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Fair Or Too Foul??? FDA To Lift Ban On Gay Blood Donors Celibate Of Sex For At Least A Year

Should gays be able to donate gays ? FDA To Lift Ban On Gay Bloods Gay Donors Celibate For At Least One Year Via NY Times reports: The Food and Drug Administration announced on Tuesday that it would scrap a decades-old lifetime prohibition on blood donation by gay and bisexual men, a change that experts said was long overdue and could lift the annual blood supply by as much as 4 percent. The F.D.A. enacted the ban in 1983, early in the AIDS epidemic. At the time, little was known about the human immunodeficiency virus, which causes the disease, and there was no quick test to determine whether somebody had it. But science — and the understanding of H.I.V. in particular — has advanced in the intervening decades, and on Tuesday the F.D.A. acknowledged as much, lifting the lifetime ban but keeping in place a more modest block on donations by men who have had sex with other men in the last 12 months. In a statement, the agency said it had “carefully examined and considered the scientific evidence” before changing the policy. It said it intended to issue a draft guidance detailing the change in 2015. The shift puts the United States on par with European countries like Britain, which adjusted its lifetime ban in favor of a 12-month restriction in 2011. Men’s health advocates welcomed the move, saying that the ban was not based on the latest science and that it perpetuated stigma about gay men as a risk to the health of the nation. Legal experts said the change brings an important national health policy in line with other legal and political rights, such as permitting gay and people to marry and to serve openly in the military. “This is a major victory for gay civil rights,” said I. Glenn Cohen, a law professor at Harvard University who specializes in bioethics and health. “We’re leaving behind the old view that every gay man is a potential infection source.” He said, however, that the policy was “still not rational enough.” The shift will have far-reaching implications for the nation’s blood supply. The Williams Institute at the University of California, Los Angeles, has calculated that the change could add about 317,000 pints of blood to the nation’s supply annually, an increase of 2 percent to 4 percent. About 8.5 percent of American men — or about 10 million people — report having had sex at least once with a man since turning 18, according to the Institute. The new policy will exclude the 3.8 percent of American men who report having had a male sexual partner in the past year, a group that could double the potential new supply, the institute said in a report. Discuss…

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You Can’t Be Serious: Greedy Illinois Woman Files Trademark For Eric Garner’s Dying Words ‘I Can’t Breathe’

People don’t see Black or White , only green! Woman Files Trademark Application For I Can’t Breathe An Illinois woman is seeking to trademark the dying last words of the New York City man who gasped “I can’t breathe” while being arrested by NYPD cops for selling loose cigarettes. Via The Smoking Gun reports: In a December 13 application, Catherine Crump petitioned the United States Patent and Trademark Office to register the phrase for use on hoodies and t-shirts for men, women, boys, girls, and infants. The 57-year-old Crump, who lives in Waukegan, a city 40 miles north of Chicago, contends that she has been using “I can’t breathe” for commercial purposes since “at least as early” as August 18, one month after Eric Garner, 43, died following a confrontation with police on Staten Island. A video of the encounter captured Garner repeatedly saying, “I can’t breathe” as Officer Daniel Pantaleo wrapped his arm around the 350-pound suspect’s neck. Other officers sought to pin Garner to the sidewalk so he could be handcuffed. A Staten Island grand jury earlier this month declined to indict Pantaleo in connection with Garner’s death. During nationwide marches, participants have chanted “I can’t breathe” as part of protests against police brutality. In an interview, Crump said that she had “nothing to do with the Garner family,” and had not spoken to them about her trademark bid. While claiming that her purpose for marketing “I can’t breathe” garments was not to make money, she declined to disclose what other reason there was for her trademark filing (which cost $325). Three similar entrepreneurs have filed to trademark the phrase “Hands Up Don’t Shoot” for use on clothing items. Each of those USPTO applications was filed within three weeks of the August 9 death of Michael Brown, the unarmed teenager who was shot to death by a cop in Ferguson, Missouri. Do you think people should be profiting from the death of Eric Garner and other Black lives taken too soon?? Continue reading

Dry Out, Dad: Rihanna’s Slizzard Father Airs Out All Her Dirty Laundry – Chris Brown, Hating BFF Melissa, Pregnancy

