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‘LHHATLS8’ Recap: Spice Is Tired Of Her Light-Skinned Friends Acting Like Colorism Isn’t Real

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Source: Prince Williams / Getty Tonight’s episode of Love and Hip-Hop Atlanta might be one of the silliest ever. EVER . Colorism was the main topic of discussion, but it’s a topic that just can’t be tackled in a one-hour vapid ratchet show, and that is why it was silly. You can’t squeeze a discussion as deep as colorism, which people are still in denial about, in a short amount of time on a TV show. Hold that thought because the other annoying topic is Tokyo Vanity’’s weight. Her ridiculous meet up with Sierra got her thinking about exploring her options with a personal trainer. She still gets defensive though, slightly less defensive, but she still pushes back when the personal trainer explains that just because she doesn’t have any issues now doesn’t mean they won’t sneak up on her by the time she’s middle age. Then they go over her awful eating habits and she seems frustrated by all the crappy things she can’t eat. This all seems forced. Tokyo Vanity will lose weight when and if she wants to. Now let’s get back to the colorism situation. As we all know, Spice pulled this stunt where she fake lightened her skin to go along with her song “Black Hypocrisy.” Mimi and Rasheeda had a hissy fit because they couldn’t believe that Spice would want to lighten her skin. Spice got irritated with them because they’re light-skinned and didn’t seem to understand how badly dark skinned women are treated (and yes, we know that light-skinned people experience colorism too). Later on, Spice reveals her plan to Joc and he encourages her to move forward. Then Joc links with Kirk and Scrappy for a ki ki and this turns into a terrible attempt to address colorism. Basically, Joc mentions what Spice is trying to do. Then Kirk says that as a dark-skinned man he can attest to people of lighter complexions being treated better and that colorism is very real. Then Joc asks if they would “smash” Spice. Scrappy and Kirk don’t answer the question, which could just be editing. Joc says he’d smash Spice whether she was light or dark. But like, Joc isn’t very picky so, oookay. That was not a shot at Spice because she’s gorgeous. But like, come on, we know how Joc loves the ladies—any ladies. Then we take a quick detour into Kirk’s new fake storyline. Basically, Kirk and Rahseeda are so concerned about Jasmine not being a “proper” mother to Kannon that Kirk pays her grandmother and mother a visit. He complains to them that Kannon spends too much time with them and that Jasmine parties all the time. Jasmine’s mom and grandmother tell her that Kirk planned to visit so she joins the discussion and shuts him down. Basically, she said Kirk is fake and doing this for TV and doesn’t spend enough time around her or Kannon to know what she does. Also, she feels like Rahseeda is the one who put the bug in his ear to even do this. She is correct. This is fake but Kirk and Rasheeda claim they want Kirk to work on being around Kannon more. Next, Mimi takes Spice on a Black History tour with the goal of showing her that “black people fought to be proud of the skin they’re in.” They end up in a Madame CJ Walker museum where they learn about Madame CJ Walker’s innovations, but they also looked at tools and products that were invented to help Black people get straighter hair. You know, to assimilate. Also, let’s not act like some of the very Black leaders who are revered in history weren’t colorist themselves. Look at the wives of a lot of the prominent figures in the Civil Rights Movement and even the Black Panther party. It ain’t no coincidence that many of them were light-skinned. *Coughs* Colorism. But going back to the museum. Spice calls out the hypocrisy in even the tour guide trying to skate over the assimilation issue and mentions that hair texture hate is also a component of self-hate as well, which fits into her Black hypocrisy theme. Mimi and the tour guide basically keep trying to convince Spice that these people were really just trying to control how they were perceived and nothing deeper, which pisses Spice off even more, rightfully so, especially because her home country is a hotbed for skin bleaching. This session ends after Spice and Mimi get into a heated argument again. Dense Mimi just won’t let Spice live in the truth. However, in fairness, though, Mimi (and everyone else) thinks that Spice is going to bleach her skin for real, for real. So that’s part of where the concern is coming from, but it’s not helpful to try to act like Spice is being ridiculous about colorism when what she’s saying is true. And then, the episode winds down with everyone getting the social media notifications about Spice launching her stunt. We all remember that photo that she posted on her IG that had everyone shook. Basically, Spice’s message is anti-colorism and pro-Black people loving the complexions they were born with. You gotta listen to the words in her song. View this post on Instagram Only if they would take the time out to actually “listen” to the words #Blackhypocrisy A post shared by Grace Hamilton (@spiceofficial) on Apr 10, 2019 at 11:14am PDT Anyway, Love and Hip-Hop Atlanta returns next week, and seemingly back to the ratchet rivers and lakes that they’re used to. RELATED POSTS ‘LHHATLS8’ Recap: Spice Paints Herself White To Promote Colorism Awareness ‘LHHATLS8’ Recap: Tiarra Gets The Cold Shoulder From Scrapp

