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Caitlyn Jenner to Trump: Okay You Do Suck After All!

Earlier this year, Caitlyn Jenner affirmed what the rest of the world had known for years: Trump is terrible for trans rights . At the time, she still hoped to work with Republican leadership to avoid crafting such oppressive policies. Now, she has come forward and penned an op-ed to admit that she was wrong, and that Trump cannot be reasoned with. In a Washington Post op-ed , Caitlyn Jenner showed that she’s willing to admit when she’s wrong, even if it took a couple of years. “Despite the criticism I received from segments of the LGBTQ community for engaging with this administration,” Cait begins. Caitlyn has been confronted by other trans women, including her own friends, for her erstwhile support for Donald Trump. “I remained hopeful for positive change,” Cait explains. “Sadly,” Caitlyn admits. “I was wrong.” Two years after using her platform to endorse the current President, Caitlyn understands her error. “The reality is that the trans community is being relentlessly attacked by this president,” she writes. The recent edict from the DOJ that employers should feel free to fire their transgender employees is only the latest blow. Cait says: “The leader of our nation has shown no regard for an already marginalized and struggling community.” “He has ignored our humanity,” she laments. “He has insulted our dignity,” Caitlyn continues. “He has made trans people into political pawns,” she writes. “As he whips up animus against us.” Cait points out that he does so “in an attempt to energize the most right-wing segment of his party.” Since Trump has been unable to or unwilling to help everyday Americans with economic issues or in any other meaningful way, he just excites his base with bigotry. All the while, Caitlyn notes, Trump is “claiming his anti-transgender policies are meant to ‘protect the country.'” “My hope in him — in them — was misplaced,” she admits. “And,” Caitlyn continues. “I cannot support anyone who is working against our community.” As she mentioned, trans people are already marginalized. And Trump’s administration has made life more dangerous for almost all of them. “I do not support Trump,” Caitlyn affirms. That makes a serious contrast with her MAGA-hat wearing past. “I must learn from my mistakes,” Cait concludes. “And move forward.” Honestly? That’s a good op-ed. She’s right about what she says. While no one questions that Trump is a bigot, he has never seemed to have an issue with transgender people in particular. But the architects of these monstrous policies — from Stephen Miller to Mike Pence to Jeff Sessions, and others — have a vested interest in crushing marginalized groups. Trump allows it, in part because it will inflame his base. He also allows it because, let’s be honest, he doesn’t seem to really know about it, and was visibly caught off guard when asked about the topic. This is a guy who tweets at three in the morning. He likes being cheered by crowds, not actual work. But Cait should never have supported Trump in the first place. In part because she is trans, and her trans friends very publicly warned her that he would be a disaster. If she had been listening to women who had been out much longer than she was — if she had listened to Candis Cayne — she wouldn’t be eating crow now. But also, voting isn’t always about yourself. Cait may be rich and white, but she could have remembered that other people exist. It was no secret that Trump’s administration would be a nightmare for communities of color or for women. We hope that Cait will have her eyes open from now on. View Slideshow: Donald Trump Impeachment Party: Who’s Attending?

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Leah Messer: My Dad Ruined Men For Me!

Earlier this week, we reported on the news that Leah Messer had broken up with Jason Jordan after about six months of dating. While the relationship obviously wasn’t very long, the breakup came as something of a shock to Leah’s fans,many of whom were convinced she’d finally found love. This was also the week that Leah launched her podcast , fittingly titled Life Reboot . It seems that hitting the reset button and starting over is exactly what Leah is most interested in these days. And she’s apparently decided that the best way to do that is to come to terms with her painful past. In the past week, Messer has opened up about her suicidal tendencies and her difficult custody battle over twin daughters. Now, she’s getting candid about her tumultuous situation with her own father.  “I wanted a dad. I was someone who really wanted that father figure,” Leah said on her podcast this week. “I wanted that feeling of love from a man,” she added. “Two divorces in a row, I mean…” “I felt abandonment issues because I wanted it so much,” Leah said. “My entire childhood was…if you grow up without the other parent that’s something you always want. There was so much anger, all of the emotions I felt from being abandoned by my father.” Leah went on to reveal that as a child she held her father in the highest esteem, and it was difficult to let go of those feelings in adulthood: “I was a daddy’s girl,” she said. “As a kid it doesn’t matter what your parents do, you think they’re the best thing ever.” She says her father briefly re-entered her life after she found fame — but the experience brought nothing but pain: “When he finally showed back up, it was not good,” Leah said. “It was definitely a turning point. [I realized] I can love myself enough, and I don’t need him to fill that place in my life.” Leah hasn’t gone into specifics about her father’s past misdeeds, but a series of tweets from August of 2017 seem to indicate that he’s grappled with addiction: “When your dad calls and you haven’t heard from him in quite some time, do you answer or let your voicemail do the talking?” she tweeted. “It’s the same thing every call. Maybe this time he really is going to choose life over death. All I can do is [pray].” Here’s hoping Leah will eventually be able to come to terms with her father’s shortcomings as a parent. If anyone deserves closure, it’s her. And it seems that she’s taking the proper steps necessary in order to find it. View Slideshow: Leah Messer Breaks Silence on Jason Jordan Split: Where Did It Go Wrong?

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Leah Messer Breaks Down Over Disabled Daughter: Watch

Leah Messer has been dealt quite the hand in life, hasn't she? Not only did she get pregnant at 16, but she got pregnant with twins. And not only did she get pregnant with twins, but one of those twins was born with a debilitating disease. She also has two failed marriages under her belt at a very young age and she's struggled with an alleged prescription pill problem, but let's stick to that twin thing for now, OK? One of Leah's twins, Ali, has a rare form of muscular dystrophy . At this point in her life, the disease is really affecting her mobility. Ali has a wheelchair that she's encouraged to use at all times, and a helmet for the times she does walk around, since she suffers a lot of falls. But Leah isn't too big on the helmet . Or the wheelchair, for that matter. In this sneak peek from next week's brand new episode of Teen Mom 2, Leah talks with a friend about Ali's issues. She still seems to be in denial about the severity of Ali's disease, and understandably so. She says that even though Ali's supposed to use her wheelchair, she's never tell her that she couldn't walk if she wanted to walk. Leah even says that she didn't know if she'd ever be able to accept that her daughter's condition is declining. Watch the heartbreaking footage below:

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