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REVIEW: Michael Haneke’s Amour A Beautifully Calculated Demise

Austrian filmmaker Michael Haneke has a distinctively aggressive relationship with his audience that ranges from the provocation of  Caché and  The Piano Teacher to the outright antagonism of  Funny Games and  Benny’s Video .  Amour , his latest work and the winner of the Palme d’Or at this year’s Cannes Film Festival , might be considered Haneke’s version of a love story, and its grimness is of a much quieter but no less impactful sort. It is, more than any of Haneke’s previous work, infused with compassion, but of a sort that cuts like a knife. For all that it is, as promised, about love, it’s also a subtly punishing affair that grinds you into the ground as you watch an elderly couple deal with one member’s slow deterioration of health and sanity. Amour starts with firemen breaking into a beautiful Parisian apartment. The bedroom door has been taped up, and inside is the corpse of Anne (Emmanuelle Riva), lying on the bed, scattered with flowers — and it’s here that Haneke inserts the title card, to ensure you know that this will not be a syrupy tale. We cut back to when Anne was alive and living with her husband Georges (Jean-Louis Trintignant), both in their eighties. They attend a concert being given by one of Anne’s former students — a trip that, with the accompanying streetcar ride home, marks the film’s only venture out of the apartment, a location that becomes confining until it shifts into a sort of hiding place to dwell on the misery that life must end, and sometimes does so in messy, undignified failings of the flesh. Riva and Trintignant are the latest in a long line of Annes and Georges that Haneke’s presented over the years (the names have recurred in his films from 1989’s The Seventh Continent through 2009’s The White Ribbon ) and perhaps the most fully realized — they are a couple with a deep connection and a long history together, one that includes moments of chilliness as much as devotion. They’ve been spending a comfortably bourgeois late life together, their middle-aged daughter Eva (Isabelle Huppert), a mother herself, periodically visiting from London where she lives with her British husband Geoff (William Shimell). Anne and Georges surely have some awareness that death is closer than it was when they were young, but when a first brush with mortality arrives, it does so in a frightening way that catches them unaware. Anne has a stroke or a fit, one that leaves her temporarily frozen — it passes before Georges can get help, but it’s a sign of what’s to come. Haneke approaches the story with characteristic unflinching austerity that makes all the more difficult the unadorned scenes of Georges, frail himself, struggling to help Anne off the toilet after a surgery meant to help her instead leaves her unable to walk. Anne, afraid of doctors, extracts a promise from him that he will not bring her back to the hospital, and not long after asks for death. “There’s no reason to keep on living,” she tells him. “Why should I inflict that on you or me?” In the moment, it feels harsh and defeatist — at that point Anne is suffering only from manageable mobility problems, and while life will be different, it’s still open to many of the same experiences. But Anne is not naturally suited to optimistically soldiering on, and prefers not to talk about what’s happening to her to a visiting student or to welcome her son-in-law on a visit. And as things get worse from there, every intrusion into their increasingly difficult existence seems like an invasion, from the nurses who arrive to help care for Anne after another stroke leaves her paralyzed and unable to speak beyond nonsensical phrases. In one of the film’s most wrenching scenes, Georges tries to lock Anne away when Eva comes to visit, not to protect his daughter but to protect Anne from her well-meaning but terrible child who sweeps in and demands to know what else can be done, having no real grasp of her parents’ day-to-day of diaper changes, peach porridge and compulsive crying out (“Hurts! Hurts!” Anne yells), or that some things cannot be fixed, only endured. “Life… so long,” Anne mutters at one point in what may or may not be a moment of clarity. And the prospect of the days stretching out and only getting worse is heavy on this film, as the flesh fails and all that’s left is the promise of waiting out the undignified end of existence. Haneke’s dry-eyed, unsentimental approach makes what would have been, in someone else’s hands, an agonizing ordeal a little more bearable, allowing for moments of relief when a semi-symbolic pigeon finds its way into the house, or a jolt of horror in a nightmare sequence. But the clinical distance Haneke manages so well also makes the film feel like a beautifully crafted but calculated exercise, one gentler and touched with more warmth than his earlier films, but still meant to be a shrewdly knowing knife to the viscera. Follow Alison Willmore on Twitter . Follow Movieline on Twitter .

