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Oh Happy Gays? For Discussion: With The Spotlight On Frank Ocean’s Coming Out, Is Homosexuality Acceptable In Hip-Hop?

Frankly, Frank Ocean even has the gay community talking. While much of the hoopla behind Frank Ocean’s coming out has died down for the hip-hop community, many who are less aware of who he is as an artist have now turned their attention to the significance of his “Thank You” letter that was published shortly before his album debuted this Summer, and it’s meaning for the LGBT community. The subject garnered a long and insightful feature entitled “The Meaning Of Frank Ocean,” which was scribed by one of our contributing writers, Terrance Dean , in the latest issue of The Advocate magazine. (It’s kind of a big deal to have a black man on the cover of The Advocate too). It’s really long but definitely discussion worthy, so we’ve excerpted key portions below: “It was sheer joy because he was the first national well-known artist to come out and announce his sexuality,” says Lloyd Thurston “Gyant” Dinwiddie, referring to Ocean as the first black artist to come out to a hip-hop audience. “Frank Ocean is cemented in music history forever. Anyone who has walked in the LGBT shoes knows that story. His message related to people, and for him it was a weight lifted off his shoulder.” July 4, 2012, marked a declaration of freedom for 24-year-old R&B soul singer Ocean. It was his coming-out party, and we’d all been invited to the virtual parade. His image, that of a serious-looking, handsome young man with a strong jaw line, a short beard, and a short fade haircut, was circulating along with his letter. Those who hadn’t previously heard of Ocean quickly learned that his announcement was significant, and especially significant to watchers of hip-hop. But it wasn’t a shock to everyone. “I was like, What’s the big deal? It’s not like we all don’t know homosexuality exists and has its place in hip-hop,” says Reggie Osse, entertainment attorney, author, former TV executive, and host of The Combat Jack Show. Osse has represented artists including Damon Dash, Missy Elliott, Timbaland, Puffy, and DMX. He was instrumental in helping Jay-Z secure his first recording deal. “I was really happy that Frank Ocean took his life and career into his own hands and made his proclamation,” says Osse. “It’s the first announcement of someone making a statement willingly. But let’s not act like this doesn’t exist.” Before long music celebrities including Russell Simmons, Solange Knowles, 50 Cent, Jay-Z, and Beyoncé began tweeting and posting messages of support for Ocean. Even Odd Future member Tyler the Creator, who’s well-known for his use of the word “fa**ot,” tweeted how proud he was of his brother and friend. It seemed as if the hip-hop industry, which has notoriously been a closed boys’ club that shuns and ostracizes gay, lesbian, bisexual, and transgender people, had experienced a change of heart. Hadn’t Jay-Z, a towering figure in hip-hop, just recently announced his support of marriage equality, following a message of support by President Obama? Jay-Z had seemingly just given Ocean a pass and ushered him into the boys’ club. And not from afar: Ocean had written and performed on Jay-Z and Kanye West’s hip-hop album Watch the Throne. “I’m surprised that a lot of young gay people flocked to him, like he was doing something big,” says gay rapper Deadlee. “My first reaction was like he didn’t do anything. It didn’t seem to me like it was that big of a deal. But then I did research and discovered he was a part of Odd Future, and Tyler the Creator, who is always saying ‘fa**ot this’ and ‘fa**ot that.’ I was like, Whoa! This dude [Ocean] never checked him. Maybe they knew the whole time, and they were taking the word back and not tripping on it.” Reggie Osse, describing homophobia in hip-hop, says, “I had a conversation with rapper Lil B last year. We were talking about the changing values thematically and what these new rappers are doing. However, the old-guard rappers are like Republicans and want things to stay the same. Whereas hip-hop is changing, and many who are born in this culture are taking it to another place. There are some old-school cats who want to keep rap conservative. Some of my friends who are in hip-hop are very adamant that there is no place for gays. They begin quoting the Bible, and they are coming from an antiquated way of thinking.” “I believe in…one’s right to be free,” says legendary rapper MC Lyte. “When we as a community, be it African American, the entertainment industry, or just the block, allow someone’s sexual, political, or religious preference to cloud our ability to see their true spirit, we lose. We lose the opportunity to fully embrace another one of God’s children. Truthfully, no matter how much an individual would love to point out the differences between themselves and another, we