin opened, and let me tell you he was F L A W L E S S. Like I’m not even kidding or exaggerating. It was like he was perfect doll/statue, so beautiful I couldn’t believe it. We went in and he said hello, and me and my friend Marit, Sherice and Monique (two strangers back then) were SO shocked, we couldn’t answer him. Then we took a picture and he was like, ”Thank you very much” IN SUCH A SWEET WAY . I’m still drooling. I was flipping in my mind so hard. When we walked out I remember saying ‘OH MY GOD’ and then some girls came in and literally jumped on him LOL. Even though it were only about 30 seconds and I didn’t get to hug him or tell him how much I love him, it still were the BEST 30 seconds of my life. The day after I saw a press conference on my TV of Justin in Belgium and he was talking about how girls would show up at the M&G and would just black-out and don’t say anything. It reminded me of our meeting with him , hehe. Justin, thank you for everything. You continue to make me smile, proud and love you even more everyday. You’re the best. Can’t wait to see you rocking the Believe tour in Paris and Holland. I’m traveling all the way to Paris just to see you. Going to try my hardest to meet you again and get to tell you how much I love you in person. Remember me! -@DutchBieberTeam/@xnoooortje Go here to read the rest: Hey guys, my name is Noortje and I’m from the Netherlands….
My name is Simone, I’m 15 years old and I live in Sydney, Australia . I have been supporting Justin since mid 2009. It’s now been about 4 years. This year when Justin tweeted he was coming to Australia, my best friend Ashleigh and I were together at school. We looked at each other and both freaked out! Somehow we knew this was our year to meet Justin. We both entered every competition winning none, but we never gave up hope. We were at the airport when he arrived watching his car drive past and seeing him so close to us gave us a lot of hope! The next day we went to Justin’s hotel and stayed there all day. Most girls were mad because Justin didn’t come out but we just waited, hoping something will happen soon. At about 7:00 p.m. Jason Derulo came out and got photos with us, I’m not sure why but I felt like it was a sign saying to not give up! We didn’t. We went home that night deciding to go straight to the airport in the morning, incase Justin came after his Sunrise performance. We were walking around the airport trying to find other beliebers that might know where to go! We did. We found 8 beliebers and we all knew Justin wouldn’t come to the public entrance so we all went outside. A paparazzi came up to us and asked us if we were here for Justin. We said yes and he asked if we knew anything about when he would be here and we told him we didn’t. He then told us the time Justin’s flight was leaving and that wasn’t until 6:40pm. We asked why he was telling us all this and he replied saying, “He’s your idol, not mine, you’s are the fans and deserve to see him, all I need is a photo!” He ended up being right. Ashleigh and I had to go home to get changed, luckily I only live 10 minutes from the airport. We got back and more beliebers were there! At about 5:15 p.m. a black car (which we all knew was Justin’s) came into the area. Moshe got out of the car and got some of Justin’s bags. Justin and Selena open both of their doors and walk out. Justin started walking straight towards us and I couldn’t believe my eyes! After 4 years was I finally going to meet him?! The girls surrounded Justin and I couldn’t get to him. Everyone kept pushing and it was hard, I started talking to Moshe and I asked if he thinks I would meet him and get a photo. He looked straight into my eyes and promised me I would. I believed him, he was trying to push my closer to Justin which I was so thankful for! Although Justin started walking away saying goodbye, I looked at Moshe and he looked at me, grabbed my arm told me to get a picture with Justin. My hand was shaking when I was trying to take the photo, Justin grabbed my hand and placed his finger on mine taking the photo with me so my hand would stop shaking! I told him I loved him and he told me he loved me too. I hugged him quickly and he hugged me back! After that Justin left to catch his plane! I didn’t cry when I was with him. I was so calm with him, he made me feel so comfortable and special. When Justin left, I looked around trying to find Ashleigh! She was also trying to find me, we both looked at each other and ran into each others arms crying. I hugged the girls we met in the morning and I talk to one of them everyday, Katherine. Everyday I am grateful for those moments. It was the best day of my life. He was so sweet and amazing. If I could, I’d relive that day all the time. -@justinsaussie See the original post here: My name is Simone, I’m 15 years old and I live in Sydney,…
My name is Ellie, I’m 15 years old and I’m from Liverpool, UK. From the moment I saw Justin, I’ve always been a belieber. I cannot imagine my life without him, he is honestly my everything. My friends and I found out that Justin would be in the UK doing a book signing on the 12th of September 2012. We knew that this was too much of an opportunity to miss. The day the wristbands to meet Justin came on sale, we weren’t quick enough so we didn’t get one, we were SO upset. We knew that we had to travel to London no matter what because we were willing to do ANYTHING to meet Justin. On Wednesday the 12th of September, my friends Michka, Jessie, Beth, Matthew and I traveled 6 hours to London; not knowing where to go or what we were going to do when we got there. On that day it felt as though everything was going wrong. First we missed our train, so we had to get the train to Birmingham and then another train to London. By this point we had no hope that we was going to meet Justin. My friend texted me telling me that he was staying at the Langham Hotel. We got so excited starting to believe that we’d meet him. We