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5 things that will make you happier

“”The billion-dollar question is, is it possible to become happier?” said psychologist Sonja Lyubomirsky of the University of California, Riverside. “Despite the finding that happiness is partially genetically determined, and despite the finding that life situations have a smaller influence on our happiness than we think they do, we argue that still a large portion of happiness is in our power to change.” Lyubomirsky spoke here Saturday at the annual meeting of the American Association for the Advancement of Science. She and colleagues last year reviewed 51 studies that tested attempts to increase happiness through different types of positive thinking, and found that these practices can significantly enhance well-being. The results were published in the Journal of Clinical Psychology. Here are five things that research has shown can improve happiness: 1. Be grateful – Some study participants were asked to write letters of gratitude to people who had helped them in some way. The study found that these people reported a lasting increase in happiness – over weeks and even months – after implementing the habit. What's even more surprising: Sending the letter is not necessary. Even when people wrote letters but never delivered them to the addressee, they still reported feeling better afterwards. 2. Be optimistic – Another practice that seems to help is optimistic thinking. Study participants were asked to visualize an ideal future – for example, living with a loving and supportive partner, or finding a job that was fulfilling – and describe the image in a journal entry. After doing this for a few weeks, these people too reported increased feelings of well-being. 3. Count your blessings – People who practice writing down three good things that have happened to them every week show significant boosts in happiness, studies have found. It seems the act of focusing on the positive helps people remember reasons to be glad. 4. Use your strengths – Another study asked people to identify their greatest strengths, and then to try to use these strengths in new ways. For example, someone who says they have a good sense of humor could try telling jokes to lighten up business meetings or cheer up sad friends. This habit, too, seems to heighten happiness. 5. Commit acts of kindness – It turns out helping others also helps ourselves. People who donate time or money to charity, or who altruistically assist people in need, report improvements in their own happiness.” http://www.livescience.com/health/how-to-be-happy-100222.html What makes you happy? Is there something specific you practice to keep yourself in good spirits? added by: DeliaTheArtist

The Trouble with Alec Baldwin

Alec Baldwin is hot right now. He is an outspoken Hollywood liberal beloved by the media and cultural elite. But in his private life, he’s a bit of an asshole. What are we going to do about Alec? His career hasn’t been this hot since he came off The Hunt for Red October and was chasing Kim Basinger in the tabloids. He costarred in It’s Complicated which made a bunch of money, he keeps winning awards for Emmy bait 30 Rock which has a solid audience and is a hit with the smart set, and he is about to co-host the Oscars next month. Busy guy! But in the midst of this he was taken to the hospital after threatening his teenage daughter, Ireland, that he was going to kill himself after they got into a fight. Then, on the way home from the hospital he attacked a photographer . All this pales in comparison, however to the infamous voicemail tirade he left his daughter three years ago calling her a “piggie” and other horrible names. Sure these aren’t on the same level as some Hollywood meltdowns, but Baldwin clearly has a very troubling approach to parenthood. Why doesn’t Hollywood and the scolding celebrity industrial complex care that much that he yells at his daughter and manipulates her with death threats? Maybe it’s because they like his work and he’s a liberal. After all, the film-making establishment and Oscar voters forgave Roman Polanski for raping a girl in the ’70s because he’s such a “genius,” why not overlook the fact that Alec Baldwin likes to cuss out his kid? The culture isn’t so forgiving to other stars that it doesn’t like or who are too conservative. Crazy cult member Tom Cruise jumped on one couch and everyone is ready to write him off. And that wasn’t even that crazy, he just wanted to profess his love for a contractually-obligated lady. Still, we saw it everywhere with massive dissection about how he was mentally unstable, and it is continually brought up when assessing his declining box office draw. Even though he seemingly treats his daughter very well—letting her wear lipstick and high heels aside—he still faces the scorn. Many have given up on his movies not because of their quality, but because he’s a creepy, furniture-jumping Xenu-lover of the highest degree. God-loving über-Christian Mel Gibson went on a drunken rant about how Jews control the weather or some shit, and he will never ever ever again be an insider in the biz (though the $17 cajillion bucks he made on his Christ-torturing movie still make him a power player). That’s because his work is schlocky, he’s way too conservative, and he pissed off the wrong people. Granted he is still a raging prick , so maybe it’s best that we keep ignoring him. Baldwin isn’t nearly as bad as Gibson, but it seems like his personal life can’t affect his professional life. Why? Because everyone fauns over his work and he is such a supporter of liberal causes that the conservative Page Six has forever labeled him the “bloviator.” Welcome to the party, darling, treat your children however you want! The the success of million-dollar enterprises such as movies and television programs are based on something as intangible as whether or not the audience likes the star. And the power firmament’s decision whether or not personal behavior will affect career performance is just as fickle—it comes down to the fact of whether or not you’re in favor. But if a star is in favor, his personal failings will fall by the wayside in the hope that his professional successes (which stand to make a lot of people a lot of money) won’t be affected. What are we going to do about Alec Baldwin? We’re going to keep watching of course, knowing that as soon as he falls from the industry’s good graces, he’s toast. [ Image via Getty ]