‘LHHATLS8’ Recap: Spice Is Tired Of Her Light-Skinned Friends Acting Like Colorism Isn’t Real

Bust Down Shopiana: Blueface C-Walks His Way Through Sneaker Shopping With Complex [Video]

Source: Kevin Mazur / Getty Blueface Goes Sneaker Shopping We couldn’t understand around 50% of the words coming out of Blueface ‘s mouth here, but watching his point and smile at sneakers is thoroughly entertaining, we guess. The “Thotiana” rapper goes shopping for footwear with Complex and talks about his sports influences, his new Porsche and more.

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Vicki Gunvalson: SUING Brooks Ayers for "Malicious" Fraud!

For four long years, Vicki Gunvalson dated the now disgraced Brooks Ayers. Most Real Housewives fans remember him best for having faked cancer , chemo, and chemo symptoms. But apparently he also “borrowed” a tremendous amount of money from Vicki. And she’s now suing him to force him to pay it back. E! News obtained court documents that reveal that Vicki Gunvalson is taking her ex, Brooks Ayers, to court. “Commencing in or about 2011,” documents read. “Plaintiff Gunvalson and Defendant Ayers entered into a series of loans.” These were loans “wherein Ayers borrowed various amounts of money from Gunvalson.” She allegedly loaned him a whopping $184,899 in 2011. Later, she says that she loaned him $81,652 for legal fees that he paid over a number of years. “And,” documents affirm. “Gunvalson agreed to loan such amounts to Ayers.” Apparently, they were both in total agreement … back when the loans were first made. “Ayers acknowledged the balance due on the loans,” the documents read. “In the amount of $184,899 to Gunvalson.” The court papers continue: “Ayers agreed to provide an accounting of all sums paid to him in various income streams.” In other words, she wanted him to prove to her that he was making enough money to pay her back. And, of course, to show her that he was paying her back as soon as he could — and not squirreling away cash for himself. We know that you will be simply shocked to read that Ayers allegedly failed to repay Vicki. The documents also accuse him of having failed to provide her with any accounting of his various revenue streams. (To be fair, that’s probably tricky to produce when you’re an alleged con artist) As far back as 2013, the two of them were joined in litigation in Clark County, Nevada. The involved litigation meant legal fees and expenses, which ran through 2015.  You’ll never guess who got left with the check. “Ayers was unable to pay his portion of the attorneys’ fees and costs incurred on his behalf in the litigation,” the documents assert. “The Parties entered into a verbal agreement,” the papers reveal. This was a pact wherein Ayers borrowed $81,652,97 from Gunvalson.” This was all “to pay for the legal services, attorneys’ fees, and costs incurred in the Las Vegas litigation.” It sounds like she has yet to see dime one from that loan. The documents accuse that Brooks “failed and continued to fail to remedy or make good on the said account to Gunvalson.” Vicki suggests that he “had no intention of ever repaying either of the loans.” “Defendant committed the acts alleged knowingly, willingly, intentionally, maliciously,” the documents read. “And,” the papes add. “With the conscious disregard of the rights of Plaintiff.” “Defendant was in the superior position in relationship to his records,” Vicki accused. The documents continue: “Plaintiff reasonably expected trust and confidence in the integrity and fidelity of Defendant’s accounting and records.” Vicki accuses Brooks of “concealing and continuing to conceal accounting of his records.” “Defendant’s continued concealment of any accounting,” documents read. “Is an attempt to intentionally defraud and oppress Plaintiff.” Vicki has asked that the sum that she’s seeking, which is (obviously) in excess of $15,000, be determined at trial. She’s looking for compensation for attorneys’ fees, legal costs incurred both in the past and during this process, plus interest — and more. Honestly? Best of luck to her. We’re just glad that, these days, Vicki’s boyfriend saves her job instead of milking her for cash. View Slideshow: Vicki Gunvalson: DEMOTED to “Friend” of the Real Housewives in Stunning Shakeup!

