So he told you he was unhappy and that he wished he met you three years ago. He says that they sleep in separate beds and he is only with her for the kids. He even told you he was looking for a place and asked you to help him. Sweetheart, I’m sorry to break it to you but he is lying. He is not going anywhere and you’re being played for a fool… Ladies, let me tell you a few secrets about men. To begin with they crave stability. Even if he is so called ‘unhappy’ at home its unlikely that he will uproot himself and go look for another place to live alone, his woman will have to leave him first. Men are also smarter than we think. They can sense weakness and desperation a mile away and take advantage of a woman if she allows him too. If he can have his cake and eat it too, trust me he will. Continued at MadameNoire.com
They do studies on anything these days: Affairs may do more than break hearts — they may break penises as well, a new study says. Sex outside marriage, and sex that occurs under out-of-the-norm circumstances, may increase the risk of penile fractures, said study researcher said Dr. Andrew Kramer, a urologist at the University of Maryland Medical Center. The heightened risk appears to be due to the unconventional situations, and consequently, locations, surrounding sexual acts, the researchers said. Men in the study who had suffered penis fractures commonly were having sex in unusual settings, including in restrooms or at work, when the injury occurred. The majority were having extramarital affairs. In such atypical situations, sex may be rushed and involve unusual or awkward sexual positions, Kramer said. “All these factors could make the man less able to protect his penis from an unexpected sudden downward thrust leading to the fracture,” Kramer said. A penile facture, or “broken penis,” is an injury that occurs to the erect penis. There are no bones in the penis; the “fracture” refers to tearing or laceration of a fibrous membrane called the tunica albuginea, which surrounds the spongy tissue in the center of the penis. A “fracture” is followed by hemorrhaging, swelling and loss of erection. While previous research has focused on the physiological mechanism of the facture, and how to surgically treat it, no study has looked at exactly what men were doing when they broke their penises. Kramer’s study aimed to fill this gap. Kramer studied 16 cases of penile fractures treated at the University of Maryland Hospital between 2004 and 2011. He reported the findings in the Journal of Sexual Medicine. Source