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Happy Birthday, Paris Hilton!

Paris Hilton turns 29 today. While she has never been our favorite celebrity, we have come to respect Paris to a certain degree because she knows what she is: A rich hotel heiress famous for no reason. While wannabes like Kim Kardashian mug for the cameras, Tweet constantly and do everything in their power to stay famous, Paris just kinda does her thing. Since her infamous sex tape in 2003, she has marketed herself ingeniously and even cleaned up her image. The airhead bit may even be (kind of) an act! Happy birthday, Paris! [Photo: PacificCoastNewsOnline.com] She’s perfectly content racking up millions in appearance fees and product deals and dropping hints about marriage to beau Doug Reinhardt. Not a bad life. Click to enlarge some of the Paris Hilton photos we put together as a special birthday tribute, then leave a comment wishing her a happy birthday below! Also celebrating birthdays today: NBA legend Michael Jordan, alleged actress Denise Richards, Jessica Simpson’s pimp/dad Joe, Jerry O’Connell and more!

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Kim Kardashian Says A Little Prayer

Nervous? Kim Kardashian asks for a little help from a higher power while debuting her dress collection with Bebe in NYC. The reality star layered a leather bustier over a hooded grey dress and sported a pair of wrist-less leather gloves… Kinda weird, but hey…it is fashion week. Related Links: Photo Gallery: NYC Vibe

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Why Netflix Won’t Be the HBO of the 21st Century