are all one.” Ocean may have received support by some influential hip-hop figures. But the list of artists who were not willing to discuss him for this article is revealing. B.o.B., Lupe Fiasco, Trey Songz, Jaheim, and Wiz Khalifa declined to discuss the subject. The representatives for Queen Latifah, Missy Elliott, and Nicki Minaj said their clients were busy and unavailable for comment. “I’m an advocate for those in my family and those who I am close to, and I am an advocate for the homosexual community,” says rapper Murs who recently released a shocking music video for his single “Animal Style.” Both the single and video feature a young man as he struggles with his sexual orientation, and portray the conflict he feels as he begins to date another man. Murs plays his boyfriend. In the video, the two men share a kiss. He explains that he spoke with his wife prior to making the video, and she fully supported him and the concept. Murs faced significant opposition in making the song. “I wanted to do this song for five years, and for five years producers did not want to touch the song,” he says. “They didn’t want to be associated with the subject matter. However, those same producers are now calling me and supporting me and saying they are proud of me.” Murs says he did the video and song to let his gay friends, associates, and fellow rappers know that he was aware of their being closeted and that he still cared for them. “I wanted to give them their moment and let them know that the door is open and I am going to take a stance for them,” Murs says. “And I think with artists like Jay-Z, Frank Ocean, and myself, homophobia in hip-hop will disappear. “Teenagers are killing themselves,” he continues. “We have to stop this because people are losing their lives and getting beat to death. It makes me extremely sad. I can’t watch children die.” Ocean has largely refused to do interviews on this subject, and even in his interview in the British newspaper The Guardian, he doesn’t address the issue of labels. “A lot of people were giving Frank Ocean props and saying that he was letting everyone come into his world, as opposed to coming out,” Deadlee says. “In his letter he never used the word ‘gay,’ and this guy is getting more props for not even using the word or even identifying in his letter. I’m gay and I’m not afraid to use the word. I hope that Frank Ocean comes to the point of not being afraid to use the ‘gay’ word.” Though he doesn’t give his sexual orientation a label in the letter, Ocean does describe relationships with women. “Frank Ocean never said he was gay or bisexual, he just said he was in love with a man,” says Ebony Utley, an assistant professor in communication studies at California State University, Long Beach. “It was others who needed to identify and label him instead of him, and allowing him to do it for himself. Let’s let the man define himself… Besides, he was wise not to say anything beyond his letter, and that’s what he needed to sell his record.” Though the declarations of support for Ocean by 50 Cent and Jay-Z were a milestone in hip-hop, Utley notes, “Frank Ocean is an R&B singer. Let’s be clear, hip-hop hasn’t had its first openly gay artist. No rapper has come out. Honestly, we don’t know what the support will be for an openly gay rapper because one has not come out.” Singer-rapper-songwriter Meshell Ndegeocello wasn’t ashamed to speak about her bisexuality. She was one of the first artists to be signed to Madonna’s record label, Maverick Records, in 1992. Her latest album, Pour une Ame Souveraine: A Dedication to Nina Simone, is due out October 9. On Ndegeocello’s controversial single “Leviticus: Fa**ot,” she spoke candidly about a young man discovering his homosexuality and the rejection from his family. Though a few brave artists have come out, rising above homophobia will require significant effort from the R&B and hip-hop communities, both gay and straight. Ndegeocello acknowledges the difficulty: “I think it’s harder for men,” she says. “Men need a movement. It’s harder to be black, gay, and male. It makes me have the utmost respect for black gay men in an industry of hypermasculinity.” For several years hip-hop has been described as being at a tipping point with regard to homophobia, yet the toppling of a pervasive attitude has yet to be achieved. Frank Ocean hasn’t yet said what it means to be Frank Ocean, but with each significant coming-out, the haters have less standing to insist that LGBTs have no place in hip-hop. What do you think? Did Frank Ocean open the door to gay hip-hop artists being accepted if they come out of the closet, or will it be years before a gay rapper can be open and successful? Please discuss! You can read the fully article HERE

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Question Of The Day: Does Kanye West Want Kimmy Cakes to Record Another Freaky Flick For Him…For The Sake Of “Art”???