got to London and as soon as we got off the train, we got the tube straight to the hotel. We basically ran around London asking every person we saw for directions. There was about 50 fans at the hotel at the time so we stood behind the barrier waiting. After not long of waiting, Dan Kanter came out of the hotel (which for us confirmed that Justin was actually in there!) We had bought Dan a present which was a guitar keyring with the UK flag on it. We screamed, “Dan we have got you a present” and he walked straight over thanking us for it, he is super cute. After waiting a little longer, Moshe walked out of the hotel, followed by Kenny, Alfredo and Justin. We all went crazy, screaming and some fans ran around the barrier and ran at Justin, he looked so scared! My friend Michka asked him for a hug and he said, “Only if you get behind the barrier”. Justin ran back in the hotel which made me think that we weren’t going to meet him. I was so angry at the people who ruined it for everyone else by literally attacking him. Kenny came out and made sure we were all calm and behind the barrier. We promised Kenny that we’d stay behind it. Justin came back out of the hotel, walking straight over to us. Everything around me just froze, I was just focused on Justin, it was like a dream. I literally could not believe what was happening. Through all the years I have spent supporting and loving Justin, the one thing I have wanted to do most is hug him. He came along to each person and got a picture with everyone. He went to my friend Kerris, then my friend Michka and I knew I was next. My heart was pounding so fast. I knew that I had to control myself or I would ruin it and regret it for the rest of my life. Just before Justin got to me, Alfredo was standing in front of me, I shouted him and he turned around and looked at me. I had bought him Oreos so I gave them to him and he gave me the cutest smile and said, “Awwwww thank you.” As Justin came to me, the first thing I did was lean over the barrier with my arms out and hug him. He was so delicate and fragile, I felt like he was going to break. We got a picture and all I kept saying was, “I love you Justin.” He looked right in my eyes and gave me the biggest, most cutest smile I have ever seen. I just broke down in tears. As he was getting a picture with my friend Beth next to me, I just had the urge to stroke his hair, so I did . It was so soft. It was honestly the best thing that has ever happened to me, I’ll never fully believe that it actually happened. After Justin got pictures with everyone else, he got in his car and drove away. Me and my two friends Michka and Jessie chased the car for miles before eventually giving up. We were all so so happy and could not stop crying. Then we were told that Justin’s next destination was Maida Vale Studios which was quite far away but we didn’t care. We ran to the tube station and got the next tube there. When we got there, there was about 30 fans outside so we knew for sure he was in there. We waited for a few hours and then Dan Kanter came out again and we met him and asked him if he liked the present we had gave to him earlier. He said, “Yes thank you very much.” After hours of waiting, we heard screaming coming from another exit of the studios so we ran as fast as we could to get there. We saw Justin but only very quickly as he rushed into his car. We saw Kenny and Allison and told Kenny that we had no wristbands for the signing. He told us just to go down there anyway . We got a taxi to the Camden Centre where the signing would be taken place. My friend Beth and Kerris had a wristband for the signing so we were going to go down with them anyway. We went around the back of the building where we then saw Alfredo (who blew a kiss to us) and Kenny. Kenny came out of the building and got attacked by so many fans. As I was at the front of the fans, I was also getting attacked by people trying to get to Kenny. He then pulled out a few wristbands to get into the signing. My heart dropped when I seen them because I knew if I got one, I would be meeting Justin again. I had people pulling me back by my hair, some people pulling me by my shoulders just to get to Kenny. Kenny looked down at me and told everyone to get off me! When they did, he looked at me and smiled and gave me a wristband! I cant even explain how I felt. I just broke down in tears thanking Kenny and screaming. I ran straight over to my friend Kerris who had a wristband and was just hugging her in tears. I couldn’t believe I was going to meet Justin for the second time in ONE DAY. When we got inside the signing, I was given a copy of Justin’s new book ‘Just Getting Started.’ We walked up the steps of the stage and saw Justin and Alfredo sitting at a table, meeting fans and signing books. Kenny was standing to my right. As I got to him, I said, “Kenny thank you so much for giving me a wristband.” He put his arm around me and said, “No problem, no problem, it’s okay” and then told me to stop crying and that I was supposed to be happy. I wiped my tears and told him that I was happy. As I got to the table, I gave Justin my book, he signed it and looked up and me. I can’t even explain how it feels to have Justin look right at you, it’s the best feeling ever. He grabbed hold of my hand and I said, “I love you so much.” He smiled and said, “Nooo…I love YOU so much.” I kept hold of his hands and then burst out into tears. When I got out, I saw my friends and we were all just hugging and crying. It was honestly the best day of my entire life. I have never been so happy. I’m so grateful for everything thats happened to me and hope that every belieber gets to experience something amazing with Justin just like I did. I’ve also got third row tickets for Believe tour which I’m so unbelievably excited about OH MY GOD. Thank you for reading my Bieber experience. -Ellie @ jbieberisahero The rest is here: My name is Ellie, I’m 15 years old and I’m from Liverpool, UK….
