GTFOHWTBS ! British Woman Says She Had To Quit Her Job Because She Is Too Pretty Via DailyMail Beauty is usually seen as a blessing. But for some, it would seem, it can be a curse. Laura Fernee says her good looks are so powerful they are ruining her life – and have forced her to quit her job. The 33-year-old science graduate says her slim figure and pretty face attracted unwanted attention from her male colleagues. She said her appearance meant she was constantly harassed and bullied, and has decided work ‘just isn’t for her’. Yesterday, she said: ‘I’m not lazy and I’m no bimbo. The truth is my good looks have caused massive problems for me when it comes to employment, so I’ve made the decision that employment just isn’t for me at the moment. It’s not my fault … I can’t help the way I look. Awww, how sad…smh ‘Male colleagues were only interested in me for how I looked. I wanted them to recognise my achievements and my professionalism but all they saw was my face and body.’ She said men left ‘romantic gifts’ on her desk and she was ‘constantly asked out’, which she found ‘sleazy’. ‘Even when I was in a laboratory in scrubs with no make-up they still came on to me because of my natural attractiveness. There was nothing I could do to stop it,’ she added. Note to women, men know what’s going on underneath those clothes. You can’t fool them. Miss Fernee studied science and medical research to doctorate level and began working in a laboratory in 2008. But she said she was forced to quit three years later because of the treatment she received. She said: ‘They [other women] assumed because I was pretty, I was stupid, so didn’t take me seriously at first and, because of their own insecurities, were jealous of my looks. ‘Then when they realised I was very good at my job, possibly better than them, they hated me even more.’ Yes, because you’re so ravishing and beautiful… Lucky for Laura, she has filthy rich parents who can pay her ridiculous bills. Miss Fernee’s parents – Catherine, 65, and Alan, 70 – inherited money from Laura’s grandfather, and now pay £2,000 a month in rent and bills for her flat in Notting Hill, London, as well as picking up her credit card payments. They also shell out £1,500 a month for her designer clothes, shoes and handbags, and £700 on haircuts. Miss Fernee pays £80 a week to work out at the gym and spends £1,000 a month on socialising. Laura’s parents need to buy her a damn seat so she can sit her skinny a$$ down somehwere. Image via Elmear O’Hagan Continue reading →
The lawyers defending Cleveland kidnapper Ariel Castro claim he’s not the monster the media is making him out to be. Via People reports : Ariel Castro, who is facing kidnapping and forced sex charges over the alleged abduction of three Cleveland women, will plead not guilty, his lawyers say. “The initial portrayal of him is one of a quote ‘monster,’ and that is not the impression that I got,” one of his two attorneys, Craig Weintraub, said in an interview that aired on Wednesday’s Today show. Added Castro’s co-counsel, attorney Jaye Schlachet: “He is a human being, but what is offensive is that the women and the media want to demonize this man before they know the whole story, and I think it’s unfair and not equitable.” While prosecutors have alleged that Castro, 52, operated a torture chamber and private prison, keeping the women – Amanda Berry, Gina DeJesus and Michelle Knight – incarcerated and often chained for up to a decade inside his Cleveland home, Castro’s attorneys say they know the whole story, which will come out as the case moves ahead. “I am aware of how he came in contact with them,” Weintraub told NBC News about the three victims. He did not reveal further details of the defense’s strategy. A not-guilty plea would send the case to trial, which could force the three women to testify and, as experts have pointed out, re-live what authorities say took place in the house. DNA tests show Castro is the father of a daughter, 6, with victim Amanda Berry, Ohio Attorney General Mike DeWine announced earlier this week. While Castro is kept locked in the Cuyahoga County jail cell in isolation, his lawyers say he is concerned about his child and that he is a loving dad. Speaking to TV station WKYC Tuesday, the attorneys – Schlachet also defended convicted Cleveland serial killer Anthony Sowell, now on death row for the murder of 11 women whose bodies were found at his home – expressed their concern about Castro’s receiving a fair trial. “Mr. Castro is extremely committed to the well-being and positive future of his daughter, who he loves and cares about,” said Weintraub. If he loved and cared about his daughter so much, maybe he shouldn’t have been raising her in a home where he kept HUMAN BEINGS as sex slaves and prisoners. SMH. These lawyers ain’t isht! Lawyers Craig Weintraub (left) and Jaye Schlachet
The mother of Kristen Stewart has gotten into a legal tussle with her neighbor, all because that neighbor insists Jules Stewart is raising wolves. And not the kind that take their shirts off and save the day in The Twilight Saga . According to official filings, Sue Bemi approached Jules on her property last month and screamed that her dogs were actually wolves who “belong in the mountains of Montana.” Following a heated exchange between the women, Bemi continued to harass Stewart… by making “howling sounds, growls, chirps and other weird noises,” riling up the canines in question. Bemi – who wrote her legal documents by hand – alleges that Stewart has referred to the pets as wolves herself, but the 61-year old neighbor ended up losing this court battle: A judge has granted Stewart a restraining order. Bemi must remain at least 100 yards away for a year.