They say a drunk tongue tells no lies, welp… Via DailyMail Rihanna’s alcoholic dad was escorted out of her glittering Diamond Ball for boozing after he promised her he had kicked his destructive habit. Daily Mail Online can exclusively reveal the superstar singer has been embroiled in a heartbreaking bid to save Ronald Fenty from his drinking demons for the past year – even putting him through an expensive Malibu rehab program. But all her hard work went up in smoke last Thursday as her star-studded charity party was reduced to farce before she even arrived. In an exclusive chat with Ronald at his Beverly Hills hotel before he jetted out of Los Angeles, the 61-year-old spoke candidly about their spectacular bust-up, revealing how: Rihanna put him through a $58,000 Malibu rehab program last year to save him from jail after he was arrested during a previous visit to California She flies him to LA every three months for urine tests and has the mini-bar emptied before he arrives She has frozen out Chris Brown and ignored him at their last meeting He dislikes Rihanna’s best pal and constant companion Melissa Forde She is still single and unable to find a man She is NOT pregnant, despite widespread claims by magazines and websites Here, Ronald explains what got him tossed from the event: Ronald – who posed for red carpet photos with Rihanna’s mum Monica before he was told to leave – said: ‘I had Johnny Walker Black. I had two doubles man and tripped over a chair. ‘I had been on the [red] carpet for the pictures, I meet a couple of famous people I knew go and talked with them, and then somebody left a chair and I stepped back and fell over, I saw my ex (Monica) look up, and within a few minutes after the picture was taken, security came up and said “we’re taking you home”. ‘I said “but I haven’t seen my daughter yet”… and they said “don’t matter man”. Flip the page to read Ronald’s explanation as to why he decided to drink. Image via Splash/WENN/Instagram/FameFlynet Continue reading

Domestic Drama: Mel B’s Hubby Stephen Belafonte Denies Beating Her After She Turns Up Bruised & Battered On X Factor Set!

Mel B has reportedly walked out on her husband of seven years, Stephen Belafonte. Mel B’s Husband Stephen Belafonte Denies Beating Her Via Daily Mail reports: According to The Sun, the X Factor judge, 39, packed up and left the home the couple have been sharing in London after their furious arguing became too much to bear. And now pals are urging the former Spice Girl to formally break away from Stephen, reports the newspaper. On Monday morning a furious Stephen, 39, hit back, saying: ‘I don’t usually respond to Twitter msgs but I will respond to comments of hitting my wife which I think are quite disgusting un true! ‘Mel was very ill a bunch of doctors helped her get better if fans can’t just relax B4 being negative they r not real fans of @OfficialMelB.’ When contacted by MailOnline, a representative for Mel B declined to comment. The claims come as Mel has been unveiled as the new cover star for Grazia’s Christmas issue, to whom she admitted that she was three hours late for the shoot because she’d had an argument with Stephen, 39. The magazine quotes her as saying: ‘I walked in pi**ed off because I had a big row with my husband about stupid stuff. Sometimes he pi**es me off like no other, but he gets me.’ A well-placed source on The X Factor said that Stephen didn’t visit his wife of seven years during the three days she spent in hospital, or attend the X Factor final on Sunday. The source revealed that Belafonte is not liked by other members of The X Factor team. ‘None of that means that he has ever laid a finger on Mel, but he is not an easy person to be with, that is obvious to see. It was a physical and emotional collapse. There was an emotional element to it, Mel has been under a lot of stress. ‘He didn’t come to the show on Sunday as far as I am aware. He wasn’t in her dressing room. I don’t believe he visited her in hospital, either.’ On Sunday, Belafonte was seen outside the Kensington block of flats where he and Mel, 39, have been renting an apartment since October, overseeing the loading of about 20 suitcases into a minivan. A source told The Sun that the marriage is on ‘life support’, adding: ‘Mel hasn’t spoken to Stephen once since her admission to hospital last week and as it stands she doesn’t want to see him. He didn’t come to the hospital at all. ‘Everyone around her is encouraging her to stay strong and to leave him for good this time because they don’t believe their relationship is healthy. ‘Things have been very rocky over the last few weeks…last week everything escalated and there were a number of big rows before Mel ended up in hospital.’ Twitter/IG

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Girl, Bye! ‘Hollywood Divas’ Star Golden Brooks Denies Trying To Steal Paula Jai Parker’s Homeless Husband