President of the Pipe Dreams 5 Lies Mitt Romney Told During The First Presidential Debate While President Obama didn’t exactly bring his A game for the first Presidential debate that took place earlier this week, Republican Presidential candidate Mitt Romney brought his ‘F’ game……F as in full of isht. The good folks over at Rolling Stone Magazine pulled together this list of lies Money Mitt told during the debate: 1. “I don’t have a $5 trillion tax cut.” Romney flatly lied about the cost of his proposal to cut income-tax rates across the board by another 20 percent (undercutting even the low rates of the Bush tax cuts). Independent economists at the Tax Policy Center have shown that the price tag for those cuts is $360 billion in the first year, a cost that extrapolates to $5 trillion over a decade. 2. “I will not reduce the taxes paid by high-income Americans.” Romney has claimed that he will pay for his tax cuts by closing a variety of loopholes and deductions. The factual problem? Romney hasn’t named a single loophole he’s willing to close; worse, there’s no way to offset $5 trillion in tax cuts even if you get rid of the entire universe of deductions for the wealthy that Romney has not put off the table (like the carried interest loophole or the 15 percent capital gains rate.) The Tax Policy Center report concludes that Romney’s proposal would create a “net tax cut for high-income tax payers and a net tax increase for lower- and or middle-income taxpayers.” Moreover, some of Romney’s tax cuts are micro-targeted at American dynasties, particularly his proposal to eliminate the estate tax, which would reduce his own sons’ tax burden by tens of millions of dollars. 3. “We’ve got 23 million people out of work or [who have] stopped looking for work in this country.” Romney is lying for effect. The nation’s crisis of joblessness is bad, but not 23 million bad. The official figure is 12.5 million unemployed. An additional 2.6 million Americans have stopped looking for jobs. How does Romney gin up his eye-popping 23 million figure? He counts more than 8 million wage earners who hold part-time jobs as also being “out of work.” 4. Obamacare “puts in place an unelected board that’s going to tell people ultimately what kind of treatments they can have.” Romney is reviving Sarah Palin’s old death panels lie here. Obamacare does establish an Independent Payment Advisory Board to help constrain the growth of Medicare spending. The body has no authority to dictate the practices of the private insurance marketplace. And the law also makes explicit that this body is banned from rationing care or limiting medical benefits to seniors. 5. “Pre-existing conditions are covered under my plan.” In the biggest whopper of the night, Romney suggested that his health care proposal would guarantee coverage to Americans with pre-existing conditions. This is just not true. Under Romney, if you have a pre-existing condition and have been unable to obtain insurance coverage or if you have had to drop coverage for more than 90 days because you lost your job or couldn’t afford the premiums, you would be shit out of luck. Insurance companies could continue to discriminate and deny you coverage, as even Romney’s top adviser conceded after the debate was over. Loud and wrong, Mitt. Loud and wrong.