These brothers are doing big business with some of the industry’s biggest and brightest. New Black Kids On The Block: PMK Customs Last year, PMK’s (Perfectly Made Kicks) work on the “Brooklyn Zoo” Jordan 1′s that Jay-Z wore at the Nets season opener at Barclay’s Center had sneakerheads losing their collective isht. The Cleveland, Ohio duo’s momentum grew even more when the internet fashionista’s laid their eyes on Beyonce’s “King Bey” custom Isabel Marant sneakers . Jay-Z snapping pics of his PMK custom Jordan 1′s In a recent interview with XXL the two up-and-coming designers spoke on how they linked up: Andre Scott: I started PMK Customs and had it rolling since 2011. As you mentioned, Kelton and me are from the same city and been there all of our lives but it’s funny because we never crossed paths until we linked up [for this]. Kelton has always been the who’s who, the prince of the city, the king of the city, the man of the city—all of that. [Laughs] You know, like everybody has always said he has a promotional company called 881 and they throw the hottest parties in Cleveland. So he has a great network and it’s like I had some people come to the office that were like, “Yo, you need to talk to Kelton Crenshaw.” I was like, Why do I need to talk to Kelton Crenshaw? I sent this man a couple of things on LinkedIn and he don’t’ reply to me so, why do I need to talk to this guy. [Laughs] Like I don’t even know no 881. So finally we got Kelton in the PMK office, this was last year. So, he came with a couple of other people and we sat down and talked and I kind of gave him a run down of what PMK was about because he started seeing these hip-hop emails come through [Laughs]. You know what I’m saying? He wasn’t really paying attention; he was in law school and had his own stuff going on. I really take pride in locking in with people so after he stepped into the office, I saw what everybody was talking about. How he’s a leader, great thinker and a great businessman. So I was like I’m not letting this guy go anywhere. I kept forcing him to team up; I would be like, “We’re going to do some collabs, Kelton Crenshaw line or something.” I was like you can’t go nowhere. And he was like, “No I’m laid back, I’m corny.” I was like, No, we’re going to do a line. So next time he came I had a whole sheet for the rest of the year, drops here and there and everything. [In the end] I kind of forced him to take part, so he couldn’t be like, “I can’t do this, screw this guy.” We got draped into a project off in Dallas and that was the first time we actually took a business trip together. During the trip, we got time to get to know each other on a personal level as friends and also more detail in what PMK had going on. Ever since then, since we signed up together we’ve just been taking it over from there. Kelton Crenshaw: It was really crazy because, I got a bar back home and the DJ at the bar would be like, “Yo, my mans got these shoes and clothes,” and I’m just like, Okay man, cool. Everybody got a clothing line or something and I just don’t really get off into that type of stuff. So he’s like, “I want you to meet him, he’s a good guy. It’s real, they need your help.” So I went and met Dre, I heard him out and we just got cool. I just like helping out on some cool shit, that’s the type of guy I am. And if I like somebody, I’m not going to be coming in there with like equity agreements. Like if it’s input and you need X,Y,Z— I was just helping out on some cool shit and we just got real. Like he said, he brought up some opportunities for me on some parties side cause I promoted for a long time since 881. We do all the LeBron [James] events, we’re actually friends and have been doing events for the last seven years. I’m like a real quiet dude and just kind of in the cut on the business side. I’ve been around for a while and just got to wait for an opportunity like this honestly. Hit the following page to read how Kelton and Andre hooked up with Emory. Continue reading →
Now that’s what we call taking a bite out of crime . Lady Bites Neighbor’s Finger Off According to America Now News A brawl between two Mid-South mothers got wild after police say one bit her neighbor’s finger off. The fight happened in an unlikely place. The women started arguing in the front yard of a Bartlett neighborhood that is usually peaceful. Police arrested Cynthia Johnson after they say another woman, Jackie Harris showed up at Johnson’s home angry because she said Johnson’s son was flirting with her daughter. Investigators say around 11 p.m. Monday, Harris said she wanted to talk with her outside. That is when they started arguing and screaming. Police said the women then started pushing and swinging at each other. At some point during the fight, Johnson bit off part of Harris’ right ring finger. Johnson told police, “I bit it off. O-F-F. Off and spit it out in the front yard.” “I don’t know what to say. I mean I’m really shocked,” neighbor Kevin Williams said. Williams remembered seeing police in front of the house. “We was coming home from work and we saw police down there,” he said. “We didn’t know what happened. It was unusual to see the police over here.” Bartlett firefighters found the finger in the grass, but doctors could not reattach it. Cynthia Johnson is charged with aggravated assault. Jackie Harris, the woman who lost her finger, said she did not want to do an interview or talk about it. Cynthia Johnson is out on bond but did not return calls or answer the door to her house. Ladies the next time you want to iron out your differences pull a Dr. Jackie from “Married to Medicine” and have a healthy “lemon squeeze.” Shutterstock Continue reading →