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Richard Armitage Talks ‘Hobbit’ And Thorin Oakenshield, Takes A Phone Call From Sauron

Standing well over 6′ tall, with an athletic frame and impeccably coiffed hair, Richard Armitage the silhouette screams matinee idol , which makes it all the more impressive that Richard Armitage the person screams “Dwarf!” But, then, this isn’t your older brother’s axe wielding, pipe smoking, occasionally tossed comic relief. As Thorin Oakenshield, the leader of a band of not so merry dwarves looking to reclaim their ancestral homeland from the ravages of the dragon Smaug in The Hobbit: An Unexpected Journey , Armitage takes his first bold, steely-eyed, heroic steps into the world of Middle Earth, embodying with method exactness the badass anti-hero of J.R.R. Tolkien’s original. Before that, though… a little bit of fun. Armitage recently sat down with Movieline in New York City where he revealed the physicality of being a dwarf, his facility for speaking in tongues, his hard fought battle scars, and the number one reason you should always answer an interrupting telephone. Movieline: Here’s what we can do. We can do the entire interview in Khuzdul [the fictional language created by J.R.R. Tolkien for the dwarves of Middle Earth]. Khuzdul! Do you speak dwarvish? I speak some dwarvish. Do you speak it fluently? There isn’t really that much [in The Hobbit ]. Baruk Khazâd! Khazâd ai-mênu! No. You can’t fool me. That’s from Lord of the Rings .* Do you know dwarf sign language? [Huge laughter from Armitage as he crosses one forearm perpendicularly over the other, giving an especially vigorous non-dwarf signal.] Yes, any dwarf could understand that. But, no, this is a real thing. Tolkien made dwarf sign language because, you know, it’s too loud to talk in the mines. Actually, we did work with Terry Notary and we did work on a kind of sign language. That scene in Bag End where Dwalin head butts Balin as a dwarf greeting — it’s a visceral, physical greeting. The language implies [physicality] as well. Physical sort of found its way into the vocal for me. Physical as in changing your body? Is there a physical choreography to being a dwarf? A way to walk? It’s sort of informed by the skeleton of these creatures because they’re not really human. Their center of gravity is much lower, their torsos longer — which was really tough for me because I’m the other way around. I’ve got really long legs and a short body. So all of my belts were down here on my hips, and slowly they work their way up to where your waist is. I was constantly having to pull them down. There were other things we worked on — chewing up the ground as you walk. You know, when a dwarf starts running it takes a long time to stop. They’re very heavy, very stooped trains. They can’t stop immediately. Like, they’ll crash through a wall. Their bone structure is heavy and solid. And those huge boots, which I think are going to be a big fashion statement next year. Why not a trend following all these hot dwarves? [Laughs] Oh yeah, we were baking! Dwarves baking wasn’t what I think these websites that listed ‘hot dwarves’ were thinking. Was there ever advice or conversation with John Rhys Davies [who played Gimli the dwarf in Lord of the Rings ]? No. Was there something in his performance that you ever looked at? No. He came to visit and said hello. But we started from scratch. With this dwarf physicality, were you able to escape unscathed from all these battle scenes? I put my tooth through my lip when we were shooting the Battle of Azanulbizar. You see Thorin fighting six orcs. And we choreographed it on the ground and then filmed it on platforms so everything gets higher by about two feet. I actually smacked myself in the face with the shield and had this huge swollen lip that was bleeding down my neck. I was so angry at myself. You know when you hit yourself? I was so bloody angry. And then Andy [Serkis] came and showed me a mirror. I was like, ‘Oh God.’ He said, ‘Do you want to carry on?’ I said, ‘Yeah, cause it looks good.’ It looked really good. It looked really kind of real. In the original film, both Elijah [Wood] and Andy [Serkis] were able to take props home. If I go to your house will I see Ocarist above the mantle? You have Ocarist in the umbrella stand. Cause I want to be able to pick it up. You also have the shield in the kitchen drawer. And on the wall you have the map and key. I’ve got the full kit. The only thing I wanted was the key. But I was very kindly — [Armitage is cut off when the phone in the hotel room where we are conducting the interview rings, interrupting us.] Do you need to answer that? Maybe I should. It’s Sauron. You can tell by his ring.

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‘X Factor’ Mystery: How Is CeCe Frey Still Around?