For now, sure you might be thinking of canceling your cable service for a steady diet of Netflix. But Edward Jay Epstein explains why movie studio economics are crumpling the red envelope’s dreams of being the next HBO. Netflix, through the simple device using the post office to bypass video stores, has become one of the great success stories of the new entertainment economy. It now has 11.8 million subscribers who pay a monthly flat fee for an unlimited number of rentals. It gets its DVDS from wholesalers and even retail stores. It can then rent them because of a court-approved “first sale doctrine,” which says that once a person buys a DVD, he can re-sell it or rent it out. Last year Netflix took in $1.67 billion in subscription fees, but because of the high cost of mailing some 2 million discs a day from 50 distribution centers, it only eked out a profit of $115 million. So it is moving onto the Internet, substituting digital streamed movies for ones that are delivered by the postman. Subscribers get them on their TV via a set top box or game console without any additional charge. This “Watch Instantly” service effectively creates a virtual channel that directly compete with Pay-TV for the wallet and clock of viewers. Such a challenge by Netflix could also result, as Frank Biondi the former head of HBO, terms it, “a terminal career decision if you get it wrong.” The problem is that the first sales doctrine does not apply to streaming or downloading DVDS so Netflix must buy digital rights, which is exceedingly expensive for new titles. In late 2008, Netflix found a temporary way around this stumbling block by making a deal with Starz Entertainment, a subsidiary of John Malone’s Liberty Media , to sub-license the streaming rights of the titles it had obtained from Disney, Sony and smaller studios in output deals. Starz held it could sub-license these rights because Netflix was merely a “content aggregator,” but the studios took a dimmer view of this loophole. Disney, according to a top executive involved in the dispute, has warned Starz that it will not renew its output deal (which expires in 2012) unless it either cuts Netflix out or pays Disney a rich premium. Netflix chief content officer Ted Sarandos portrays the issue as merely a communication glitch, saying, “We have to fight against their fear that we~ll destroy the ecosystem.” Despite this well-meaning new-age talk, what is really at stake here is old-fashioned money. The most profitable part of Hollywood’s “ecosystem” is the output deals through which studios license movies to Pay TV channels, cable networks and broadcast stations. According to the studios’s internal all-source revenue numbers , the six major studio took in $16.2 billion from pay-TV and television licensing of their movies in 2007, which was almost all profit. So the threat of sub-licensing for Internet circulation involves a good more than studio paranoia. As for HBO, a subsidiary of Time Warner, it is the undisputed leviathan of Pay-TV. It has over 40 million subscribers, $4 billion in revenues, and a cash flow of $1.3 billion. And, unlike Netflix, it owns the digital rights to a large amount of exclusive material, much of which it produced. Over the past decade it invested heavily in original programming, creating such series as The Sopranos (which cost $2 million an episode) to retain subscribers. This made economic sense because cable systems paid it about $6 a month for each subscriber. As a top Time Warner executive who had authorized much of this original production explained to me, the name of the game is subscriber retention. So HBO is not about to cede cyberspace to Netflix. It’s in the process of rolling out an Internet service called HBO Go which will allow all HBO subscribers to get, as the executive puts it, “anything they want to see, anytime, anywhere, over their laptop, Iphone, tablet, Playstation.” Bolstered by its exclusive content, HBO will initially offer some 800 hours a month of programming a month. Its 40 million subscribers can get at no additional charge over the Internet the linenew titles HBO acquires through its output deals with Warner Bros, Fox, and Dreamworks, past and present original series, HBO boxing, and even so-called “late night” fare such as Alien Sex Files. Netflix, on the other hand, has almost no exclusive content with which to compete with HBO. Back in 2006, it attempted to produce its own original content through a subsidiary called Red Envelope Entertainment, but closed it down in 2008. The brutal reality is that Netflix, with only one-eighth the cash flow of HBO, does not have the scale to produce its own material. Of course, whether or not the Starz deal is renewed, Netflix can exclusively license programming through output deals. But competing in this game, in which the licenses for a slate of two dozen movies can cost in excess of a quarter of a billion dollars, could prove prohibitively expensive. Last year Netflix reportedly spent $100 million on licensing just non-exclusive rights to movies for streaming from Starz and studio libraries . Although this saved postage, Netflix still has to pay the overhead for its distribution centers. Adding hundreds of millions of dollars in output deals to this equation could wipe out much, if not all, of its profits. Netflix has brilliantly carved out for itself a niche audience who largely enjoy the convenience of receiving older movies, which accounts for about two-thirds of its revenue. It will no doubt continue to satisfy and expand this audience via mailing and streaming. But what it lacks is the wherewithal to do is to replace HBO. Edward Jay Epstein is the author of 14 books, including two examining the movie business: The Hollywood Economist: The Reality Behind The Movie Business will be published by Melville House later this month, which follows his 2005 book The Big Picture: Money and Power in Hollywood . Pic of Netflix envelope via Ross Catrow’s Flickr

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Jay-Z, LeBron James Explain ‘Two Kings’ Power Summit