Dear Bossip , I’m a 32-year old woman working in corporate America and I’m doing really well for myself. Ok, I met this guy (let’s call him ‘Andy’) in 2008 through a dating website and we hit it off really well, until I found out through a mutual friend (talk about six degrees of separation), that he was “unhappily” married. I broke it off immediately, despite the fact he said that he was separated and living in another state from his wife. (Thank GOD I didn’t sleep with him). My gut told me to break it off and I did. He tried calling me, sending me flowers, and showing up at my job unannounced for almost 3 months until he gave up. I moved on with my life and focused on myself. I left the dating websites alone after I kept having one bad date after another. In late 2010, I leave my company for another company who’s offering me a much better position, better hours, and a very much better salary. But, there’s one problem: I’m going to be Andy’s manager (Can you say awkward?). He’s now seeing this woman at our company who works in a different department. Every time he gets a chance he talks about her to other people around me. I’m not going to lie, it kind of hurt because I do have feelings for him but I refuse to give him the satisfaction of knowing. About 9 months later I start to receive flowers, candy, and jewelry from a secret admirer and I’m sure it’s him because he’s the only person who knows my favorite kind of jewelry and flowers. Plus, the flowers came from the same company he used back in 2008. He finally admits it’s him and I lied to him and said I had no feelings for him, plus he’s seeing someone else and we work together, so it’s not going to work. I told him if he brings it up again I’ll be forced to let HR know. Let’s just say he stopped everything all together. About another 6 months later he quits his job and as soon as he quits his job he tries to pursue me yet again. Foolishly, I’ve been accepting his phone calls and text messages. He’s no longer seeing the other woman at my job and admitted to her that he has feelings for me. He also tells me his divorce became final in the middle of 2009, but he’s since had a son by another women (let’s call her ‘Robin’) that he’s not with. We start seeing each other again and I’m having the time of my life. He takes me everywhere. He’s very attentive and he never once pressured me for sex. He introduced me to everyone in his family, including his adorable son who I absolutely love. I feel he’s the man of my dreams. I decided to take the relationship to another level by getting physical with him and I’m not going to lie, the sex is absolutely phenomenal. Just as soon as our relationship is doing well I get a call from Robin and she tells me she’s 8 months pregnant with his child. I’m upset, but at this point in time we’ve only been seeing each other for 7 months, so it’s not like he’s cheated on me (at least not that I know of). I confronted Andy about it and he admitted to me that he knew all along she was pregnant, but was too scared to tell me in the beginning because he knew I wouldn’t want to be with him. Robin admitted that their relationship is non-existence and that Andy has never slept with her during my relationship with him. She only called me because Andy was taking too long to tell me he was having another baby. I’ve met Robin 5 times, and all 5 times we have been very cordial even though she’s admitted to me she still has feelings for Andy. Andy has since proposed to me, but I didn’t give him an answer because I’m not sure if he proposed to me because he thinks I’m going to leave him. I think it’s way too soon for marriage considering we’ve only been dating for almost 8 months. He’s assured me he has no feelings for Robin and their relationship was only a physical one. I’m not sure if I should stay with him because this is not the first time he’s omitted information of this magnitude from me. I know he loves me and I love him too. My question is should I stay with him or leave well enough alone? – Confused And In Love Dear Ms. Confused And In Love , Is there a man shortage? Really? Is there? Ladies, ladies, ladies – This is what happens when you have sex with a stalker with that bomb penis! He lays it on you and you lose all sense of sensibility because the “phenomenal sex” convolutes your judgment and you misconstrue love with sex. Ma’am, this man has been stalking you since day one when you initially broke it off four years ago. Didn’t you say that after you broke it off with him, because he lied about his relationship with his WIFE, that he started calling you non-stop, sending flowers, and showing up at your job for three months? Ma’am, that is a stalker. He’s obsessive. And, it happened yet once again when you started working with him and you started receiving these mysterious gifts in the workplace, BY THE SAME MAN you broke it off with before. STALKER! But, hold up. When you confront him about it, and you warn him about it he stops. Then, he quits, and starts the behavior, yet, again. And, you find this –ish flattering? You think this is cute? You truly are touched in the head. Why don’t you see what’s obvious and blatant? Why are you letting his nut juice damage the little brain cells you have left? Wait, a minute, let me back the hell up a bit and address these freaking lies. Let’s go ahead and call a spade a spade. He is a liar and he’s been lying to you for the past four years. 