One expert tells MTV News the polarizing singer’s story arc has ‘made her into this person that you want to root for.’ By Katie Atkinson, with additional reporting by Chris Kim CeCe Frey of “X Factor” Photo: Ray Mickshaw / FOX

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Dear Bossip: He Gave Me A List Of Things Not To Do & Said He’ll Treat Me Bad Until I Do What He Says

Dear Bossip , I’m a 38 year old woman and I’m dating a 26 year old man. I’m writing you because I’m so depressed and hurt. I’ve been feeling this way for about the last two years. I first met “Charles” about six years ago and we haven’t always been in a relationship but we have always “acted” like we were until we made it official a couple of years ago. We have had many ups and downs and there is too much history to repeat. When Charles and I first met, he was very nice and lots of fun. We got along so well and I looked out for him while he was still in college. Well, he graduated a few years ago and we have never really stopped “talking.” Only a few times and for maybe a couple of months at a time. Anyway, we are in a very bad place. I feel like he doesn’t really love me anymore and I absolutely adore him and love him so much. Charles is very mean to me!  He started having back problems about two years ago and he really started to be mean then because of the pain. Well, I do my part and I try to see about him, but he’s unrelenting. For the past 8 months strong, Charles has really been acting a donkey.  He is so mean to me. I can’t really say anything to him without him going berserk. If we’re on the phone and there’s a period of silence he goes into a rage. He says that he’s smarter than me and says I always do stupid stuff and that I’m childish….which I’m not. He makes me cry about 5 days out of the week.  Whenever I talk to him I’m always on the verge of tears and I’m afraid that I’m going to say the wrong thing to him and set him off.  He’s not physically abusive to me, however I will say that I think he is verbally abusive. He yells and screams at me always as if I’m a child.  I’m so depressed and unhappy. I don’t want to leave the house anymore and I’ve found myself being withdrawn from family and friends. Let me give you some examples:  If I ask him what he’s doing this evening and he’ll say probably nothing. I’ll say okay and we’ll most likely get off the phone after chatting for several more minutes. Well, later on that evening I might ask him again if he decided to do anything and he’ll go off and curse me out and tell me how stupid and dumb I am and that I don’t listen or do what he tells me to do. I just sit on the phone like are you serious, what did I do?  He’ll continue to berate me. I’ll only ask him the question because he had said that he didn’t know and I’m just making conversation. He tells me that we would be okay if I listened to him and did everything said. Charles gets mad if I have an opinion about something he does and I may question him about it.  He gave me a list of things of what not to do and that I don’t have to do because he says I don’t do -ish for him anyways. I cook for him, iron his clothes, make love to him, call him, wash his clothes sometimes and whatever he asks me to do really. I don’t have a problem doing these things, I just don’t think it’s enough for him and I don’t think he appreciates me. Here’s the list of things he told me to follow:  Don’t ask the same question twice because it pisses him off. Don’t ask him if I can cook for him. Don’t ask him to have sex. Don’t ask him why when he wants to get off the phone. Don’t call back when he hangs up the phone on me. Don’t talk when he says he’s going to bed. Don’t call back and ask a question when he says he’s going to bed. Don’t talk when he’s talking. Don’t ask dumb questions. When he says hang up the phone don’t keep trying to talk. Do what he tells me to do and don’t get on his f****** nerves, and stop f****** crying. He makes me cry by the way he talks to me so badly. He says the meanest things and always tells me that I’m f****** another man. Which I’m not. It’s to the point now where I’m so afraid of him. I’m afraid to express myself and I just hold my head down. I try to tell myself to leave him and I just can’t. I know that I don’t deserve this, I just can’t walk away. We don’t have any kids together and he doesn’t have any either. I feel like I’m disposable. I have no self-worth. I’m so unhappy. I’m so sad and depressed. I don’t feel like I’m loved by anyone. Please guide me through this with some advice. I know you’re going to tear me apart. I do pray about it and I know it’s a toxic relationship. I just keep thinking that he’ll change back into the person I first met. Charles says that until I learn to do what he asks, I’ll continue to get the same treatment. But, I’m not doing anything wrong and I’m never mean to him, which even he admits. I just love him. – Always On The Verge Of Tears Dear Ms. Always On The Verge Of Tears, Where do you women meet these men? Seriously, please