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Monyetta Shaw Admits That It Hurts To See Ne-Yo Happy With Crystal Renay

Ne-Yo’s Ex Monyetta Shaw Shares Sterilization Regret She may have landed a swirly millionaire boo , but Monyetta Shaw is still dealing with the fact that she may never have kids again after undergoing a sterilization procedure in 2011. In a lengthy tell-all to the New York post, the mother two of Ne-Yo’s kids shares her regret and how she’s moving on. Via NYP : On getting her tubes burned: On Oct. 9, 2011, I delivered a healthy baby boy, my second child, Mason, and I finally felt my family was complete. So before the doctors finished up in the delivery room, I told them: “I want you to burn my fallopian tubes.” My fiancé, Shaffer Chimere Smith (better known as R&B artist Ne-Yo), was right by my side, holding my hand the entire time. The doctor must have asked us eight times if this was what we wanted. Each time, we both replied yes. Sterilization was something Ne-Yo and I discussed thoroughly in the months leading up to the baby’s delivery. We had a daughter, Madilyn, in 2010, and two children seemed like more than enough for the both of us. Ne-Yo also agreed to undergo a vasectomy to show our mutual commitment to the relationship. On the aftermath: It hurts to see them parade their love on social media. They recently married, on Feb. 20, and Crystal gave birth to their first son. She seems like a nice girl, but I would be worried if I were she. How does she know that he’s not going to do the same thing to her that he did to me? Adding to the pain is knowing that if I find another man to love, I may not be able to start a family with him. I’m too scared to go to a doctor to find out if there’s anything they can do about it. Because I do want to get married someday, and if my future husband does not have kids, I will want to have his children. […] Now I look back and wonder what I was thinking. I love hard, and I made so many permanent decisions based on what I thought a man wanted from me, not what I wanted for myself. When my daughter comes of age, I will tell her: “Your body is your temple. Don’t do anything to it you don’t want to regret.” Today, I’m finally at peace. I took awhile to get here, and I don’t know if I’ll ever be exactly where I want to be, but I make the choice each day to be happy, not just for me, but for my two kids. That’s where the title of my book comes from — this is all bigger than me. Do you think Monyetta should find out if she can reverse the procedure?

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Monyetta Shaw Admits That It Hurts To See Ne-Yo Happy With Crystal Renay

Sizzle Alert: Get Look At ‘Magic Mike XXL’s’ First Trailer (VIDEO)

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Get those dollars ready, the boys are back! Warner Bros. has just released the first trailer for the highly anticipated movie Magic Mike XXL! Three years…

Sizzle Alert: Get Look At ‘Magic Mike XXL’s’ First Trailer (VIDEO)

Midday Motivation | The Pain Of Regret Is Worse Than Failure

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“The pain of regret is worse than failure.” – M.T.Collins Don’t let the fear of failure intimidate you from going after your dream. It’s better…

Midday Motivation | The Pain Of Regret Is Worse Than Failure

Midday Motivation | A Moment Of Anger Can Cause A Lifetime Of Regret

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When you fight fire with fire, you end up with ashes. – Anon Remember, the best answer to anger is silence. When you react while…

Midday Motivation | A Moment Of Anger Can Cause A Lifetime Of Regret

Maria More’s Midday Motivation | Your Anger Will Burn You

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When you fight fire with fire, you end up with ashes. – Anon If you respond while you are mad, you’ll only add more damage to the situation. Remember, the best answer to anger is silence. If you have a disagreement with someone, make sure you pause BEFORE you respond. A moment of anger can cause a lifetime of regret.

Maria More’s Midday Motivation | Your Anger Will Burn You