Jaycee Dugard and her mom both spoke of hope in the wake of the kidnapping drama in Ohio, in which Amanda Berry and two other missing women were found. Berry, Gina DeJesus and Michelle Knight were all abducted separately from 2002-04, only to be found alive and together Monday in a home in Cleveland. Terry Probyn, Jaycee’s mother, said of the truly remarkable story: “Another miracle happened yesterday and three girls are alive and I feel the same joy and relief I felt when Jaycee was returned to me after 18 hellish years.” “We must never lose hope. Keeping hope alive is what got me through 18 years,” she added in a speech at the National Center for Missing and Exploited Children. Jaycee Dugard, who herself was kidnapped from South Lake Tahoe, Calif., as a girl and held captive for 18 years, told an audience in Washington: “What an amazing time to be talking about hope.” Dugard said the trio of Ohio women found after apparently being held for a decade “need the opportunity to heal and connect back into the world.” Dugard said the tragic imprisonment of Amanda Berry, Gina DeJesus and Michelle Knight “isn’t who they are. It is only what happened to them.” “The human spirit is incredibly resilient,” Dugard, who was 11 when she was kidnapped in 1991, said. “More than ever this reaffirms we should never give up hope.” Convicted rapist Phillip Garrido and his wife, Nancy, shocked adolescent Jaycee with a stun gun, pulled her into their car and drove away with her. There, she was kept in a labyrinth of sheds, tents and tarps, and raped hundreds of times. She gave birth to two daughters; Berry has a six-year-old. After Dugard was found and they were arrested, the Garridos pleaded guilty to kidnapping and sexual assault and will never again leave prison. Monday’s discovery in Ohio recalled memories of the abduction of Dugard and Elizabeth Smart, a Salt Lake City teen kidnapped from her home in 2002. Smart, like Dugard, Berry, DeJesus and Knight, was found alive. In the case of the Ohio trio, neighbor Charles Ramsey heard Berry’s cry for help and aided her escape. Praised for his efforts, he says the girls are the true heroes. Three brothers have been arrested in connection with the case. Charles Ramsey Interview
The identities of the three men taken into custody for abducting Amanda Berry and two other women more than a decade ago have been revealed. Authorities arrested Ariel Castro, 52, and his brothers, Pedro Castro, 54, and Onil Castro, 50, who officials believe assisted their brother. Amanda Berry, 27, Georgina “Gina” DeJesus, 23, and Michele Knight, 32, all vanished in separate incidents near their Cleveland homes from 2002-2004. Incredibly, the three missing women were found alive last night. Berry escaped from Ariel Castro’s home about 6 p.m. with the help of neighbor Charles Ramsey. She called police, who rescued DeJesus and Knight. Castro was an unassuming man, a former school bus driver who liked playing with children, and loved music and his bass guitar, according to friends. He was also skilled at keeping a dark side hidden, said his uncle, who lived down the block from his home where three missing women bolted to freedom. “Nobody in the neighborhood or in the family could imagine that something like this would happen,” Julio Castro told ABC News following the arrest. Juan Alicea, a relative of Castro, said the suspect was intensely private and kept his social life outside of his home – clearly for this exact reason. “He’d never have anyone come over,” Alicea said. “He’d never had [a] social life unless they were outside on the porch or something, as far as I know.” Cleveland Deputy Police Chief Ed Tomba said at a news conference today charges would be filed within 36 hours of the three suspects’ arrests. It was not immediately known what charges the men could face or what roles the brothers allegedly played in the crimes against the three captives. To say the least, the community is stunned. In a good way, that the girls (now young women) are alive and in relatively good health, and in a bad way, that this awfulness all went down close by. Charles Ramsey, the neighbor who helped Berry break free when he heard her cries for help, said he’d barbecued with Castro and never suspected anything. “He just comes out to his backyard, plays with the dogs, tinkering with his cars and motorcycles and goes back in the house,” Ramsey said Monday. “Sometimes you look and then you look away because he’s not doing nothing but average stuff. Ain’t nothing unusual about him. Well, until today.”