‘Two Kings Dinner & Afterparty’ has become an NBA All-Star weekend tradition. By Shaheem Reid Jay-Z, Diddy and LeBron James at “2 Kings” dinner, 02.13.2009, Dallas, TX Photo: Johnny Nunez/Nubuzz Photo DALLAS — One event that’s becoming an annual NBA All-Star weekend tradition is the “Two Kings Dinner & Afterparty ,” hosted by Jay-Z and Cleveland Cavalier LeBron James and sponsored this year by Bing and Sprite. As much as it is a celebration, the event is also a way for executives and stars from all worlds to meet and share ideas. At Saturday night’s fourth incarnation of the event, Cortez Bryant (who manages Lil Wayne and Drake) was seen sitting down with people like New Orleans Hornet Chris Paul and even Dallas Cowboys owner Jerry Jones. “You do have a time in your life when you can hang out or recognize someone who has risen above the norm — significantly above it,” Jones said. “Jay-Z has done that in entertainment. LeBron is about that in sports and basketball. You transcend your game, so to speak. They represent that. It’s a privilege to be on the team with them tonight and be a part of the celebration.” Along with Jones, the event was attended by Chris Tucker, Magic Johnson, New Jersey Nets President Rod Thorn, NBA All-Stars such as Paul and Jason Kidd, and various executives from Fortune-500 companies. “You’re talking about two of the best in what they do: The best rapper/entrepreneur in Jay-Z, and the best player in the game with LeBron James ” said Kidd, of the hometown Dallas Mavericks, on the event’s red carpet. “You put those two together, you’re gonna have a great party. To be able to support those guys and is a great honor.” Diddy, a friend of both “Kings,” echoed the sentiment that Jay and LeBron represent the best of both worlds. “It’s the perfect combination of sports and entertainment,” Diddy declared. “Showing ways we can work together. Use our power in a positive way. They’re both kings in what they do and they’re combining forces. As entrepreneurs and young kings and queens, we’ve got to do more for the better of other people. I’m here as a king to support it.” Before the event, Jay and LeBron spent the early part of the day in the community. “We went to the Boys & Girls Club, gave them some scholarships,” Jay-Z explained. “I think it’s important for us, where we come from, to inspire people from the same neighborhood, same struggle as us, just so they know it’s possible. We’re living our dreams. So dreams are possible, but it’s hard work. We can be president of the United States, but everyone can’t do it. It’s a very difficult thing. [But we’re aiming] just to show these things are attainable.” “It’s all about commitment if you want to become something,” James concurred on the event’s red carpet. “It’s not easy — in no way, shape or form. You’ve got to commit to it.” Jay-Z said that it’s very necessary for young people to get an opportunity not to just see him on TV, but actually hear some of the story in person. “I never had these sort of role models growing up,” Jay said. “I never had anyone come around and talk to me. I had to figure it out on my own. One of my promises to myself is that I’ll never forget my journey. I’ll always give back and speak to people that are going through the same thing I was going through.” Related Artists Jay-Z Diddy

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Drew Brees and the number 9: Are there any coincidental connections? (New Orleans Times-Picayune)

New Orleans Saints fans would never doubt that Drew Brees’ hard work and God-given talent led him to an MVP performance in Super Bowl XLIV. But ask any Who Dat and they’ll tell you: There was some kind of higher power at work this season

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Hey Jon Stewart: The earth needs a new PR Agent. Snowmaggedon climate deniers unite!

Now that it’s snowing in the east coast in winter, we’re screwed. Global warming has once and for all been proven to be a hoax. Just ask Jon Stewart. (BTW, It’s almost insulting that Al Gore continues to be given all of the credit for raising global awareness about climate change. I’m ready for Colbert to start giving the youth of Copenhagen some credit for rising awareness about climate change.) But maybe we can take a moment to say, damn it Al, if you’d only used the term “climate change” rather than “global warming” we might not be in this ridiculous situation right now. Because now that it is snowing in winter, CO2 pollution deniers (because let's remember that this is what this argument is about) have reason to say that Gore is wrong because the earth is not boiling. Thank you Jon Stewart for bringing the funny (my coworkers just mocked me for the amount of laughs I got out of watching this piece): And let's not forget the people in Fairbanks, Alaska, who are angry at Al because they can’t put in pools. (See blog post for link.) But it would appear that everyone appears slightly moronic when they take the time to openly mock people. This insult to graphic design was sent in a joke email attachment between two scientists about climate skeptics, and was leaked during the climate gate scandal. (You can go to the original post on the Guardian to find out who is being referenced and why). I digress. The point is words are powerful. Global Warming was the term that the environmental movement agreed on to explain the process of CO2 pollution (remember the image of the blanket? “Carbon dioxide and other air pollution that is collecting in the atmosphere like a thickening blanket, trapping the sun’s heat and causing the planet to warm up.” It was a term created so people could develop a quick understandable image about what was happening to the planet. But the truth of the matter, when you look at the statistics, and where the real issue lies, is that we are in a pattern of radically shifting climate change combined with pollution and impact on the planet created by one species. So if we can get the thinking away from “global warming” and weather, we might be able to focus on clean air and clean water and that minor issue that we are in the midst of the 6th mass extinction. We are seeing repeated examples of this issue as we note the changing migration patterns of birds, as well as the migration pattern of marine mammals. And yes, the glaciers are melting. Oh, but then there is that minor issue that global warming patterns could very well take us to the next ice age. So where does that leave us? I don’t know. Given the amount of energy spent on finger pointing it feels like Kindergarten? I keep asking myself, in those last moments of life, what will we have to say to ourselves? Will it be, “I sure did spend a lot of time pointing fingers and telling them how they were wrong.” Or will it be, “I did everything in my power to take care of my planet?” (for videos and links head to the blog) added by: leahl

