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Fernanda Flores: Jonathan Put Me Through HELL!

Ever since Jonathan Rivera and Fernanda Flores split, the 90 Day Fiance pair have been making veiled statements on social media. Until now, the latest barb from either side was Fernanda accusing Jonathan of being disloyal . That was before Fernanda took to Instagram to reflect upon going through “hell” — that was the word she used. Perhaps she meant it as an insult towards Jonathan, or maybe she just wanted to sound inspiring. Either way, she received intense backlash from fans. Fernanda ended up revising her words. Take a look for yourself and decide exactly what she's trying to say about her ex: 1. Fernanda Flores is getting slammed It began when she reflected upon having gone through “hell,” presumably during her marriage to her now estranged husband, Jonathan Rivera. 2. She shared this photo While Fernanda is a gorgeous model and looks great in this bra, it was her caption that drew the ire of fans once the pic had drawn their eye. 3. This is the original version Yes, this is the “original,” because Fernanda changed it after some massive backlash. This screenshot was snapped by 90 Day Fiance blogger John Yates, who also preserved some of the intense comments that you’re about to see. 4. She went through HELL? One woman speaks about the devastating impact that cancer has had on her family. Another commenter laughs at the idea of an 18-year-old giving her advice (point of order: Fernanda is 20). Another says what everyone is thinking: that describing her experience as “hell” sounds a little over-the-top. 5. Fernanda replied to some After one tried to call her out on doling out sage wisdom, Fernanda replied: “You don’t know me; You only know what I allow you to know.” True enough. Unlike some of her castmates (Leida, Larissa), Fernanda’s life is not an open book. 6. And the hits kept coming Again and again, Fernanda was reminded that some people’s lives are so much worse than hers, and that experiencing a breakup is bad, but not on a scale where people are going to chime in if she’s feeling sorry for herself. View Slideshow

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90 Day Fiance Couple Jonathan Rivera and Fernanda Flores: It’s Over!

Of all of this season's couples, one of the few that seemed to really get it together was Jonathan Rivera and Fernanda Flores. They overcame an age gap, homesickness, and jealousy issues and ended up getting married on 90 Day Fiance . Sadly, just days ago, they split — and are now taking shots at each other on social media. Jonathan Rivera and Fernanda Flores were one of the couples to root for on this season of 90 Day Fiance . Sure, they had an age gap that raised some eyebrows at first (including ours). But it looked like they'd overcome everything to be together. A man going on vacation and meeting a beautiful woman and then extending his vacation to spend more time with her is the stuff of romance movies. Now, the two appear to have broken up, right around New Year's Eve. Jonathan wrote about welcoming 2019 with his family — and Fernanda was nowhere to be found. And then there were his replies on Instagram: “No she's in Houston,” he told one follower. “She wanted to pursue a modeling career in Chicago.” He then accuses that Fernanda “decided to leave and realized she couldn't do it on her own.” “She said MANY things you can't take back that I won't mention,” he says of their breakup. He signs off: “you'll have to trust me when I tell you, good luck.” “Well everything we had was real,” he told another follower. “Eventually she hated where we lived,” Jonathan shares. “I tried many time to give her everything she ever wanted but it wasn't enough.” “She decided to leave..left me on the airplane in Chicago amongst many other things,” he says. “I decided to spend the rest of the time with my family,” Jonathan shares. He then claims: “When she realized her lifestyle was going to be different she wanted to apologize and asked me to forgive her.” In terms of whether or not he has forgiven her, Jonathan says: “I haven't.” He is not the only one addressing the split on social media. “I don't want to talk about anything about Jonathan again,” Fernanda told her followers on Instagram Live. For your convenience, we have included that video in this post. “He's talking a lot,” Fernanda acknowledges. “He can say whatever he wants.” For her part, she shares: “I'm not going to talk about it until I'm ready.” “And today,” Fernanda continues. “And right now … is not the moment.” It does appear that, despite her smile in the video, she is a little overcome with sadness as she says this. Fernanda has shared a multitude of modeling photos during the past several months of her relationship. She is great at it. But, as Russ and Paola Mayfield discovered before them, modeling and marriage are not mutually exclusive. It sounds like Jonathan was supportive of Fernanda's interests, but their age gap could be a factor. Fernanda is younger and perhaps more emotional, while Jonathan may not be in touch with her personal and social needs. Also, Jonathan is from Lumberton, NC — a town of 21,040 people as of 2017. His standards for everyday life may be different than Fernanda's. Having only 90 days together in the US may have been a struggle for them — a struggle that has ended bitterly. It is probably worthwhile to note that relationships existing in a spotlight can really take a toll. That much attention on a couple's arguments and breakups can inadvertently pressure both parties to “stick to their guns” rather than reconcile. It's hard to admit that you were wrong or overreacted when thousands of people are watching and judging you do so. That said, there is good news. The two are reportedly still in touch with each other. They remain legally married and neither has filed for divorce. It sounds like they are both unhappy with the breakup, and we'll hold out hope that they'll work things out.