He’s just kidding like Jason…unless she gon’ do it! Rumors Surface Claiming Kanye West Wants Kim Kardashian To Shoot Another Sex Tape Kim Kardashian, 31, is still trying to live down the sleazy sex tape she made with ex-boyfriend Ray J that “leaked” in 2007. So shes’s horrified, sources say, that her boyfriend, Kanye West, wants her to make another. “He always tells Kim that she should showcase her amazing body whenever possible,” says a friend. The rapper-designer, 35, swears that their filmed fornication will be art, not smut. “but Kim isn’t so sure just yet,” the insider says. Shes’s curious–but “scared to take the idea to her momager, Kris!” Let’s just keep it all the way 100, if a Kim Kardashian and Kanye West freak fornication flick “leaked” the Earth would probably stop spinning and the internet would crash. Besides, if you can make one with Brandy’s little brother then SURELY Mr. West deserves a shot to tap that a$$ on camera right?? Image via PCN Star Magazine

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Question Of The Day: Does Kanye West Want Kimmy Cakes to Record Another Freaky Flick For Him…For The Sake Of “Art”???

He’s just kidding like Jason…unless she gon’ do it! Rumors Surface Claiming Kanye West Wants Kim Kardashian To Shoot Another Sex Tape Kim Kardashian, 31, is still trying to live down the sleazy sex tape she made with ex-boyfriend Ray J that “leaked” in 2007. So shes’s horrified, sources say, that her boyfriend, Kanye West, wants her to make another. “He always tells Kim that she should showcase her amazing body whenever possible,” says a friend. The rapper-designer, 35, swears that their filmed fornication will be art, not smut. “but Kim isn’t so sure just yet,” the insider says. Shes’s curious–but “scared to take the idea to her momager, Kris!” Let’s just keep it all the way 100, if a Kim Kardashian and Kanye West freak fornication flick “leaked” the Earth would probably stop spinning and the internet would crash. Besides, if you can make one with Brandy’s little brother then SURELY Mr. West deserves a shot to tap that a$$ on camera right?? Image via PCN Star Magazine

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Question Of The Day: Is Usher A Douche-Bag Piece Of Isht Beyotch For Proceeding With Custody Battle Against Tameka Foster After She Just Buried Her Son???

Damn bruh, WTF? Usher Plans To Continue Custody Battle With Tameka Foster Although Tameka Foster is clearly still grieving the loss of her son Kile, her ex-husband Usher can’t see ‘em coming down his eyes, so he’s gotta make the mom cry. The R&B superstar is said to have plans to continue his heated battle with Tameka for custody of his two children Usher Raymond V and Naviyd. Not only is the trial going to continue, people close to Tameka seem to think that “Ursha” used Kile’s death to gain some sort of PR advantage and gain sympathy from his fans. We feel like the only reason he came at all is because the media kept portraying Kile as “Usher’s stepson.” He wasn’t supportive to the family at all and we feel he used the situation to draw sympathy from his fans. The sad thing about this entire situation is that Tameka swallowed her pride and actually reached out to Usher while Kile was hospitalized. She could never get him on the phone so she left a message begging him to help her with some of the expenses her insurance wouldn’t cover. He never returned her calls and when Kile passed away Tameka reached out to him again and he still hasn’t responded to this day. It’s my understanding that they’re scheduled to resume the case in court Aug. 13th. Looks like the rumors that Ursh was dropping the case was just a bunch of BS. Usher had no intention of dropping that custody dispute and his high powered PR team leaked that fake story about him wanting to settle, hoping fans would think that it was Tameka who is being uncooperative but that is so far from the truth. What an azzhole! Do you think that Usher is dead azz wrong to be acting like this or is he perfectly within his rights? Image via SpalshNews StraightFromTheA

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Arsenio Hall Officially Locks Down Late Night Show Hosting Job

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Were You Watching The Premiere Of “Love And Hip-Hop Atlanta”? Is Stevie J’s Sidechick Really A Shim?

