We can’t say we saw this relationship coming, but it certainly makes a lot of sense. Multiple sources are reporting that Drake and Amber Rose are knockin’ boots in what might be the most perfect celebrity pairing since Brangelina. (Sorry, Jen.) It started when Page Six reported that Drake and Amber (or D-Rose, as we like to call them) were spotted enjoying an intimate dinner together in Miami on Friday night. Hollywood Life backed the story up with a claim that Drake and Amber “flaunted major PDA,” which apparently means they were in relatively close proximity to one another in a public place: “Drake and Amber Rose had a big entourage with them,” one source said. “But they were standing together as they went up in the elevator. “They ate dinner with a few other people, but they were sitting next to each other and he had his arm around her! She was in a tight white outfit and he was wearing a red shirt. They definitely seemed more than friends.” Okay, so it’s not like they were pawing at each other before the appetizers came out, but we’re hoping this relationship is the real deal for a number of reasons. For one thing, we’re still recovering from the disappointment of the Drake and Serena Williams that never happened. Based on their flirtations, however, we can assume that Drake likes the ladies with the Kardashian-esque backsides, and Amber has been blessed in that department. Amber, of course, recently divorced Wiz Khalifa , so we know she’s into rappers with sensitive sides, and Drizzy basically invented that schtick. Like we said, these two would make a great match. Here’s hoping they progress beyond the “dinner with 18 other people” stage in their relationship. View Slideshow: Amber Rose Selfies: Look at Me!
Lark Voorhies Declares She Isn’t Black In Instagram Post Lark Voorhies is becoming more known for absurd behavior online, than she is for her acting skills. The usually brown-skinned actress posted the following photo to instagram. The picture looks like it’s been bleached out by some kind of app. The caption reads: No, I am not black. I am American! I was born in America. I was not born in Africa, therefore I am not african. Africans are not african-americans! LV What do you think of Lark’s color realization?
Are Amb and Drizzy secretly smashing or nah??? Are Amber Rose And Drake Dating??? Amber Rose and Drake are currently sparking dating rumors after spending the New Years holiday together in Miami. Amb recently shared video from Drizzy’s private NYE performance… and included a closeup of the rapper dancing that she captioned “DaddyAFOVO” while calling herself a “6Goddess.” Adding fuel to the dating rumors are reports that the two were spotted having a “private dinner” in the city. Page Six reports: Drake has been seen with rival rapper Wiz Khalifa’s ex, Amber Rose, around Miami, sparking rumors of a romance. Spies tell Page Six: “They were on a very private dinner [Friday] night in the wine room at Prime 112, behind curtains,” said a source. US Weekly has reported that the pair was also spotted at the Soho Beach House. Sources said that the Canadian rapper was expected at the Edition bowling alley on Saturday night and “bought out the whole space, and the ice rink.” The last time an Amber Rose/Drizzy rumor surfaced was waaaaay back in 2010. Do YOU believe it??? Instagram
Dear Bossip , I was seeing this guy for about a year and a couple of months. We’ve recently broken up. I was the one who broke up with him, due to personal issues. He was having financial problems and family problems, such as baby mother drama. I tried to be supportive in both cases and I stuck around. He told me the truth upfront about everything when we first started talking. I stayed anyway thinking it would get better, but at first he showed no signs of anger. When we got further into the relationship I realize she was using the child against him because she still had feelings for him. We have been broken up since the end of August, but he is just now contacting me again talking about we should work on our relationship and start over fresh. I decided to revisit his pages such as Facebook, Twitter, and Instagram and what I saw next is why I’m contacting you. So, on his Facebook page I saw that he was flirtatious with her and nothing more. So, I check his other social network pages and saw no signs of him dating anyone or her. So, I find her on Facebook and I see him putting love emojis under her pictures and her making him here MCM, etc. I stroll down and read her statuses and I see that she’s talking about how in March she’s moving to NEW YORK, they are getting married, etc. He’s military and right now he’s in Korea. I saw a lot of things I was unhappy about on how he could move on so quickly with someone else. I love him a lot honestly. I know I may have more than he gave me. I have yet to mention any of this to him and I’m wondering if I should. Should I even give him a second chance? So badly I want to say since your rebound relationship didn’t work now you want to come back to me. NO! And, another part of me is saying take him back if you truly love him. I’m so confused right now. What advice could you give me on this