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David Eason Goes to Court For Threatening Woman With Gun: Will He Finally Get Locked Up?

David Eason was in court again last week. No, it wasn’t for his alleged assault on Jenelle Evans back in October. And it also wasn’t for the time he towed a stranger’s car without their knowledge, because he apparently doesn’t know how to pull out of a parking space. No, this day in court was all about a January incident in which David allegedly threatened a woman with a gun. In case you’re having trouble keeping track of David’s many brushes with the law, here’s a brief refresher: Sandra Britt is a North Carolina real estate agent who says she was checking out a listed property near the Easons’ home when David approached her car and brandished a weapon. Eason says he did not have a gun and merely informed Ms. Britt that she was driving on private property. Britt says David is lying on both counts, as he was definitely packing, and she “was parked on a public road, not their property.” According to Britt’s version of events, David chased her down on a four-wheeler and threatened to shoot her if she didn’t drive away, Obviously, no one really knows what happened that day except for David and Sandra, but given Eason’s lengthy history of violent acts and compulsive lying, we’re gonna go out on a limb and assume he’s once again full of sh-t. If you follow him on Instagram, you know that David frequently brags about never leaving the house without a weapon on his hip. And yet, he claims that on the day of his encounter with Britt, he decided to leave all of his guns at home. That sounds hard to believe, but David has the world’s most trustworthy witness testifying on his behalf. We’re talking, of course, about Mrs. Jenelle Evans. (And we’re being heavily sarcastic, in case that’s not already abundantly clear.) “Jenelle testified that his gun was inside of their nightstand at the time that [Sandra] said David had it on him and showed it to her,” a courtroom source tells The Ashley’s Reality Roundup. Astonishingly, the judge apparently bought David and Jenelle’s story, because Eason was found not guilty and the charges against him were dismissed. Of course, the decision was likely the result of a lack of evidence. The fact that David and Jenelle didn’t immediately take to social media to boast about their legal victory is a good indication that the judge in their case issued a gag order. Despite this unexpected win, however, Eason’s legal headaches are far from over. The 30-year-old father of three is due back in court on June 3 for the car towing incident. He’ll face charges of “Injury to Personal Property” and “Tampering with a Vehicle,” and it’s unlikely that Jenelle’s testimony will save him this time: David filmed the incident and posted it YouTube. View Slideshow: David Eason Threatens Woman With Gun: New Details of Alleged Incident Emerge

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Wendy Williams Addresses Divorce, Takes Shot at Estranged Husband