provide the locations and areas so we can all avoid them. Ma’am. Please leave. Please. For your own sanity, health, and well-being. Please leave. He doesn’t love you. He doesn’t love himself. And, if he doesn’t love himself then he can’t love you. It’s impossible. A man who berates, yells, screams, and demeans a woman is not a man. He is not wonderful, loving, caring, or considerate. He’s slime. He’s a bum. He’s an a**hole. He’s a jerk. He’s a sorry excuse of a man. What’s so sad is that you are not even at your wits end. You are not even fed up, so telling you to leave is pointless and useless because you’re hoping and wishing he is going to change back into the man you fell in love with. You’re hoping he is going to have this big revelation and ‘aha’ moment and apologize for his behavior. He is not. He is not going to change. He is not going to be the man you fell in love. In fact, he is that same man you fell in love, you just didn’t recognize the signs early on. He’s always been that man, and he was slowly working on tearing you down, and negating who you are. This is not new. This is not an overnight thing. He’s been doing it for a while. And, unfortunately, it’s just that you’re now waking up and seeing it. And, you think he just became this man. Sorry, boo boo, Charles is, was, and will always be an a**hole. So, pull yourself together, and exit stage left. Girl, girl, girl, girl, the fact that he gave you a list of things not to do to piss him, then you should have politely given him your list of things not to do to piss off a woman. And, you should have given him a list of things to do to make a woman happy. Because when a woman’s fed up! Ba-by!!!! I don’t see why you won’t boil you some grits the next time he wants to yell, and scream at you. Yeah, that will fix his a**! But, on the real, as soon as he provided you with that list you should have accommodated him and left his narrow broke back a** alone! That’s what he wants from you. He wants you to leave him alone. So, leave his a** alone!! So, let’s get you together and get you out of this situation. You’ve admitted that you are aware it’s a toxic relationship. And, a toxic relationship with a toxic person will kill you. And, he’s killed your spirit. He’s killing you bit by bit by bit, and you’re allowing him. Then, he had the gall to say that until you learn to do what he asks you’ll continue to get the same treatment? Honey, he has back problems, well, he would have leg and d**k problems. When someone doesn’t make you a priority in their life, then stop making them a priority in yours. Stop making someone the lead character in your life when you are an extra in theirs. Let me ask you this: What about you will allow him to treat you in this manner? Why do you feel you deserve this treatment? Why do you give him that much power over you to make you cry and tear at your soul? Never ever give someone that much power over you and your life. Never ever allow someone to berate and demean you. And, never ever let someone call you out of your name. As soon as someone calls you out of your name that is when you make your exit. Have you ever heard the saying, “It’s not what they call, but what you respond to.” Well, stop responding to what he is calling you. And, let him know that he is not going to disrespect you, demean you, or devalue you. He is not going to keep treating you like you are worthless. He is not going to keep screaming, yelling, and bullying you. It’s time you start learning how to love yourself because only someone who does not love themselves will allow someone to treat them like they are trash. You are not trash! You are not some gutter woman. You do everything for this man, and he wants to show you his a** to kiss, well, tell him to bend over and shove a big dildo up his a** and tell him to choke on that. Girl, you’re too valuable to let a man tear you down. You’re too important to let someone treat you like you’re unworthy. And, you’re too wise to let a man make you feel unappreciated. So, gather yourself, get your backbone, and lift your head and round your shoulders. Since his a** wants to be left alone, then stop answering the phone, calling him, and doing anything for him. Let him sit over there and stew in his own hatred. Let him sit alone in his own misery. Change your number, change your email, and block him out of your life. It’s time to rebuild yourself and reclaim your life without him. – Terrance Dean Hey Bossip Fam, what do you think? Share your opinions and thoughts below! Also, e-mail all your questions Terrance Dean : loveandrelationships@bossip.com Follow Terrance Dean on Twitter : @terrancedean “LIKE” Terrance Dean on Facebook , click  HERE! Make sure to order my books Mogul: A Novel (Atria Books – June 2011; $15), and Straight From Your Gay Best Friend – The Straight Up Truth About Relationships, Love, And Having A Fabulous Life (Agate/Bolden Books – November 2010; $15). They are available in bookstores everywhere, and on Amazon, click HERE!      