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90 Day Fiance Sneak Peek: Fernanda Struggles to Trust Jonathan

Pro-tip for anyone moving in with a new significant other: you probably want to not still be holding on to an ex's underwear. That has of course been an issue on 90 Day Fiance , when Fernanda found Jonathan's ex's thong in his home . In this sneak peek, we see that she's still trying to decide whether or not she can trust him, with the awkward help of his friend. So, Fernanda Flores had the misfortune of not only finding another woman's thong, but having that be almost her first experience in Jonathan Rivera's home. This brought underlying doubts about everything — the move, the engagement, and their 13-year age gap (she's 19, he's 32) — to the surface. As you can see in this video, one of Jonathan's friends was there to lend some emotional support. “It’s hard to talk with Jonathan’s friends about our problems,” Fernanda admits. “I feel, of course, more comfortable talking with my friends but I don’t have that option,” she explains. Fernanda is very aware that “If I told my friends and my family, they will be disappointed in Jonathan.” She realizes that she was nervous, and that finding Jonathan's ex's thong, which he'd forgotten in a drawer, seemed like her worst fears realized. “It was terrible,” Fernanda admits. At this point, speaking to Jonathan's (thus far unnamed) friend, she begins to cry. Jonathan's friend gives her a hug and a literal shoulder on which to cry. “When I came here,” Fernanda laments. “I’m so excited and it made me feel stupid.” They'd met while he was on vacation, but ultimately she didn't know much about him except what she had told him. It sounds really romantic, but it can lead to doubts. “I want to believe in him,” Fernanda explains. “But,” she admits. “You think the worst.” “Of course she had some concerns,” Jonathan's friend, who is both kind and no-nonsense. “If I had been in the country for the first time [and] I’m giving up everything to come here and marry someone,” his friend says. She continues: “and then the first day I get there I find a woman’s underwear, I would have lost it.” But, she says, it's not a sign that he's a cheater. “This is typical Jonathan,” she says. “No telling how long that’s been in there.” “He hasn’t thought about it,” she explains. “He’s just a boy and he’s dumb.” Jonathan's friend just explained at least one-third of all relationship problems. (Seriously, can we get her to show up on 90 Day Fiance for other couples? Can that be a thing?) It seems that the thong looked like a red flag, but also represented — as we mentioned — other concerns. Hopefully, this talk with Jonathan's friend (even if she's not exactly a neutral party) helped to allay Fernanda's fears. It may have been awkward for her, especially when the reality of “my friend is going to marry a teenager” set in. But everyone involved here is an adult. It looks like they met naturally and fell in love. Fair warning, folks, we have a bit of a 90 Day Fiance spoiler for you. If you find yourself rooting for Jonathan and Fernanda (I know that I have been), you're in luck. The two of them celebrated Halloween together this week. That's not usually something you do when you break up. And some reddit sleuths unearthed what appears to be evidence that these two got married back in May. Sometimes, people make it work.

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