On The Wendy Williams Show this morning, the woman sitting in the large purple chair addressed the hot topic on everyone’s mind during her latest Hot Topics segment: Her very own divorce. Fans have been wondering for days whether Williams would actually go there — but it’s been made pretty evident of late that she had little choice. The affair her husband, Kevin Hunter, has been carrying on for years finally went very public a couple weeks ago, back when his mistress supposedly gave birth to his love child. Combined with Wendy’s relapse, admission to a sober living facility and subsequent divorce filing , the star has been in the news for a myriad of awkward and negative reasons over the past month or so. And she finally acknowledged as much earlier today. “Now my business is your business… it’s kind of funny,” Williams said on air, referencing the irony that she had made a living out of turning the business of celebrities into her talking points every day. “Turnabout’s a fair game, I get it. My business is your business,” she added. Williams filed for divorce last Thursday, but her show on Friday was taped beforehand. So this was her first chance to really talk about her decision to split from Hunter after 22 years of marriage. She never mentioned her estranged husband by name, but she did speak openly about all the personal obstacles she’s been trying to overcome in 2019. “Everybody has things in their life that they’re embarrassed to share with the world, or they’re frightened to share with the world, or they’re not ready to share with the world,” Williams told her audience, adding: “And addressing my sobriety, my addiction head on, has really helped me sort out every single compartment of my life.” We’ve often taken issue with how Williams hurls other stars under the bus on air… … but we do applaud her for how she has handled this ongoing difficult business. “I’m moving out of the sober house in just a few days, you know,” Wendy also revealed about a month after telling the world she had been living in this sort of facility. “It’ll be Wendy on her own.” She elaborated about this situation as follows: “I have to tell you, you know, I’ve been dealing with issues with addiction, alcoholism, and I have a whole new life that I planned for myself and my son. “Believe me you, when you lay in a room with no TV and four gray walls all day … this is my life in the sober house, it’s one of the best things, honestly, that could have ever happened to me.” Again: we appreciate the honest here. Hunter has allegedly been sleeping with Sharina Hudson for nearly a decade. Williams had vaguely talked about that rumor in front of her viewers in the past, never really denying it, but emphasizing that she’d always remain in her marriage. But it all became too much over the past few weeks. “Thank you to everyone for respecting the family’s privacy during this time. Kevin is supportive of Wendy and they are working through this process together,” a personal representative for Williams said post- divorce filing . “No additional comment will be provided at this time.” Later on Monday’s show, Williams hurled a little subtle shade at Hunter and Hudson having a baby. While talking about The Real Housewives of Orange County star Vicki Gunvalson’s new relationship, she said the reality star isn’t having any more kids and is “dried up, in a good way.” “I mean that in the best way,” she continued. “Women who’ve crossed through menopause, the one thing we never have to worry about again is that. Because I don’t know about you, but my diaper changing days are over.” Williams then sipped her tea again and added, “moving on.” Not exactly the harshest shade in the world, we know. But what else is there for Williams to really say at this point? She she says right there, the best thing she can do is just to move on.

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Jill Duggar Claps Back at Fans Who Roasted Her For Killing a Bee