Joseline? No way José! Fans Question If “Love And Hip-Hop Atlanta” Cast Member Joseline Hernandez Is Transgender If you are anything like us, if you were watching the premiere of “Love and Hip-Hop Atlanta” last night you probably had more than a few questions about Stevie J’s “artist” Joseline, who calls him Daddy, likes to rock bandanas around her head and speaks with a mangled countrified Spanish accent. The first episode got right to the drama, with Stevie J getting caught out there with Joseline after a mutual friend tells longtime girlfriend Mimi that she’s met Stevie’s girl Joseline and she’s a real “ride or die” chick. In too many “this can’t be real” reality tv moments, Joseline claims Stevie “f***s my brain,” taunts Mimi for being “emotional” and chides Stevie J for messing up her “fur I bought at Neiman Marcus.” Personally, we were a little taken aback that Stevie’s girlfriend even agreed to do the show, because it’s only the first episode and she already looks more played out than the original long suffering “Love & Hip-Hop” babymama — Emily B! But back to the topic at hand. Joseline. Is she all woman or not? Cuz clearly them hard bubbles on her chest didn’t come from God! Bossip was at the Atlanta screening party for the show when a blogger asked if there was a transgender cast member. Hit the flip to watch Joseline defend her womanhood.

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Question Of The Day: Is The Man Who Killed The Child Molester Who Harmed His Child A Criminal?

Is The Man Who Killed The Child Molester Who Harmed His Child A Criminal In Shiner, Texas, there’s little doubt among residents that a 23-year-old man who reportedly killed a man he found molesting his 5-year-old daughter in a horse barn should be hailed as a hero, not denounced as a criminal. Yet some legal experts question why the father hasn’t yet been arrested and charged with murder, saying vigilante justice, no matter how the circumstances come about, can’t be tolerated in a civil society. A Texas grand jury will have to deal with those questions next week as it takes a deeper look at the circumstances of the killing, and whether the father was justified in hitting the man so hard with his fists that he died. In most jurisdictions, according to “Criminal Law,” a widely used textbook, the use of fists in defense if there are no other weapons present is automatically an example of reasonable force. But in this case, were emotions an extenuating circumstance that caused the angry dad to go too far? More broadly, when is a person in a defensive fight required to stop? “Assuming it’s true that this guy was molesting the daughter … he would then have the right to defend her and hit him enough to have him stop,” James Harrington, director of the Texas Civil Rights Project, told Foxnews.com. “But you cannot summarily execute him, even though I can understand the anger he would have.” He added: “The question is: When does it move beyond self-defense?” The killing happened last Saturday, according to Lacava County Sheriff Micah Harmon, after the man’s daughter had gone to a barn to feed the family’s chickens, and then began screaming. When the father ran to investigate, he found a man described as a family acquaintance, a horse groomer, sexually abusing the girl. Police have not released any names, in part to protect the girl’s identity, and, in the case of the man who was killed, because they have not yet located his relatives in Mexico. According to the county coroner, the man died of blunt force trauma to the head and neck. Eyewitnesses arrived to see the alleged molester already on the ground, not moving. The girl was taken to a hospital, where she was treated and released for minor injuries. While police continue to investigate, they have so far found no reason to disbelieve the man’s story. The dad “had remorse,” says Sheriff Harmon. “It wasn’t his intent [to kill anybody]. He was protecting his daughter and doing what he thought he had to do to protect his daughter.” Discuss… Source

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Question Of The Day: Would You Go See A Film Called “Dear White People”?