Dear Bossip , I have been seeing a guy since February of last year and in October we finally decided to make it exclusive. It has been a relationship full with lots of ups and downs because we are polar opposites. Everything from how and where we were raised, to education, and et cetera. To put it in simple terms, he’s more of the street savvy guy while I am more of the spoiled girl who had an easy life. His different perspective and outlook is what made me interested in him. However, I realized that his outlook on relationships differ from mine as well. I feel so dumb in writing about this, but social media has become a venom in our relationship. When we first started dating, I did not have a Facebook account, I was going thru one of those temporary phases of privacy I would like to say. Probably weeks later, I opened a Facebook account, and we joked around about not adding each other as a friend. At that time our relationship was still so fresh, I didn’t mind. We went on a cruise, I posted pictures of us together, and let’s just say some people were slightly shocked that me and him were seeing each other. Like I said he is very different from what I dated. After seeing the photos, some people took it amongst themselves to reach out to me, and disclose his colorful history in regards to women. I told him about it, and we had a discussion of what I was told. I am not really into the he said/she said gossip, and I also believe that everyone does have a past, as long as it stays there. But I will admit that I felt a certain way about it. As we became more serious with one another, I suggested for us to become friends, and he was adamant in saying no. He used the excuse that Facebook brought a lot of friction between his last relationship so he vowed that the next relationship he will delete his Facebook. Mind you, I know a couple of the girls he messed around with in his past, and they were all his Facebook friends. Fast forward, he deleted his Facebook, however, I still had mine. He would casually mention I should delete my Facebook, but I was insistent in saying no. Now moving to the main issue, and unfortunately Facebook wasn’t the only social media site we argued about. Here comes along Instagram, same thing, but this time I never asked him about being a follower. I just requested to be one, and he threw a huge fit, and ended up deleting his IG. This behavior was beyond suspicious to me. But I eventually got over it. So, he did not have IG for a while, until he reopened his account in December. Mind you, he never told me he opened his IG again. I found out because a mutual friend followed him, and it popped up on my timeline. I was beyond livid. I brought it up to him and we just got into another argument. The whole point is according to him, I can follow him, however, he will not follow me because he does not want to see guys liking my pictures and etc. And, on top of that he will not put any pictures of us on IG because he likes his relationships to be private…but then again he has pictures of his son. Am I getting played here for a sucker? We are about to move in together, and we just started shopping for engagement rings (because I do not play roommates) but I cannot stop letting his rules of social media bother me. I feel beyond insecure when it comes to it and I always bring it up in arguments. I feel like why is he hiding me? I mean I know all his friends, all his family is following me and etc, but I can’t help but feel insecure. Should I believe his rules or do you think he is using IG for other purposes, like to be unfaithful? – Instagrammed Insecure Dear Ms. Instagrammed Insecure , SMDH! I can’t with you all and these damn social media sites. UGH!!!! They are truly the bane of relationships. People fight, argue, break-up, divorce, and do all crazy sorts of –ish because they won’t change their status to “in a relationship,” or, someone puts, “it’s complicated,” and you won’t add them or follow them. Just delete the damn –ish and stay off the computer! How about that?!?! Y’all are acting like you’re thirteen years old. I can’t believe that you’re moving in together, and talking about engagement, yet, you can’t even manage your social life together. He doesn’t want you following him on Facebook. He doesn’t want to follow you on Instagram because he doesn’t want to see other guys liking your pictures. And, he won’t put any pictures of you and him together on Instragram because he wants his relationship to remain private. Then, he is adding, and deleting accounts because you follow him, but then he secretly opens another one without your knowledge. (You’re out of your league) Uhm, sweetie, if you can’t see and smell the deception happening here, then that poor little spoiled girl routine of trying to date the bad savvy street smart guy will only leave you strung out on some hood street fighting other ratchet birds