If you follow her on social media, you’re probably well aware that Jill Duggar is no stranger to trash talk. Most of Jill’s critics fall into one of two camps: There are the folks who love to mom-shame Jill and give her no end of grief for everything from her kids’ diet to the location of her home. (Too close to the freeway! Unsafe! Unsafe!) And then there are the fans who are very vocal in their belief that Jill should divorce Derick Dillard due to his bigoted belief system. But over the weekend, Jill took some serious flak from a new group of haters — followers who take issue with her insensitive stance on bees. Jill posted the photos below in order to share her latest conquest with fans. “No, just no,” she captioned the images. “I spent several minutes yesterday trying to kill a wasp that come into the house and in the meantime also killed a bee, then killed ANOTHER wasp today!” she added. “Actually, I hate almost all bugs, but especially those that can actually do some harm … or look like they could!” The saga continued from there, as Jill spun a thrilling tale of a family imperiled by flying insects: “Israel was helping protect Sam while I kept telling him how I wished @derickdillard was home at that moment to kill the flying, stinging insect! lol I HATE flying critters,” she wrote. “Who else hates these things with a vengeance?!” Considering Jill has two young sons at home, you would think just about everyone would be on board with her disposing of stinging pests by whatever means necessary. But several of her followers were not fans of Jill’s decision to kill her little home invaders. “Bees are so good for the environment, don’t kill them,” one wrote. “Capture them in a cup and let them out, that’s what I do. Wasps suck ass, kill those guys.” “Seriously, killed a bee? Do you know anything about current events?” added another. Others joked about the backlash, with one quipping, “Careful Jill, the insect police might come for you.” Typically, the Duggar women suffer in silence when the internet decides to dogpile them. But this time, Jill felt compelled to fire back. “Ya’ll seriously?! If it’s in my home, it’s trespassing,” she replied. “I do try to take most critters outside, but some I just don’t. And I got stung by a bee once on my foot and was on crutches for three days. Literally had to crawl everywhere,” she added. “No joke. Even had to use a little scooter to get around one day since my entire family was at a theme park for the day. I’m not anti-bee, just don’t like them close to me.” Wow. We don’t know what’s more surprising — that there are so many ardent bee defenders out there, or that Jill has such strong views about bugs. It’s one of those situations where both sides have a point, but we’ve gotta hand this one to Jill due to the kid factor. In most cases, killing a bee is a total jackass move, but if their indoors alongside young kids, then they’ve gotta go. Feel free to tell us how wrong we are in the comments. View Slideshow: Jill Duggar & Derick Dillard: Here’s Why Fans Think They’re Getting Divorced

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Aaron Carter: I’m Finally Ready to Share My Truth About Michael Jackson

Just a few weeks ago, Aaron Carter threatened one of Michael Jackson’s accusers in a shocking video. However, after he’s had time to cool off and think about things, he appears to have changed his tune — dramatically. Aaron has now revealed that he has his own untold “experience” with Michael Jackson. TMZ   caught up with Aaron Carter to ask him about the chilling Michael Jackson documentary, Leaving Neverland . His interviewer wanted to know if he thought that the doc should be pulled from streaming and buried. “I mean, to be honest, after seeing everyone’s story unfold,” Aaron begins. He admits: “I was a little aggressive when I talked about it at first.” That is a bit of an understatement. It wasn’t so long ago that Aaron told TMZ that he wanted to punch Wade Robson over his words in Leaving Neverland . Aaron continues, making it clear that his view has softend considerably since he shared his heated words. “I mean,” he says. “Everyone has their own stories.” “And,” he observes. “Everyone has their own situations.” “So,” he admits. “I can’t really take away from that.” We think that he’s saying that he has no right to silence someone who is speaking out. Especially when he has come to realize that he cannot disprove their claims with his own experience. “I don’t know,” Aaron affirms. “So I can’t be like ‘I was there.'” Unless it’s on a specific date, you can’t testify to witnessing someone not molesting a child. But Aaron is going further than that. “In regards to that situation,” he reveals. “I actually have my own experience.” He is referring very vaguely to something “that happened with Michael.” “So,” Aaron promises. “I’mma be talking about that in the future.” The TMZ interviewer addresses the subject as delicately as possible, asking: “like … abuse?” “You’re just gonna have to find out when I talk about it,” Aaron replies. Aaron adds: “I’m doing a book about my whole life,” “And,” Aaron continues. “I think it’s appropriate to [write] about my experience with Michael.” But then he adds a line: “I’ll always have his back.” Is Aaron planning to come forward with a claim that Michael Jackson sexually preyed upon him when he was a child? Coupled with the line about having the late singer’s back, he could be suggesting that he forgives Michael for whatever alleged offense. Or, as some fear, is he promising to share his own “experience” as a sort of buy-my-book clickbait . He could be planning to address a situation that could have looked to others like something inappropriate, but was innocent. But we won’t know whether he’s coming to MJ’s defense or leveling an accusation of his own (or both, somehow) until the book comes out. Poor Aaron Carter has had a number of major obstacles in his life. His parents are widely believed to be among the worst sorts of “stage parents” one can imagine. At a young age, Aaron was catapulted to mega fame, but doesn’t have the luxurious fortune to show for it. As an adult, he has had an often strained relationship with his brother, Nick. Combined with concerns over his mental and physical health and some of his more outlandish statements, a lot of people worry about him. Fortunately, he’s been taking steps to get better in recent years. View Slideshow: Leaving Neverland: Michael Jackson Victims Reveal Sickening New Allegations