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‘X Factor’ Top 10 Get Into Thanksgiving Spirit

On Wednesday night’s episode, contestants dedicated songs to the person they are most thankful for. By Kara Warner Some of the Top 10 on “X Factor” Photo: Fox

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‘X Factor’ Top 10 Get Into Thanksgiving Spirit

On Wednesday night’s episode, contestants dedicated songs to the person they are most thankful for. By Kara Warner Some of the Top 10 on “X Factor” Photo: Fox

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First off I’m obsessed with MBE, and I have been waiting…

First off I’m obsessed with MBE, and I have been waiting for YEARS to post one of these! AHHH! Ok, here we go! My name is Grace and on October 27, 2012, my dream came true when I met Justin Bieber . I’ve been around ever since the YouTube days – he was the reason I got a Twitter account, and throughout high school everyone’s gotten to know me as “The big Justin Bieber fan.” In 2010 my friends and I lucked out and were able to get 8th row tickets for only $60 each at the My World Tour. Ever since I first saw him live, my life changed. I knew I needed to meet him and I needed to meet him soon. However, the past two years were filled only with new albums and talk show appearances. When it was finally announced that he would be going on tour again, my sister and I cried and cried with excitement knowing we’d get to see him again. It would be my second time and her first. The second we found out there would be a meet and greet contest on  bieberfever.com , we researched it and got ready to enter. We got together all the Justin Bieber stuff we had and wrote BieberFever a letter explaining how much we wanted to meet him and how much we deserved it. We joined  bieberfever.com  a few weeks before our concert and entered. October 26th came and all day I was a mess. I couldn’t stop checking my email, and by the time 5:00 came, I was laying on my bed, depressed, and told my mom I was sure we lost. I was about to go start getting ready for the concert the next day and I checked my e-mail one more time and there it was: “Congratulations Justin Bieber Fan!” and my heart dropped. I fell off my bed crying and screaming and ran to my sister’s room. I honestly couldn’t comprehend my life and I still can’t! That night was absolutely impossible to sleep. I only slept a few hours and then we decided to meet our friends early downtown. We tried to find Justin at the venue or his hotel. At 4:00 we picked up our meet and greet bracelets and I was pretty nervous. I mean what was I supposed to say to my idol, the person I had dreamed about meeting for four years? Justin is the person I would go to when I was sad. I listen to Born to Be Somebody, Never Say Never, Believe and Be Alright after a bad day and he’s always been my pick me up. He seriously means the world to me and I still couldn’t imagine that I would get to MEET HIM! We made friends with two cute girls in line and made a deal that two of us would stand on either side so we could crop each other out and it would be fair (since you have to go in groups of 6) and their moms stood on the ends. After they told us all the rules, we started to walk back to where Justin was. The whole thing was so surreal! The craziest part was that Kenny is the one who let us in and Alfredo is the one who TOOK OUR PICTURE. Like honestly, I would’ve been thrilled to just meet them! We walked in and there he was. I was totally in awe. His skin is as close to perfection as it gets and he’s really small, but still taller than me! I walked up and said “Hi Justin!” He said “Hi sweetheart, how are you?!” (Which the fact that he calls me sweetheart still makes me blush even just typing this) Then we smiled and took our picture. BTW: I’m standing right next to him and my sister Emily is next to me. While I was waiting for the other girls to hug Justin, I turned around and I saw him smiling with his arms already out and he gave me the best hug EVER! My sister hugged him again and I told him I loved him and thanked him for everything. He told me he loved me too and thanked me for coming out. We walked out and sobbed, seriously I still can’t believe it. HE ALSO SMILED WITH HIS TEETH! When we got to the concert we were sitting in the first row of the lower bowl and right by the catwalk. Kenny and Fredo walked by and I gave Kenny a high five! Then I yelled, “FREDO I LOVE YOU!” and he turned back around to smile at me and waved at me. The concert was absolutely amazing, the amount of talent Justin has is truly is incredible. Seriously, greatest night of my life. I also realized when we met him, he was most likely going through his break up with Selena and he smiled the entire meet and greet and didn’t act as though anything was wrong at all. It just goes to show how professional he is and I seriously respect him so much for that. He was SO sweet to us! The amount of things he does for his fans is INSANE. Justin has changed my life in so many ways, and I’m so blessed that I had my opportunity. But years ago I always used to think I would never meet him and I’d read these stories wishing that one day I would get to meet him. I’m writing this for those of you who’ve yet to meet him because with enough work and a little bit of luck, it can be you too! Justin taught me to never say never and he inspires me to never give up on my dreams . Keep dreaming and Never Say Never! Shout out to my sister @mohsiemohs and also my friend, @lexiegardiner, whose time to meet Justin hasn’t come yet, but I know it will some day. I love you both! -@gracemohsie See the rest here: First off I’m obsessed with MBE, and I have been waiting…