1.) Lie number one – When you initially met, on a dating website, he lied about being married. He told you he was separated and that his wife lived in another state. You discover the truth and end it. 2.) Lie number two – You work together and you start receiving mysterious gifts. You confront him, and he finally admits it’s him. 3.) Lie number three – His baby momma, Robin, confronts you and tells you that she is pregnant with his second child. You confront him, and he admits he’s known all along but didn’t tell you because he felt you would leave. And, you’ve been with him for seven months. So, in those seven months he never once thought to tell you the truth? He never once felt it was important to let you know that he was expecting a second child while laying up in you raw? Yeah, you’re having unprotected sex with him because you’re not the brightest in the bunch. So, now you’re asking me if you should proceed further with him because, in your own words you stated, “This is not the first time he’s omitted information of this magnitude from me.” So, let me ask you this, SMDH. In knowing he’s omitted very important, and key information, do you feel that you should proceed in a long term relationship with him? If he has a propensity to lie, deceive, manipulate, and omit information from you, and he’s done this over the four years of you knowing him, then what makes you think he is going to change now? Mind you, that two of those incidents involved two different women. Here’s what I want you to do: Ask to see his divorce papers from his wife. Ask Robin if he ever proposed to her, or if he at one time ever promised her that he would marry her. Then, ask yourself, “Why am I dating this man whom initially in my heart of hearts knew that he was not to be trusted? Why am I trusting him when he’s lied not once but several times? Why am I claiming love with a man who has lied to me over and over again? Why am I dating a stalker who has shown the potential to be obsessive? What is it about me that my self-esteem is so low that I’ve allowed myself to be with a man who is divorced, and is expecting a second child with a woman he claims there is nothing between them other than sex?” You claim you’re a professional career woman, but, yet your common sense clearly is something to be desired. You would actually consider being with a man who has continuously shown you who he is, and you are willing to overlook everything and dive in p***y first because he is blowing your back out? I’ve said it once, and I’ll say it again, d**k is addictive. It will make you lose your mind and do some asinine –ish just like that which you are doing. My grandmother told me as a young boy, “Always follow your first mind.” And, it is something I live by, and has never failed me. So, I’m passing it along to you. If your first mind was to end it with him and eliminate him from your life, then FOLLOW YOUR FIRST MIND. There is a reason your instincts, your heart, and your intuition told you to end it and leave him alone. Follow them. Uphold yourself in a respectable and dignified manner. You’re better than this, and him. Why would you knowing put yourself in a situation where Robin has told you that she still has feelings for him, she’s carrying his second child, and she and those children will forever be in his life, and if you’re with him, then they will be in yours too? You don’t have time for baby momma drama. It can get messy, ugly, and stressful. Leave. Get out now. Save yourself, your sanity, and your emotional well-being. And, why would you knowingly be with a man who cannot be honest with you? This is indicative of what you should expect with him moving forward. Nothing is going to change. Trust me. He is not going to change. – Terrance Dean Hey Bossip Fam, what do you think? Share your opinions and thoughts below! Also, e-mail all your questions Terrance Dean : loveandrelationships@bossip.com Follow Terrance Dean on Twitter : @terrancedean “LIKE” Terrance Dean on Facebook , click HERE! 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Even a French tabloid’s surprising publication of Kate Middleton topless photos can’t faze the classy, graceful Duchess of Cambridge. At least publicly. Friday, visiting a Mosque during their tour of Kuala Lumpur, Malaysia, Kate and Prince William acted like nothing was out of the ordinary in the least. Here are a couple of photos of the gorgeous, smiling Duchess: According to reports, the royal couple was informed of the scandal as they ate breakfast today, shortly before they left to visit the Malaysian mosque. The scandalous photos were allegedly snapped while the royal couple were on vacation in Luberon, France last week, and appear in Closer magazine. The pair stayed at the Chateau d’Autet, the private home of the Queen’s nephew Viscount Linley; the pictures were taken from a LONG way away. The couple obviously did not see any paparazzi as they sunned themselves on the balcony and pool of the estate. Now, they are “deeply saddened.” The magazine’s cover exclaims “OH MY GOD – the photos that will go around the world.” No doubt about that, but it doesn’t look like they’re bringing down her spirits. [Photos: WENN.com]