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F**k 12: White Cop Tells Black Middle Schoolers “Wait Until Your A$$es Turn 18, Then You’re Mine” [Video]

Source: Nia Noelle / Nia Noelle The Viral Video Causes Backlash & Demands From The Community A Virginia police officer let his racist feelings fly when interacting with some Black middle schoolers. According to New York Daily News , the unidentified White cop was slowly driving past the group of kids after they allegedly heckled him. That’s when the words came from his salty mouth: “Wait until your a$$es turn 18, then you’re mine.” The clip was recorded by 13-year-old Cameron Hillard and posted to Facebook by her mom Keisha Curry. The officer faced immediate backlash when the clip went viral with over 57,000 views. “I am disgusted and disappointed but not surprised that a white male officer would make a threat and use that tone or language towards a group of children,” Curry wrote in the video caption. “My child and her friends have to walk to their after school program and knowing that the police are making idle threats to them is unsettling.”   After all the backlash, the cop must now undergo remedial training, according to interim police chief William Smith. The officer has also been reassigned elsewhere in Richmond, Virginia. “I share the community’s concern with that incident,” Smith told the Richmond Times-Dispatch , saying that the comment was “inappropriate.” He continued, “His actions do not reflect the actions, the policies or the training that we have as an agency, and do not reflect the expectations that I have.” The disciplinary action concluded with an internal investigation of the cop, whose 15-year tenure has been marked by one other complaint. “He voluntarily requested to be given the opportunity to speak to and apologize to the parents,” Smith said in a statement from NBC News . “While these facts don’t minimize the incident, they do give you totality of the person.” Yea, whatever. Many parents still weren’t here for the BS. Ms. Curry complained, “Not letting the public know who the officer is doesn’t allow any other individuals the opportunity to speak out if they were mistreated by him before.” She continued: “ Everyone knows we didn’t want him fired based on this encounter, but how can this behavior be fully investigated by only doing an internal investigation, when the verbal threat was done in the community?” QUESTIONS THAT NEED ANSWERS.

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Justin Bieber Reveals Exceptionally Cruel April Fools Prank

Justin Bieber tried to celebrate April Fools Day on Monday. But the singer just ended up looking like an offensive fool himself. The artist messed up in a pretty major way. In honor of the annual joke-based holiday that falls on April 1, the global superstar shared a sonogram photo on his Instagram page several hours ago. He didn’t include a caption with the snapshot, but the implication was clear: He and Hailey Baldwin are expecting their first child! How exciting, right? Especially in light of Bieber recently saying he was struggling and in need of prayers and looking for ways to turn his life around. What better way to derive purpose than from being a father, you know? Except it turns out this was all a misguided prank by Bieber, one he wasn’t content to let go even after many on the Internet questioned the validity of the pregnancy claim. Yes, even after Baldwin remarked “very funny” underneath the picture, Justin continued to hammer the pregnancy rumor home. “If U thought it was April fools,” he wrote as a caption to an image of Baldwin at the doctor (below), seemingly having her womb and impending baby checked. The pop star did later confess the original sonogram was fake, adding another sonogram of a puppy and writing: “Wait omg is that a,,, APRIL FOOLS.” But the damage had already been done. It’s fine to joke about Donald Trump sleeping with Kim Kardashian . Or Jenelle Evans losing her home because it sank into the ground. Those are victimless references that are pretty clearly not serious from the moment you read the headline. But one in four women have suffered the painful tragedy of a miscarriage. Countless others have difficulty getting pregnant, spending thousands upon thousands of dollars on fertility treatments and still, very often, not having success. In other words: This is an extremely sensitive and personal issue for so many families. It’s really not a joking matter. At all. And many social media users jumped all over Bieber for turning it into one. “Can’t only be me who thinks it’s bloody disgusting that Justin and Hailey Bieber lied about being pregnant????” one Twitter user wrote, while another added: “Every single year, someone does this prank [and] we call them out for being s–t, yet because it’s a huge celeb we’re just gonna let it slide [and] laugh????” No. We’re not. We’re gonna call Justin out for it, too Not only is it insensitive and inappropriate, it’s simply unoriginal. Just days before he made this terrible quip, Bieber actually opened up about his mental health struggles, earning sympathy from his legion of fans around the world. “I am now very focused on repairing some of the deep-rooted issues that I have as most of us have, so that I don’t fall apart, so that I can sustain my marriage and be the father I want to be,” he wrote on March 25, referencing a future child and adding of why he won’t be touring any time soon: “Music is very important to me but nothing comes before my family and my health.” We still wish you a lot of luck, JB. But be better in the future.