Who really wants Paula’s man??! Golden Brooks Denies Wanting To Steal Paula Jai Parker’s Husband It had been a while since Paula Jai Parker felt it necessary to check a woman about her man, but she didn’t hesitate to do so when she thought Golden Brooks was being a little too friendly toward her husband. Via S2S Magazine reports: Golden made it clear to her “Hollywood Divas” co-star that Forest, Paula’s spouse, was not what Golden considered desirable, and the former “Girlfriends” actress thinks Paula may want to get a grip. “She needs to loosen the reins a bit because, like I said, don’t nobody want her man . I’m not judging anyone’s marriage but I think sometimes if you have some stuff that hasn’t been dealt with and we get caught in the crossfire. I think her overreaction has nothing to do with me or any of us,” Golden told TVOne.TV. On the show, viewers witnessed Paula defend her marriage and forbid her co-stars from contacting her husband directly, with the exception of Elise Neal; although, he is supposedly the assistant director who runs things when Paula is unavailable. Paula also refused to give out her man’s personal email address, assuming he has one, and forced the ladies to use their shared account. “We are just the scapegoats for her insecurities,” Golden said. “This all started way before us.” After putting her cast members in their place and establishing the correct protocol for contacting her husband, Paula seemingly put the incident behind her. Though that’s the least of the ladies’ problems when it comes to their production. In addition to Paula’s perpetual absences, actress Countess Vaughn underwent surgery just days before production on their project began. As one of the executive producers, Golden felt it was her job to have an understudy in place. “Do you want to be on camera looking like a chipmunk? No. I was trying to be protective of her not looking her best on camera,” explained Golden who offered to take personal control of Golden’s weight loss. “I don’t think putting her on camera two days after surgery was a good idea.” Golden’s co-stars and some fans didn’t take kindly to her suggestion that Countess’ role be recast or removed from the film, but she doesn’t regret introducing the idea. “It doesn’t feel good, but you have to deal with business. You have a job to do. That was the fine line for me that was really hard. In business, you have to put aside your emotions.” Do you think Golden was really trying to steal Paula’s man???

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Girl, Bye! ‘Hollywood Divas’ Star Golden Brooks Denies Trying To Steal Paula Jai Parker’s Homeless Husband

Girl, Bye! ‘Hollywood Divas’ Star Golden Brooks Denies Trying To Steal Paula Jai Parker’s Homeless Husband

Who really wants Paula’s man??! Golden Brooks Denies Wanting To Steal Paula Jai Parker’s Husband It had been a while since Paula Jai Parker felt it necessary to check a woman about her man, but she didn’t hesitate to do so when she thought Golden Brooks was being a little too friendly toward her husband. Via S2S Magazine reports: Golden made it clear to her “Hollywood Divas” co-star that Forest, Paula’s spouse, was not what Golden considered desirable, and the former “Girlfriends” actress thinks Paula may want to get a grip. “She needs to loosen the reins a bit because, like I said, don’t nobody want her man . I’m not judging anyone’s marriage but I think sometimes if you have some stuff that hasn’t been dealt with and we get caught in the crossfire. I think her overreaction has nothing to do with me or any of us,” Golden told TVOne.TV. On the show, viewers witnessed Paula defend her marriage and forbid her co-stars from contacting her husband directly, with the exception of Elise Neal; although, he is supposedly the assistant director who runs things when Paula is unavailable. Paula also refused to give out her man’s personal email address, assuming he has one, and forced the ladies to use their shared account. “We are just the scapegoats for her insecurities,” Golden said. “This all started way before us.” After putting her cast members in their place and establishing the correct protocol for contacting her husband, Paula seemingly put the incident behind her. Though that’s the least of the ladies’ problems when it comes to their production. In addition to Paula’s perpetual absences, actress Countess Vaughn underwent surgery just days before production on their project began. As one of the executive producers, Golden felt it was her job to have an understudy in place. “Do you want to be on camera looking like a chipmunk? No. I was trying to be protective of her not looking her best on camera,” explained Golden who offered to take personal control of Golden’s weight loss. “I don’t think putting her on camera two days after surgery was a good idea.” Golden’s co-stars and some fans didn’t take kindly to her suggestion that Countess’ role be recast or removed from the film, but she doesn’t regret introducing the idea. “It doesn’t feel good, but you have to deal with business. You have a job to do. That was the fine line for me that was really hard. In business, you have to put aside your emotions.” Do you think Golden was really trying to steal Paula’s man???

