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How To Bounce Back Big In 2018

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2017 was a YEAR! Every year has its peaks and valleys, but for many 2017 represented 365 days of extreme challenges. Whirlwind romances and an uncertain economy have left a lot of us licking our wounds personally and professionally. If you took some “L’s” last year, here are some ways to change your approach to love and your career for 2018 and bounce back in a BIG way. 1. It’s OK To Be “In Your Feelings.”  The biggest mistake most people make after a breakup is diving headfirst into anything that will make them forget the pain of what happened. It could be starting an intense workout regimen, a new pet, going vegan, a new boo…any project to keep them distracted. This never works. Let yourself feel all the things…hurt, embarrassment, rage, jealousy…all of it. The sooner you let yourself process all of the emotions the sooner you will stop stalking your ex on social media and get on with your amazing life! 2. Was It Them Or Was It Me? After a relationship ends it is really easy to open a bottle of wine (or 2!) and spend hours blaming the other person. While you’re busy pointing the finger at them, it may be time for some self-reflection. Were there red flags you ignored? Were you fully present in the relationship and giving your all or were you just going through the motions? Sometimes getting dumped is necessary to make us take a closer look at ourselves and what we can do to be a better partner the next time. If we’re honest, we ALL have some work to do. Let this break up be the start of your journey to your best self. 3. I nstead Of Updating Your Instagram…Update Your LinkedIn Account.  There is nothing fabulous about getting fired. Stop posting brunch photos and playing with Snapchat filters and get your LinkedIn account popping. Unlike a breakup, this is one relationship you need to bounce back from immediately. If you were slacking at work and getting let go was justified, it is time to step it up. There is no excuse for being late, missed deadlines, or taking a million sick days. In 2018 stop making excuses and start pounding the digital pavement. Update your resume and hope whomever they ask for a reference at your old job is having a good day when they call!  4. Find The Lesson In Being Let Go One of my biggest mental shifts happened when I stopped asking, “Why did this happen  to  me?” and instead started asking “Why did this happen  for  me?” Getting laid off is never ideal, but look at it as an opportunity to take some time (within reason) to start focusing on the career or life goals you really want to achieve. Sometimes when we are in a safe job we aren’t pushed to really go for what we want. Let 2018 be the year you go for it. If you’ve been laid off take a week to feel bad, binge watch all the shows you’ve missed, and then get to work on a new plan. Use your network and let them know your ideas and plans. Your dream job could be a conversation away. The job is gone…you probably didn’t love it anyway. Be thankful for the freedom to try something new. Here’s to a happy, healthy, prosperous 2018! DON’T MISS: How To Ball Out On A Budget With Entry Level Salary #HelloWorld: How To Get To Cuba Before Trump Shuts The Whole Thing Down Zora Neale Hurston’s Profile Of Last Surviving US Slave To Be Published In 2018 [ione_media_gallery src=”https://hellobeautiful.com” id=”2972956″ overlay=”true”]  

How To Bounce Back Big In 2018

Bella Thorne’s Bikini Top of the Day

In very life changing and important news, while people in Houston are struggling to pump out their homes and salvage their cowboy hats, while the world is going completely insane with their nazi bullshit, or terrorism bullshit, or taxation bullshit….as we all sink deeper and deeper into debt…and work harder and harder for the man…getting all obese, sick but unable to treat it due to healthcare… Really important people come along to inspire us to push forward…like Bella Thorne… The jacked up faced Disney Kid exploited by her mom after her dad died to be a child star…all her siblings pushed into it…she’s the one who stuck… So while we all sit here struggling, we can be inspired knowing the half naked exhibitionist with an awesome body, who has really done zero in terms of inspirational work in her career or life, unless you’re like me and think being a hot and half naked exhibitionist is inspirational… So while we all sit here struggling to make ends meet, we can fill our brains with new of this vapid character, clickbait really, dyed her hair back to orange – probably for a role – rather than keeping it all fucking unicorn bullshit…and the whole world can be inspired to go on. The struggling in Houston…knowing that bitch dyed her hair back to orange and did a bikini dance about it…can forget their troubles…and if they’re like me…be a little more inspired to strap rocks to yourself and hope to drown in 6 inches of water in your bathroom floor.. One more video: TO SEE MORE PICS OF HER IN SOME BIKINI TOP FOR THE PAPARAZZI CLICK HERE The post Bella Thorne’s Bikini Top of the Day appeared first on DrunkenStepFather.com .

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Bella Thorne’s Bikini Top of the Day

Carmen Electra Performing of the Day

Carmen Electra’s recent performance at the Avalon in Hollywood brings up an interesting discussion point….At what point in a woman’s career or Life cycle, does it become pathetic to strip down and put on some ridiculous Cruise Ship Entertainment performance….as if it is anything other than a comedy or novelty act. I understand that she’s got an amazing body, probably because she needs to have an amazing body, she’s Carmen Electra and that’s all she has going for her…I also understand that she decided to ride into menopause instead of having kids that would destroy her body…I also understand that old girls can come along every once in a while and look great, no matter how many weird things they have inserted in their vaginas…or how well travelled those labias are… But there is always a tipping point, when the stripper in the stripclub reaches day shift…because night shift is for the young ones… I am not hating, I just don’t get it. I mean I am sure this will be a great hit in the retirement community she lives in….or for a halloween act…dinner party- pull out granny’s old bag of tricks…but as a serious project, it’s pretty embarrassing… But I’m sure her 40 year old fans, who have been with her since 1992 are loving every second of this, since she looks a lot better than their wives… TO SEE THE REST OF THE PICS CLICK HERE

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Carmen Electra Performing of the Day