situation? – Confused Dear Ms. Confused , You broke up with him for personal reasons such as financial problems and baby momma drama. Now, let’s be very very clear – if you broke up with him because of these issues, then please know that they have not changed and they will persist if you take him back. I’m curious to know why is he reaching back out to you while he is in the military in Korea. Is it because he’s lonely and needs someone to talk with, connect with, and feel something with. Folks get lonely when the holidays are approaching, and they need to feel connected to loved ones. The holiday spirit makes folk do some weird and crazy things, especially when they see others celebrating and talking about being with loved ones for the holidays, and sharing memories, calls, cards, and gifts. So, is this his attempt to make a connection with you? Also, if you went on his and his baby momma social media pages and saw the information of her talking about moving to New York and they’re getting married, and he’s leaving love emoijis, then what part of confused are you? You see it plain as day that they are communicating, or at least you saw that he is being flirtatious with her. Then, why do you want to get back with him? Why do you want to go back to your past? If you ended it then why revisit something that didn’t work before? I don’t understand you people. If you ended a relationship because of two critical things such as money and baby momma drama, then why do you think things have changed in less than 6 months? He’s communicating with her, or at the very least she feels they have something going on if she is making him her MCM, and posting that they are getting married. He’s not refuting it. So, why are you considering getting back with him? If she is talking about getting married, then where did she get this idea from? They had to have had the conversation or discussion about it. Now, unless she’s crazy and delusional, and is posting this information for kicks and giggles, but, if he’s putting love emojis on her timeline and status, then obviously she’s lead to believe something intimate is going on with them, or will happen between them. Look, he went back to his ex because she is familiar. That’s what people do when they go back and forth between persons – they resort to what’s familiar, which is why he is reaching out to you. They are on break for now, and he’s reaching out to you to reconnect. He wants something familiar, someone he knows. He knows he can always come back to you, just like he can always go back to his baby momma. Ma’am, stop giving him that option. If you remain as his option he will keep you in that position, and keep playing both you and her. NEVER BE A MAN’S OPTION. And, if you have this information then why not confront him with it? Let him know what you saw and read, and tell him you’re not a rebound woman. He can’t go back and forth between you and his baby momma, and that is exactly what he’s doing. You two women are competing for his attention, and you are allowing yourself to be a part of his game. Why? Why are you desperate to compete for a man? If you get back with him please know he will still have his baby momma drama, she is still in love with him just like you are, and they have a child so she and the child will always be a part of his life. They are not going anywhere. Why invite a headache into your life when you don’t need to? Why allow unwanted and un-needed stress when you don’t have to? Confront him. Tell him what you know. Tell him what you read. Tell him what you saw. Then, tell him to leave you alone and move on with his life. Let him go, and stop reminiscing over the past, or what you had. If it ended in August, then let it stay in August. Block him on social media. Stop stalking his social media pages. Don’t be that crazy and stalkerish ex-girlfriend who is always on her exes social media pages trying to see what he’s doing and who he’s with. Yeah, I know the holidays are here and you’re lonely. How about you exert that energy into your family, and loved ones, and pour into them all this love you have. How about you find a family who is in need and help them out with some gifts this season. Or, find a shelter or food pantry and donate your time with them, and helping to feed the homeless. The point I’m making is to redirect this energy from him and into those in need. – Terrance Dean ***(Attention all media/news outlets, if you use this story and letter, or any parts of this content for your outlets you must give credit to this site, the columnist, and his advice)*** Hey Bossip Fam, what do you think? S hare your opinions and thoughts below! Also, e-mail all your questions Terrance Dean: loveandrelationships@bossip.com Follow Terrance Dean on Twitter: @ terrancedean and “LIKE” Terrance Dean on Facebook, click HERE! Make sure to order my books Mogul: A Novel (Atria Books – June 2011; $15); Hiding In Hip Hop (Atria Books – June 2008); and Straight From Your Gay Best Friend – The Straight Up Truth About Relationships, Love, And Having A Fabulous Life (Agate/Bolden Books – November 2010; $15). They are available in bookstores everywhere, and on Amazon, click HERE!
