As you can see, Carla Ossa here is one seriously hot lingerie model, but if the Colombian hottie really wants to take her career to the next level and become a future ex-wife of yours truly, she’s going to need to hit a few more boxes on my personal checklist. First, she has to keep doing more sexy lingerie shoots like this, then I’m going to need to ask her a few questions about kids, religion, divorce, politics, and where she sees herself in 5 years, and then finally, she has to meet my mom. Actually, I’m just kidding. All it takes is the lingerie pictures thing. So get to work, Carla, and we can have this whole thing settled by the end of the month. » view all 15 photos
Dear Bossip , I’ve read so many reader letters that I decided to ask a question of my own. While in college, I dated a guy that I met through a mutual friend. I initially wasn’t interested, but he pursued me and eventually won me over. It wasn’t until we became sexually active that I realized he had disgusting personal hygiene. After going down on me, I noticed that I had a strange odor “down there” and went to go see my OB/GYN. She said I had Bacterial Vaginosis, which is an infection and sometimes could be considered a STD. I was treated, but every time my boyfriend went down on me, it happened again. I ended up with at least 3 other BV infections. My OB/GYN told me that I had to tell my boyfriend about his dental hygiene and how it was affecting me, but I couldn’t find the words. So, I tried an experiment. I hid his toothbrush to see if he would notice. After at least 2 days, he never mentioned it and never replaced it. I was disgusted. We eventually ended up breaking up for other reasons. Fast forward to today, we have been back in contact and currently are in a long distance relationship. He came to visit me and his dental hygiene is improved, but still nowhere near what it needs to be. On top of that, he wears clothes with stains on them, coughs with his mouth wide open and doesn’t wash his hands! He explains it as, “I’m a real man.” His family says that he’s been doing questionable things with his hygiene for years. How in the world do I address this topic? – Germaphobe Dear Ms. Germaphobe , Ma’am! Why are you in a relationship with a “man” who refuses to take care of his personal hygiene? You will open and spread your legs to a man who is giving you diseases, and infecting your body with his bad breath and unsanitary ways, but won’t say anything to him about it? Does that make any logical sense? I’m thinking there’s something suspect and questionable about you! There is no way in hell I would lay down with someone for a second and third time and they are causing damage and harm to my body. Hell to the naw! And, no, he is not a “real man,” with his old nasty a**! A real man will wash his a**, brush his teeth, floss, use deodorant, have some decorum, and table manners. A real man doesn’t walk around with stains on his clothes, coughing with his mouth wide open, and not washing his hands. That is just nasty and trifling. How can you sleep with this man? If he is doing all of this, then, I am certain he is not properly washing his behind. And, I can only imagine that he doesn’t wear clean underwear, socks, and, nor does he wash his neck, ears, and underarms. How can he walk around for two days without brushing his teeth? Who does that? No wonder he has halitosis, and is infecting your vaginal area. And, what I don’t understand is that you ended up with three BV infections due to your boyfriend’s bad breath, and personal hygiene regimen, and you didn’t say anything to him about it? HUH!!!!????!!!! This man is infecting your body, causing damage to your vaginal area, and the only thing you do is try an experiment by hiding his toothbrush? What the hell? But, hold up! You break up and are now back in a relationship with him, and you still haven’t addressed his hygiene? I swear d**k is a dangerous drug. Women will put their bodies, and lives at risk for some piece of a man. You will jeopardize your health, well-being, and doing more damage to your vaginal area all because you want a man. SMDH! You have to be honest and tell this man the truth. Stop putting yourself at risk. It’s not worth it. What happens when you keep getting BV infections, and it does some serious damage to your vaginal area, and it prevents you from having children? Then what? What happens when it becomes incurable? Either you respect yourself, your body, and your well-being, or you continue to put yourself at risk. Is he worth it? Hell naw! It’s obvious he is not going to change. He feels being nasty, trifling, dirty, and not washing as signs of being a real man. He has a warped idea and sensibility of what a real man is. Therefore, I can only imagine how he treats you, and what he thinks of women. So, today, when you call or have a SKYPE session with him, I want you to be as gentle as you can be, and you explain to him what his personal hygiene has done to you. Share with him what your doctor has told you about his hygiene, and in order to move forward there will need to be some drastic changes in his personal hygiene. Share articles