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O.J. Simpson is Worried Someone Will Murder Bill Cosby

O.J. Simpson knows a thing or two about murder. He also knows a thing or two about being in prison. Considering his depth of knowledge in these areas, The Juice spoke to TMZ on Tuesday about Bill Cosby; his incarceration; and what may happen to the disgraced comedian behind bars. Indeed, Cosby was sentenced up to 10 years in jail yesterday afternoon, months after he was found guilty of drugging and raping a former Temple University employee named Andrea Constand. Cosby was immediately handcuffed and hauled off to prison, according to various news outlets, stopping pretty much just to pose for a very sad mug shot . Sad in terms of how he looked, we mean. Most definitely not sad in terms of the outcome of this case. We hope the rapist never lives freely in society again. Simpson, for his part, is concerned that this hope will become a reality — but not because the 81-year will die from natural causes while in the clink. But because someone will kill Cosby. “The problem is the nature of the crime,” O.J. told TMZ while golfing in Nevada. “Rapists are frowned upon in prison.” For good reason, some might say; which doesn’t mean we’re yearning for some inmate to shank Cosby or anything. It just means this isn’t exactly a problem that seems worth thinking about for any period of time; we’re not about to lose sleep over the fate of Bill Cosby behind bars. But we’re not O.J. Simpson, either. “I’m sure there will be guys protecting him but they’re gonna have to put him in protective custody … because it takes one nut, ya know?” Simpson added. O.J – who spent nine years in jail after being convicted of armed robbery (but zero years in jail for almost definitely murdering his ex-wife and her friend in 1994) – thinks Cosby ought to be placed under house arrest for the duration of his sentence. But won’t this mean he gets to spend time with his loved ones? And enjoy the relative freedom of life inside a mansion, as opposed to life within the confines of a cell and a state penitentiary? Yes, but at least the man who very likely drugged and raped about 60 women will feel safe in that case, Simpson basically argues here. Cosby was convicted in April on three counts of aggravated indecent assault, all stemming from a 2004 incident in which he drugged Constand at his Pennsylvania home and molested her. In a five-page victim statement submitted to the judge, Constand said the following about this assault and its aftermath: “The shame was overwhelming. Self-doubt and confusion kept me from turning to my family or friends as I normally did… “I felt completely alone, unable to trust anyone, including myself… “The psychological, emotional and financial bullying included a slander campaign in the media that left my entire family reeling in shock and disbelief.” But Simpson doesn’t care much about all of that. He’s just concerned about the man who drugged and raped her. “With his health and his age and the nature of the crime, there’s not a warden in this country wants the responsibility of a Bill Cosby,” the former NFL running back told TMZ, concluding: “I think they should let him do his time under house arrest.”

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Octomom: My Family Is Too Damn Big For Instagram!

Natalie Suleman is the mother to 14 children. As you can imagine, she has even more trouble than most families when it comes to getting everyone together for a group photo. The results, however, can be pretty darn funny. Take a look at the photo of  her minimalist family , and read the (former) Octomom’s explanation for the chaos. Sharing the photo that you’re about to see to Instagram, Natalie Suleman — who no longer uses the names Nadya or Octomom — offers an explanation. “So THIS is what happened when we attempted to take a fun family photo with as many family members as possible,” she writes. In the picture, she is seated with only 11 of her 14 children. “Per usual, Elijah, Amerah, and JJ are absent from the pic,” Suleman explains. She adds: “(growing up I despised taking photos so I understand and don’t force them).” There is a lot of chaotic energy in this photo. With some different arrangements and more dramatic lighting, you’d get a Baroque painting. “Aidan had enough of sitting and threw his head back,” she explains. The result, as you can see, is that his head flew back dramatically, “nearly hitting mine.” “So,” she writes. “This may explain why I look, ummm … startled.” She’s clearly not the only one. Hey, children don’t generally want to sit still for ages. This problem magifies exponentially when you add more children. She also shared this smaller but much less chaotic photo recently. This was from when she sent her octuplets back to school. Like countless other parents, celebrity and otherwise, she snapped and shared a back-to-school photo on social media. Unlike the vast majority of those other parents … she had a lot of children in the photo. But she fit them all into the frame anyway. She’s had a lot of practice, just as she did in this image when she was feeding them all vegan tacos. Even in this image, you can tell that they had to go out of their way to fit into the frame. It’s so reassuring to hear that Suleman gives her children the freedom to opt out of family photos if they want to. (If anyone else has ever been forced to wear a  turtleneck  for an  hour  at the age of four for a family photoshoot, and still feels indignation at that memory, you can appreciate her parenting choice) It’s also neat to see that most of her children are more than happy to pose for the photos. And when it’s only the eight of them, things tend to turn out pretty well. At least, they do in the photos that she chooses to upload. We’re sure that she has plenty of outtakes that fans and followers don’t normally get to see. You know what? It’s been years since  Suleman stopped being Octomom , and we have to say that she seems to be doing well. We’re so sorry that she got so much negative feedback over supporting her family by stripping. There is nothing wrong with sex work, and she should never have been shamed for it. Sometimes, when people become famous, they just can’t handle it. Suleman is an example of that, but she seems to have adjusted to things. Her focus is on her fourteen children. That’s right where it should be. View Slideshow: 33 Nadya Suleman Pics You Don’t Even Want to See