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Selena Gomez: Can Justin Bieber STOP Talking About Me Already?!?

With barely any provocation this week,  Justin Bieber declared to the world that he’ll always love Selena Gomez . He said that. The dude is married. He also said that he loves his wife, but that has to rub Hailey the wrong way, right? According to a new report, Hailey’s not the only one annoyed. Selena’s pretty pissed, too. RadarOnline   reports that, according to an unnamed friend of Selena Gomez, she doesn’t get why he’s bringing her up at all. “Selena shut that door,” the insider characterizes. In other words, she cut the Biebs out of her life for the last time a year ago and she hasn’t looked back. “And,” the source continues. “She is in a good place.” The insider explains that Selena is only doing so well “because he is not a part of her life anymore.” “She wants nothing to do with either of them,” the source says. It’s not a petty thing. It’s not a mean thing. Selena is practicing self-care. “And,” the insider notes, Selena “doesn’t understand why he needed to bring her up.” But it doesn’t sound like Selena intends to reach out and tell Justin off. And we shouldn’t expect her to contact him indirectly through his wife, either. “She is avoiding him and Hailey at all costs,” the source reveals. Like anyone hoping to kick a bad habit and avoid a relapse, she has an entire support network keeping her on the straight and narrow. “And,” the insider adds. “Her family and friends are making sure of this.” Selena doesn’t need to get bogged down in Justin’s drama. “Selena has her own life to worry about,” the source reminds the world. She’s a talented actress and one of the most brilliant singers on the planet. She’s also in a fight for her life against the ravages of lupus. “And,” the insider says of Justin. “He is not her concern.”  Whatever impulses Selena may have once had to rush to Justin’s side because he’s clearly in distress are gone for one simple reason: That’s not her job anymore. “That is all on his wife Hailey now,” the source points out. “She took that oath,” the insider explains. “When she vowed to be there for him in sickness and in health.” That’s a great point. All of this hubbub got started when Justin responded to a fan’s accusation that he only married Hailey to get revenge on Selena. “I absolutely loved and love Selena she will always hold a place in my heart,” Justin wrote. That’s past and present tense. “But I am head over heels in love with my wife,” he affirmed. “And she is absolutely the BEST THING that has ever happened to me,” Justin concluded. “Period.” Hailey Baldwin and Justin Bieber’s marriage got off to an awkward or even rocky start. From the rushed proposal, just weeks after they were dating again, to getting married out of impatience before a real wedding, it’s a little messy. Justin has also opened up about his struggles and asked his fans to pray for him . But that doesn’t mean that he and Hailey aren’t happy with each other or in love. Meanwhile, Selena can put that unfortunate chapter of her life behind her and move forward. View Slideshow: Justin Bieber Spills on Sex with Hailey Baldwin: It’s a Blessing from God!

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