New For DSM-V: White House Press Personality Disorder

Two days ago, NBC News White House correspondent Chuck Todd was whining to the Washington Post that Barack Obama doesn’t talk to the press enough. Yesterday, Obama talked to the press. Today, Todd whined about Obama talking to the press. The point has repeatedly been made that the men and women who cover the White House are a needy, preening, insecure, irrational, and emotionally unstable pack of professional stalkers whose confused feelings of adulation, jealousy, covetousness, and hatred for the man whose decisions and behavior govern the contours of their careers has corroded into an indecipherable slurry of rage and bottomless longing. But it bears repeating! The sheer clueless gall of the reporters, including Todd, who whined to the Post ‘s Howard Kurtz on Monday about Obama’s unavailability to the press was astonishing enough given the long and documented history of complaints as recently as six months ago that Obama was “overexposed.” But for Todd to wonder aloud today whether Obama erred in doing precisely what he demanded that Obama do just 48 hours ago has to be some sort of cry for help—a howl of pain from a troubled man in the grips of affliction that we’ll call White House Personality Disorder. Here’s Todd on Monday, complaining to Kurtz about being cut off from Obama’s inner thoughts and deepest desires: NBC White House reporter Chuck Todd calls the situation a “shame,” saying the administration is trying to control the message rather than allowing Obama to be seen “unscripted.” Here he was this morning, on his MSNBC show, complaining to former Clinton spokesman Joe Lockhart about Obama being too omnipresent: I’ll be honest—it felt like he didn’t have a lot of news to announce…. Is it good to put the president out on a day like that, when you don’t have a lot of news to announce? This rapidfire and profoundly irrational vacillation between spurned desire and outraged rejection is characteristic of White House Press Personality Disorder, a variant of borderline personality disorder unique to the hothouse environment of the D.C. press corps, where the intense pressures to both love and hate, protect and attack a single powerful father figure whom reporters are endlessly charged with thinking and talking about deforms fragile psyches every day. The National Institute of Mental Health’s analysis of borderline personality disorder can be transferred quite cleanly to its White House cousin: People with BPD often have highly unstable patterns of social relationships. While they can develop intense but stormy attachments, their attitudes towards family, friends, and loved ones may suddenly shift from idealization (great admiration and love) to devaluation (intense anger and dislike). Thus, they may form an immediate attachment and idealize the other person, but when a slight separation or conflict occurs, they switch unexpectedly to the other extreme and angrily accuse the other person of not caring for them at all. That sounds very familiar . The “Obama never talks to us” complaints came on the heels of a universal round of “Obama’s performance in from the of the Republicans was awesome” hallelujahs, which came on the heels of an unrelenting barrage of “Obama’s lost his mojo” analyses, which came on the heels of a round of “Obama’s State of the Union speech was a powerful performance” reports, and on and on in a ceaseless up-and-down series of “stormy attachments” and sudden “devaluations.” White House Press Personality Disorder is also characterized by obsessive nitpicking and a tendency to impute significance to objectively meaningless data, which can be seen in today’s Politico story discerning a troubling decline in the number of times the word “[LAUGHTER]” appears in transcripts of the White House press briefings : In the first six months of the Obama administration, briefings produced an average of 179 laughs per month. Over the past six months, the average has dropped down to 89. [snip] “There definitely aren’t a lot of laughs around the briefing room these days,” says Washington Examiner White House correspondent Julie Mason. “Robert’s little digs and evasions have lost their power to amuse – particularly since we haven’t had a presser since July.” The piece was published at 4 a.m. today—early bird WINS THE DAY!—so we can presume that Politico’s Patrick Gavin, who chronicled the death of laughter, interviewed Mason yesterday, which means that she uttered the words “particularly since we haven’t had a presser since July” on the day that Barack Obama held a presser . What’s unclear from Gavin’s account of the mirthless briefing room is whether the missing “[LAUGHTER]”s are due to Gibbs attempting fewer gags or getting fewer laughs for the gags he attempts. But whatever: We know that the briefings are now morose and somber affairs owing to Obama refusal to talk to the press except for yesterday. This is what these people make us think of:

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Dubai: World’s tallest tower closed to public a month after opening

The world's tallest skyscraper has unexpectedly closed to the public a month after its lavish opening, disappointing tourists headed for the observation deck and casting doubt over plans to welcome its first permanent occupants in the coming weeks. Electrical problems are at least partly to blame for the closure of the Burj Khalifa's viewing platform – the only part of the half-mile high tower open yet. But a lack of information from the spire's owner left it unclear whether the rest of the largely empty building – including dozens of elevators meant to whisk visitors to the tower's more than 160 floors – was affected by the shutdown. The indefinite closure, which began Sunday, comes as Dubai struggles to revive its international image as a cutting-edge Arab metropolis amid nagging questions about its financial health. The Persian Gulf city-state had hoped the 2,717-foot (828-meter) Burj Khalifa would be a major tourist draw. Dubai has promoted itself by wowing visitors with over-the-top attractions such as the Burj, which juts like a silvery needle out of the desert and can be seen from miles around. In recent weeks, thousands of tourists have lined up for the chance to buy tickets for viewing times often days in advance that cost more than $27 apiece. Now many of those would-be visitors, such as Wayne Boyes, a tourist from near Manchester, England, must get back in line for refunds. “It's just very disappointing,” said Boyes, 40, who showed up at the Burj's entrance Monday with a ticket for an afternoon time slot only to be told the viewing platform was closed. “The tower was one of my main reasons for coming here,” he said. The precise cause of the $1.5 billion Dubai skyscraper's temporary shutdown remained unclear. In a brief statement responding to questions, building owner Emaar Properties blamed the closure on “unexpected high traffic,” but then suggested that electrical problems were also at fault. “Technical issues with the power supply are being worked on by the main and subcontractors and the public will be informed upon completion,” the company said, adding that it is “committed to the highest quality standards at Burj Khalifa.” Despite repeated requests, a spokeswoman for Emaar was unable to provide further details or rule out the possibility of foul play. Greg Sang, Emaar's director of projects and the man charged with coordinating the tower's construction, could not be reached. Construction workers at the base of the tower said they were unaware of any problems. Power was reaching some parts of the building. Strobe lights warning aircraft flashed and a handful of floors were illuminated after nightfall. Emaar did not say when the observation deck would reopen. Ticket sales agents were accepting bookings starting on Valentine's Day this Sunday, though one reached by The Associated Press could not confirm the building would reopen then. Tourists affected by the closure are being offered the chance to rebook or receive refunds. The shutdown comes at a sensitive time for Dubai. The city-state is facing a slump in tourism – which accounts for nearly a fifth of the local economy – while fending off negative publicity caused by more than $80 billion in debt it is struggling to repay. Click link to continue: http://hosted.ap.org/dynamic/stories/M/ML_DUBAI_TALLEST_BUILDING?SITE=AP&SEC… added by: xiola