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Kailyn Lowry Details Abusive Relationship With Chris Lopez: He Hurt Me In So Many Ways!

Perhaps no participant in the 16 and Pregnant / Teen Mom franchise has been as candid and forthright with viewers as Kailyn Lowry. On TV, on social media, and in a series of bestselling books, Lowry has laid her life bare and shared all with her legion of loyal fans. But even Kail has her limits with regard to what sort of private information she can comfortably make public — and it seems she reached her breaking point during her relationship with Chris Lopez. Lowry became pregnant with her third child while dating Lopez, and for a time, she attempted to keep both the pregnancy and the relationship under wraps. Obviously, this strategy wasn’t effective for very long, and soon, Kail found that one of the most challenging periods in her life was playing out on a public stage. Now, Kail is opening about that chapter in her life like never before in her new memoir, Letters of Love: In an exclusive excerpt obtained by Radar Online, Kail reveals that she and Lopez worked hard to make the relationship work for the sake of their son, Lux: “We tried to get back together and work things out, but it only lasted about a month,” Lowry writes . “After that time of being together, we didn’t speak for a period of eight months.” Lowry goes on to describe a difficult time post-breakup, during which Lopez “hurt [her] in so many ways.” “I’ve had my bedroom window broken while the baby was asleep with me in the room,” Lowry writes. “My backdoor had been broken while all of my kids were at home” According to Kail, all of this happened during the first six weeks of Lux’s life, a time during which Lopez also got into the habit of trashing her on social media: “I’ve had sh-t said about me told to my children,” she writes. “I don’t care if the kid is six weeks old or six years old, a dad should not talk about the mother of his child.” While the relationship between Lowry and Lopez seems to have improved in recent weeks, Kail says there was a time when Chris simply refused to be a father: “I’ve been left to take care of everything,” she writes. “I kind of knew this would be a possibility but I guess I just wanted to be proved wrong. Because I can be totally responsible for our child doesn’t mean that I should take care of everything.” Fortunately, Kail and Chris seem to have worked out a co-parenting relationship that works for both parties. The pair recently collaborated on Lux’s first birthday party , and they seem to have ceased trash-talking each other on social media. Thus far, Chris hasn’t commented on Kail’s book, but we’re assuming he won’t be offering up a rave review. After all, this is the same guy who burned Lowry’s last book . View Slideshow: Kailyn Lowry Admits: I Nearly Gave My Second Son Away!

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Gisele Bundchen Admits to Boob Job, Suicidal Thoughts

