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Kendra Wilkinson: Divorce Means I’m All Alone on Christmas. MEH!

In October of this year, Kendra Wilkinson and Hank Baskett finally divorced . It’s really, truly over. Now, some of the realities of that are just sinking in — as Kendra experienced her first Christmas as a divorced mother. In a heartfelt message to fans, she reveals the real emotional pitfalls of sharing your kids on a major holiday. “This early morning we woke up, opened up presents, and rode around on our new bikes for an hour,” Kendra’s Instagram post begins. “I never thought I’d ever hear the words “this is more fun than Fortnite” but I did,” she writes, adding: “LOL.” Fortnite is a battle royale style game, made by Epic Games, that is extremely popular with younger kids. Though it’s great to see children enjoying themselves and engaging with peers, Kendra probably appreciated hearing the white lie that bike-riding is more fun. “I gotta be real though…” Kendra says. “After this bike ride,” she reveals. “I had to give my babies up.” Kendra refers to sending her kids to their dad’s house now that she and Hank are divorced. “This is the first year I’m literally alone..” Kendra laments. At least, she reveals, she was alone “’til @iamjessicahall just invited me over.” “I just want to say how beautiful your pictures are with your families on Christmas,” Kendra writes on Instagram. Kendra is known for a lot of social media engagement with her fans. Kendra affirms: “I feel warm and happy for all of you who are lucky to have what you do.” “My day is going in waves,” Kendra explains. “Being my first year separated.” Of course! “I have music/movies on, enjoying myself and then [it] hits me,” she reveals. That is very normal for anyone grappling with a new reality. But Kendra says that she is “doing a lot better than I predicted.” Having sudden moments of sadness is a lot better than being a weepy mess like you’re on a commercial for a mood stabilizer. “And,” Kendra says. “Friends reaching out makes me smile.” Sometimes, you want to be alone to process your emotions and to just experience your life. Other times, you welcome a distraction and emotional support from loved ones. Kendra needs that right now. “But,” she admits, it is “hard adjusting to new after years of what I believed was perfection.” Absolutely. From death to divorce, the first “different” holiday can really drive home how much your life has been transformed. “Definitely not looking for sympathy,” Kendra clarifies. “Just telling my story.” Just because other people have it worse doesn’t mean that Kendra doesn’t deserve sympathy, folks. “Sure divorced peeps can relate lol,” she suggests. She is totally right. “Anyways,” Kendra concludes. “Off to @iamjessicahall house.” Good for her for doing her best to enjoy the holiday. Some divorced parents are, quite frankly, not as lucky as Kendra. Sometimes a mom who has primary custody doesn’t see her children for weeks around Christmas or other key holidays. This of course leaves one parent as the parent who reminds children to do their homework, while another is the “fun” parent they see on holidays. It’s great to see that she and Hank were able to work it out so that they could both see their kids, even on big days like Christmas. Dividing time may not be fun, but it certainly beats the alternative. We imagine that little Hank and Alijah didn’t mind it. Though it’s not always true when there’s a divorce, some kids really do get twice the presents — or close enough — when their parents split. it’s always good to look for a silver lining. View Slideshow: Kendra Wilkinson Bawls Over Divorce, Cries Out: I’m Not Perfect, Okay?!?

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Demi Lovato Celebrates Christmas, Speaks Out on Recovery

It’s been over five months since Demi Lovato suffered an overdose that nearly claimed her life. Lovato checked into rehab after the incident and spent 90 days dividing her time between two top-notch facilities and two teams of experts. These days, the singer is out of treatment, and insiders say she’s fully committed to the hard work of recovery. Lovato has been sharing frequent updates with her fans on social media, and yesterday, she took to Instagram to post some holiday photos. While it appears that Demi had a very merry Christmas, she’s also experienced some frustrations as of late, and she took to Twitter last week to clear the air. “If I feel like the world needs to know something, I will tell them MYSELF,” the singer tweeted on December 21. “Otherwise people stop writing about my recovery, because it’s no one’s business but mine. I am sober and grateful to be alive and taking care of ME. “Someday I’ll tell the world what exactly happened, why it happened and what my life is like today.. but until I’m ready to share that with people please stop prying and making up shit that you know nothing about. I still need space and time to heal.” Lovato continued: “I would love to set the record straight on all the rumors out there but I literally don’t owe anyone anything so I’m not going to. All my fans need to know is I’m working hard on myself, I’m happy and clean and I’m SO grateful for their support.  “I’m so blessed I get to take this time to be with family, relax, work on my mind, body and soul and come back when I’m ready. I have my fans to thank for that. I’m so grateful, truly. I love you guys so fucking much  thank you.” While fans have been eager for updates on Demi’s health, most of the responses to her tweets were messages of support and promises to respect her privacy. It’s certainly understandable that Lovato would prefer to avoid public scrutiny during her healing process, and given her close relationship with her fans, we’re sure she’ll offer more information when she feels the time is right. We wish her all the best in her continued recovery. View Slideshow: Demi Lovato: Stars Shower Her With Love After Overdose

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