with him from Men’s Health, or other men’s magazines that have articles on how men can take care of themselves healthily and still be a “man.” Let him know it’s okay to be clean, and to practice a daily hygienic routine that not only helps him, but also will help your relationship. Share with him how it makes you feel to have a man who looks sharp, clean, and put together. A man with fresh breath, and a clean after shower smell. I’m sure he wouldn’t want a woman who didn’t take care of herself, or wasn’t about keeping herself clean. If he doesn’t make the changes, and he is combative, or argumentative about his cleanliness, and hygiene, then perhaps you will need to reconsider your relationship. If he is not willing to take care of himself, and take care of his own personal hygiene, then, he doesn’t think much of you. A man who won’t take care of himself will not be able to take care of you. – Terrance Dean Hey Bossip Fam, what do you think? 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Nene got Kenya together and now Cynthia is putting the struggle bird in her place. Cynthia Bailey Doubts Kenya Moore Homeless Rumors These two have a history of snatching each others wigs back . The only difference is, Kenya isn’t “gone with the wind fabulous” anymore and can’t afford to buy her a new one. According to Cynthia’s Bravo TV blog: I was completely surprised and caught off guard when Kenya showed up at The Bailey Agency when we were moving. Kenya and I are still in the early stages of building a friendship, and we don’t really talk on a regular basis. At the time, outside of a few random texts here and there, I had not seen or spoken to her since the reunion. Kenya had no real reason to be upset with me about not reaching out to her regarding her alleged eviction. Kenya is a smart, successful businesswoman, so I did not believe for a second that she would ever do anything to put herself in that kind of situation. Therefore, I chose not to reach out to her when I heard this rumor, because outside of working with Kenya, her personal business/issues are none of my business unless she calls me to discuss them. FYI: I do not believe everything I read in the blogs (as I have been a victim to articles that were not completely factual myself, such as pregnancy rumors, Peter cheating on me, TBA school closing, foreclosures, etc,). Side Note: Kenya has never called to check on me about any of the above. Anyway, we all have a lot going on all the time, and if I want to talk to these ladies about anything that may be going on in my life, I have all of their phone numbers to call them. Otherwise, I was very happy to learn that all was well with Kenya in the end, and that she had the situation under control just as I would have expected. With friends like these…who needs enemies?
Take a look at this latest set of bikini pictures from Spanish mega-hottie Diana Morales and remind me again, why hasn’t Victoria’s Secret hired her yet? It’s an outrage and an injustice, and I’m going to make it my personal mission to make sure that Diana here gets a contract with the company. All I ask for in return is a customary 25% of net. Just to be clear, I’m talking about a cut of the pictures, not the money. » view all 32 photos
Kerry Washington Says She Didn’t Mind Rumors About Her Being A Lesbian ‘Scandal’ leading lady Kerry Washington has a new husband and is even expecting her first child, but before getting secretly wifed up by her baller hubby Nnamdi Asomugha, there were reportedly rumors that she was batting for the other team. via E! Online Kerry Washington isn’t one to be bogged down by the incessant rumors about her personal life. And in the latest issue of The Advocate, the Scandal star opens up about reports that she she’s a lesbian. “I like how people will post pictures of me with other women that I adore, hugging on the red carpets, and say, ‘See?’ Are we so uncomfortable with love between two people of the same gender that we immediately label it as sexual?” she told the mag. “I’ve never been bothered by the lesbian rumor. There’s nothing offensive about it, so there’s no reason to be offended.” Well, Ms. Kerry might not have minded the rumors, but we’re sure there’s plenty of thirsty fellas out there who would’ve been sad to hear that they had even less of a chance with her than they thought! Continue reading →
When the checks stop coming in for real! You know Dame’s missing them good old days! Via Page Six reports : Roc-a-fella Records co-founder Damon Dash trashed and abandoned his upstate mansion, leaving behind bongs and dirty laundry — but also jewelry and artwork, new court documents claim. The hip-hop mogul — who once said he was worth $50 million — owes $162,000 in back rent on the upstate Carmel pad, which boasts a music studio and pool. The landlord’s lawyer, Thomas Mullaney, told The Post that Dash “held the house hostage” for a year in a half while he dodged rental payments of $15,000 a month before he left it all behind. The carpets were ruined, and his “clothing strewn on the floor as if it were trash,” according to the landlord’s Putnam County lawsuit. “Mr. Dash