Many people out there may think Gisele Bundchen is the perfect female specimen. But in a new interview and a new memoir, the world famous model admits that her life has been anything but perfect. Three years ago, for example,  Bundchen tells People Magazine that she quietly underwent a procedure that she almost immediately regretted, going under the knife for a breast augmentation due to her uneven boobs. They changed shape and placement due to 18 months of breastfeeding her son, Benjamin, and her daughter, Vivian. “I was always praised for my body, and I felt like people had expectations from me that I couldn’t deliver,” the 38-year old tells the aforementioned publication, explaining in more detail: “I felt very vulnerable, because I can work out, I can eat healthy, but I can’t change the fact that both of my kids enjoyed the left boob more than the right. “All I wanted was for them to be even and for people to stop commenting on it.” In her new book, Lessons: My Path to a Meaningful Life , the typically private superstar confesses that in 2015, she gave in to the above vulnerabilities and got a boob job. “When I woke up, I was like, ‘What have I done?’ I felt like I was living in a body I didn’t recognize,” she writes. “For the first year I wore [baggy] clothes because I felt uncomfortable.” Thankfully, Gisele received never-ending support from husband Tom Brady, she explains: “He just said, ‘I love you no matter what’ and that I looked beautiful. This was definitely another lesson: What doesn’t kill you makes you stronger. But I wish I would have learned that a different way.” Elsewhere in the very personal interview, Gisele says that she experienced a panic attack 15 years ago, just as her career was taking off. It took place during a turbulent plane ride, but it didn’t stop there. The episode led her to develop a fear of tunnels, elevators and various enclosed spaces. Bundchen then had more panic attacks, including in her own home… and eventually contemplated suicide because the anxiety was just so difficult to tolerate. “I actually had the feeling of, ‘If I just jump off my balcony, this is going to end, and I never have to worry about this feeling of my world closing in,'” Bundchen tells People. Gisele sought professional assistance and was prescribed Xanax, but says didn’t want to become reliant on the medication. So she chose to change her eating and drinking habits and turned to yoga and meditation to combat stress. “Things can be looking perfect on the outside, but you have no idea what’s really going on,” the supermodel tells this magazine, concluding: “I felt like maybe it was time to share some of my vulnerabilities, and it made me realize, everything I’ve lived through, I would never change, because I think I am who I am because of those experiences.”

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3 Lies About Premarital Sex [Opinion]

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Vice and sin are sexy. Character and virtue… not so much. Last week there was an article about sex on the first date: SURVEY: Sex On The First Date; Do You? It started me to thinking and reading all the comments. Have we just given in  to what society has been selling us for the last 40 years. Sorry to say the Sexual Revolution came in and left us with one big mess.  It has let those of us with virtue be scorned. Character  is being erased. But where’s the line between them? What exactly is a virtue? Can it be taught? Are good, and bad, behavior hard-wired in us? Do we naturally need to experiment with every whim that crosses our fancy in order to determine who we are? You see less and less character as  you watch grown women throw themselves away on National television.  It’s become my new crusade to blow the lid off these half truths.   I am no prude but we need to stop selling the lies. They are destroying our communities.  It begins by stopping these three lies  first. Lie #1- The Scriptures on sexual purity are outdated and archaic . “Those parts of the Bible aren’t relevant to today. Those things were when  the people during that time got married when they were teens; so they didn’t have to struggle with sexual temptation like we do now.” 1 Corinthians 6:9, 2 Corinthians 12:21, Galatians 5:19, Hebrews 13:4 and Deuteronomy 22:13-28, all which condemn sex before marriage,  If sex before marriage is okay because people supposedly can’t control themselves, then it must be okay to engage in pornography, too, right?. If scriptures in the Bible became untrue because people can’t control their desires, then we’d also have to cut out the commandments on stealing, lying, cheating and having affairs. Lie # 2- Sex produces intimacy that you need to build a relationship. Dr. Patricia Love, the author of The Truth About Love, writes that a feeling of intimacy is created by a “chemical cocktail” that is produced in the brain during sex and stays with each person for up to 24 hours after intercourse. On the flip side, having sex is no guarantee that the deep emotional intimacy that everyone longs for will develop. “Genital sex is an expression of intimacy, not the means to intimacy. True intimacy springs from verbal and emotional communion. True intimacy is built on a commitment to honesty, love and freedom. True intimacy is not primarily a sexual encounter. Intimacy, in fact, has almost nothing to do with our sex organs. A prostitute may expose her body, but her relationships are hardly intimate.” Lie # 3 – Sex can help you determine compatibility? Many people feel it is unreasonable to expect him to abstain from sex before marriage because no one would buy a car without test driving it; so he couldn’t imagine committing to marriage without taking a “sex test drive.” The  “test drive” mentality could lead you to unreal expectations and the lack of commitment. Many say that is untrue. However, the logic is faulty. Here’s why: If it was true that  a person wouldn’t struggle with comparison, why would you need to “test drive” anything? After all, if you didn’t ever have multiple partners, you would automatically think his wife the best. For example, the man who hasn’t ever seen or driven more than one car doesn’t know what other cars are like; therefore he would be satisfied with his automobile. Partners can also feel threatened if they think their mate could be comparing them with previous partners. The reality is that we live in a dangerous damaged world. Each day we are fed more and more lies that allow us to lower are standards. How far are you willing to lower yours to feel like everyone else? It is time we rethought all the things we have been sold as truth. Why must any more of us suffer from “is she better, or is she great disease”? But it can be hard to truly gauge the potential depth of a sexual connection when there’s uncertainty or pressure involved. Fact is, sex is the place where all the separate parts of us – our bodies and souls, our vulnerabilities and most secret desires, our ability to create physical and spiritual life – come together. And it’s within the freedom of a commitment that these things can best be acknowledged, explored, and given space to run wild. Otherwise we are just falling short of what we could have. Related Stories How to Begin Crafting A New You The Borgias Marries Sex, Worship and Lies Minute Meditation:Prayer to Accept Change An Open Letter To A “Basketball Wife” [Opinion] Is It Beauty, Brains, Or Both?