This week, your Labor Day holiday viewing kicks off with Tom Hardy in cardigans in John Hillcoat’s Lawless for the grown-ups and the PG-13 horror flick The Possession for everyone else. Well, almost everyone else; if you have eyeballs and live in the targeted marketing range of self-professed Teletubbies PR whiz Kenn Viselman, another new offering is jockeying for the disposable ticket monies of the kid-toting demographic out there. Its name is Oogieloves . And it’s coming for you. The Oogieloves In The Big Balloon Adventure is, like The Teletubbies , colorful G-rated children’s programming built around giant humanoid creatures, this time full-bodied puppet-kids Goobie, Zoozie and Toofie. (Unfortunately the stoner entertainment potential seems much, much lower here.) There’s no good reason for you to know what the Oogieloves are, though if you’re like me the billboards and posters around town have a lingering, disturbing effect. My immediate reaction to turning the corner to come face to face with one of these Oogieloves posters: WHAT ARE THESE GIANT FABRIC CANDY-COLORED CHILDREN-PUPPETS WITH NO NOSES? WHY DO THEY STARE AT ME FROM BEHIND THOSE BALLOONS LIKE PUPPET PEEPING TOMS?? DEAR GOD THEY’RE GOING TO EAT ME, AREN’T THEY??? And side note: Guys, just stop trying to make “Oogust” happen. Oogieloves aims to set itself apart from the competition by offering children and parents an interactive moviegoing experience: Here, the young viewer is encouraged to dance and sing with the screen characters as a gaggle of semi-recognizable celebrities (Toni Braxton, Cloris Leachman, Chazz Palminteri, Cary Elwes, Jaime Pressly) turn in cameos to keep the grown-ups from falling asleep/banging their heads against the seat, at least on some basic level of C-list celebrity spotting. I’m not a parent, so I don’t have much of an idea of how excruciating it is to sit through the majority of television and film programming aimed at the toddler set. I imagine Oogieloves isn’t any less torturous to sit through than your average kids picture. But there’s also a practical upside to the experimental interactive angle. “Instead of giving our children popcorn and soda and asking them to sit still during a 90 minute movie, we looked at the experience from a child’s point of view,” Viselman explained to the Sacramento Bee. It’s not just Baby Brigade night at your local cineplex; it’s playtime for a theater full of energetic tots who don’t have to try to sit still for an hour and a half, staring passively at the screen. Herein lies Viselman’s genius, if I may use that word (it’s been applied to him in the past for blowing up The Teletubbies phenomenon by fabricating the Tinky Winky gay rumors, and casting George Carlin in Thomas the Tank Engine ). Oogieloves , regardless of its actual content, fulfills a need that parents can’t find elsewhere – the chance to bring children to the movies without having to shush them, or wrangle them, without worrying about disturbing other patrons. Viselman teamed up with educator/Ph.D. Faith Rogow to pen a Parents Guide to Oogieloves ( pdf ) that outlines all the ways in which Oogieloves is an enriching educational film for 3-5 year-olds. It doesn’t include my favorite trivia bit about this whole Oogieloves business: That Viselman concocted the idea after going to a Tyler Perry movie and noticing how members of the audience were super into talking back to the screen. So if you find yourself dragged along to see Christopher Lloyd flamenco dancing with giant scary puppet spawn this week, you know who to blame/thank. ( Oogieloves is directed by Matthew Diamond, whose 1998 Academy Award nomination for Best Documentary for the Paul Taylor dance doc Dancemaker , amazingly enough, lends the pic some Oscar cred.) So what the good God is Oogieloves to any of us without children to entertain? I boil it down to the famous people trapped in this ultimate paycheck gig, even if some of them seem to be enjoying themselves much more than others. Let’s rank the celebrity cameos based on film stills and guess at who’s Oogielovin’ and Oogiehating their lives this week, in order of increasing enjoyment/decreasing humiliation: Christopher Lloyd as Lero Sombrero The front-runner of the Oogieloves misery contest appears to be Christopher Lloyd but hey, only a viewing of the film will tell. Even Piranha 3DD made more sense than this. Carey Elwes as Bobby Wobbly Remember Cary Elwes’ glory days? Sigh. Chazz Palminteri as Marvin Milkshake Fascinatingly enough, the Oscar nominee almost seems like he’s actually having fun, or at least doesn’t give a shit that he’s serving milkshakes to puppet children in a movie called Oogieloves . Jaime Pressly as Lola Sombrero Likewise, there’s no trace of sadness in Pressly’s face. I fully believe her dedication to the Oogieloves cause. Toni Braxton as Rosalie Rosebud On the other hand, Toni Braxton looks completely unfazed playing an over-the-top singer modeled after Mariah Carey . This could be her acting breakthrough. Cloris Leachman as Dottie Rounder And that brings us to the unsinkable Cloris Leachman, who appears to be having a freaking ball (as she always does). This is your Oogieloves MVP right here. Anyone planning on seeing Oogieloves this week? Come on back and tell us how it was. Follow Jen Yamato on Twitter . Follow Movieline on Twitter .