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Race Matters: Black Women Face Interracial Dating Taboo While Dating Online But Black Men Don’t

This may be the last remaining taboo in our supposedly colorblind society . Black Women Face Interracial Dating Taboo When Online Via NY Post reports: A New York City woman — beautiful, educated, successful and single — accepted a challenge presented by an online dating service that aimed to fix her up with available men. “I’m not desperate to get married,’’ said Jacque Reid, who co-hosts the “New York Live” lifestyle show on WNBC-TV News Channel 4, serves as a correspondent for the nationally syndicated “Tom Joyner Morning Show” on the radio, and is the editor in chief of SingleandLivingFab.com. “I’ve met some good men. I’ve met some bad men and dated very bad men,” laughed Reid, a fitness enthusiast and never-married Atlanta, Ga., native who lives in Manhattan with her pet Shih Tzus — a boy named Sugar-Shane and a girl named Zoe. “I’m happy being single,” said Reid, who declined to give her age. She said, “I’m excited about” the Web-based matchup service. “It will be fun — and I’ll get some dates.” But two days after we spoke last week, a WNBC spokeswoman informed me that Reid no longer planned to accept the dating service’s challenge because she was “busy.” A friend told me that she’d changed her mind about it. Why? The answer may be found in the dating service’s name: InterracialDatingCentral.com. Reid, who is African-American, had opened herself up to the possibility of going out with men who are not. Reid had talked about the challenge on the radio and publicly accepted the service’s offer. She agreed to be featured in a news release announcing that she would go on a series of blind dates with four New York-area bachelors of all races, including African-Americans. Then the pushback began. In this day and age, some people are vehemently against the idea of a woman of color going out with men of other backgrounds. And the opposition comes from within the black community. How can this be? “Black men date or marry interracially at more than double the level women do,” she said. “They are given a pass. They can date anyone they want to — black women, white women.” The purpose of the dating challenge, she said, was to expand a woman’s choices. Black women are up to 50 percent more likely than their male counterparts to graduate from high school, reports the National Association for the Advancement of Colored People and The Schott Foundation for Public Education. About twice the number of black women attend college as black men, according to the National Coalition of Black Civic Participation. And the Pew Research Center determined that black men were more than six times as likely as white men to be serving time in prisons and jails in 2010. Meanwhile, said Karazin, the rate of out-of-wedlock births to black women is 72 to 80 percent — up to 100 percent in some communities. Some of the ills facing black men, particularly high incarceration rates for relatively minor crimes, are unfair to them. But Karazin does not believe that black women should be limited by race when choosing partners. She’s right. Skin color should not matter when it comes to love. Discuss….

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Magical Negro: Study Shows White People More Commonly Link Black People To “Superhuman Abilities” Like Not Feeling Pain

Seriously??? Study Shows White People Think Black People Have Superhuman Abilities A recent study conducted by Social Psychological and Personality Science has found evidence that white people have a “superhumanization bias” in regards to black people , more commonly associating African-Americans with magical traits. Via The Grio reports: This trope of the “magic black” or “magic Negro” has been a well-worn plot device in cinema and literature for years, but this study suggests that its impact extends well beyond the realm of fiction. It also reveals that racism, most commonly thought of as explicit and easy to spot, might often be far more subtle than originally believed. The study also found that as whites’ belief in blacks as supernatural heightened, they started to believe that blacks had less capacity to experience pain. Jesse Singal had this to say at the Science of Us: In a series of five studies, some involving so-called implicit association tests in which words are flashed on a screen quickly enough to “prime” a subject with their meaning but not for them to consciously understand what they have seen, the researchers showed that whites are quicker to associate blacks than whites with superhuman words like ghost, paranormal, and spirit. This stereotype has a wide range of potential impacts on how blacks are viewed in culture, including why black juveniles are considered to “be more ‘adult’ than white juveniles when judging culpability,” according to the researchers. Even the President has been unable to escape this stereotype, with a song called “Barrack the Magic Negro,” being released during Obama’s 2008 campaign. David Ehrenstein pointed out that Obama’s message of hope and change was appealing partially for this very reason, writing, “For as with all Magic Negroes, the less real he seems, the more desirable he becomes. If he were real, white America couldn’t project all its fantasies of curative black benevolence on him.” The study’s researchers also note that, “the phenomenon of superhumanization has received virtually no empirical attention in psychology” and that their five studies involving implicit reaction tests, which analyze snap, subconscious decision making, were some of the first empirical tests in the area. Discuss…

