Paula Patton Talks Dating After Robin Thicke Split While on a promo run for her new film “The Perfect Match,” Paula Patton took to Facebook to talk hopping back on the horse after heartbreak. “You need to know that it’s worth it. At the end of the day, having a partner in crime for life is so amazing and special when it’s real and genuine, that it’s worth taking the risk. And you are going to get hurt, trust me, I know! I’ve been hurt a couple times—maybe more than a couple times. But you gotta pick yourself back up, and give it another chance. I know I’m going to!” Patton also disclosed exactly what she’s NOT looking for: “If you pout you’re out. I’m not dealing with a pouty man…I’m not doing that anymore.” Welp…Paula’s on the prowl, fellas! Do you agree with her views on dating?? Facebook
Dear Bossip , I have been living with a married man for 6 long years. I have left him TWICE and came back believing that there is nothing between him and his wife. He visits her (their) home at least weekly to visit the dogs. And, he fixes anything that she might need, car, house, etc. When we go out he is lurching at every female he sees. He locks his damn cell phone, and takes phone numbers with an excuse why for each one. So, I left my home in Las Vegas for this clown 6 years ago – my home, my job, my family, and all the while he is sitting pretty with his life pretty much still intact, with one exception, he has ME to go places with, and to play mistress. The problem is that I really cannot afford to get out on my own. I am scared once again that I just won’t make it. He told me and I quote, “I made a promise to my wife to be her friend and help her out. If you don’t like it leave!” This dog has made my life miserable and now I am stuck once again with nowhere to go. And, I am financially struggling. All the while he pays ALL her bills. – Miserable Mistress Dear Ms. Miserable Mistress , You are throwing him under the bus and making him out to be this big bad villain who is taking care of his wife, and mistreats you and won’t make you feel as if you’re the only woman in his life. Yet, you picked up your life, gave up your home, job, and family to go live with a married man in another state, and you really think he owes you something? You really do think that things are going to be great, exciting, and wonderful because you’ve been sleeping with another woman’s husband for 6 long years? Girl, you are foolish and as dumb as your letter. You are getting exactly what you deserve. He is treating you like a side chick, well, some side chicks do get treated better. He’s treating you like a live-in hoe. He doesn’t respect you because you don’t respect yourself. You devalued yourself the moment you began sleeping with a married man. You devalued your worth the moment you felt it okay to lay up with another woman’s husband, then, pack up your entire life and give it all up to live with a man who has told you that basically he is not going to stop taking care of his wife, and you need to get on board or leave. And, you chose to get on board. So, why are you complaining? I’m curious to know why you would give up everything to go be a live-in mistress. Why? What were you hoping would change or what were you expecting? You really moved in with a married man and thought he would be faithful to only you! Really? SMDH! Women are that thirsty, and hungry for a man that they are moving in with married men now? If you’re that desperate for a man, then he will treat you any type of way because you don’t have any respect for yourself. Now, you’re acting mad because when you and he are out he is lurching after women, taking numbers and giving you excuses for each one. Why are you mad? He’s been like that, will always be like that, and won’t change for you or any other woman. How do you think he got you? The same behavior he is exhibiting now is the same behavior he used to win you over, and he’s been like this for the 6 years you’ve been with him. HE HAS NOT CHANGED. You are just noticing it and complaining about it. Hell, you signed up for this. You let him get it away with it. If you left him twice and went back, then you made the choice to go back. You didn’t have to, but you went back. So, ask yourself, why? What did you think or expect to happen? He is not going to change for you. His wife was smart enough to leave him, and she continues to take his money and gets him to come to their home and fix things, and I’m sure he’s taking care of other business too while he’s there. And, what’s sad is that he is still married, his wife knows about you and has resigned herself to this situation, and you got your bird ass living in his home and he’s told you to get on board or leave. And, you’re stewing mad because you expect him to be different, be monogamous and be a one woman man. Bwahahahahahaha! You are silly. I don’t know any woman, any smart, intelligent, career-oriented and independent woman who would give up all her things to go live with a married man in another state. That doesn’t even make sense. That sounds dumb just typing it. Now, you’re mad and complaining because he is taking care of his wife financially, and the house they had/have together, and you’re struggling financially with nowhere to go. He’s probably sleeping with other women, especially if he is lurching after them in public while he’s out with