Could this couple BE any more perfect? Yes, readers of a certain age, prepare yourself for a wave of Clinton-era nostalgia: Chandler and Monica might be one another’s lobsters in real life. Several sources are reporting that Courteney Cox and Matthew Perry are more than just friends (sorry), and have actually begun dating. The news comes on the heels of reports that Cox was dumped by Johnny McDaid after several years of dating. “It’s no surprise that Matthew was one of the first people Courteney called after Johnny left her,” a source tells Star magazine. “They’ve leaned on each other before, during her infertility struggle and his battle with addiction.” Naturally, the news has us hoping for more hook-ups from the fictional land of massive, easily affordable Manhattan apartments. Sadly, the Ross and Rachel ship has sailed ( Thanks, Justin Theroux !) but Joey and Phoebe could still happen! Yes, Lisa Kudrow is married, but not, like, to anyone famous, and even though he’s moved on to a new series, Matt LeBlanc could probably use some support in getting over the cancelation of Joey. Sure, it was almost ten years ago, but that thing failed hard . Anyway, Cox and Perry together seems almost too good to be true, but let’s all agree to enjoy pleasant ’90s vibes while they last, shall we?
There is a lot of controversy that comes with discussing dating in the black community. Black women often feel they are overlooked by their black male…
Earlier this month, we reported that Gigi Hadid had broken up with Joe Jonas . Now, it appears Gigi not the type to stay single for long – and she also has a serious thing for former boy band members. Yes, according to Us Weekly Gigi is now dating famed One Direction defector Zayn Malik – and the relationship may already be the source of some serious drama. “It’s a very new thing. They’re just seeing where it goes,” says one insider. “I wouldn’t call them boyfriend and girlfriend. But seeing each other? Definitely. He’s chuffed.” We’ll assume “chuffed” means something like “smitten.” Anyway, if you watched the 2015 American Music Awards , you may have caught the moment when Gigi openly snubbed Harry Styles on the red carpet. Harry responded with an exaggerated eye-roll for the ages. Now that news of Zaygi (Gigyn? We’ll get back to you on that nickname.) has gone public, many are wondering if Gigi dissed Harry as a way of getting her man’s back in his ongoing war against 1D. Could be, but there’s another possibility, as well. Gigi is a card-carrying member of Taylor Swift’s girl squad , and as you probably know, there’s still a bit of bad blood between Taylor and Harry. Anyway, it seems Gigi has multiple reasons to dislike Harry, not the least of which is that may have better hair than she does. View Slideshow: Gigi Hadid: 2015 Victoria’s Secret Fashion Show
Dear Bossip, So, here’s the deal: I met this guy 2 weeks ago at a football party. He has text me non-stop, even text good morning and good night every day. Not to mention he text as soon as we get off work. I’m pretty sure he’s a player, but because I see the best in people I am not so good at being a judge of character. Ok, so he asked to come over one night but then when I told him he couldn’t spend the night he changed his mind. Then he proceeded to say maybe we can do dinner and a movie one night this week. I said ok. That night came. I asked him what we were going to do and he said a lot of cuddling and kissing. I reminded him that he mentioned dinner and movie. Then he said he would cook for me. After I let him know that he had to bring whatever he was cooking he decided he wasn’t about all that. So, he came over and we just hung out in my living room talking and watching TV. Then he invites me to his softball game, so I go. Then the following Friday night I finally let him sleep over. We had sex, which wasn’t that great actually. Then he came over the next night to a party I was hosting. He spent the night again but we didn’t have sex. The next day (Sunday) he decided that he didn’t know what he wanted anymore. He went from wanting to date and possibly a relationship to not knowing. However, he says he doesn’t want to end things completely. I mean seriously? Thank you for your time. What do I do now? – Holding Pattern Dear Ms. Holding Pattern , I think things are pretty cut and dry. He wants a steady booty call. He wants to make you one of his bed buddies. So, I’m not sure what you are missing or not clear about? I mean even Stevie Wonder can see this guy’s intentions. It’s not brain surgery or rocket science. He simply and only wants S-E-X! Here’s a memo for all of you out there: IF YOU MEET