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Laura Govan Says “BBWLA” Co-Star Draya Michele Is A “Smut Bucket,” Says She Got Her Rocks Off Getting Even With Jackie

Looks like Laura Govan isn’t done throwing her co-stars under the bus. In an interview with Juicy Magazine Laura reveals her feelings about Jackie Christie, Draya Michele, her sister Gloria’s acting career and why people need to stop act like “Basketball Wives” is an accurate portrayal of black women: JUICY: There is an awkward vibe between you and Draya, what are your feelings about Draya and where does you’re issue with her stem from? LG: My focus wasn’t on nobody but Jackie. I could see everybody else for who they were. I didn’t like Draya [season 1] for scenes off camera, you guys couldn’t see. With Draya, I’m like, you’re still a sl*t bucket, but Draya is Draya. She does her thing. She’s like a blunt, you smoke it, you hit it, you pass it and then you toss it and then its a roach and you keep it moving. This year, she’s still the same person but she’s growing, taking ant steps, but she’s getting there. I don’t dislike Draya at all. JUICY: What were your initial thoughts of your sister, Gloria’s new role as an actress? LG: Initially when I seen it was like, ‘B!tch you’re the isht.’ We were all over the place. I was so happy for her. I was watching this person and I’m like, ‘That’s you?’ We were all excited. JUICY: What do you say to critics that say reality television depicts minority women negatively? LG: If you look at TV and you think that I’m portraying who you are as a Black woman you have issues. Look at TV for what it is – entertainment. If you want to be entertained watch my show. If you want to watch a woman portraying Black women, watch Oprah, don’t watch me. If you wanna get some jokes and you wanna laugh and you wanna be like ‘What no she didn’t’, then that’s this is the place to be. I don’t like when people look at it for anything else. Wow… Do you agree with her? She does kind of have a point. Anyone who thinks ALL black women act like them fools is cray.

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The Swirl: Eddie Murphy And His Blonde Jawn PDA It Up Courtside At The Lakers Game

This ish must be serious. When’s the last time you saw Eddie Murphy making out with a broad in public? Eddie Murphy and his Australian swirl boo Paige Butcher spent date night courtside watching the Lakers vs. Suns game at the Staples Center. Would you look at that body language? Hit the flip for the play-by-play

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Cover Girl Swag: Keyshia Cole Talks Falling For Her Baller Boo-Thang And Reveals Which Industry Couple She Looks Up To

Keyshia Cole Covers Rolling Out Magazine R&B songstress Keyshia Cole is gearing up for the release of her latest album “Woman” that hits stores on Monday. The blonde-haired Mrs. Gibson graces the cover of this month’s Rolling Out magazine and she sat down to chat it up about how she knew her hubby was the one, who she looks up to in the industry, and which high-paid Hollyweird power couple she respects the most. During that time, you also fell in love. Do you remember the day you realized Daniel was the one? I thought he was beautiful the first time we met. We had been talking for months before we physically met each other. We had ups and downs in our relationship, and we grew from it. When you make a commitment to marriage, you have to be serious about it. You can love the person you are with, but you have to be sure that you’re ready to make that commitment. This is not only for when times are good — marriage is for the remainder of our lives. [It’s for] building a life and making the best life for your children. Are there any couples in entertainment you admire for being examples of a strong family? I respect Beyoncé and Jay-Z, because I know how hard it can be to stay in love in this business. In the beginning, it appeared as if Jay-Z knew Beyoncé had work to do. I respect that. You can’t go into a relationship trying to change someone. You have to grow with that person and go through everything with them. That’s one thing that I noticed and I respect about them. Of course, I’m not with them every day, but that’s what I see from the outside looking in. What do you want your overall message to be for those who relate to your songs? I didn’t have great examples while coming up in Oakland. I was able to look to examples in the industry such as Brandy. She was able to do a lot at an early age. In Mary J. Blige I saw strength. She never gave up. That’s what I want to leave behind. I want young women to know that where they start doesn’t have to be where they finish. You have to take it a day at a time. You go through things, you learn and you keep fighting. Will you be checking for Keyshia’s new album once it hits stores? Check out a few recent candids of Keyshia and her favorite guys below. Twitter

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