simply abandoned the property,” owner Elad Yoran huffs in his lawsuit filed in Putnam County. Dash claims that he’s fallen on hard times, but Yoran’s lawyer said, “When I look online, he’s rolling around in a chauffeured Roll Royce, and he’s riding in a private plane. “He’s not living the life of someone who is trying to keep their expenses down so they can pay their obligations,” Mullaney said. Yoran was forced to pack and store Dash’s jewelry, drug paraphernalia, clothing and art work that he left strewn around the house as if “frozen in time,” the papers state. Dash raked in a fortune when he collaborated with Jay-Z on the record label and clothing company Rocawear. As part of his lavish lifestyle, he reportedly owned 1,300 different pairs of shoes, a $400,000 Maybach and items of clothing that were worn once and then donated. He said in court papers that he was no longer interested in the country house because it was too cold up north. But Dash insisted that he doesn’t even have enough money now to pick up his items in storage, court papers. He owed $2 million in unpaid taxes to New York state in 2009 and is fighting against a garnishment of his wages after he defaulted on a $238,078 loan to a garment-industry lender. The garnishments “have caused severe financial hardship that has not only made it nearly impossible for me to maintain my businesses, they have caused me to fall behind on my personal expenses including my rent payments for my only residence,” Dash testified in May. He also blamed his financial woes on child-support payments of $24,000 every three months to his ex-wife, fashion designer Rachel Roy, with whom he has two children. In addition to the rent, he owes payments to the maid and Yoran for packing and storing the items. Dash’s lawyer, Gregg Pinto, responded to the accusations in an e-mail, saying, “Elad Yoran reneged on a deal that he made and now wants to use bad press to gain leverage. Mr. Dash is not scared and wants to let a judge decide.” Best of luck to this landlord ever getting his money. Ain’t no shame in Dame’s game, running and telling the press how he got done dirty isn’t gonna make him move any faster. We’ll be shocked if a judge can even motivate the broke mogul to pay up! WENN/Bing Continue reading →
Wow! TMZ is reporting former NBA star Stephon Marbury has officially paid the remainder of the money he owed Thurayyah Mitchell, who is the personal chef he cheated on…
Wow! TMZ is reporting former NBA star Stephon Marbury has officially paid the remainder of the money he owed Thurayyah Mitchell, who is the personal chef he cheated on…
Maksim Chmerkovskiy may be an expert dancer, but he’s no longer dancing around his personal life. The former Dancing with the Stars cemented his status as Most Hated Man in America this week by confirming he’s seen Kate Upton nude . The two are dating. Kate Upton, Maksim Chmerkovskiy “She’s an amazing person,” Chmerkovskiy tells Us Weekly. “We have an incredible time together… I definitely didn’t see that coming and I think neither did she. “We enjoy each other’s company very much and like I said, she’s a great girl that I never thought anything romantic like this could have happened.” Rumors of Chmerkovskiy and Upton hooking up first spread in September, as the pair were spotted holding hands in New York City. But this is the first time either has spoken out about the romance. Upton has previously been linked to Detroit Tigers pitcher Justin Verlander, while Chmerkovskiy likely had sex with ex-DWTS partner Erin Andrews. Seriously. Most Hated Man in America.
Taylor Swift is featured in the latest issue of InStyle – and, you won’t believe this, but the singer talks in depth about her personal life with the magazine. The artist, who recently made waves by sticking her nose in other people’s business and hinting that Justin Bieber cheated on Selena Gomez, focuses on her own love life this time around and makes some startling admissions. Swift admits that her approach to men “needs to be changed” and explains: “My friends tease me about the fact that if someone seems bad or shady or like they have a secret, I find them incredibly interesting. That’s just a phase I’ve been in lately. I don’t think this should be how i proceed in life. It’s important to be self-aware about these things because you don’t want to end up with that guy.” Taylor describes herself as single, happy and relaxed these days and adds that she hasn’t dated anyone “in a long time.” “I’d like to think if you’re with the right person, you just feel great about things you’ve never felt great about before,” she says. “At least that’s how I’ve heard it’s supposed to be. I wouldn’t know.” Awww, that’s sad! Keep your chin up, T. Swizzle. Swift also puts to rest rumors that she’s dating Ed Sheeran, even though the singers are close. “Ed and I are such good friends. I have never had such a close guy friend before. It’s always kind of creepy because with a guy friend-girl friend situation, it usually feels like one person always wants more. That’s not the case here. If [a guy] wants to be friends with me, just know people are going to say we’re dating.”