you, and he’s collecting numbers. He is using those numbers. You’re just fool enough to believe his excuses, or fool enough to think he won’t step out on you. You think it’s a competition between you and his wife, and there is no competition. He’s made that known and so has wife. That is why he comes and goes to her home as he pleases, and he will keep coming and going without any resistance from you because you don’t have any claim over him. He’s told you that you have no say, no claim, no hold, and no authority over him. He is going to do what he wants to do. Welp, I guess you’re reaping the karma that you created. Get used to it, and this life of misery. You’re in hell, and it will only get worse. You can wake up, get out, ask for forgiveness from his wife, and yourself, and move out and try to get back your life. Or, you stay, continue to let him walk all over you, and just know that one day he may get tired of you and fed up and put you out. 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https://www.instagram.com/p/BCVAxf_F734/?taken-by=balleralert Well, well, well, would you look at this here! Rita Ora and Chris Brown heated things up last summer with their collaborative single “Body On Me,” along with a very sensual video in support. But it seems as though the chemistry didn’t stop there. Early Sunday morning, the British pop singer got everyone wondering if […]
It’s been over two years since Miranda Kerr and Orlando Bloom got divorced , but the ridiculously good-looking ex-couple still has a kid together, which means they’re still very much involved in one another’s lives. Miranda and Orlando have reportedly been able to co-parent amicably, and they’ve established a set of rules to ensure that their 5-year-old boy Flynn grows up in the most stable environment possible. Now, it seems that Orlando broke one of those rules with the help of Katy Perry. Following rumors that they hooked up at the Golden Globes, we now know that Katy and Orlando are dating , and from the looks of things, they’re moving very fast. In fact, they’re moving much too fact for Miranda’s taste. Kerr explained in a recent interview that she and Bloom have strict guidelines with regard to introducing Flynn to the new significant others in their lives. “We have to know the person for six months,” she explained. So it’s understandable that Kerr was not happy to find out Perry has already met her son after just one month of dating Bloom. According to Star magazine, Bloom recently brought Katy along when he and Flynn attended a birthday party for Robert Downey, Jr.’s son. “Miranda went off on Orlando for being so inconsiderate,” a source tells the tabloid. “Those photos of him and Katy playing happy family with Flynn broke her heart, but Orlando said she was being dramatic. “Miranda’s always had this hold over Orlando, even after they split. She would never admit it, but she feels very threatened by Katy. Orlando has fallen head over heels.” Of course, we really don’t blame him for falling for Katy. Say what you will about Orlando, the guy has impeccable taste in women.
As you probably know, 2015 was a difficult year for the Duggar family , so it’s not surprising that Jill Duggar-Dillard decided to close things out by paying loving tribute to her husband with a simple, scandal-free selfie. Or so she thought. Unfortunately for her, nothing has been going according to plan for the Duggars lately: Jill posted that pic last week with a caption that reading simply, “I [heart Emoji] my hubby.” The image garnered lots of attention, but not because of Jill’s romantic sentiments. Many fans pointed out that Dillard’s appearance has changed considerably since his and Jill’s wedding last year. In turn, the comment board on Jill’s Instagram page quickly became a place to diagnose Derick and debate the cause of his drastic weight loss. “He looks anorexic,” one fan commented. “His face is gaunt and his eyes are sunk in. Compare wedding day photos with this photo. Definitely something wrong.” “Did he have a stroke or something?” wrote another. “Even on their 3 episode special he had some weird stuff going on with his face.” Theories put forth by fans ran the gamut from neurological impairments to religious fasting, but the real reason for Derick’s changing is likely much simpler. If you go back and watch 19 Kids and Counting online , you may notice that the Duggar clan is strangely fixated on teeth. It may be for that reason that Derick underwent oral surgery to extend his palette and began wearing braces shortly after his marriage to Jill. Such procedures have been known to result in weight loss, as they often require patients to adhere to liquid diets for several weeks at a time. Of course, the stress of the past year probably didn’t help Derick put the pounds back on. In addition to the Josh Duggar sex scandals that made tabloid headlines, other members of the famous family have sparked online controversy over the past year. Even the seemingly harmless Jill and Derick were accused of lying about their missionary work in Central America in order to scam fans out of donations. It would be a lot for anyone to deal with, and unlike his wife, Derick is no reality TV veteran. Hopefully, the new dad will just keep a low profile and spend time with his family in 2016. View Slideshow: Jill Duggar and Derick Dillard Photos