SOMEONE AND THEY ARE TEXTING AND CALLING YOU LIKE CRAZY, AND, THEY DESPERATELY AND EAGERLY WANT TO GET TOGETHER AND HANG OUT AT YOUR, OR THEIR HOUSE, AND NOT ANYTHING IN PUBLIC, THEN, UHM, THEY DON’T WANT ANYTHING SERIOUS WITH YOU. IT’S ALL ABOUT SEX. But, let’s address this topic of texting; you people and these textual relationships. Do people actually call or dial numbers to hear an actual voice any longer? How can you develop and create a relationship with someone via text? Someone please explain this to me. And, the sad part is that it’s not just the younger generation, but some of you grown ass folks who are participating in this behavior. What the hell?!?!?! But, I digress. And, another thing, when did dating become going to someone’s house, chilling, and the both of you know that you are horny asses, but you convince yourself that you have all this restraint and nothing is going to go down, but then guess what happens, you start kissing, fondling, and then panties come off and his drawers are off, and you write me saying, “It just happened.” SMDH! Dating is going out and observing someone’s behavior in public and interacting with other people. It’s about going to various places that you two have in common, or exploring new adventures together. It’s not going to someone’s house and sitting in the living room watching TV. Especially not on the first date. Ugh! I can’t with you people. But, you obviously found something you liked about him because your dumb ass kept entertaining him and his conversation. So, ask yourself why after several conversations and him being clear about what he wanted that you let him come over, have sex with him, and then get upset when he says he doesn’t know what he wants anymore, but that he doesn’t want things to end between the two of you? You left the door wide open (meaning your legs) with an invitation to your bedroom and bed, and now you want to clutch your cheap ass pearls and act like Ms. I Got Some Values And Morals And Self-Respect About Myself. LMBAO! I can’t do you today. So, to answer your question of what to do now? Uhm, hmmm, do you want to be his booty call? Do you want to be his jump-off? Do you, and can you, handle a casual sexual relationship with him? You did state that his sex game was not all that, but I’m certain you can teach him and train him on how to handle you and your cooty-cat. LOL! That man is not interested in anything more with you other than sex. He’s made that painfully and abundantly clear from the beginning. But, you, and like so many others don’t listen to when someone is telling you who they are and what they want. You figure if you can get them to see how holy and virtuous you are that they will succumb to your light and change their evil and trifling ways. Chile, miss me already. He wants sex. You don’t. He wants to be friends with benefits. You don’t. What he’s communicating and expressing is not in alignment and part of your desires. Therefore cut your losses, move on, and make a note that this was a lesson learned. Know from this point moving forward that you need to listen and hear when a man is telling you what he wants. If he keeps stressing sex, sexual encounters, sexual contact, intimacy, cuddling, hugging, lounging, caressing, massages, or anything that requires body contact, then he is not interested in being in a relationship. He wants sex. Now, get back on the saddle, and mosey along. I’m certain there is a man out there who wants a relationship and will respect you and your body. – Terrance Dean ***(Attention all media/news outlets, if you use this story and letter, or any parts of this content for your outlets you must give credit to this site, the columnist, and his advice)*** Hey Bossip Fam, what do you think? S hare your opinions and thoughts below! Also, e-mail all your questions Terrance Dean: loveandrelationships@bossip.com Follow Terrance Dean on Twitter: @ terrancedean and “LIKE” Terrance Dean on Facebook, click HERE! Make sure to order my books Mogul: A Novel (Atria Books – June 2011; $15); Hiding In Hip Hop (Atria Books – June 2008); and Straight From Your Gay Best Friend – The Straight Up Truth About Relationships, Love, And Having A Fabulous Life (Agate/Bolden Books – November 2010; $15). They are available in bookstores everywhere, and on Amazon, click HERE!
Billboard may have tried to start some beef between Missy Elliott and Nicki Minaj, but Missy shut it down. Missy just got back, and folks are already starting mess. Ugh. The music news website published an interview, where Missy discussed who she loves among the younger crop of MCs. Missy told Billboard that she’s not […]
