On the heels of the bombshell Kim Kardashian baby news, Life & Style lies reports that Khloe Kardashian may soon following in her sister womb-steps. “She wants to have a baby in hopes of saving their marriage,” a friend tells the tabloid. “It’s so clear Khloé and Lamar are having issues, even if Khloé doesn’t want to own up to it.” It’s true that Khloe Kardashian divorce rumors have been circulating for awhile, but it’s also true that ever assertion comes from the mouth of an anonymous source. Odom was reportedly spotted chatting with a blonde on December 9 at Greystone Manor in Los Angeles, while another insider alleges he snuck two ladies into his New York City hotel room around Thanksgiving. But what better way to end her man’s flirtatious ways than to get knocked up, Kardashian is supposedly thinking. “If Khloé gave Lamar a baby now, she thinks it would really solidify them, it would create an everlasting bond,” a second pal claims. “A baby would cement them.” The couple has been open for months after its desire to procreate, with Khloe often talking abou t her fertility issues . If these two do have a child, let’s just hope it’s for the right reason.
Dear Bossip , First let me tell you I like that you are always giving it to people real. Tough love is the best way to get through a thick skull. Mr. Dean I am in a struggle with my mind and my heart. I have friend whom I have been friends with for over 12 years and I do not agree with most of her lifestyle choices. Normally I am not bothered by those choices because they do not directly affect my life, but most recently she has asked me to be in her wedding. My problem is I am a strong believer in marriage and I believe those who cannot be faithful should get married. My friend is one of those people. Since she has been engaged she has slept with two rap stars (one of them is also recently engaged), an ex-boyfriend, a friend, and she has had not 1, not 2, not 3, but 4 abortions. None of those pregnancies were by her fiancé either. I tried to talk to her to show her without coming off as a hater that she is not acting like a woman who is engaged to be married. But, it is like talking to a brick wall. She claims that once she says, “I Do,” that her cheating ways will be behind her. I do not buy it. The man she is engaged to seems to be a really committed man. They have one child together and she has a child from a previous relationship that he wants to adopt. Every time I think what she is out there doing I want to knock her over head because she putting this man and her child’s lives at risk, not to mention a lot of women have a hard time finding a good man. I am in a struggle with my morals and my duty as a friend. I do not want to be in a wedding that goes against everything I believe in and I do not think I can attend the wedding either. I am not sure if when the pastor asks, “Does anyone know a reason these two cannot be wed” that I won’t scream, “I object.” I am deep in my faith and I cannot watch my friend lie before God. So, my question to you is should I walk away from this friendship so I do not compromise my morals or just stand in line at her wedding asking God to forgive me? – Confused Friend Dear Ms. Confused Friend, Chile, mind your business. Mind your business. Mind your business. I understand that she is your friend and you are concerned about her and her judgments as a woman. But, she is grown. She is an adult. And, the choices she has, and is making are a result of something much deeper than what you hope to object to in her being married. Who knows what she is dealing with emotionally and mentally? Something could have happened to her as a child and this is behavior is a result of that, or those incidents. She probably hasn’t, nor won’t tell you about them because she may be too embarrassed to discuss. But, let’s discuss the fact that you have been friends for 12 years, and you mean to tell me that in all those years you did not say anything to her about her behavior and lifestyle choices? After four abortions something should have told you that something is not right with her, and she needs some serious therapy and psychological help. Also, the fact that she is sleeping around aimlessly with various men should have also clued you in that she is dealing with issues that are deeply rooted emotionally and mentally. Or, perhaps you were benefitting from her relationships and living vicariously through her as she was spreading her legs from the east to the west coast. If she is screwing rappers, and she is benefitting from those relationships, then guess who else is benefitting from them? You are! You’re her friend, and when she comes to you with some free tickets to a concert, or hanging out in VIP popping bottles, and she’s tricking off his money, guess who is right there with her enjoying those benefits? You are! So, did it bother then, or did you 12 years later develop some morals and values and think you’re better than her? So, she is getting