We would… This looks like it could spark some real conversation about race . Indie Film “Dear White People” Satirizes Being Black In Very White Places There’s an independent film in the works called “Dear White People” which is being called “a satire about being black in a very white place” that we wanted to expose you to. Check out the trailer below then peep the info about how you can help bring it to theaters: Here’s some info from the fundraising site that’s trying to get up the gwap to make this film happen: Remember when Black movies didn’t neccesarily star a dude in a fat suit and a wig? Or have major plot twists timed to Gospel numbers for no apparent reason? No? Damn… Well believe it or not there was a time when “Black Art-House” was a thing. When movies like Do The Right Thing, Hollywood Shuffle, and Boyz In Da Hood were breaking box office records as well as making us laugh, cry, and think in ways movies hadn’t before. The humble producers of DEAR WHITE PEOPLE, a satire about being a black face in a white place, long to bring those days back. But we can’t do it without you! Here’s the deal…we’re looking to raise seed money that will go a tremondously long way in securing the capital we’ll need to produce our million dollar indie feature. With our trailer, script and your help, we believe we can bring this exciting piece of cinema to life! Join us, won’t you? If you’re down for the cause head to their site to contribute HERE What do you think about this film and the premise? Will we see this one come to the big screen?

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Question Of The Day: Would You Go See A Film Called “Dear White People”?

We would… This looks like it could spark some real conversation about race . Indie Film “Dear White People” Satirizes Being Black In Very White Places There’s an independent film in the works called “Dear White People” which is being called “a satire about being black in a very white place” that we wanted to expose you to. Check out the trailer below then peep the info about how you can help bring it to theaters: Here’s some info from the fundraising site that’s trying to get up the gwap to make this film happen: Remember when Black movies didn’t neccesarily star a dude in a fat suit and a wig? Or have major plot twists timed to Gospel numbers for no apparent reason? No? Damn… Well believe it or not there was a time when “Black Art-House” was a thing. When movies like Do The Right Thing, Hollywood Shuffle, and Boyz In Da Hood were breaking box office records as well as making us laugh, cry, and think in ways movies hadn’t before. The humble producers of DEAR WHITE PEOPLE, a satire about being a black face in a white place, long to bring those days back. But we can’t do it without you! Here’s the deal…we’re looking to raise seed money that will go a tremondously long way in securing the capital we’ll need to produce our million dollar indie feature. With our trailer, script and your help, we believe we can bring this exciting piece of cinema to life! Join us, won’t you? If you’re down for the cause head to their site to contribute HERE What do you think about this film and the premise? Will we see this one come to the big screen?

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Trapped In The Closet: Did Obama Accidentally Out ABC’s Robin Roberts With Gay Marriage Interview???

Obama Unintentionally Brought Attention To Robin Roberts’ Sexuality With Gay Marriage Interview Is “Good Morning America” host Robin Roberts trapped in the closet? And did her historic interview with Barack Obama just bring more attention to rumors about her own sexuality? That’s what some folks are saying: President Obama may have unintentionally “outed” ABC newswoman Robin Roberts by giving the “Good Morning America” host his historic gay-marriage interview. Insiders say the president had no idea that the 51-year-old had long been at the center of gay rumors. And while the unmarried “GMA” star knew that taking on the assignment would shine a spotlight on her personal life, insiders say there was no way she was “going to turn down a career-making interview,” said a friend. “It was the first time a sitting president declared his support for same-sex marriage. “When Robin was told by ABC bosses that she was handpicked for the interview, she immediately put her personal issues to the side and said she’d do it. “But it appears Obama knew nothing of the rumors, and in some respects he may have unintentionally outed her by making her Robin has never been linked romantically to a man, and Internet bloggers have been buzzing for years that she may “play for the same team.” After the May 9 interview at the White House, the gay website Queerty.com questioned whether Obama chose Robin for the interview because he’d heard the rumors that she was a lesbian. Throughout her career, Robin has tried to steer clear of discussing her sexuality. A breast cancer survivor, she lives on New York’s Upper West Side with her Jack Russell terrier, K.J. “The White House never told ABC or Robin why she was chosen,” noted a source. “She wants to believe it was because she’s a fair and accurate TV journalist. “But if she is gay, it’s certainly going to make her even more popular in that community than she already is.” SMH @ 51-years-old living on Upper West Side with her Jack Russell terrier K.J… Poor thang! Not that there is anything wrong with being single at any age, it’s just the way they painted her all “pitiful”. We weren’t even thinking about whether or not Robin was gay when Obama was talking to her, but now that they mention it… What do you think? Source Getty Images Continue reading