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‘Skins’ Stars Say Despite Kissing Tony, Tea Still A Lesbian

Sofia Black-D’Elia and James Newman talk about characters’ attraction. By Jocelyn Vena, with reporting by Adam Murphy Sofia Black D’Elia (Tea) Photo: Jason Nacito On Monday night’s episode of “Skins,” Tea made it abundantly clear that she’s a lesbian. Even though she kissed a certain male friend in her clique, the make-out session only proved to her what she already knew. Sofia Black-D’Elia , who plays Tea, and James Newman, who plays Tony (the center of Tea’s affections for a hot minute), told MTV News the kiss wasn’t a case of the show backing out on the lesbian plotline. “They’re kind of brought together by this attraction, and I don’t think it’s necessarily a sexual attraction,” Newman explained. “I think it’s a situation where you have these two people who are very bored, with no one in their lives that really gets them, and on that level, it’s like a perfect attraction. “But on another level, it’s a disaster because Tea’s a lesbian. It’s not a situation where it’s like she’s a lesbian and then she finds a guy and is like, ‘I’m not a lesbian anymore.’ She really is a lesbian, and so for her it doesn’t work, and for Tony, that in and of itself tortures him.” The kiss not only teaches the characters a lot about themselves, but also shows viewers the multiple sides each of these characters possess. “Tony is the manipulator; he’s the ringleader. By episode two, his vulnerabilities start to show, which is really interesting to think because it’s the other side of Tony that was missing for me,” Black-D’Elia explained. “Why should you care about this guy? He’s an ass. I think as soon as episode two is over, you kind of have this very strong love for him. He’s got more of a heart going on than he’d like to put out.” Don’t miss “Skins,” airing Mondays at 10 p.m. ET/PT on MTV. Related Photos Skins | Cast Photos | Tony Skins | Cast Photos | Tea

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‘Skins’ Stars Say Despite Kissing Tony, Tea Still A Lesbian

Sofia Black-D’Elia and James Newman talk about characters’ attraction. By Jocelyn Vena, with reporting by Adam Murphy Sofia Black D’Elia (Tea) Photo: Jason Nacito On Monday night’s episode of “Skins,” Tea made it abundantly clear that she’s a lesbian. Even though she kissed a certain male friend in her clique, the make-out session only proved to her what she already knew. Sofia Black-D’Elia , who plays Tea, and James Newman, who plays Tony (the center of Tea’s affections for a hot minute), told MTV News the kiss wasn’t a case of the show backing out on the lesbian plotline. “They’re kind of brought together by this attraction, and I don’t think it’s necessarily a sexual attraction,” Newman explained. “I think it’s a situation where you have these two people who are very bored, with no one in their lives that really gets them, and on that level, it’s like a perfect attraction. “But on another level, it’s a disaster because Tea’s a lesbian. It’s not a situation where it’s like she’s a lesbian and then she finds a guy and is like, ‘I’m not a lesbian anymore.’ She really is a lesbian, and so for her it doesn’t work, and for Tony, that in and of itself tortures him.” The kiss not only teaches the characters a lot about themselves, but also shows viewers the multiple sides each of these characters possess. “Tony is the manipulator; he’s the ringleader. By episode two, his vulnerabilities start to show, which is really interesting to think because it’s the other side of Tony that was missing for me,” Black-D’Elia explained. “Why should you care about this guy? He’s an ass. I think as soon as episode two is over, you kind of have this very strong love for him. He’s got more of a heart going on than he’d like to put out.” Don’t miss “Skins,” airing Mondays at 10 p.m. ET/PT on MTV. Related Photos Skins | Cast Photos | Tony Skins | Cast Photos | Tea

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Diane Kruger Unimpressed With The Fashion Industry

Actress Diane Kruger has said she doesn’t want to model anymore because of the high standards of beauty set by fashion magazines.

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