your man is sleeping with. He is internet community d**k, and you’re sharing him with the other ratchet birds who fell for his asinine bull-ish talking about, “I don’t want anyone to know about our relationship and I want to keep it private.” Uhm, hell to the naw! Why does he need to keep you private and hidden in the shadows? If you’re his woman, then he will be happy and proud to show the world that you are his woman. (You’re out of your league) These silly a** games are for the birds. And, I need for you to stop all that damn chirping. UGH! Girl, stop trying to be cute chirping through the hood, and get a freaking backbone. He doesn’t want you following each other on Facebook because he doesn’t want any of his other women to know about you! He doesn’t want to post any photos of you and him together on Instagram because his other women will find out he is cheating on them!! HELLO!!! You stated that your friends called you up and told you about his sordid past, and you knew he was from the streets, so did you not think him being a player would cease because he met you? (You’re out of your league) Girl, I can’t with you! I swear some of you can have everything staring you right in the face, and won’t see the damn STOP sign because all you see is, “But, I love him.” Your man keeps up this internet charade and games because it’s a place to keep all his women in one locale and place to remain in contact with. He creates accounts without your knowledge because he doesn’t want you knowing or discovering his dirt. If you’re shopping for engagement rings, then don’t you think he would be happy and proud to share that he found a woman he can settle down with? A woman he loves and wants to share with the world? Thus, he will end all other relationships and boldly post photos, status updates, and the like about your love! Girl, you can’t be this naïve. You can’t be!! (Chirp, chirp) You’re out of your league. Obviously, and it’s apparent to me that you are the naïve chick who is willing to put up with his antics and games. You are the one woman who is probably not like the other girls he runs through, but, you’re not quite the woman to settle him down because he doesn’t want anyone to know about you. Yes, you may know the family and friends, but he has created this illusion for you and painted this picture of him being ready to commit, however, his actions are clearly not those of a man who is ready to be a one woman man. (You’re out of your league) So, get into marriage counseling before you commit to marrying him, and before you move in together. If he hasn’t changed, or is willing to change his player ways, and if his views on relationships are still different from yours, then it’s time to move on. You don’t want to add a headache of social media into your life because you will find yourself snooping through his phone and computer searching for his screen names, anonymous accounts, and other things he will be hiding from you. And, then you’ll be trolling the streets chirping looking for your man at some other woman’s house. Either you both end your social media pages, and focus on one another, and your family and friends, or you have one account each, and you follow one another. But, either way, stop playing the role of spoiled naïve girl because it’s not cute or attractive. No one will feel sorry for you. Open your eyes to this movie playing out because we all know how it ends. – Terrance Dean Hey Bossip Fam, what do you think? Share your opinions and thoughts below! Also, e-mail all your questions Terrance Dean : loveandrelationships@bossip.com Follow Terrance Dean on Twitter : @terrancedean “LIKE” Terrance Dean on Facebook , click HERE! Make sure to order my books Mogul: A Novel (Atria Books – June 2011; $15); Hiding In Hip Hop (Atria Books – June 2008); and Straight From Your Gay Best Friend – The Straight Up Truth About Relationships, Love, And Having A Fabulous Life (Agate/Bolden Books – November 2010; $15). They are available in bookstores everywhere, and on Amazon, click HERE!
Here are tons of pics from the 2013 Met Gala at the Metropolitan Museum Of Art . Personally, I like my women to wear less clothing, but I know some of you like checking out which celebrity wore what designer. Just kidding. I know my readers rather find out if there were any nip slips. Anyway, if you find one, let me know. *More individual sets to come…
Here is every nerds favorite actress Emma Watson working the MET Gala in one of the better outfits of the evening. Unfortunately, poor girl can’t fill it out all too well. I’m not one to tell a chick that they need to purchase a set of funbags, but Emma’s bags are non existent and trust me you won’t get any fun out of those. Seriously, as I look at the pictures, it’s practically like checking myself in the mirror. Minus the women’s clothing of course.
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