married, and her fiancé may or may not know about her lifestyle or past. What are you going to do about it? Reveal to him what she has been doing and break up their relationship. Maybe he knows. Maybe she has been forthright with him and it doesn’t bother him. Maybe he has his demons as well and she is willing to accept his, as well as he accepts hers. Just because you think he’s a nice guy that doesn’t mean he doesn’t have a past. We all have a past. So, whatever arrangements the two of them, it has nothing to do with you. Their relationship is not your concern. Their relationship is between them. It doesn’t involve you or concern you. MIND YOUR BUSINESS. I’m here to tell you that interfering in someone else’s relationship is a recipe for disaster. You may have good intentions and want the best for all parties, especially for your friend, but putting your nose into something you know nothing about, or don’t have all the details or information about, then do what you do best, MIND YOUR BUSINESS. Because if you say something, and get too involved in their relationship, and they end up breaking up, and she tells him what you said, but they end up working things out and get back together, then guess what? You’re the a**ed out friend who butted into their business, and they both will shun you and not invite you to their wedding. MIND YOUR BUSINESS. If it bothers you that much what she is doing, and you don’t approve of her life or choices, then end your friendship. Don’t go to the wedding and you won’t have to be offended. Don’t sit up there in the front with your bridesmaid gown on rolling your eyes and sucking your teeth. Save your money, and wish her the best and move on with your life. And, unless she has asked you for your opinion about her life, and what she’s doing, and whom she’s doing, then you talking and giving your opinion and advice is all in vain. I am a firm believer that unless someone asks you for your opinion and advice, then you do not offer it. Sometimes folks just like to vent, or share, therefore, you should reserve all your judgments and opinions because it has nothing to do with you. It doesn’t affect your life, situation, or circumstance. If they ask you what you think, then say something, but until then keep your mouth shut, and MIND YOUR BUSINESS! If she asks you for your insights, then you can let her know that you support her, and you want the best for her, but you cannot support her choices and decisions because they are detrimental to her and others. And, you truly want the best for her, and for her to have a happy life. And, if this is what makes her happy, then as my grandmother would say, “If you like it, I love it.” Don’t take her drama and issues with you into the New Year. Leave them in 2012, and you move on with a new attitude for 2013. – Terrance Dean Hey Bossip Fam, what do you think? Share your opinions and thoughts below! Also, e-mail all your questions Terrance Dean : loveandrelationships@bossip.com Follow Terrance Dean on Twitter : @terrancedean “LIKE” Terrance Dean on Facebook , click HERE! Make sure to order my books Mogul: A Novel (Atria Books – June 2011; $15), and Straight From Your Gay Best Friend – The Straight Up Truth About Relationships, Love, And Having A Fabulous Life (Agate/Bolden Books – November 2010; $15). They are available in bookstores everywhere, and on Amazon, click HERE!
Miranda Kerr is showing off her holiday spirit as only she (and possibly a select few others over at Victoria’s Secret HQ) can really get away with. The Aussie beauty gave fans an early Christmas present by posting a racy photo of herself puckering up and clad in Santa-inspired lingerie on Instagram. “Santa’s little helper,” she wrote in a caption. The bombshell, 29, posted the two sultry Santa snapshot just days after she shot down reports that her marriage to Orlando Bloom, 35, is on the rocks. Kerr maintains that they’re closer than ever. We hope it’s true. Either way, you don’t want to miss these Miranda Kerr bikini photos we posted earlier!
More than a year after they separated, it’s now nice and legal: Demi Moore and Ashton Kutcher are getting a divorce. The actor filed legal papers today in Los Angeles Superior Court, with Kutcher citing “irreconcilable differences” as the basis for the split and with spousal support as a seeming non-issue. He is not seeking any from Moore and he has told the court not to deny Demi’s request if she makes one. Kutcher and Moore announced the end of their marriage last November, following Kutcher’s exposed affair with Sara Leal . Despite the bitter end to their six-year union, both sides have mostly taken the high road over the past 12 months. There has been scarcely any public sniping, just anonymous claims that Moore has been delaying the divorce out of spit for Kutcher moving on so easily to Mila Kunis . But it’s all over now and the two sides can legally move on with their public and private lives. Perhaps Kim Kardashian and Kris Humphries can take note.