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Ballers Behaving Badly: Ex-NBA Baller Robert Swift Popped With Grenade Launcher, Drugs And Hookers

The holy trinity of felonies has manifested itself Via DailyMail A former NBA player has been charged with a gun crime after a police raid on the house of an alleged drug-dealer where he was staying uncovered heroin, meth, guns, a grenade launcher and several prostitutes. Robert Swift, 28, who joined the Seattle Sonics straight out of high school, has been described as a ’heavily armed heroin addict’ by prosecutors in King Country, Washington. Police raided the property last month, and seized a number of weapons from Swift’s bedroom, including a military-style grenade launcher and sawed-off shotgun. On Thursday, Swift was charged Thursday with unlawful possession of a short-barreled shotgun, after police found seven firearms on or under his bed and a 40mm grenade launcher in a safe in his room, in addition to the sawed-off shotgun, KOMO News reports. Swift denied involvement in dealing the drugs, but admitted to having drug paraphernelia in his bedroom, and claimed several suppressors and weapons as his property. The fallen star has been living with the owner of the house, Trygve Bjorkstam, 54, who Swift told police is his heroin dealer, since he was kicked out of his foreclosured home in suburban Seattle last year. Circling the drain, one needle at a time. This is only the latest chapter in the sad saga of the fall of Robert Swift , who was plucked straight out of high school to play NBA basketball at the age of 18, and was a number one draft pick for the Sonics in 2004. Earning multi-million dollar salaries, he played for Seattle and Oklahoma City, who renounced their rights to Swift in December 2009. He attempted a comeback in Japan the following year with the Tokyo Apaches, but the team was dissolved after the 2011 Tsunami. Last year, MailOnline reported how Swift was kicked out of his home in upmarket Seattle suburb of Sammamish, which he had for $1.35million in 2006. The house went into foreclosure after Swift was found to owe $168,000 on his mortgage despite earning $20m during his career. Despite the house being sold to new owners in February 2013, Swift refused to move out and squatted in in squalor, before finally being kicked out in March. Sounds like the perfect candidate for the next edition of “Broke” . Image via AP

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Karma Is A Beyotch?? Love & Hip Hop Hollywood’s Amanda’s NFL Baller-Boo Knocks Up Another Woman!

Looks like Amanda will be playing step-mom after all! Love And Hip Hop Hollywood’s Amanda New NFL Boyfriend Has A Baby Mama We recently reported that the current season of “Love & Hip Hop Hollywood” viewers have seen former B2K singer Lil Fizz getting into multiple conformations with his girlfriend Amanda about a Miami man she cheated on him with. Amanda posted a coupled up pic of Oakland Raiders baller Jonathan Dowling (from Florida) which led fans of the show to believe this is the man she had been creeping on Fizz with: Well, it looks like Amanda hasn’t been the only one creeping around. Jonathan recently knocked up a woman by the name of Kelsey Kraig… Via Baller Alert reports: The man pictured is Jonathan Dowling, safety for the Oakland Raiders. Here’s what we know of him — He’s fine as hell! Not only that, he’s a new dad too (she’s literally only a few months old), so if Amanda wants to make it work with him, she’s going to have to play step mom either way. Jonathan is 22 years old and originally from Florida, which fits right in with the storyline. He has no photos whatsoever of Amanda on his page, but doesn’t mean he didn’t delete them. They also follow each other on Instagram, if that means anything. Oh, and here’s his baby mama Kelsey. Jonathan and Amanda can’t be too serious. Not with him having a 3-4month old daughter. Clearly while he was laying up in the apartment in Amanda’s name, he was hitting his baby mama too. From the looks of it he may be a rookie too, which may explain her having to put an apartment in her name in the first place. That or the fact he probably had a girl at the time and was covering his tracks. It doesn’t seem like he is still be messing with his baby mama but he could be messing with someone else, hence no trace of Amanda on his page. Clearly, Amanda has a thing for men with baby mama drama because this is about to open up another can of worms! Hit the flip or more of Jonathan’s baby mama and their newborn daughter next…

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