Former House Speaker and White House hopeful Newt Gingrich made a surprising admission, saying gay marriage is both inevitable and okay by him. Legalization of same-sex marriage in three states in 2012’s election changed the landscape, and conservatives have to come to terms with it, he said. “It is in every family, in every community.” he said. “The momentum is clearly in the direction of finding some way to … accommodate and deal with reality .” “And the reality is going to be that in a number of American states – and it will be more after 2014 – gay relationships are going to be legal, period.” The thrice-married Newt Gingrich, a Republican social conservative, said he recognizes the distinction between religious and civil marriage. He and his Roman Catholic church consider the former to be limited to heterosexuals, but he has no problem with legal marriage rights for same-sex couples. This is a significant departure for Gingrich; just this year, while seeking the 2012 Republican presidential nomination, he opposed gay marriage. Stridently, in fact. “The effort to create alternatives to marriage between a man and a woman are natural pagan behaviors, but they are a fundamental violation of our civilization,” he said. He also signed an Iowa conservative group’s pledge to back the Defense of Marriage Act and to seek a Constitutional amendment barring same-sex marriage. A lot has changed since then, he said, both politically and personally. He spoke kindly of his lesbian half-sister, LGBT activist Candace Gingrich, and of gay friends who’ve gotten married in Iowa, where gay marriage is legal. Public opinion has shifted in favor of equality, he said, and the GOP could end up on the wrong side of history if it continues to fight the inevitable. “I didn’t think [gay marriage] was inevitable 10-15 years ago,” he said. “It didn’t seem at the time to be anything like the wave of change we are now seeing.” Gay marriage : Support Oppose View Poll »
Plenty of fingers have been and will continue to be pointed in the aftermath of the Connecticut school shooting, but could Adam Lanza’s parents have ever seen this coming? Their 2008 divorce papers reveal nothing that would indicate their son had serious mental issues, however, there may have been some warning signs. A mediator who worked with the couple recalled his mother saying she didn’t like to leave him alone and that his parents went out of their way to accommodate him. Marriage therapist Paula Levy said that during about 10 two-hour sessions, Nancy and Peter Lanza were respectful of each other and concerned about their son. She says the couple told her that Adam Lanza , then 16-17 years old, had been diagnosed with Asperger’s syndrome, an autism-like disorder. They spent considerable time talking about how to provide for his well-being. Peter and Nancy Lanza split up for good the following year, and were financially well off; In 2012 Nancy was to receive $289,800 in spousal support. Levy says the Lanzas agreed how to divide caretaking responsibilities and as a result said little about Adam; there was no mention of serious mental issues. Certainly nothing that could even hint at the Newtown , Conn., massacre. Adam Lanza shot his mother in the head with a rifle Friday, at the home where they lived, then headed to Sandy Hook Elementary School armed with her three guns . With a high-power rifle, two handguns and enough ammunition to kill nearly every child in the building, he killed 20 students, six adults and himself. Authorities have pored over computer, cellphone and credit card records trying to piece together the Lanza family’s days leading up to the shooting. Adam and Nancy are survived by his brother Ryan and Peter Lanza , who, in a statement this weekend, said that like everyone else, is floored. “We too are asking why,” he said. “We have cooperated fully with law enforcement and will continue to do so. Like so many of you, we are saddened, but struggling to make sense of what has transpired.”
Adam Lanza learned to shoot with his mother, an avid gun collector. Adam Lanza Used Mother’s Gun For Newtown Murders Via RadarOnline reports: Now Nancy Lanza is dead, shot in the face by her 20-year-old son who used one of her own weapons to commit the murder, before heading off to Shady Hook Elementary School and slaughtering 26 more students and staff. “She said she would often go target shooting with her kids,” local business owner Dan Holmes told Reuters. He added that she once showed him a “high-end rifle” that she’d purchased. Nancy Lanza also has a son, Ryan, 24, from her marriage to Peter Lanza. Both Peter and Ryan have successful careers in the financial world. As RadarOnline.com has been reporting, Adam Lanza, who many sources have said was “troubled” or “disturbed,” shot his mother and then went to the school where she’d previously worked and killed 20 students and six staff before taking his own life. The weapons he took into the school were a Glock and a Sig Sauer, both semiautomatic hand guns, and a .223 Bushmaster, a military-style assault weapon. They were all legally purchased by and registered to Nancy Lanza, who reportedly owned at least two additional high power firearms. Connecticut State Police Lt. J. Paul Vance said authorities are now “investigating the history of each and every weapon” that Adam Lanza carried to the scene of the rampage. Words cannot express the hurt of those families who were affected. Do you think the shooter would have done this horrific murder massacre had his mother not shared her obsession of guns with him?
Who knew Mario was even ballin’ like that? Turns out Mario Lopez’s new wife is making sure that she will walk away a happy woman even if she gets divorced. Via National Enquirer reports : MARIO LOPEZ will pay a steep price if he ever cheats on new bride Courtney Mazza – $5 million, to be exact. The 39-year-old “X Factor” host married longtime fiancee Courtney, 31, in a splashy beachside ceremony in exotic Punta Mita, Mexico, with their 2-year-old daughter Gia serving as flower girl on Dec. 1. But before walking down the aisle, sources say Courtney made him sign a prenup that penalizes him $5 million if she ever catches him cheating! And Courtney has reason to be cautious! Back in 2004, The ENQUIRER broke a worldwide exclusive with photos of lady-killer Mario cheating on Ali Landry with a bevy of hot blondes the day before they wed – and it led to the marriage being annulled after only two weeks. “Courtney isn’t taking any chances,” said a source. “She wouldn’t even allow Mario to have a bachelor party.” The source notes that Courtney and Mario “are incredibly in love and have been living together as if they were married for years. “BUT she’s determined not to be a casualty. She knows Mario’s a hot guy and that women throw themselves at him. “She decided she was in no rush to get married. And when Mario started pressuring her, she finally agreed, but made sure if he ever cheated on her it was going to cost him big-time.” The $5 million no-cheating clause represents about half of Mario’s net worth, the source says. The nuptials, which were recorded for a TLC special, were attended by Mario’s good friend, actress Eva Longoria, and featured the couple’s adorable toddler front and center. “Mario and Courtney are very happy, and they’ll stay that way as long as Mario understands the rules,” the source added. “Courtney’s determined to keep him a one-woman man.” Props to Courtney. That is one smart girl. And major props to Mario Lopez — seems like he was the only “Head of the Class” kid to get their act right in the end. WENN
Doesn’t Emile Hirsch know that you don’t need to water a cactus? Apparently not, as the young star was caught urinating on a potted cactus outside of Hollywood Hotspot Bootsy Bellows. Hirsch wasn’t feeling too shy as he whipped out his err – equipment in front of exiting patrons. It’s safe to say that given the late hours and red solo cup on the ground, it’s probable there were some libations involved. Head over to E! Online for the exclusive pic! Hirsch had a small role in the 2012 thrilled Savages and is next up in a Twice Born and The Motel Life.
Kim Kardashian’s new movie (yes, movie) has an official poster. The reality show and sex tape star is headed for the silver screen, and just posted the first movie poster for Tyler Perry’s Temptation: Confessions of a Marriage Counselor . Check out the tantalizing tease below … The poster isn’t much to write home about visually, but symbolically is a different story. Note the black snake in the shape of an apple and a woman’s profile. Woman, apple, temptation? There’s something there, people. We have no idea how anyone hires Kim Kardashian to be in a major motion picture (in theaters March 29, 2013!!!), but there is definitely something there. The film also stars Jurnee Smollett-Bell, Lance Gross, Vanessa Williams, Brandy Norwood and Robbie Jones, and is written and directed by Perry, obviously. It’s about “a woman who starts to get restless in her relationship and her choice to be with another man has a huge effect on the rest of her life.” Excited for Special K’s Tyler Perry movie debut ? Yes! It actually sounds pretty good! Yes, if Ray J makes a naked cameo… Not even at gunpoint. View Poll »
